Before she got married, Tian Xiaomei's mother told her that she must not rush to work at her in-law's house. The more diligent people are, the more they are expected to work more.
People are like this, they like to bully those who are easy to be bullied. As long as you say you don't know how to do it, in the future when others have work, they won't think about you.
Anyway, as long as she usually works in the fields to earn work points, no one can say she is lazy.
Tian Xiaomei also followed this strictly. This idea doesn't work with her mother-in-law.
It's not that she said she couldn't do it, so her mother-in-law wouldn't ask her to work. But if you don't work, you won't be given food!
She looked at the two sister-in-laws, both of whom were doing the laundry without complaining, the one who was picking up firewood was picking up firewood, and then she looked at her sister-in-law...
The sister-in-law was wearing clean clothes and hadn't even gone to the ground. She seemed to have just come out of the house at this moment.
She felt that sister-in-law could understand her feelings.
However, Su Qinghe smiled stiffly, "Sister-in-law, cooking is easy. I also learned it by myself."
Of course she won't interfere in this matter. Can't get involved. Three sisters-in-law...
At this moment, Su Qinghe thought about it, if his sister-in-law and second sister-in-law didn't work, then he thought about learning to protest with his third sister-in-law. Then in the future, either her mother will take care of the whole family alone, or the family will be completely messed up.
"..." Su Qinghe went into the room silently to continue making clothes.
She found that she, too, had been entangled in it.
"Look at what Qing Miao'er is doing. She still expects your sister-in-law to serve you. What a face. Are you serving your sister-in-law at home? You want to be served by someone after you are married. If you said that earlier, I would definitely not allow you to come in." Yes. This is really what her second aunt did as a matchmaker, and she found such a daughter-in-law to come in—"
Gao Xiulan yelled directly in the yard. The voice is loud, and it is estimated that it can be transmitted very far.
Tian Xiaomei immediately ran to the kitchen, "Mom, I cook, I cook."
Gao Xiulan closed her voice, turned around and said, "Do well, a daughter-in-law who can't even cook, what else would you do? You are counting on our love party to cook for you. There is no such thing as a daughter-in-law like you. We The young Miaoer of the family can cook and serve the whole family every day. Now that she is going to her in-laws’ house, you still want her to serve you.”
In the kitchen, Tian Xiaomei pursed her mouth and began to clean the pot.
What is it like to be married? Shouldn't she and Ai Dang live a good life, why should she be angry with her mother-in-law, and have to be busy at home after finishing her work.
Both mother-in-law and sister-in-law don't work at home, so why can't they do housework
Outside, Gao Xiulan was still complaining to the two daughters-in-law about the third daughter-in-law, "Look, I don't cook, I don't expect you to do it, but I, my mother-in-law and Qing Miaoer's sister-in-law. You say this is not black, They are all my daughters-in-law, how can I let you serve her? I don't want to learn what those foolish people do. They are all daughters-in-law, so how can I be biased? If you let me serve her, it will be even more black-hearted. I I have been serving my sons for so many years, and now I am old enough to enjoy the blessings, and I have to serve my sons and daughters-in-law, is there any reason for that?"
Lin Shuhong and Ding Guihua shook their heads.
The mother-in-law raised four children by herself. It's not easy.
Gao Xiulan took a deep breath, "I'm still counting on Qing Miao'er. In the future, when Qing Miao'er from our family gets married, she will go to work at the county magistrate Gu's house. How many days can I spend at home now? I feel distressed when I think about it. Counting on my sister-in-law. Why didn't she serve her sister-in-law when she was a sister-in-law at home? Even a sister-in-law doesn't know how to feel sorry for her sister-in-law, ouch, what kind of wife is she looking for to come in—"
Lin Shuhong and Ding Guihua thought it made sense. They are all people who have experienced it and know how much they will suffer after getting married.
My sister-in-law is about to get married, and she will be a wife for others in the future, so why not rest at home? When they were girls at home, they didn't have to do so much work.
When Su Aidang and the others came back at noon, they were all very happy. Once the soil has been loosened, the seeds can be sown. You can eat food in autumn.
As soon as they got back, the food was on the table. The family eats together. Su Qinghe also ate a little bit, and had a lively time with his family.
Su Aidang happily looked at his sister and mother, and then at his wife... the daughter-in-law is not happy...
Tian Xiaomei gave Su Aidang a wronged look.
