“No.” Ou Shaowen enjoyed letting him rub his forehead, which was not even red or swollen at all. “But if you are happy because of me, I will feel very accomplished.”
Ou Renjin patted his head and took his hand back. "I am very happy because of you every day."
"You're trying to coax me again." His tone clearly wasn't what he meant.
Ou Renjin actually laughed this time, "Great! Now you know I was just kidding you."
Seeing how seriously he always took every word he said, I thought Ou Shaowen always believed in every word he said unconditionally.
"It's okay. Qi Yue said that being coaxed by others means that the other person likes you and cares about you very much. I will coax you often in the future." During this period of time, he actually tried to learn how to coax Ou Renjin. It was said on the Internet that coaxing someone means saying things that the other person likes to hear, which Ou Renjin could always do easily, but he couldn't. He didn't know what words Ou Renjin wanted to hear, nor could he be sure if he got real feedback.
Because Ou Renjin likes to laugh, no matter what he says, he always looks good-tempered and smiling. He got angry several times before, all because he did something wrong. As long as he was well-behaved, he would always be gentle and smiling.
Thinking about it this way, I feel that Ou Renjin is truly gifted, and just the words he says can make him very happy.
"Ou Renjin, can I ask you a question?" He lay in front of Ou Renjin, his face full of curiosity.
"ask."
"What words make you happiest every time you hear them?"
"That depends on who I'm talking to." Ou Renjin sat up, pulled Ou Shaowen into his arms, hugged him from behind, and rested his chin on his shoulder with a tired look. "If it's a business partner, he'd be happiest when he hears that the cooperation is pleasant after the deal is finalized. If it's an employee, he'd be happiest when he hears that the company's benefits have increased by many times..."
He did not dislike Ou Shaowen's question for being childish and answered it quite seriously.
"What about me? What do you feel happiest hearing from me?" Ou Shaowen was like a poor student who was about to be missed by the teacher, a little excited.
"You?" Ou Renjin's breathless chuckle sounded in his ear, "I am happy every second I see you. It's not because I hear something I want to hear that makes me happy, but because you are you, so every word you say makes me happy."
Here it comes again.
He always said something that made his eardrums tremble and his whole body numb. It was like he could just throw a spark and his whole body would start to burn and boil, with happy emotions bubbling up one after another until the pool of water boiled dry.
"You're kidding me." His earlobes were slightly red, but his tone was firm.
"I'm not kidding you." Obviously, I am a natural little sugar bean that can make the whole air sweet in a second, but I am completely unaware of it.
Being with him is more fun than watching a play.
But... it could also be that he is too special, so it's like a mysterious and wonderful drama in itself, and you will unconsciously look forward to his every answer and every reaction.
Ou Shaowen wanted to turn around to confirm the expression on Ou Renjin's face, but he was locked tightly by him and couldn't move. Of course, if he wanted to, he could easily break free, but when he was held by Ou Renjin, he was lazy and didn't want to move at all.
"Ask the teacher for leave tomorrow and I'll take you out to play."
"Where are we going to play?" Ou Shaowen hooked one of Ou Renjin's fingers hanging in front of him and shook it gently.
"I'll take you to play things you've never played before." For a kid like Ou Shaowen who likes to play remote control racing cars, actually taking him to the amusement park should be the best decision. However, due to his physical condition, he can't play 80% of the projects with her, so she can only ask him to accompany her to play the "elderly health projects", feed the animals, ride the cable car, and look at the flowers and plants.
"I'm so happy. Not because I'm going out to play, but because you are you. When I'm with you, I'm happy to do anything."
Ou Renjin coughed lightly, loosened his hand, held his shoulder and distanced himself from him, "Don't imitate me. You have to think of your own love words. It's meaningless to say what others have said."
“Can’t I learn?” Ou Shaowen was a little disappointed. Ou Renjin’s overly bland reaction made him even more disappointed. “But I can’t speak it.”
"Silly." Ou Renjin tapped his forehead and stood up. "If you don't know how to say it, then don't say it. Just say what you want to say."
He felt that he had to go back to his room quickly. If he stayed with this little boy for too long, he would be killed by his cuteness.
Ou Renjin went to the study room on the pretext of having something to do. Ou Shaowen lay down in the place where he had just lain, and looked at the ceiling. He felt that he could not give up just like that. He must learn how to coax people.
He suddenly jumped up from the sofa and sent a WeChat message to Qi Yue: Today I asked Ou Renjin what he liked to hear me say the most, and he said that as long as it was me, every word I said would make him happy. So I still don't know what words can make him happy? Who do you think knows the answer to this question better
Two seconds later, Qi Yue sent him a long string of exclamation marks.
