Fang Chengzhi once went to the countryside to be an educated youth when he was young. At that time, there were many children from the city who went to the countryside to be educated youth. Boys and girls got along day and night, so there were a lot of them. Many educated youths who went to the countryside met "true love". "A lot of people got married, but after returning to the city, more divorced, why
It's not because the relationship is gone, but the difference in living habits and ideas is too great. When the passion is over, love is more replaced by firewood, oil and salt. Living together, the collision and running-in of living habits occupy a large part of married life. However, due to the different experiences and living environments since childhood, the living habits and concepts are different, and conflicts will inevitably arise during the process of running in. Once the contradiction cannot be resolved, two people will quarrel. Once they can be reconciled, it will not matter twice. What about three, five and ten times? No amount of emotion can withstand the consumption of quarreling all day, and many people have come to an end because of this.
These are what Fang Chengzhi has seen with his own eyes, and he doesn't want to watch his precious daughter take a detour.
Although it is a bit feudal and stubborn, it is not unreasonable. When two people with similar living standards live together, there will indeed be much less friction than those whose conditions are too different, especially when their family is facing this situation now. Fang Tong's conditions are much better than the other party's.
"Tongtong, Dad has seen many cases of divorce due to some small frictions and conflicts. You are Dad's daughter, and Dad doesn't want you to take detours."
Fang Chengzhi's words were sincere, Fang Tong was silent, then looked at his father and said, "Dad, I admit that what you said is reasonable, but if there is a conflict, you can communicate, so the two of you have to sit down and have a good communication. If there is any problem that cannot be solved."
"Tongtong, don't tell me your mom and dad will still hurt you, and mom doesn't mean that the other party's family must be rich, even if the other party's family is a little better, and the gap with ours is not too big, mom will not object. But my mother doesn't agree with this condition of their family."
Fang Tong was anxious, "Mom, you haven't met his people, how can you deny them so easily, it's unfair to him."
"Fairness? What is fairness? Tongtong, is it because we protect you so well on weekdays that we make you so naive? How can there be so-called fairness in this world, if he can immediately buy a house of his own in the capital , Mom has absolutely nothing to say."
"Mom, you hate the poor and love the rich," Fang Tong yelled at Fu Fanghua with an ugly face. She only felt strange to such a mother, "Dad, look at Mom, how can you be like this?"
Fang Chengzhi looked at his daughter's ugly face, looked at the anger in his wife's eyes, and said with a serious expression, "Tongtong, you can't talk to your mother like this, let's not say whether what your mother said is right or not, first of all, your attitude is wrong. Is it your attitude towards elders?"
Fang Tong's face froze, and he realized that he had gone too far just now. His mother loved her so much, but she yelled at her. Thinking of this, she felt very guilty and lowered her head to admit her mistake, "Mom, I'm sorry."
Fu Fanghua was unhappy, but what could her daughter do, she sighed, "Tongtong, don't blame mom for being unreasonable, mom and dad can depend on you in everything, but this matter concerns your future happiness, Mom can't let you fool around. Listen to your mother, find a time to talk to the boy clearly, and then meet with your Uncle Li's son. It doesn't matter if you don't like your Uncle Li's son. Mom knows a lot. The children of my colleagues, some of them are also very good…”
"Mom, don't talk." Fang Tong interrupted Fu Fanghua, "I won't say goodbye to him. I love him and he loves me. I will marry him after graduation."
"Nonsense!" Fu Fanghua angrily scolded, looking at his daughter, who was not involved in oil and salt. "Fang Tong, I said that if you don't agree, you don't agree. If you want to marry him, it's okay, you are no longer our daughter of the Fang family."
Fang Tong looked at Fu Fanghua in disbelief, Fang Chengzhi quickly stood up to comfort his angry wife, "My daughter is still young, let's talk to her if you have anything to say, she will understand."
"Tell me well, I didn't talk to her well, but did she listen? It's always getting married and getting married. Have you asked if they would marry you? Did they accept you at home? Did I agree with your dad?"
Fang Tong has been an obedient child since childhood, especially after her husband was transferred to work in Linshi a few years ago, they are more often their mother and daughter. The relationship between mother and daughter is very good. Fang Tong has always been her caring little padded jacket. , Fu Fanghua hurts Fang Tong more than anyone else. Today, Fang Tong is really pissed off, otherwise he wouldn't be able to say such a thing.
Looking at her daughter's unbelievably pale face, Fu Fanghua faintly regretted that her words were serious. She wanted to say something, but she didn't.
Fang Chengzhi clapped his wife's hand and walked over to his daughter, "Tongtong, your mother was angry just now. It's a bit serious, but it's not entirely wrong. That boy may be really good. Maybe he will be able to buy a house in the capital with his own ability in a few years, but now, definitely not, if you are with him, then in the first few years you have to save money to buy a house, life will not be as good It's so chic now, just like you."
Fang Chengzhi carefully analyzed the pros and cons with his daughter, "You are my and your mother's only child. Although our family's life is not enough, it is better than the next. You have never suffered any hardships since you were a child, and you have never committed any crimes for money. Worry, if you want to buy something on weekdays, you don't have to think about money, your parents will buy it for you. But if you plan to be with that boy, you won't have these things now, you need Earn money to support yourself, because if you want to buy a house, you have to endure what you like when you see it. Others can go on vacation and eat big meals. You have to save money. Have you thought about this? "
Fang Tong was silent, she really didn't think about it, she thought that with Ding Minghui, their family would not be able to buy a house, they would rent a house, but she didn't think about what her father said.
"Mom and Dad have only one child, and everything in the family is for you. You can say that you get married and our family buys a house. Mom and Dad will not object to this. Our family also has this strength, but can their family agree? Even if their family agrees, what does he think about that boy? People will say that he is a Phoenix man. He may not mind at first, but after a long time? Tongtong, people's hearts will change."
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