After Gu Yan returned to the room, thinking of his son's abnormality, he was still not at ease.
Luckily she has a cell phone now.
The mobile phone is a good thing, just search it casually, you will know everything, Gu Yan thinks that he should make good use of the mobile phone.
She searched and searched, and first searched some questions about "how should a mother communicate with her son", and a lot of answers came out below:
"How to communicate and talk with children is a qualified parent"
"How Moms Communicate with Teenage Sons"
"9 tips for mothers to communicate with teenage sons"
There are even small classes, such as "How should mothers communicate with their children in the third season of "Top Parenting Teacher".
Gu Yan carefully read all these small papers, and even listened carefully to the last small class, but he was still a little confused.
Do these really work
At this time, she found that she had clicked into a forum called Parent-child Wuyou, which was very similar to the bbs in her previous school, where she could post posts and answer questions.
In this parent-child forum, there are enthusiastic answers to the questions raised below.
Gu Yan thought for a while, and still asked her doubts. Of course, she was very careful and didn't directly mention the special relationship between herself and her son, mother and child, so as not to make people suspicious.
The people below put forward various opinions one after another, and one of the managers' opinions was quite pertinent: "Of course children need to communicate well, but they also need to establish reasonable parental authority. Only when parental authority is established can we communicate better. Judging from lz's description, it is obvious that lz is lacking in this link."
Reasonable parental authority
Gu Yan felt that this term was quite new, so she hurriedly asked for advice, but the people below taught her a lot of science.
"Kids have to obey certain rules."
"When providing alternatives to children, add prerequisites for him."
"Make discipline for him."
But how to establish discipline
Someone gave an example below: "For example, you can make an agreement with your son that he will not spend more time playing with the mobile phone every day. If he does not abide by the rules, he will lose the qualification to play with the mobile phone. If he can go to bed on time, he will be able to play with the mobile phone." Mobile phone qualifications, but there is still a limited time."
Gu Yan listened to this, thoughtful.
And at this moment, her WeChat rang.
She didn't add anyone to her wechat, only her son, so it was her son who sent the message.
JQS: "Mom, are you asleep?"
Yuanyuan wants to eat grass: "No."
JQS: "What are you doing?"
Yuanyuan wants to eat grass: "I—"
Gu Yan hesitated for a while, considering whether to share what he had learned with his son. Judging from these contents, in order to achieve good communication, one must be honest. A mother cannot treat her son as a child, but must treat her own truth Think about it to your son.
JQS: "You're playing a game, aren't you?"
Yuanyuan categorically rejected it: "Of course not! How can you think of me so much?"
Is she the kind of heartless numb who happily plays games alone when her son is obviously in a bad mood
JQS: "That's good, go to bed early and don't stay up late."
After saying this, he added another sentence: "Otherwise the phone will be confiscated."
Gu Yuan: ...
He stared at the last sentence "otherwise the phone will be confiscated" for a long time.
At this time, JQS sent another message: "If you can go to bed at 10 o'clock every day, mom, you can play with your mobile phone, but you can't play with your mobile phone for more than three hours a day."
Gu Yuan: ...
JQS, who hadn't heard back for a long time, sent a question mark:
Gu Yan felt his hands were trembling.
Her son, probably also went to that forum, and happened to see that post, right? Why are these means statements so similar
JQS: Mom
Gu Yan quickly replied: It's all right, I just went to the bathroom.
JQS: That's good, by the way, there is one thing I need to tell you.
Gu Yuan: What
JQS: My dad is coming back tomorrow.
Gu Yuan: ...
! !
Ji Zhentian, the father of her son, wants to come back
…
Even though his son is also a famous chaebol president, that's different, that's his own son, his greatness, with a family filter, it looks like that.
But Ji Zhentian is different. He is a famous and successful entrepreneur, a figure who calls the wind and rain, and is the figure Gu Yuan admired when he was a poor student in the dormitory.
Thinking of this, Gu Yan couldn't sleep.
So much so that on the second day, when Ji Qisen saw Gu Yuan, he found that there were faint dark circles on Gu Yuan's eyes.
He frowned: "Mom, did you play games at night, or check Weibo?"
Or what new mobile phone fun has been developed
Gu Yan quickly shook his head and waved his hands: "No, no, no, I just started to have a little insomnia, and then fell asleep soon!"
Seeing her like this, Ji Qisen didn't ask any more questions, and his face softened a little: "Let's eat first, my father will be home at about ten o'clock."
Gu Yuan grudgingly agreed, and ate with Ji Qisen.
It was still a delicious breakfast, but for the first time, Gu Yan's heart was not on food, and she began to think about her identity.
I and Ji Zhentian are completely strangers, don't know each other at all, and there is still a relatively large age gap (at least at present, the gap is quite large), but they have a common son, which is embarrassing no matter how you look at it.
For example, an important question, what should she call Ji Zhentian
Mr. Ji? Mr. Ji
After eating breakfast here, Gu Yan was thinking wildly there, when outside the door, Ji Zhentian entered.
