Fang Zhicheng suddenly remembered something and said, "President Wen, since you shared a secret with me, I will share a secret with you too. The Su family... I already know."
Wen Feng was slightly stunned. Last year, Fang Zhicheng had asked her to investigate the remittance source of the deposit. As a result, she found out that it was the Fang family, but she finally chose to persuade Fang Zhicheng not to investigate further.
Wenfeng has always been curious about the relationship between the Su family and Fang Zhicheng, and why they support his mother
Wen Feng's face showed a bit of solemnity, and she said calmly: "I think you have been holding this matter in your heart for a long time. You might as well tell me about it. I am willing to listen."
There were some things that Fang Zhicheng had kept in his heart for a long time, and he had not told anyone about them. But when facing Wen Feng, he opened his heart, perhaps he could smell a hint of maternal love in this woman.
After listening to Fang Zhicheng's story, Wen Feng remained as calm as ever. She was not surprised and did not express any emotions. She sighed and said, "Zhicheng, now that I have heard your story, I will naturally give you a suggestion. Of course, this is just a suggestion, and others cannot replace your own ideas. I think that although the Su family abandoned you, your biological mother is innocent. If you want to stay away from the Su family, the premise is that you cannot hurt your biological mother."
Although Wenfeng did not say a lot of big truths, she gave Fang Zhicheng an answer from an objective perspective. Mother and son are connected by heart. Although the Su family is sorry for Fang Zhicheng, Su Qing is innocent. You can hate the family, but you cannot deny the fact that Su Qing is your mother.
The knot in Fang Zhicheng's heart was finally untied in an instant. It was as if a big stone had been removed from Fang Zhicheng's chest. He smiled and said softly, "I know what to do."
Chapter 0633: Wen Feng Seeking Change
A bystander sees more clearly than a participant.
If the same thing happened to someone else, Fang Zhicheng would definitely give extremely pertinent suggestions, but when it happened to him, it was like being wandering in a fog, not knowing what to do.
Wenfeng's advice to Fang Zhicheng was like clearing away the fog, which made Fang Zhicheng's mind clear for a while. His biological mother Su Qing was actually a victim, so why did he distance himself from her? He could think of this before, but he was always unwilling to admit it in his heart. Wenfeng's words made him suddenly enlightened.
After a short silence, Wen Feng suddenly let out a breath. Fang Zhicheng asked sensitively, "Are you worried about something?"
Wen Feng glanced at Fang Zhicheng and said with a smile: "Every family has its own problems. I am trying to persuade you, but I myself have many things that I cannot figure out."
Fang Zhicheng said: "If you don't mind, I can be your confidant."
Wen Feng glanced at Fang Zhicheng and said, "Should I tell you? I think it's a bit weird."
Fang Zhicheng said: "Is it because of age? I have many good friends regardless of age, and the oldest is over 70 years old." Fang Zhicheng was not bragging. When he was in Yinzhou, he often hung out in Nanyuan Old Street and made a group of friends who were much older, including Tong Siqing's father Tong Mengyuan and others.
Wen Feng smiled and said, "Let me tell you a story. The protagonist of the story is a good friend of mine."
Fang Zhicheng pulled the corners of his mouth but didn't laugh. If ordinary people said this, it would basically be their own story. The so-called good friends are just a hypocritical coat.
Fang Zhicheng said in a very serious tone: "I am listening attentively."
"About 20 years ago, my friend had just started working when her family introduced her to a guy. In that era, although it was not as important as in feudal society to follow the orders of parents and matchmakers, if the family arranged a blind date for you, that person would be your lifelong partner." Wen Feng sighed, "So the two got married soon. However, they both have strong personalities and put all their energy into their careers. Because they worked in different places, they soon moved to different places. Now, after more than ten years of marriage, they suddenly moved to live together again. Their relationship is like that of strangers, and they don't talk more than ten sentences a day."
The ordinary life is full of helpless sadness. After the reform and opening up, although the society emphasizes the freedom of marriage, most marriages follow the old path, so there is no emotional foundation between the couples, and as a result, there are still many people who have spent their whole lives together.
