Becoming a Global Superstar Starting as an Idol Trainee

Chapter 187: Conflict avoidance (2/2)

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As soon as the two of them left, Kang Hui categorically denied Chen Minhao and said: "No, if you are really not suitable for reality shows, then you will not get the first place in "Artist Producer", with a C position Debut with outstanding results.”

Kang Hui took out a bottle of red wine from Chen Minhao's cupboard. This bottle of red wine was brought by her as a red wine for Chen Minhao's housewarming celebration.

Kang Hui poured the red wine into two glasses simply and rudely, passing one glass to Chen Minhao and keeping the other for himself.

Kang Hui used the remote control panel to open the first episode of "Artist Producer". Fast forward to when Chen Minhao was there, she said: "First of all, take a look at you when you first appeared on a variety show. I remember that the first episode was broadcast. After that, your Weibo fans just exceeded 1 million, of which I bought 500,000 fans for you. Are you recalling your performance in "Good Times" just now, which has nearly 17 million fans? you."

Kang Hui lit a cigarette with a lighter and said: "When you were in "The Entertainer", your clothes and style were quite different from those in "Good Times", but your eyes turned so fast, you When you smile, you smile openly. When you are angry, you frown deeply and you actively stir up topics. Your whole person is shining!"

"But when you were in "Good Times", you stopped shining. You are still very handsome, but your whole person feels very withdrawn to me."

Kang Hui took a deep drag on his cigarette and said, "Tell me, what were you thinking about when you were filming "The Producer"? What were you thinking about when you were filming "Good Times"?"

Chen Minhao fell into silence and did not speak.

Kang blew back a smoke ring and said: "Actually, you are afraid, afraid that you will not perform well. Because you are not like the first time when you have nothing, so you are not afraid of losing. But there is nothing embarrassing about it. More than a year ago, you You don’t have a Weibo account yet, but now the number of fans on your Weibo account has exceeded 17 million. In addition to the 500,000 fans I bought you in the initial stage, you have 16 million real fans. In just one year, Your Weibo fans are growing at a rate of nearly 20 million.

To be honest, Chen Minhao, your growth rate is far beyond my imagination. You are the fastest-growing artist we have ever produced. The development of the current Internet allows information to be spread at high speed, making it possible for a person to become famous quickly. But just like how few people who win lottery prizes die happily, in fact, the popularity of artists will cause many artists to have psychological problems.

Many artists who become famous will drink alcohol, go shopping crazy, have sex, etc. But smarter artists like you will restrain themselves. But hiding problems in the psychology will eventually lead to mental health imbalance.

Take your senior sister Wan Anqi as an example. She became famous overnight after playing the second female lead in a palace drama. But in palace fighting dramas, there are more women, and there are a few female stars who extend the struggle inside the drama to outside the drama.

After your senior sister finished that drama, she became famous, but she also fell into a certain degree of persecution paranoia. She always felt that some people in the crew were trying to harm her. "

Kang Hui put out the cigarette butt and said, "Chen Minhao, your heart is very strong, but you are not an iron man."

Chen Minhao showed an expression of "Are you kidding me?" He frowned and looked at Kang Hui and said: "I have read many books on psychology, and I don't think I have any symptoms of mental illness now. .”

"Psychological problems do not mean mental illness." Kang Hui picked up his wine glass and said in a calm tone: "You have your own psychological problems, Chen Minhao. Some problems are obscure to the authorities but clear to bystanders." "

Chen Minhao chuckled.

Just as Chen Minhao was about to refute, Kang Hui immediately blocked Chen Minhao's argument and said: "You were still a trainee who had not debuted at the time, but you were full of energy and longing for the future. But now you have a TV series that has exploded. An online drama became a hit. You scored 688 in the cultural class of the college entrance examination. In the art test, you ranked first in Beijing Film Academy and third in China Theater Academy.

But now when you are filming a variety show, why do you only participate in programming and give mechanical feedback? Why don't you take the initiative to stir up the topic? You even subconsciously refused interviews and reality shows. Can you tell me the reason? "

Chen Minhao picked up the red wine on the table and drank it in one gulp. Then he poured himself another glass and said with a frown, "I don't know, I just don't feel like I enjoy standing in front of the camera anymore. Even a little resistant."

After Chen Minhao drank another glass of red wine, he said: "I'm a little worried that I won't be liked by the audience. To be honest, I never thought that I would receive so many people's attention."

Kang Hui also drank all the wine in his glass and said: "You are afraid. In fact, everyone desires to be different in their hearts, but they are afraid of becoming different. Chen Minhao, you have now become Only 0.01% of entertainers can live a successful life. In fact, being secretly photographed by paparazzi when you go to a coffee shop to observe the waiter is a turning point. Your lifestyle is different from that of most people in the world.

But you still want to go further in terms of popularity, but you are worried that your behavior will have an adverse impact on yourself, which makes you afraid to do it. You become very withdrawn and choose to escape. This is psychologically It's called approach-avoidance conflict. "

Kang Hui looked into Chen Minhao's eyes and said, "You don't have to be afraid. You shine when you are yourself. So you just have to be yourself like in "Artist Producer". We won't be able to do ABtest in the future, but from now on Judging from past experience, the audience still likes you quite a lot, right

And if you mess up, I will wipe your ass. How to eliminate adverse effects, etc., these are all my job, and Chen Minhao, there is only one thing you have to do, and that is to be brave enough to be yourself. The more you worry about your actions and whether your behavior will be liked by the audience, you The less likely it will be liked by the audience. "

Chen Minhao felt that he was really convinced. When he recalled his mental journey, Kang Hui's analysis was very accurate: "When I was filming "Artist Producer", my mentality was that what the audience likes are real trainees, and I can't act. To be true, I chose to be myself. After all, I was very confident in my own charm at that time, and I firmly did myself in the show, or let myself go. But now, many of my actions will be based on whether the audience likes it or not. "

Kang Hui flipped his hair and said: "Actually, in the entertainment industry, your enemies are not only other celebrities and artists, but you are also constantly competing with yourself. Therefore, I would like to advise you to carefully consider repaying In any school, don’t choose Xiang Zhongxi because you are afraid of exposure.”

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Inner strength is actually the real strength.

(End of chapter)