It is said that the acquaintance Mo Ruomu, the reverse is the same, Fang Tong's own mother's expression can guess what she is thinking, "Actually, we have been dating for several years, but I am afraid that you will say that I am not doing a good job, so I don't dare to do it. told you."
Fu Fanghua smiled, "Hey, my mother is not that kind of feudal parent, but it's just a love affair, there's nothing I can't say."
Fang Tong felt relieved when he saw that his mother really had no intention of blaming her.
Fang Chengzhi didn't say anything about his daughter's falling in love, but said, "Tongtong, if you have a boyfriend, you should tell Dad earlier, and Dad won't agree to Uncle Li. Uncle Li thought that Dad was playing tricks on others on purpose."
Fang Tong was also a little apologetic, and explained in a low voice, "Actually, I wanted to find a chance to tell you and my father recently, and then show him to you, but before I can tell you, you..."
Fang Chengzhi also knew that he was at fault, and stopped saying, "Forget it, go back to Uncle Li and call your father to give him an explanation. If you come here, Uncle Li will understand. It's just that we can't do this again in the future. what."
Fang Tong blinked and smiled, "It's definitely not an example."
"Tongtong, what does that boy do?" Fu Fanghua asked.
"He and I are from the same school, the same class as me. It's just a different major. He studied computer science. Now he works in Narada Group. After graduation next year, he can officially sign a contract with Narada."
Fu Fanghua nodded, being able to get into the B major at least proves that his brain is not bad, his education is acceptable, and he can stay at Narada, which means his ability is also good, slightly satisfied, he continued to ask, "He What does it look like?"
"He, he is tall and handsome, standing with your daughter, he is like a combination of golden boy and girl." Fang Tong smiled with a smile in his eyes.
Fu Fanghua glared at her with a smile, "How can a girl boast about herself like this, shameless and skinless."
Fang Chengzhi also smiled, but he didn't care much about the appearance of other boys. If he could be attracted by his daughter with high vision, his appearance would definitely be the same. The two of them could get along for several years, and their personalities were not bad.
"Invite him to be a guest at home another day." Fang Chengzhi said.
Fang Tong nodded, "Okay." The school has long been on vacation, but Ding Minghui is doing an internship now, and the company doesn't have a vacation that early, so he is still in the capital, thinking of calling him tomorrow to ask when he has time, after all, it's good to strike iron While it's hot.
It was Fu Fanghua who thought of another question, "Tongtong, what does his family do? Are they from the capital?"
Fang Tong said, "He is from province G, and his home is in the countryside."
The smile on Fu Fanghua's face faded, and he looked at Fang Chengzhi and asked, "What do his parents do?"
Fang Tong smiled, "Mom, you're investigating someone's household registration."
Fu Fanghua smiled, "Mom, isn't it a random question, then when we marry our daughter, we must know what they do."
"His parents are ordinary farmers. There are several acres of land in the family. He can rely on those acres of land to get to the university." Fang Tong said, Ding Minghui told her these things. Since her mother asked, She also said that in Fang Tong's view, this is not a secret that cannot be told.
The smile on Fu Fanghua's face disappeared, but Fang Tong didn't notice it, "Mom and Dad, when are you free recently, I'll bring someone back for you to palm and eye."
Fu Fanghua had put down his chopsticks and said slowly, "Tongtong, young girls, it's okay to fall in love a few times, but if you want to get married, you still need to be a match, even if it's not a match, the two The conditions cannot be too different, otherwise there will be trouble after marriage."
Although Fang Chengzhi didn't speak, he obviously agreed with his wife's words. He didn't expect his daughter to marry into a wealthy family, but at least the family had to have a house and a car. Although his family could not be said to be rich or noble, the family conditions were not bad. It was even more so that he grew up being pampered by them in the palm of his hand, and he never suffered any grievances in terms of food, clothing, housing, and transportation.
And listening to the meaning of his daughter's words, the boy's family is from a rural area, and even his parents have worked hard to save the tuition fees for his university. Such family conditions, even if his own ability is excellent, he can be in the capital in a short period of time. Can you buy a house in this expensive place? If he can't buy a house, should he let his precious daughter live in a rental house with him, crowding the bus and the subway
Even if Fang Tong himself is willing, they, as parents, are not willing.
Fang Tong was a little dumbfounded by the completely different attitudes of her parents in the blink of an eye. She looked at her mother, "Mom, what's the age now, how can you still talk about the right match?"
This is all traditional and old thinking. Now is the era of free love, and there are naked marriages.
Fang Tong's idea is very simple. In her eyes, marriage is about marrying love, not for bread to find someone who doesn't love to live. Such a life is not a marriage, but a grave. And she would rather starve to death than live a loveless married life.
Seeing that Fang Tong didn't care, Fu Fanghua explained patiently, "Tong Tong, you are still young, maybe you don't understand, but after you get married, you will understand that falling in love is a matter of two people, as long as two people like each other. But Marriage is not love, marriage is the union of two families, it is a matter of two families. Let me not say anything else, my mother will ask you, in the future, if you marry him, you must buy a house. In his family's situation, you can buy it from the capital. house?"
"He can't afford it now, but that doesn't mean he still can't afford it in the future. His work ability is very strong, and now he has been appreciated by his boss. After graduation, he will be able to live in the capital in a few years. I've bought a house." Fang Tong tried his best to help Ding Minghui speak kind words in front of his parents.
But Fu Fanghua doesn't really believe it, "How many years is it? Three years, five years or ten years? Tongtong, you are a girl, how many years of youth do you have to wait?"
"Then we can get married first and then buy a house. At the beginning, the conditions were a little worse. We could rent someone else's house to live in. It doesn't matter."
How naive. Fu Fanghua thought, glanced at her husband and motioned for him to speak.
Fang Chengzhi received his wife's eyes, thought for a while, and said, "Tongtong, Mom and Dad are not the kind of people who dislike the poor and love the rich, but your mother is right, marriage is not about the two of you, if you just talk about If you are in a relationship, then your parents will definitely not object, but getting married will definitely not work with their family’s conditions. What your mother said about the right match is not just about the family’s economic conditions, but more importantly, ideology.”
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