Fang Zhicheng asked, "Has your friend ever thought about divorce?"
"Divorce?" Wen Feng shook her head. "Now they are both very prestigious people. If they divorce, it will definitely cause a big uproar and affect their image and future. Therefore, they value their status as a couple more than any other family. If one of them is in crisis, they will even support the other unconditionally. Although the two have not communicated, they have enough tacit understanding in this regard."
Fang Zhicheng analyzed: "Their marriage is like an alliance..."
Wen Feng smiled and said, "In fact, this kind of alliance is much more solid than other forms."
Seeing Wen Feng's explanation of marriage, Fang Zhicheng sighed and said, "Habit is a terrible thing. Your friend is used to a loveless marriage and gradually sees it as a normal state, acquiescing that it is right. To change the status quo, the only way is to break the habit... However, this requires a lot of courage."
Wen Feng naturally understood what Fang Zhicheng meant. She showed a helpless smile and said, "Divorce? That's impossible."
Fang Zhicheng shook his head and smiled, "There is more than one way to solve the problem. Marriage needs to be managed. If it remains unchanged, the time when two people are together will of course be uneventful, dull, or even boring. But if they work together for happiness, give each other a little warmth and surprise from time to time, and cultivate their feelings for each other, perhaps things will change."
Wen Feng was slightly startled, then smiled and said, "I... I'm afraid my friend can't take that step. She has a similar personality to me, she's a pretty stupid person, and she's not very good at expressing her feelings."
Fang Zhicheng shook his finger and said, "President Wen, as your best friend, you must give her confidence, because taking a step forward may not be far from true happiness."
A gleam flashed in Wen Feng's beautiful eyes, and she smiled and said, "I'll try... Go and persuade her."
Fang Zhicheng thought for a moment and added, "In fact, there are many ways to ease the relationship between husband and wife, such as buying him a small gift on his birthday, or having a candlelight dinner to increase the romantic atmosphere, and you can also consider some fun in life, such as wearing clothes when sleeping... you know..."
Wen Feng rolled her eyes at Fang Zhicheng and said, "Is it really necessary to go through so much trouble?"
Fang Zhicheng nodded seriously and said, "You have to realize... You should make your best friend realize that life is as complicated as work. She is successful in her career and should know how much effort is needed to achieve success. Similarly, if she wants to be happy in life, she has to make the same effort."
Wen Feng smiled and said, "I didn't expect you to become a life mentor. Although you are not very old, you think very thoroughly about some issues."
Fang Zhicheng smiled and said, "High emotional intelligence is innate."
Wen Feng nodded and said, "IQ is important, but EQ is more important. I understand what you mean. I will have a good chat with my friend later to see if she is willing to make some changes. However, this is a two-way street, right? What if her husband doesn't like it?"
Fang Zhicheng encouraged: "Just like when we attract investment, if the company does not accept us at the beginning, or even expresses ill will, will we back off? Generally, we will choose to face the challenge head-on and persuade them with both soft and hard methods."
Wen Feng smiled and said, "Although the analogy is not very appropriate, it still makes sense. If my friend succeeds, he will definitely thank you."
Fang Zhicheng waved his hand and said, "Success is secondary. The key is that life has changed. Even if we become distant from each other because of this incident, at least she has changed for life instead of passively accepting her current fate. This is actually an attempt and a breakthrough."
Wen Feng sighed and whispered, "Yes, it should change."
Fang Zhicheng certainly knew that all of Wenfeng's troubles stemmed from the cold relationship between her and Song Wendi. Rumor has it that the two had not had children for so many years because they had no sexual life.
Song Wendi holds a special position in Fang Zhicheng. He is not only his mentor in life, but also his teacher in the officialdom. In addition, Wenfeng has always been difficult to get along with in the outside world, but Fang Zhicheng feels the softness in Wenfeng's heart when he gets along with her. She just pretends to be strong out of habit. If the relationship between the couple can be eased, it will be a very happy thing for Fang Zhicheng.
After lunch, Fang Zhicheng said goodbye and left. Wen Feng returned to the office, held her chin and thought for a long time, then took the initiative to call Song Wendi, "Will you come back for dinner tonight?"