Today's big families cultivate their children, and the six arts of the gentleman must be understood, especially the well-established big families, which have been passed down for a hundred years—even those who claim to be a thousand years old. They cultivate their children in more ways and more carefully. , there is a saying that "a woman's lack of talent is virtue", but the upper echelons completely scoffed at this statement.
They are not like the common people. The daughters of the common people are members of other people’s families when they marry, but for large families, daughters are also bargaining chips. They marry off their daughters to get more benefits, so their daughters must know how to play chess, calligraphy and painting. , Not only to be a good mistress, but also to be a Jie Yuhua for her husband.
Can't the husband talk about the romance, and the wife talk about how many clothes they sewed today
For them, female red is just a leisure time to pass the time. The real craftsmen are embroidery girls, and they can afford a few or a dozen embroidery girls, so why do they need to do it themselves? Only when you express your concern, will you do it yourself, which means you attach importance to it and will not give it away easily.
Their wisdom and knowledge are passed down from generation to generation, and the men and women in the big family are closely guarded, please, Mr. The etiquette is difficult to get through. Before the age of ten, it was fine. After the age of ten, any male, even his own brother, would not see each other several times a year.
Mrs. How could a truly learned woman be out there? Most of them are also inherited from the family, and they have received the most stringent education. They have not finished teaching their own daughters, and they are still teaching others
Therefore, it is generally the mother who educates the daughter. In order to ensure the quality of the next generation of the family, the first thing for a large family to marry is whether the daughter of the other party is virtuous and virtuous, and whether she can read and write.
They have their wisdom, an excellent lady, she must not only be proficient in literature, but also know how to calculate and settle accounts, to know how to cooperate with her husband, and to learn the art of the imperial family in the inner house. If she is an all-rounder.
Make her husband inseparable from her, become her husband's help, share power with her husband, and even control her husband in some cases.
The daughters raised in this way can ensure the prosperity of the family.
Son, that's even more important.
In addition to the six arts of a gentleman, they have to follow their father and brother to gain knowledge since childhood. They only have to learn more. Sometimes, they even have to learn the skills of women in the inner court, not only on the inside, but also on the outside.
If you look good, you take advantage of yourself, but if you don't look good, you have to pay great attention to your appearance, conversation, and temperament.
How to walk, how to raise your hands and feet to look good, what kind of expression you wear when interacting with people, and what kind of clothes you wear on different occasions are all important.
Chu Lin is a son-in-law who was brought up like this.
He was born in Changshu. The Changshu Chu family may not be one of the best big families, but it has been passed down for a hundred years. The Chu family is not very courageous and can be called cautious. Well, the day lily is also cold.
But this also brought them the advantage of not making mistakes, so after so many years, the Chu family has not experienced any big storms.
After Lin Yuan took over Changshu, their family also began to study, wanting to please Lin Yuan, not to mention any benefits, at least not to let Lin Yuan hit their family's ideas, so whether it is money or food, as long as there is a little bit of meaning on it, They quickly sent it up.
I heard that Lin Yuan likes masculinity, and he gave Lin Yuan the best-looking son of his family without stopping.
The meaning inside and outside the words is: "This son has no great ability, he is not a smart person, but he is good-looking and does not cause trouble. He will serve as a cup of tea by your side, or he will do other things, it is up to you, what is your name? He does what he does."
It's kind of like a strong man cutting his wrists.
Lin Yuan didn't believe it at first. He sent his son as a plaything. Would the family be willing
Didn't the ancients take their faces very seriously
It was Song Shizhao who reminded him.
"Dong Xian and Emperor Ai of Han had a short-sleeved story. Dong Xian also dedicated his wife and children to Emperor Ai of Han." Song Shizhao laughed, "It's also a good story."
Lin Yuan: "...Sir is joking, it's just folklore."
If Emperor Ai of Han really had something to do with Dong Xian, it would prove that he was in good health. How could he not have a child in his life? Lin Yuan felt that the so-called good man sex was just a fig leaf for Emperor Ai's "impotence".
If Emperor Ai of Han really took Dong Xian's wife, then Dong Xian's wife should also have a big belly? Neither did that.
This means that Emperor Ai of Han was not a "crippled man", he just liked different things from ordinary people.
Song Shizhao mentioned one more thing: "In order to win Duke Huan's trust and love, Yi Ya chopped up his youngest son into puree and made meatballs to serve Duke Huan's diet. Compared with this, the Chu family is nothing more than that. "
Lin Yuan sighed: "People are like that."
for status and interests.
These upper-class families can give up everything, including their own children, and they can even gift their wives.
It's not like giving a concubine, you can even give a wife. You know, it's almost like tearing off one's own skin and getting people to step on it.
The wife can be willing, not to mention the son.
In this regard, Lin Yuan felt that they were not as good as ordinary people who didn't know one big character.
