Back to the Sixties: Farm, Get Wealthy & Raise the Cubs

Chapter 197: I don't plan to rely on my son to raise it

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When Zhou Xiaomei and Su Dalin went back, Lin Qinghe also said to Zhou Mu: "The two of them have a really good relationship."

"Although Da Lin stammered a little, he really didn't have to say to Xiaomei." Zhou Mu nodded.

Now Zhou's mother also looked aside from the fact that the little son-in-law was stuttering.

A man, who can raise a family, and can't go out to spend a lot of time and drink, can take care of his wife and children, such a man is a good man.

So there are some shortcomings or something, you really don't need to care about it.

At least for now, the youngest of the three daughters married the best.

"Speaking of which, it can be done because of you." Zhou Mu said with a smile.

She has heard from her young daughter that it is the first principle of choosing a son-in-law to tell the parents to die and have a car and a house.

Although the words are rough, but think about it, isn't it that way

It's not easy to have a quarrel with others if you are a single family, but as long as you live your own life well, isn't it

Just like Cai Bamei who married Zhou Dong.

This day is similar to her family's Xiaomei. Once you pass the door, you are in charge, and there is no mother-in-law on top. How good is that

Lin Qinghe didn't take credit for it: "What's the matter with me? They have to see the two of them right. Sometimes fate is just like that."

Mother Zhou smiled.

Lin Qinghe asked: "My second aunt, have you ever come to see my mother? I don't think her husband's family is a good match. If it's too much, then her mother's family is not a silent person. ."

This is very emboldened and domineering.

Zhou Mu is really more and more interested in the fourth family now, and she is really more magnificent and more powerful than the other daughter-in-laws.

But he also said: "I'm already a married person. As long as it doesn't make it to that point, let's not worry about it here. Besides, she never came to say it."

When the daughter is married, the root is still in her natal family. If she is bullied at her in-laws’ family, she will not let her be bullied as long as she knows her.

There are two.

But last year the second daughter was so fierce and didn't come back to say, and the second son-in-law didn't mention a word, how should the natal family manage this

She came back and filed a complaint, so her family could vent her anger. She didn't tell her, but her family intervened in her husband's house. What do you want to say

So Zhou Mu didn't plan to take care of it.

But I still found time to come over and take a look.

I brought Xiao Su Xun with him, but he didn't bring anything, so he brought two catties of peanuts.

Coming over to Tuegu's side, I also saw Tuegu's brick and tiled house. It was really good.

On Tuesday, the aunt and the uncle on Tuesday were not at home, and the little girl and son behind them were at home.

Although the two are young, they both recognize Zhou Mu as their grandmother.

It's kind of welcome to their grandmother, and Tuesday's aunt's youngest son hurried to call Tuesday's aunt.

On Tuesday, when I heard that my mother was coming, I cut the weeds halfway through, so I put it aside.

"It's okay, just come and see you." Zhou Mu said with a smile, "This house is up well."

On Tuesday, my aunt went in to pour water for her: "That is, my natal brothers support me, and are willing to lend me this money, otherwise the house will not be able to rise."

"What's the matter over there?" Mother Zhou asked his daughter, naturally without hiding them.

"Seeing that my fourth brother brought me so many bricks and tiles, the two old shameless people wanted to share some of them so that they could add more to the roof, but I didn't give it." Aunt Tue sneered.

This honest man is really pressing now.

But no one in the village said her was not.

Know that she and her man moved out with five children, what did they share

As a cow and a horse for so many years, they divided up 50 yuan, and other furniture and so on, that was just casually sent away.

The people in the village didn't poke the spine of the old couple less, so they didn't become parents like this.

"If you don't give it, it's the right thing. Qingbai finally got it for you, so why do you want to give it to them?" Zhou Mu coldly snorted when he heard that.

"I won't talk about their bad things, mother, I owe the money to my natal brothers, I'm afraid I won't be able to pay it back soon," said aunt Tuesday.

"You can settle down here before you talk. It's not that rush to talk over there, and you will pay it back slowly later." Zhou Mu said.

Aunt nodded on Tuesday.

There are a few chickens in the family, Zhou's mother wants to bring Xiao Su Xun back. On Tuesday, my aunt wants to catch her a chicken.

Mother Zhou said she said: "Don't slap your face to fill the fat guy. It's not easy at home, so what kind of chickens are you still catching?"

Then I didn't care about Tuesday, and went home with my grandson.

When I came back, I said to Lin Qinghe: "Although the days are a bit poorer, the house is still spacious. Although it will be a problem for the children to get married in the future, it will be five or six years later, so there is no need to worry."

Lin Qinghe said: "Come slowly, the days will get better and better."

It's been seven or four years now, and this blink of an eye is only a few years away from opening up. For the hardworking people, the days will only get better and better in the future.

Because it was still in the summer vacation, Lin Qinghe also made more money, and asked Sister Mei to increase the supply of pork. Basically, he would go to the county town once in a few days.

On returning from the county seat that day, Lin Qinghe brought a watermelon and some school supplies.

This year she also spent a piece of cloth and made a schoolbag for the stinky boy, the three brothers, one for each, which is really extravagant.

"Mother, you spend so much money, did you spend all your salary?" If you can ask this, there is only the second baby among the three brothers.

The eldest baby and the third baby don't care about these temperaments.

"Yes, it is easy to feed you, but it is not easy to raise your brothers well." Lin Qinghe said, iced the watermelon in well water.

The second baby grinned: "When we grow up to be successful, then we must be filial to you."

"It's time to marry a daughter-in-law when you grow up. It will be someone else's, I can't count on it." Lin Qinghe said.

What does she say in modern times

Childbirth is a task, raising a child is a responsibility, and relying on a child is a mistake.

This is very sensible. Of course, Lin Qinghe also agrees with this concept.

Although the older generation is to raise children to guard against old age, each generation has the pressure of each generation. Parents, if they do not drag their children, it will hurt the children.

And from another point of view, when you are old and have enough money to provide for the elderly, are you afraid of the filial piety of your daughter-in-law in the future

If you have money, you can hire someone to take care of it.

They are still clean with each other.

Although the three children taught by her are quite different from the original, some concepts have been established and will not be easily changed.

But Lin Qinghe had already planned it a long time ago.

In the future, she and Zhou Qingbai will save money for their old-age pensions. They don't plan to rely on their sons to raise them, or they will be kicked by the future daughter-in-law. It is pitiful to think about it.