"Have you ever?" Hearing Yang Kai said this, Yi Xuan's eyes lit up: "Then how did you surpass?"
"Well, when I was a soldier, although I was a special force, it was not the only training. Because the overall quality of the soldiers is considered, the main training content includes shooting, concealment, firearms, etc., and because now They are all modern warfare, so these items are more important, but you know, I like kung fu, I have learned fighting for many years before joining the army, so compared to those items that I am not very good at, I At that time, I always wanted to get the first place in fighting training, but there was an instructor in our team, known as the Iron Man, who was always better than me.” Said Yang Kai shook his head, as if he was still a little bit worried about this. . "Every time I was in a match, I was beaten by him with a bruised nose and swollen face. So I spent a lot of spare time training hard. I always hope that one day I can beat him. It's not a blow. At that time, I was in our team with my fighting skills. No one dares to call first, but the strange thing is that every time I watch him fight, I feel that I can defeat him, but when I do it, I panic. I always feel as if I will be overthrown by him at any time. As a result, he made a mistake when he panicked, and then he was beaten again."
Yi Xuan nodded, and said that it was really similar to my situation: "What happened later?"
"After that, I was a little bit going to give up defeating him, but there was always a sense of strength in my heart. As the saying goes, Wen has no first and Wu has no second. It is not unreasonable. People who practice martial arts always have a sense of disagreement. The strength to accept the defeat, otherwise it will be difficult to score.
At that time, I remember that on a weekend, the instructors in this city all went home, and no one of us cared about sneaking out to drink in the middle of the night. After half a drink, a comrade-in-arms went out to the bathroom, and suddenly ran back to say that Fengji Group had come.
In the army, if you meet the chief of your own department while drinking, although you will say a few words with a straight face, but it is generally fine, at most it is fine if it is internally punished, but the demeanor group is different. If they were caught and asked the whole army to report criticism, it would have violated the taboo of our political commissar, and there would be no good fruit.
So when I heard it, we were so scared that we jumped out of the window. After we went out, everyone broke up and fled, but by this time the people from the inspection team had already arrived. Think about it, before entering the house, I saw a few people jumping out of the window, and I knew what was going on. I immediately shouted and started chasing. In order to run away, I kept drilling into the black alley. Unfortunately, I was unfamiliar with the terrain. I ran into a dead end and was blocked by one of them. At that time, the alley was pitch black, I could only see the outline, I couldn't recognize who was who at all. , When he went up, he was knocked down, thinking that the fighting was energy-saving. At all, the man lay on the ground without even touching my side. I gave him a hammer with the help of Jiujin. As a result, when the team re-trained the next day, guess what? "Yang Kai looked at Yi Xuan triumphantly.
"What's the matter?" Although vaguely guessed the end of the story, Yi Xuan asked in order not to spoil the atmosphere.
"I found that our iron man instructor had a bruised nose and swollen face. Later, I learned from the hall that he was arrested the night before by the men of the discipline group. He was one of those who went to arrest and drink. According to him, he was beaten by a group of people. I got injured on my face. After that, the team checked for a long time, but at the time, I heard it was impossible. Everyone knows the fighting skills of iron man. Even if there are many people, I don’t believe who can fight. After he finished, he ran away without injury. Looking at the whole team, I was the only one with this strength. So I concluded that the iron man was me. He was the one who was beaten by me in the alley last night. You How weird to say this? Normally, I am not his opponent if I have enough energy, but when I didn’t know that the opponent was him, I actually knocked him down with one move. So I found that this iron man is actually not that way at all. It's great. My strength should be able to bring him down. In the end, I competed with him again. I passed the test smoothly and won the title of No. 1 in the fighting army. Later, I participated in internal competitions on behalf of my unit."
Yang Kai smiled very happily until now, but after saying this, he seemed to think of something, and shook his head with a smile: "But it sounds funny. After a long time, one day another team My instructor came over to talk to me, and I knew that the person I beat that night was him, not an iron man. That person was also the one who caught me when he came to see me to fight, but because the matter has passed. It’s been a long time, so I didn’t punish me. It was only then that I realized that I had never been able to beat the Iron Man. In fact, it was just my psychological function. This is the psychological barrier you are talking about."
Yi Xuan stared, hearing Yang Kai finally finished his glorious history, he couldn't help but feel stunned: "But you still defeated your instructor?"
