Li Su gave him a white look, "What do you know! Women's childbirth is the most dangerous thing! When Yingniang gave birth to Yuan'er and Ru'er, forget it. You were not at home at that time, so naturally you didn't know. This time Yingniang gave birth, you give birth to me. I'll stand by, and then you'll know how difficult it is for women."
Seeing that Li Yu still had a disapproving expression, Li Su glared at him, "I hope you will give birth to a female fetus in your next life, so that you can also taste the pain of having a child!"
Liu Yingniang was moved, "Mother!"
Dr. Xu is also full of approval, "Lao An is indeed a person who can educate a scholar, he is very reasonable. That being the case, in the future, I will come to the mansion to ask for the pulse of the scholar lady on the 15th day of every month. My doctor There are also women and medical women who are responsible for midwifery in the museum, if the old man is at ease, he can invite them to come."
"Of course that's good. Doctor, please take care of yourself. Just prepare whatever you need. Money is not a problem. The most important thing is that people are safe and sound." Li Su said.
Doctor Xu nodded.
After sending Dr. Xu away, Li Su was thinking about what else to prepare. When he turned his head, he saw Liu Yingniang's eyes that were about to burst into water, "Mom!"
"Okay, okay, this is what it should be. You are my daughter-in-law, and you are pregnant with my grandson! Come on, don't sit still, get up and take a walk, you have heard the doctor's words, sir Eat some, and you will suffer less in the future." Li Su ordered.
Liu Yingniang nodded obediently.
Li Su glanced at Li Yu and Li Yuan and Li Ru, "Don't be dazed, go to class."
Li Yu and a few went. Li Su helped Liu Yingniang walk slowly in the yard, "Seeing that you are about to give birth, and Yuan'er Ru'er is getting older, I thought, why not move them out of your house. Yuan'er lives in your house." In the west wing, Ru'er moved to the east wing. When the two babies in your stomach come out later, the number of people in the family will increase. I think, either build a bigger house, or renovate the old house. Renovate it."
Liu Yingniang looked at Li Yu's back, "Mom, you can decide this matter, or you can discuss it with Yu Ling, I can do whatever I want."
Li Su looked at Liu Yingniang with hatred, "You also have to be assertive, okay? One day I won't be here, Ayu is a man's family, what does he know about these inner houses! This family will have to be yours sooner or later! Now A Yu is just a scholar, if he wins in the future, you will be the wife of the judge, if he becomes an official, you will be the wife of the official, if you are still like this, what can we do?"
Li Su thought about how to reform Liu Yingniang, but after observing for a while, he found that under the current environment, it is basically impossible to reform Liu Yingniang with modern female thinking. Liu Yingniang is a very traditional woman with three obediences and four virtues. The feudal thought of putting her husband first in her mind has been deeply ingrained, and it is estimated that it will be difficult to change. Li Su can only try a less radical method to subtly and change little by little.
Liu Yingniang looked a little panicked, she felt that there was nothing wrong with her now, but if her mother-in-law said it was not good, then it must be bad.
Li Su continued, "If A Yu becomes an official in the future, you will be the wife of an official. Do you think it's easy to be an official wife, just like you are now, just take care of the whole family? How can it be so simple! You want to go out In socializing and entertaining, you have to please the top at the top, and win over the subordinates at the bottom. You have to do these things. Your temper is too soft, not to mention that A Yu is an official. Concubine, what are you going to do?"
"Is mother worried that I'll be jealous? No! It's a good thing that more people can serve Yu Yun and have more people in the family. I will never be jealous. I will treat her like my own sister." Mother, don't worry!" Liu Yingniang muttered.
Li Su couldn't help but rolled his eyes, it's fine if he couldn't grasp the point, Nima, why are you so generous
"Are you stupid? What is a concubine? As the name suggests, a concubine is a standing woman with a humble status. You sit and she stands! You eat and she watches! Your identities are destined to be opposites, what? Sister, fart! What if that concubine has ulterior motives? What if that concubine is someone else's pawn? Let me tell you, if you have this kind of thinking, you will die sooner or later!" Li Su didn't care about other things, and hurriedly tried to kill Liu Yingniang. The naive thoughts in my mind dissipated.
Liu Yingniang was at a loss, did she make a mistake? But that's what my mother taught her.
Li Su sighed, and gave up the plan to reform Liu Yingniang, "Forget it, I'll live a few more years, I'll watch for you."
Liu Yingniang hurriedly took Li Su's arm and said flatteringly, "Mother must live a long life. With Mother here, I feel more at ease."
Li Su shook his head. This daughter-in-law is probably hopeless, but the granddaughter is still young and can still be broken. "Let Ru'er move in and live with me."
"Okay, mother, you can decide. We all listen to mother." Liu Yingniang said straightforwardly.
Li Su looked at her helplessly, then shook his head, "Let's go, let's go. Don't talk." Being stupid is better than being obedient. It's better than marrying back a troublemaker.
Liu Yingniang immediately dropped her thoughts, and carefully walked forward while holding her belly.
At dinner, Li Su shared his proposal, and Li Yuan was a little excited. It was great to be able to get out of the sight of his parents and have his own house. But Li Ru was a little nervous, did she live with Grandma? She is a little scared.
Li Yu thought for a while, and said, "Mom, it's just right, I also want to move to the study." Liu Yingniang is now a month old, and she often wakes up at night, disturbing him, and he can't sleep well at night. Mental reading.
"Don't even think about it! Your study room is useful to me. In a few years, I will change it and let Ru'er live in it. When the girl grows up, she should have her own boudoir." Li Su dismissed it without thinking, "Furthermore Now, you move to the study, Yingniang sleeps alone, what if something happens at night? Yingniang is pregnant, it is hard work, and she is pregnant with twins, it is even more hard work. Don't think about it, Yingniang Who are you working hard for!"