Su Aidang raised his eyebrows, then looked at his family. There is nothing strange about the elder sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law, it's not that they had a fight with the elder sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law. Look at the girl again, she is eating with her head down, it's okay. Look at my mother again... my mother is dark and unhappy.
"..."
At this time, Su Aidang's intuition as a man told him that he should bow his head to eat now.
Well, have a full meal and good work in the afternoon.
Tian Xiaomei: "..." Didn't it mean that when a man just gets married, he can't see his wife being wronged
Su Qinghe looked at her brother, then at her sister-in-law, and hurriedly finished the sorghum porridge in the bowl. "I'm full, I'm going to take a nap."
Gao Xiulan looked distressed, "Eating too little, you go to bed first, I will make you stewed mutton soup to drink when you wake up."
After hearing this, the children immediately swallowed happily. Gu eat meat, they can also drink soup. Ha ha ha ha.
Tian Xiaomei felt even more uncomfortable when she heard that Su Qinghe could still open a small stove. When she was in her natal family, she never opened a small stove... Why is my sister-in-law so lucky
After the meal, together with Lin Shuhong and Ding Guihua, they put the bowls and chopsticks into the kitchen. The three sisters-in-law wash the pots and wash the dishes, and the division of labor is very clear.
Tian Xiaomei looked at the two sisters-in-law while washing the dishes.
She was planning to please her sister-in-law, but now she feels that in this family, only the daughter-in-law is the same person. At least in the eyes of her mother-in-law, these daughter-in-laws are outsiders who should work.
He looked at the kitchen door, but didn't look at his mother-in-law. She turned her head and whispered, "Elder sister-in-law and second sister-in-law, you said that we have come back from working outside all day, and we have to serve a whole family. Isn't it too hard for a daughter-in-law?"
Lin Shuhong looked at her, wondering what she was trying to do. Ding Guihua realized it, and said with a smile, "What you said is very reasonable, and you will tell your sister-in-law the same when you go back. Let your mother do more."
Tian Xiaomei: "..."
Lin Shuhong could tell now that the third daughter-in-law still didn't want to work. Ouch, this new daughter-in-law is not good at this point, she is still at her mother's house.
How could it be the same as at home after getting married
Lin Shuhong said, "Who's sister-in-law doesn't work anymore. She's not tired. Could it be that you still expect your mother and eldest sister to do it? My eldest sister used to help cook, but you can't count on her. She will also do it soon." She is going to be someone's daughter-in-law. There will be a lot of hard work in the future, why don't you see her idle? Xiaomei, I am not talking about you. A sister-in-law should know how to love her sister-in-law. How nice is the big sister, at home These good things belong to my sister, whose sister-in-law is so good?"
Ding Guihua piled the bowls and chopsticks together with a stern face, and said unhappily, "That's right, why don't you do some work. Maybe you still count on your mother to do it. It's not easy for my mother to raise so many children, and she has to take care of her when she is old." Everyone, are you sorry?"
Tian Xiaomei: "..." These two sister-in-laws are not normal. Her natal sister-in-law also knows how to complain. If you do a little more work, you will complain.
Woohoo, this is different from others!
Three people work together, and things are done quickly. The kitchen was cleaned up, and I went to tidy up the main room. The children were not idle, some wiped the table, and some swept the floor. There are also arranging firewood.
Even Sanya was digging earthworms with Dabao to feed the hens.
And the sister-in-law is sleeping late, and the mother-in-law is picking in the yard whether this is not done well or that is not done well. Everyone is quite used to it, and there is no complaint at all. It seemed like it was the most reasonable thing to do.
But it's not reasonable at all!
If she was sleeping late at home, my sister-in-law would have long since hated it. Her mother picks on her sister-in-law at home, and her sister-in-law has long been stern and unhappy.
In front of Gao Xiulan, she didn't dare to say anything, so when they went out to work together, she led Su Aidang to go ahead.
Later, Lin Shuhong and Ding Guihua also got together to discuss.
Lin Shuhong said, "Do you think the third child will separate?"
Ding Guihua giggled, "The third child loves the elder sister more than the elder brother. Sister-in-law, you can't separate the family, but can she still divide?"
Hearing Ding Guihua mention the past, Lin Shuhong's face was a little embarrassed, and she coughed, "What are you talking about before, now we are talking about the third child."
