After thinking about it for a long time, I still plan to write this postscript.
Thanks to every little cutie who accompanied me through this book, thank you.
one,
First of all, I want to talk about the character of the heroine here. There are many cuties who say that Sissy is always making a fool of herself.
Regarding this, the beholder sees benevolence and the wise sees wisdom.
The Sissy I set up was not the kind of heroine who was so smug, she was a girl who was salty, content with the status quo, and even a little unwilling to make progress, but she clearly knew her goal.
Because she knew her mother's ending, she walked into a strange family without hesitation.
Because she wanted to prevent her best friend from meeting a scumbag, she could work hard to get into Beijing University.
And she clearly wants to be a mother and baby girl in the book. But in fact, she didn't talk about her mother every day, but chose to stand where her mother could always see, and tried her best to protect her mother's happiness.
Of course, in the face of her own happiness, she would not think about doing it, rejecting it first and then being forced to accept it.
For her, her mother's death brought her the most profound lesson, that is, she must speak her mind.
So when facing Jiang Zheng's confession, she was flustered, but she never denied that she didn't like him, but after seeing her heart clearly, she ran towards him without hesitation.
Of course, Yu Qian is usually a nerd. This is a relatively withdrawn personality that she has developed in real life.
And the things she occasionally does stupidly have prototypes.
two,
—Heroine solves doubts—
1. Why didn't Sissy call him brother as Bai Qiming asked at first.
In my opinion, brother and brother Ming feel completely different when they call each other. First of all, they were strangers before that. The title of brother seems too intimate, and Yu Qian subconsciously keeps a distance from the male lead.
Secondly, Bai Qiming said that he can be called brother. This is just a polite word, just like people who don't know usually call him brothers when they are together, but if you take it seriously, then you are really stupid.
2. Qianqian is always soft-hearted towards Jiang Zheng and has no opinion.
So... a girl, only when facing the person she likes can she feel sorry for him and accommodate him. She understands Jiang Zheng's love and is willing to be a naive child with him.
If she didn't like it or didn't want to, Jiang Zheng's actions would definitely be the beginning of a quarrel.
In fact, Yu Qian liked Jiang Zheng being clingy to her, and Jiang Zheng understood this, so she automatically switched to clingy mode in front of Yu Qian.
3. Yu Qian's relationship with Jiang Zheng has changed.
At first, she just liked Jiang Zheng, just liked, but she never considered that she and Jiang Zheng had a future.
It wasn't until the two went on a trip and Jiang Zheng said that she wouldn't have a relationship until she was 20, that her mood began to change.
If Jiang Zheng was a self-care person from the beginning, then after Yu Qian's liking, the two would still part ways.
But Jiang Zheng loves himself and Yu Qian even more. Everything he does will consider Yu Qian first, so Yu Qian loves him more and more.
A girl's love is beautiful and precious. You must learn to think about whether you and this person can have a future. Whether you are simply in love or want to hold hands and have a future together, the two are completely different of.
I hope that while you love your loved ones, you must also protect yourself.
3. About Jiang Zheng;
1. About his love to show off;
First of all, this is influenced by the way his parents get along. He likes to show his happiness.
Secondly... he was for Yu Qian. The sense of security that girls want is actually very simple, that is, you blatantly tell the world that you like me.
Every time Jiang Zheng shows off, he is telling everyone: I love Yu Qian, and Yu Qian loves me too.
2. Jiang Zheng always forces Yu Qian to do some things, such as giving him things, cooking, and knitting scarves.
I:…
This is rather silent.
Didn't everyone notice Jiang Zheng's tenderness hidden in the middle
For example knitting a scarf.
You can see that Jiang Zheng wanted a scarf at first, but he was worried that Yu Qian would not, so he learned how to weave it and gave it to Yu Qian.
When Yu Qian found out, his reaction was not the embarrassment after being found knitting a scarf by a boy, but anger because he couldn't knit a scarf.
In Jiang Zheng's heart, there is nothing that women should do naturally, and men should not do.
About cooking:
Jiang Zheng only asked Yu Qian to bring him meals. If Yu Qian was unwilling, he would regret it, but he would not insist on it. Every time he treated Yu Qian, he acted like a baby and never asked Yu Qian to do it for him what. All Jiang Zheng's proposals were made under the condition that Yu Qian was not disgusted.