Liu Yingniang opened her mouth to speak, but Li Su glared her back, "I know you love Fulang! But I'm disciplining my son, so don't interrupt!"
Liu Yingniang had no choice but to shut up.
Li Su went on to say, "When I was pregnant with your eldest brother, your father was like this. He thought that I woke up frequently at night and disturbed his sleep, so he ran to sleep in the side room. At that time, the family could not afford a maid. I got up at night and fell down. Your elder brother was born prematurely, he was weak when he was born, and he died before he was one year old! Your father only realized that he regretted it at that time. Later, when he was pregnant with your eldest sister, your father did not hide anymore. Your eldest sister was born very healthy, but your grandma thinks your eldest sister is a girl. During the confinement period, she pointed at Sang and scolded Huai, and didn’t give me good food. There is not enough milk, and your eldest sister often screams hungry. She was raised until she was three years old. The wind and cold are gone. Thinking of the past, I feel sad..."
Li Yu listened expressionlessly, well, her mother's nagging problem seems to have gotten worse. He regretted that he shouldn't have said that.
"Mother, it was my mistake. I will take good care of Yingniang. Don't be sad. Don't mention the past, it hurts you." Li Yu quickly admitted his mistake.
Li Su accepted it as soon as he saw it, "Okay, as long as you know it in your heart. Your daughter-in-law is pregnant with your seed, so you can handle it yourself!"
Li Yu repeatedly said yes.
Liu Yingniang knew that her frequent waking up at night made her husband unable to rest well, so she felt so guilty that she didn't even dare to drink more chicken soup. Li Su was also afraid that she would make up too much and it would be difficult to give birth in the future, so he didn't force her.
Li Yu knew that Yingniang loved to drink chicken soup when she was pregnant, and she drank it almost every meal. He naturally understood why she didn't drink it now, and was touched in his heart. So he picked up some fish meat, picked out the spines, and put it into Liu Yingniang's bowl, "Eat some fish meat." Because he was not very skilled, the fish meat was not only a little cold, but also looked a little unsightly.
However, Liu Yingniang's eyes were red with emotion, fearing that crying would spoil everyone's interest, she hurriedly lowered her head, finished the bowl of fish, then raised her head and said, "Thank you, Yu Ling. The fish is delicious."
Li Yuan is the eldest son who is loved by his parents. He is very courageous. He raised his bowl when he heard this, "Daddy, I want to eat fish too."
Li Yu was a little embarrassed by Liu Yingniang's reaction, but he was actually very happy in his heart. He glanced at Li Yuan, "Seniors are in order, first get it for grandma, then it's your turn." Then he picked out a bowl of fish for Li Su seriously.
In fact, Li Yu in the movie is a relatively filial person. Whether it is hardship in the early stage or prosperity in the later stage, he is very good to the original owner. But he had never picked fish for Li Su with his own hands like now.
Li Su looked at the bowl of fish in front of her, and felt a little complicated in her heart. She also knew that disciplining children should not be suppressed blindly, but encouragement at the right time may be more effective. She looked up at Li Yu, "This bowl of fish is not good for me. Said, more than anything in the world."
Li Yu didn't expect Li Su to say that, and was stunned.
Li Yuan looked at grandma, then at father, and asked, "Is it better than being ordered?"
Li Su smiled, "Of course!"
Li Yuan cheered, "Daddy, I want it too!" How delicious is the fish that Daddy picked, and why Grandma and Niang have such expressions. He wants to taste it too!
Li Yu's heart was touched, he seemed to understand something, looked at his son gently, lowered his head and continued to pick fish.
Li Ru sat next to him, watching enviously, but didn't say a word.
Although Li Yu didn't pay as much attention to his daughter as he did to his son, she was his own flesh and blood, so how could he disappoint her, so he also picked a bowl of fish for his daughter.
Looking at Li Ru's joyous eyes that were almost shining, Li Yu also smiled. It's just a trivial matter, but they are all so happy. Does it mean that, in fact, what they have always wanted is very simple
Over there, Liu Yingniang carefully selected a bowl of fish herself, her skills were much better than Li Yu's, "Yu Ling, you can eat it too."
Then he looked at Li Su flatteringly, "Mom, I'll pick it for you right away."
Li Su was both angry and funny, "Come on, I'll do it myself, I'm not old yet."
Liu Yingniang smiled embarrassedly.
"I'm not the kind of mother-in-law who can't see the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law. I hope that you will continue to be so good. The love of husband and wife, the kindness of father and filial piety are the foundation of the prosperity of the house." Li Su said like a mother-in-law. In fact, many mothers-in-law in China are like this, whether they are ancient or modern. When a mother-in-law regards her son as her own private property, once the son marries a wife and has a good relationship with his wife, the mother-in-law will be jealous, will be jealous, and will try her best to cause trouble between the son and daughter-in-law.
The original owner is also such a mother-in-law.
Fortunately, Li Su was not. She would not allow herself to be such a mother-in-law. Although she likes children very much, she really wants to have children of her own. But she understands that a child is an independent living entity, not anyone's private property, and no one can use the name of love to arbitrarily restrain and influence other people's lives!
The author has something to say: In the past two days, I ate too much due to the cold, and I was sick to death with vomiting and diarrhea.
Thanks to the little angels for irrigating me with nutrient solution~
Thanks to the little angel of the irrigation nutrient solution: 10 bottles of Lemon
Thank you very much for your support, I will continue to work hard! ^_^