"Yes, so self-confidence is very important in many cases. What about you? What are the psychological barriers?" Yang Kai drank again, looking at Yi Xuan and asked.
Yi Xuan was even more worried when he heard this. Yang Kai thought that he had overcome the instructor and broke the psychological barrier because of a coincidence. But what can he do? What I am playing is a game, should I let both sides blindfold them and then defeat him
"Alas, your example may not apply to me. I am a barrier in other ways."
"No, in fact, psychological barriers are sometimes not specific to a certain thing, but a breakthrough in character. For example, if you have been bullied by someone, then one day you suddenly broke out and knocked that person down. , You will have a strong sense of self-confidence, as if nothing in the world is impossible, so you can also rely on another range of breakthroughs to stimulate you to break through your psychological barriers. It’s not that I am boasting, in fact, many people After learning to fight, self-confidence will increase, because when you have a kind of strength, you will feel more confident in doing things. So you can win this confidence by fighting. Hahaha" Yang Kai last sentence The words were naturally a joke, and they didn’t take it seriously when they were finished. At this moment, another coach waved at him and asked him to go over. Yang Kai said to Yi Xuan, “Then you rest for a while and then continue practicing?” He got up and walked away. past.
But after listening to Yang Kai's words, Yi Xuan was lost in thought and fighting? Maybe it really is a good way.
In the next training, Yi Xuan was still absent-minded. Until he left the club, Yi Xuan was still thinking about how he could surpass himself. Is he going to find Wang Xiaotian for a fight? You don't have to think about it to know that Wang Xiaotian is definitely not your opponent, and if you do so, it seems a bit bullying. Besides, fighting and game skills are not connected. Can you really gain confidence from the victory of defeating Wang Xiaotian
After thinking about it, Yi Xuan feels that the key is actually to do something that he would not do in ordinary days. The so-called transcendence, no matter what the field is to surpass the previous self, such as cursing the previous self in the car that morning. Boss, in fact, this is a kind of transcendence, but the thing to do now should be more vigorous than that.
This thing must be stimulating enough to be able to break through the past self. Only in this way can one break through the psychological barriers of oneself. Then, is there anything that oneself did not dare to do in the past, but now has the ability to do it
After all, in the past, he was just a little white-collar worker who was not worth a penny. From the financial and courage point of view, there were too many things he wanted to do but couldn't do, bungee jumping? En reliable. Or go skiing? This is what I have always yearned for. Why not go on a mountain trip, Yi Xuan found that his thoughts seemed to deviate from his original intention. No, these things are not even adventures at all, at most they are tourism projects.
He scratched his head for a while. Now that he wants to become an invincible fighter, he still has to break through from fighting, and fighting, like the game he wants to break through, is based on battle, right, right, right, this is right. .
Yi Xuan drove slowly and followed the car's butt in front of him. Although the street was narrow, but because the street was almost full of high-end entertainment and leisure venues, there were a lot of cars. Yi Xuan stepped on the brakes and went to both sides bored. Looking at it, suddenly his eyes froze.
"Hey, isn't that A Biao?" Although it has been so long, Yi Xuan still has a deep memory of A Biao's wretched back. At this time, A Biao was surrounded by four or five people and just got out of the car. Walk inside a building. I saw his mouth curled. Although the sky was already dark, he was still wearing a large framed sunglasses, a gray suit draped over his shoulders, and he walked and swayed three times, which was very unbelievable.
Yi Xuan was instinctively short in the seat, afraid of being spotted by him, but staring at him with good eyes, fearing that he would suddenly turn around. It turned out that this street wasn't the only fight club that was Kai. There is a bright and shiny sign on the building where A Biao is entering with the few people. It says "Free Fight" in fancy fonts. It looks like it should also be a fight club, but this decoration is in harmony with Kai. That is too low-grade in comparison. The colorful places are a bit like KTV, bathing and other places. No wonder I haven't noticed it.
Watching a few people walk in, Yi Xuan breathed a sigh of relief. Then he sat up straight from his seat, thinking about it, no matter how good he was hiding, it would be useless, but his car was placed there brightly. Fortunately, he didn't look here.
While Yi Xuan was secretly rejoicing, he was thinking about whether to spend some money, change the color of the car or something, otherwise, wouldn't it always be like this in the future.
Worried and scared? Yi Xuan's heart moved, wait a minute, isn't this the best opportunity to break through yourself!