Originally, Lin Yuan thought that the Chu family was modest. After all, whoever saw Chu Lin would think that he was a handsome young man, with a crown like jade, and a phoenix in the form of a dragon. He carried the temperament that everyone's sons only possessed in his gestures. The maids in the house would blush when they saw him, and unconsciously began to pay attention to their appearance, and even some servants would blushed when they saw him.
But Chu Lin is indeed a straw bag beauty.
He has talent and learning, but he doesn't know how to use his talent and learning to learn from him, it's just something to raise the price.
But he was likable, and even when he didn't say anything, the people he talked to were always gushing.
This is also a skill.
Lin Yuan asked him to receive guests, including big businessmen and patriarchs of big families, and then—a small percentage of these people wanted to beg him to go, even "If Lin follows me, I will do my best to provide him with pleasure." Such things can be said.
Among them was a big businessman surnamed Qi. He really fell in love with Chu Lin. In order to meet Chu Lin, he would send something to Lin Yuan almost every three to five days. When it came to Lin Yuan, it was even less likely that Chu Lin would entertain him, so he began to pay for it out of his own pocket.
Chu Lin himself did not know.
He was sent to Lin Yuan by his family, and he didn't know what he was here for.
No one in the family told him, nor did anyone in the government office tell him that he really thought he was here to serve as a servant to Lin Yuan because he couldn't get in touch with the outside world.
Although he thinks that he is only eight buckets high, he also knows that those who are only eight buckets high are also subordinates when they go to the authorities, so they come without any resistance.
Then he began to receive merchants and patriarchs of big households. Chu Lin felt that he was appreciated by Lin Yuan, so he would go to Lin Yuan from time to time to swipe his face card, just like a peacock opening his screen, he was almost singing a song, telling Lin Yuan himself has a lot to do.
Sometimes when Lin Yuan saw him inviting pets like a puppy in front of him, he wanted to go up and pinch his face.
- Lin Yuan held back.
At the same time, Lin Yuan began to reflect on himself.
Sure enough, men have no morals. As long as they look good, they basically don't pick men and women.
Hmm... he's a rude man himself.
Then, Lin Yuan pushed Chu Lin to the front, and he began to pass on Lin Yuan's decrees. When outsiders saw it, especially those from the big family, they felt that being a "male favorite" was also a ladder to heaven! It seems like a trivial matter, but it also means that he can know Lin Yuan's movements at the first time.
For the family, knowing the intentions of the superiors means that they can react faster, scratch the itch of those in power, and then enter the eyes of those in power and be favored.
Isn't this real power
So they - collectively sent their son over.
Still pretty.
Ang Zang youth, handsome young man, some with a face like Pan An, some with elegant demeanor, fat and thin, everything.
But Lin Yuan was very happy.
"I thought there were fewer people available." Lin Yuan said to Song Shizhao, "Now I'm finally feeling more comfortable."
These people may not have the material to be officials, but they all have real talents and practical knowledge, at least the knowledge is enough. Even if they are not officials, it is good to build civilization for the people. This is absolutely enough.
What's more, there were only a few people he could use, and he was reluctant to let them all be hidden at home.
Song Shizhao sighed, "My subordinates never expected you to have so many plans."
It’s just a good man, and it’s a joke to say it, but who would have thought that just because of this, there would be more young and strong people under the Nan Bodhisattva’s rule, and not only that, but also the next generation of those big families who were hidden in the house. .
Walking one step at a hundred steps, Song Shizhao bowed down to Lin Yuan: "South Bodhisattva has a strong mind and a secret plan, so that his subordinates are willing to surrender."
Lin Yuan smiled at him: "It's just a small way, sir, Tuotuo has been released from military power."
The emperor of Dadu was mentally retarded. To be precise, most of the civil and military affairs of the Manchu dynasty were mentally retarded. Because they were afraid that the generals who led the army would turn their backs in the turbulent times, they issued an edict to cut off the military power of Tuotuo Timur, and the army was millions. The crowd collapsed in an instant, and since then, the Yuan army has no more energy to contend with the rebels.
Song Shizhao: "Nan Bodhisattva means..."
Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Mr. may he subdue him?"
Song Shizhao looked into Lin Yuan's eyes.
At this moment, his blood boiled!
But Song Shizhao quickly calmed down: "He is a Mongolian after all..." How could he be willing to do things for the Han people
Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Am I only fighting Yuan soldiers?"
Song Shizhao widened his eyes.
He straightened his clothes and stood upright, and knelt down before Lin Yuan: "I will get this person!"
He heard Nan Bodhisattva above say to him, "Then it's all up to Mr.
Song Shizhao was lying on the ground, Nan Bodhisattva could ask him to show his strengths, even if he was asked to hold a blade for the devil, he would be willing!
The author has something to say: Folk:
"I heard that the most favored person around Nan Bodhisattva is the son of the Chu family."
"It must be good to come to bed!"
"The figure must be the best!"
Chu family:
"What? To marry?"
"Who to marry?"
"Is he crazy?! Want to marry my son?!"