Yu Tang is different from Second Mrs. Pei.
The Second Mrs. Pei was raised in a deep boudoir since she was a child, and after she left the court, she married into a respectable and well-behaved family. Her husband respected her and her mother-in-law loved her. With little experience, there were naturally few ideas she could think of.
Yu Tang has lived in the market since he was a child, and it is also a merchant's home. The neighbors on the left and right are more concerned about how to get things done, rather than how to obey the rules.
She quietly said to the second wife of the Pei family: "Send someone of your own to contact the servant of the Qin family."
This is how they inquired about Pei's family in the past.
Although you can't ask about big things, you can always ask about small things.
And through these little things, it is precisely how a person's character and ability can be best seen.
Second Mrs. Pei was still a little hesitant, and said: "The maid is ignorant, so it might be counterproductive."
Yu Tang smiled and said: "Just let them inquire about some trivial matters of the Qin family. As for how they are, we have to judge. For example, those servants think that the master is stingy, so we have to ask what is the stinginess? However, if you treat yourself the same way, you can’t be called stingy. Either you live a simple life, or you live too stingy. It’s okay to live a simple life, but if you live too stingy No matter how much dowry Adan has, it’s useless. Her parents-in-law live like this. As a junior, can she go beyond her parents-in-law? No matter how good the son-in-law is, Adan will suffer when he marries. We have to take care of such a family Consider it carefully."
The second wife nodded straight after hearing this, and asked Yu Tang admiringly: "Then how do you distinguish between simplicity and stinginess?"
"It's even simpler." Yu Tang smiled, "Look at how he treats the people around him? Simplicity is a kind of demeanor, but it doesn't mean that you don't eat or drink. If you are stingy, you can't bear a copper coin. You let him buy it. Good food and good wine, that will kill him."
"What you said makes sense." The second wife nodded repeatedly, discussed with Yu Tang for a long time, and asked Yu Tang to help choose the nanny who went to inquire, and asked her who was suitable.
Yu Tang is really not good at being this family.
But Nanny Jin beside the second wife watched Pei Dan's birth and loved Pei Dan as if she was an eyeball. She would definitely not harm Pei Dan.
Yu Tang recommended Nanny Jin.
The second wife readily agreed.
After finding out about it, Jin Momo specially came to thank Yu Tang, thinking that Yu Tang liked her very much and made her look good, so she also did her best in Pei Dan's marriage, and she was not at home for several days . By the time she had inquired about it, the Dragon Boat Festival had already passed.
Yu Tang and the second wife of the Pei family went to watch the dragon boat race together.
They were in a private room of a restaurant, with Xu Xuan and Yin Shi. After they arrived, they found that the left side of their private room was the female family members of the Li family, and the right side were Mrs. Qin and Mrs. Fei. There was also a strange woman who was young but very beautiful, as elegant as a lotus flower.
Yu Tang guessed that this was Miss Qin who was about to marry into the Fei family.
It seems that Mrs. Fei is quite reliable. Knowing that her son likes beautiful women, she found a beautiful daughter-in-law.
She and the second wife took Pei Dan and Pei Hong to greet Mrs. Fei. Mrs. Qin should be very satisfied with Pei Dan, so she dragged Pei Dan to talk for a long time. Pei Dan was a bit shy by nature, but because she didn't know that the Qin family liked her as a daughter-in-law, she answered generously, which made Mrs. Qin like her even more.
On the other hand, Mrs. Fei, for some reason, after the female family members of the Pei family went to greet the female family members of the Li family, she invited the female family members of the Pei family to have lunch all the time. After lunch, she actually found a chance to ask Yu Tang alone: "What do you think Miss Qin looks like? Can you still see it?"
Worried while speaking.
This was the first time Yu Tang saw Ms. Qin, and without saying a word, she vaguely wanted to brush this matter aside. Who knows that Mrs. Fei sighed: "Zhi Wen, I have been worried since I was a child. Among the brothers and sisters, he is the most troublesome, but he is also the most capable. I only hope for his well-being, but he always feels that I Take care of him. Even if he said that he wanted to earn an imperial order for his first wife, didn't I agree? I don't know what he thinks."
Yu Tang had no choice but to say: "The dead are the most important. Lord Fei is a kind and righteous person, you should be happy."
As for whether it was really affectionate and righteous, she didn't have a conclusion, but it was just to comfort the old man.
Mrs. Fei nodded seriously, and said: "I just hope that he can settle down this time and live a good life. He is a big man, and he doesn't even have an heir under his knees. Just thinking about it makes me feel sleepless, and I will go underground later. , met my mother-in-law, how can I explain to her!"
The villain in Yu Tang wiped the sweat from his forehead, and hurriedly said: "As the saying goes, adopting a son is not the fault of the father. Mr. Fei likes to make troubles, so what does it have to do with you? You can relax! He won't want to do it now. Married and had children."
Mrs. Fei looked dazzled, and sighed: "If the daughter-in-law in front of him can talk to me like you, why would I look down on me? You don't know, no matter what I say or ask, she will It was like a mosquito buzzing, and I never heard it clearly."