Ding Guihua affirmed, "It's definitely indistinguishable. We all work, but does she still want to work? It's a beautiful idea. Fortunately, our mother is not partial, otherwise we would have to serve her Tian Xiaomei."
At the beginning, they were worried that Tian Xiaomei's family conditions were good, and her mother-in-law was partial after entering the house, but now it seems that they were worried for nothing. The mother-in-law is still a bowl of water.
Thinking about it this way, Ding Guihua felt that her mother-in-law was really kind. It's much better than other people's eccentric mother-in-law. At most, their mother-in-law loves the sister-in-law, but the sister-in-law is going to marry, how long can she stay longer? If it is another daughter-in-law who is eccentric, then it will be annoying.
She thought so, and told Lin Shuhong about it.
She used to provoke the relationship between sister-in-law and mother, but now she doesn't care about that anymore. Now the family is harmonious and harmonious, and they all eat in the same pot. Anyway, they can't starve to death, so they don't have to worry about it so much.
When Lin Shuhong heard Ding Guihua's analysis, she also felt that her mother was very good. With her own honest nature, and the fact that Patriotic is also honest and won't lie, if she meets a partial mother-in-law, it will definitely be her and Patriotic's fault for being bullied. It's horrible just thinking about it. It's fine now. What a good sister-in-law, it's best if the mother-in-law favors the sister-in-law!
The more the two sisters-in-law thought about it, the more they felt that life was beautiful, but Tian Xiaomei was extremely depressed.
She kept silent and kept a straight face, just hoping that Aidang could coax her, and then asked her what happened, so she could complain to Aidang about the situation at home.
In the end, the Soviet Lovers acted as if they hadn't seen it. Mad!
"I'm not happy, why don't you ask me?"
Su Aidang was thinking of finding a way to dig out the eggs after the two days of busy work. Big sister likes to eat. Now there is Xiaomei. Just in time for a bite or two.
Hearing Tian Xiaomei's accusation, he was stunned, "You didn't say it, I thought you didn't want me to know." A woman is too thoughtful and doesn't say anything when she is unhappy, so she has to ask him... The older sister is not like this, If you are happy, you will be happy, if you are not happy, you will lose your temper.
Tian Xiaomei understood what he said, and almost vomited blood angrily. She bit her lip, "Today when I got home from work, my mother asked me to cook. I haven't done these things at home,"
Su Aidang understood, so he said, "I know you can't do it before, it's okay, let's study hard. My sister has learned it, and the cooking is quite delicious."
"..." Tian Xiaomei took a deep breath, "My sister-in-law made our house, and my mother wouldn't let me work. I just need to go to the fields to earn work points!"
Su Aidang nodded with a smile, "Your mother and my mother are quite similar, they both love their daughters. Our eldest sister also does less work, which is done by sisters-in-law. But our eldest sister doesn't have to go to the field. How many brothers do we have?" .In the future, she will not have to work in the county."
Tian Xiaomei felt that her eyes went dark, why doesn't it make sense
She bit her lip and said aggrievedly, "Su Aidang, do you understand that I don't want to work. I'm already tired from working in the fields every day, and I just want to rest when I get home."
Su Aidang froze for a moment, and finally understood what was going on. Her daughter-in-law didn't want to work, so she quarreled with her mother.
He asked, "Then what do you want to do? My sister-in-law and second sister-in-law both work, but if you don't work, let them do it. Are you not guilty?"
Tian Xiaomei thought about it, and seemed a little guilty. They are all daughters-in-law...
Su Aidang pulled his face and said, "You don't expect big sister to work, do you? You don't work at home, why do you want big sister to do this? Xiaomei, if you think so, you are too selfish. "
"But the eldest sister didn't work in the fields..." Tian Xiaomei's head was a little confused.
Su Aidang said unhappily, "Before you came to our house, our eldest sister never went to the farm. Why did you come to the farm? The two sister-in-laws didn't speak."
Tian Xiaomei's head froze a bit. It seems to be the reason. I can't just meddle in sister-in-law's business when she comes...
"Then our mother..." The mother-in-law can always help with cooking and so on.
Su Aidang's face turned black, "If your sister-in-law is so concerned about letting your mother work, don't you feel at ease?"
Of course it's uncomfortable!
Tian Xiaomei had an epiphany. The mother-in-law can't work, the sister-in-law can't work, and the two sisters-in-law can't just work... So she has to work!