Ji Zhentian is in a very good mood today.
He recently made a girlfriend named Camille Chen, who has participated in a well-known national beauty pageant and won the championship. The conditions are good in all aspects, and he likes it very much. Recently, I even considered, if possible, should I order it? So this time, when he went home, he brought this girlfriend back, and wanted his son to take a look and help check it out.
Of course, he also wanted to check on his son. Didn't he hear that his son also brought back a little girl
Ji Zhentian walked into the villa with his girlfriend Camille, and was greeted by Butler Sima who was still wearing a suit and bow tie. After that, Aunt Chen graciously brought the Filipino maid to bring refreshments and fruits.
Ji Zhentian didn't see his son, which was expected.
If the son can stay here to welcome him properly, then he is not his own son.
He sipped the coffee that was airlifted from abroad, and asked casually, "Where is Qisen?"
Aunt Chen said with a smile: "Sir, the young master is teaching Miss Gu in the study upstairs. It seems that there is something that Miss Gu can't do, so let the young master teach her."
As soon as this was mentioned, Aunt Chen felt a lot of anticipation in her heart.
The young master really likes Miss Gu, but he has never done this to any woman. It seems that the young master is really in love.
Although Ji Zhentian had heard the report from Steward Sima and Aunt Chen, he was still surprised when he heard this: "Well, is that so? Qi Sen has really changed his temper."
Usually, even a father like him doesn't like to talk to him, but now he is so considerate, it seems that he is really enlightened.
Ji Zhentian was very satisfied and smiled, but Camille next to Ji Zhentian felt a little uncomfortable. It took her a lot of effort to catch Ji Zhentian.
She knew that Ji Zhentian didn't know how many women came and went around him before, but she was different, she wanted to be his last woman, the woman who married into a wealthy family and was called Mrs. Ji.
Now being held by Ji Zhentian, he walked into the courtyard of Ji's family gracefully, unexpectedly, Ji Zhentian's son didn't even look at him? What girlfriend are you with
Camille is more or less aware of her status, but she also understands that she just came to Ji's house, and it's not time for her to fight for this, so she just smiled charmingly and persuaded Ji Zhentian: "Zhentian, it's nothing, Qi Sen doesn't know what I want come over."
Ji Zhentian, who was drinking coffee, almost coughed out when he heard this, but he held back and gave Camille a serious look: "That's right, Qi Sen really didn't know you were coming."
To be precise, he didn't mention Camille to his son.
The content of the communication between the father and son mainly focuses on the business affairs of the AK Group. As for the private affairs at home, the communication mode of the two people is probably.
"I'll go back tomorrow."
"Forehead"
"I won't go back for this part."
"Forehead"
"You spend the Chinese New Year by yourself this year."
"Forehead"
So this time when Ji Zhentian came back, he didn't expect his son to be enthusiastic. After twenty years of father and son, who doesn't know who
He drank his coffee and glanced at his beloved Camille with a smile. He didn't expect her to have such hopes? Pull it down early.
But he didn't mention that the girlfriend he just made was still hot, so he didn't say such spoiling words.
He crossed his legs and asked Aunt Chen leisurely, "What's the name of that Miss Gu?"
Compared with his own girlfriend, he still cares more about his son's girlfriend, after all, it is very likely to be his future daughter-in-law.
Aunt Chen thought about it carefully, then smiled and said respectfully: "I don't know her real name, but I heard the young master call her Mama or Mama. Let's guess, this should be her nickname."
She discussed it with the maid at home in private, and everyone agreed that it should be Mama.
Young people nowadays, the name is really very fashionable, those who don’t know it may think they are calling their mothers!
Ma Ma
Camille next to him burst out laughing, and Ji Zhentian also shook his head and sighed: "What's the name of this! Hey, no, we can talk about it later, let's change the name, it's easy to misunderstand."
His son can be called Ma Ma, but as a father-in-law, he can't call his daughter-in-law Ma Ma, right? Spread the word and laugh out loud!
Camille agreed: "This must be renamed, how can it be called such a name?"
For some reason, Camille suddenly felt better.
While talking, I heard Aunt Chen say: "Master and Miss Gu have come down."
When Ji Zhentian heard this, he immediately put away his smile and sat upright. A breath of the world's top ten chaebol presidents lingered in the luxurious living room. He swept over with a slightly scrutinizing gaze and looked at the woman who was treated differently by his son. .
His eyes first glanced at his son whom he hadn't seen for a long time. Very well, the son became more and more tall and handsome, more and more like himself, and the pride of the old father was born spontaneously.
Then his eyes fell on the woman who was with her son.
Pure temperament, white skin, looks—
Ji Zhentian was shocked.
Ji Zhentian, who was used to seeing mountains collapse in front of strong winds and waves but could not move, was so shocked that he couldn't speak a word after seeing this girl's appearance.