Yu Tang was not easy to talk to, and said with a smile: "My master said that I was just ignorant, Hu, who knew that I would praise you when I came here. I have to tell him when I go back today, so that I can be proud."
Mrs. Fei laughed out loud when she heard this, she seemed in a good mood, she didn't talk about her former daughter-in-law, but talked about Miss Qin, and said, "I know, it's you who want to marry Zhiwen this time." I won’t say much about Jia Xiaguang’s contribution. I think Miss Qin is also an introverted person. I would like to invite you to visit our house more often in the future if you have something to do. "
Miss Qin's personality is completely unclear to Yu Tang, and she can't just promise Mrs. Fei like this, not to mention what Pei Yan said makes sense, it's impossible for everyone to like her, but life is too short, the most important thing is to let If you are happy, you don't need to associate with people who don't like you.
She didn't answer, but said pleasantly, "Has Mr. Fei's wedding date been fixed?"
Mrs. Fei didn't think much about it, so she didn't continue to talk about Miss Qin. Instead, she felt that Yu Tang was lively, cheerful, and funny, and she liked her very much. On the second day of August this year, marrying a daughter-in-law will make it easier to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival. I just feel a little wronged by Miss Qin, and I'm in a hurry."
"It's a good day." Yu Tang immediately dragged the topic further, "I heard people say that after the Mid-Autumn Festival in the capital, winter storage will begin. I want to buy cabbage and radishes and put them in the cellar. The door, the family is free, just in time to arrange winter affairs."
Mrs. Fei also lived in the capital with her husband for a period of time when she was young, and knew how the capital survived the winter. She smiled and said, "I thought so too, so I set the wedding date before the Mid-Autumn Festival."
Yu Tang took the opportunity to talk to her about how the capital survived the winter. Mrs. Fei probably thought she was too young, so she gave advice to Yu Tang based on her housekeeping experience.
As long as they don't talk about the inner house of the Fei family, Yu Tang is willing to listen.
She breathed a sigh of relief, and had a conversation with Mrs. Fei.
Mrs. Fei's impression of her was even better. When she returned, she said to Mrs. Qin, "I think the Pei family is good. Not to mention anything else, it's good to pick out a daughter-in-law." She also said with emotion, "I I met Mrs. Pei once in the capital when I was young. At that time, I thought she was too strong, and she might suffer in the future. Who knew that I would be the one who suffered. It can be seen that she is stronger than me, better than me in some things. You have vision!"
Mrs. Qin thought of her husband's hesitant expression when he talked about the Pei family's marriage with herself, and she couldn't help but said: "Then what do you think of the fifth young lady of the Pei family?"
"Ms. Yu is the daughter-in-law of the Pei family, right?" Mrs. Fei said, "She is only a few years older than the fifth miss of the Pei family. I will also help to persuade and control, not to mention the Pei family's upbringing, even if it is poor, where can it be bad?"
Mrs. Qin thought it made sense, so she was a little anxious to settle the matter.
After the Dragon Boat Festival, some people sent some new wheat to make cold noodles for the female relatives of the Pei family.
Coincidentally, Nanny Jin also found out what should be inquired here.
Mr. Qin reckoned that he wanted to go further, so whether it was Mrs. Qin or the children, he was very strict in discipline. This kind of strictness was not in the simplicity of life, but in the way of being a person and doing things. Although Mr. Qin is not a first-class smart person in reading However, he is stable and generous, studies hard, and takes good care of his younger siblings at home. Everyone in the Qin family respects this eldest son when they talk about him.
The second wife was delighted when she heard it, and said repeatedly: "This is good! This is good!" After speaking, she was a little worried, and asked Yu Tang, "What do you think?"
Yu Tang also felt good.
The second wife finally settled down, and discussed with Pei Xuan to invite Mrs. Qin to visit her home.
Pei Xuan also has his own way. He found out that the Qin family's family style is very good. He not only agreed, but also suggested to invite all members of the Qin family: "Their family used to be an official in Jiangsu and Zhejiang. We are from Jiangsu and Zhejiang. It's okay to get closer." It's okay." He also asked Pei Yan to spare time, "You can also participate."
It was almost the last sighting.
If the two children didn't see each other right, this matter would be treated as if it didn't happen. If the two children saw each other right, when the Qin family invited someone to propose marriage, the Pei family would not coyly say that they would consider it.
Soon the two families arranged a time for the banquet, and it was a day when the two servants both had a rest.
Yu Tang and the second wife had been preparing for this day for several days. The second wife struggled with what color bowls and chopsticks to use for a long time. Gu Xi went to the public warehouse to borrow molds for making dim sum. The family wants to invite people from the Qin family to visit.
She frowned.
Yu Tang did not tell her in advance.
After she went back, she was a little unhappy, but her nanny advised her: "If you know it, you have to fight, but no one has said yes to it. Isn't it good if you don't go? Don't be angry."
This made Gu Xi feel better.
Yu Tang and the second wife must not forget her, but they never thought of letting her know the real purpose of the treat, so they didn't ask her to help. They didn't tell her until two days before the treat.