Before Ou Shaowen could ask him what he meant, his next sentence came immediately. "Fuck, what did I do wrong? I have to be fed dog food by you in the middle of the night."
"So can you answer this question?"
Qi Yue called him directly, probably because he thought typing was too troublesome to explain clearly. "I really don't know much about the things between two men. According to my experience in coaxing my girlfriend, I must first detect her true thoughts before she expresses them explicitly. This is very difficult. It is basically impossible to do it without a deep foundation. Don't learn it, just learn the most basic operations. For example, care about Mr. Ou more, send him WeChat and call him when you think of him, remember his birthday, anniversary, and various days that are meaningful to him, stand on his side in everything, think for him, support him, and let him feel your abundant love."
“But…” Ou Shaowen was a little confused, “Isn’t this something that can be done? Does this count as coaxing people?”
Ou Shaowen's words seemed to have dealt a devastating blow to Qi Yue. A mouthful of blood choked in his throat, and he was speechless.
"If this isn't enough, then I'm definitely not able to help you with the advanced tutorial. You'd better figure it out on your own." He chuckled twice and hung up the phone without saying a word.
Ou Shaowen held the phone in confusion for a while. With no one to turn to for help, he could only continue to search for guides on the Internet. Netizens wrote long articles one after another, and each of them had perfect theoretical knowledge. However, when Ou Shaowen applied it to Ou Renjin, he felt that these operations seemed to be of no use to him.
Would he really be happy that he let him play games all night
After reading for a long time, I found only one that seems appropriate: praise him as much as possible at all times, admire him, and let him find a sense of existence and satisfaction in you.
So, when Ou Renjin took him out the next day, he started to praise him for various reasons along the way.
"Ou Renjin, your driving posture is so handsome."
"Ou Renjin, how do you know which roads will have traffic jams?"
"You passed so many cars along the way. You drove better than them all!"
"What does that roadside sign mean? How do you know everything? You're really amazing."
It was not until they got on the cable car that Ou Shaowen was instantly attracted by the vast sky and earth and the beautiful scenery. He finally no longer had the heart to continue racking his brains to praise Ou Renjin.
He held onto the guardrail in front of him, his whole body leaning downwards. He felt that the feeling of floating in the air was extremely novel and interesting.
Ou Renjin grabbed his arm, signaling him to be careful, and teased: "What? Is your first attempt at coaxing someone over? Your performance was not bad, I'll give you 60 points."
As soon as he started talking, the scenery all over the mountains instantly lost its appeal. Ou Shaowen turned around and looked at him, surprised: "Really? Are you very happy?"
Ou Renjin looked into his eyes and couldn't help but hold Ou Shaowen's face, and kissed him with closed eyes in the damp and shaking sky.
Of course it was true. He would be happy because of his existence. He could actually feel every cautious step Ou Shaowen took towards him, every sincere and enthusiastic heart. It was because he could feel it that he felt that he could no longer act on his own will.
They maintained a rather long kiss until Ou Renjin heard the sound of a staff member coming over to unlock the buckle not far ahead, and finally let go of Ou Shaowen. His cheeks were already flushed red, and he moved his butt, secretly glanced at Ou Renjin, then looked at the destination that was getting closer and closer in front of him, and with some regret, he controlled his eager mood.
"Is it fun?"
Ou Shaowen nodded actively, "Can we play again?"
Ou Renjin smiled and didn't say good or bad.
Ou Shaowen held his hand and shook it gently, “I want to kiss you again, can we sit again?”
At this moment, Ou Renjin wanted to tell him that every time he expressed his feelings so directly, it seemed to touch his heart. He could be himself to the fullest, and every word he said naturally was much better than his awkward and deliberate praise just now. But this child didn't know if he had reached the rebellious stage, he told him the truth, but he didn't believe it.
"Okay, I'll listen to you today. You can sit here as many times as you want."
"No more kisses? Can I kiss you as many times as I want?"
"Yes," Ou Renjin looked at him and smiled, "As many times as you want."
Ou Shaowen seemed to have received an amazing gift. This morning, he really dragged him on seven cable cars, going up and down. Every time, he would come over and kiss him halfway, with confidence, not caring at all about the cable cars that occasionally slid towards them, nor did he care if there were people sitting on them, staring at them in amazement.
Until he finally had his fill and they got off the cable car and prepared to leave, the staff tried hard to maintain a professional smile, but couldn't help looking them over and over. When they recommended that they take a commemorative photo of them sitting on the cable car, Ou Shaowen was surprised and a little shy.