Later, it was Yu Qian who felt sorry for him, so she took the initiative to cook for him, and after knowing that Yu Qian could cook, Jiang Zheng didn't ask Yu Qian to cook every day.
Do you still remember the episode
Jiang Zheng has become an all-round dad. He is the one who makes milk powder, changes diapers, feeds the children, and even makes breakfast for the children. In his heart, Yu Qian has suffered a great crime for giving birth to their children. What about other things? He should do it.
In the episode, Jiang Zheng pretended to have amnesia and wanted to eat Yu Qian's food. He was worried that Yu Qian would be too tired, so he specifically mentioned "just cook two dishes at will"...
3. About the ring;
The article mentioned Jiang Zheng's three rings.
When he first fell in love as a teenager, he had already fantasized about the scene where he and Yu Qian would grow old together, so he designed a ring.
But at that time, he was the only one who understood his intentions, Yu Qian knew nothing about it, and Jiang Zheng didn't know if his wishes would be answered, so he divided the ring into three parts.
The first ring, he also said later, was just to express his heart, not to force Yu Qian to accept his heart.
If he hadn't seen the scumbag incident, Jiang Zheng would have waited until Yu Qian turned eighteen and was able to make a completely independent judgment before confessing his love. As a boy, he also has his own pride, and he would not ask for love, nor would he begging for love.
If he didn't know that Yu Qian also liked him, then he would never have told Yu Qian of the existence of the first ring.
The following rings were given out with the deepening of the relationship between the two and the confirmation of the future.
three,
This novel is what I personally think is the most comfortable state in family, marriage, and love.
1. Parents and children are concerned, but they will never be tied together.
In the book, Wang Hui knew that her daughter would oppose her second marriage, but she still bravely pursued her own happiness. After Yu Qian entered the Bai family, she did not carefully play the role of step-daughter and step-sister, but adjusted herself to a comfortable position. state, without making others feel burdened and stressed.
After marriage, Wang Hui did not become a housewife, but still went to and from get off work every day.
—Jiang’s mother—
The mother of the Jiang family likes to travel. Even though there are young children at home, she still plans her own life, but at the same time, she does not neglect to care for her children. She will come back immediately if the children and her husband have something to do.
Jiang Ma is the kite, and Jiang Papa and Jiang Zheng and Jiang Yi are the thread. They are always one, but they are not completely tied together.
In addition, refer to Jiang Zheng, Jiang's father has also used the child as an excuse many times to coax Jiang's mother to go home.
2. Marriage and childbirth;
In a world of two people, one does not have to accommodate the other.
It's that you know me, I know you, if you want anything, just say it, don't always guess, we love each other and hold hands together.
If one person starts to get tired of another person's contribution, or if you have no feeling for your significant other, then I think this marriage will come to an end.
And birth! !
When writing the article, I carried too much private goods.
Especially regarding childbearing, this is my personal opinion. Although I am unmarried and childless, this does not prevent me from clearly knowing that I will have children in the future.
I like children. But this must be based on the wishes of my husband and I, and it will definitely not be born for other reasons.
As mentioned in the article, having Jiang Yu was an accident. Before Jiang Yu, Jiang Zheng still chose to wear a condom even though the parents of the two families urged him. Before the age of thirty, when Yu Qian was not ready to have a child, he would not think about having a child. this matter.
Why is it 30 years old... Because the best childbearing age for a woman is 25-30 years old, if Yu Qian is over 30 years old, she still doesn't plan to have children, Jiang Zheng will also choose to have a sterilization, Jiang Zheng allows Yu Qian to have reproductive freedom.
3. The child belongs to two people.
Although in the book, Yu Qian runs a supermarket and Jiang Zheng manages the company, comparing the two, it is obvious that Yu Qian is relatively free.
But Jiang Zheng didn't use this as an excuse to hand Jiang Yu over to Yu Qian. On the contrary, he led Jiang Yu the most.
Apart from the fact that he loves Yu Qian and is reluctant to make her work hard, there is another important reason. This child is the blood of the two of them. Apart from giving birth to Jiang Zheng, who cannot be replaced, he will try his best to do everything else.
When a father takes care of the child, he is not helping the mother to take care of the child, but doing his own duty. I am particularly disgusted by a husband who says to his wife, "I will help you with housework, and I will help you take care of the children."
3. About the production method.
Although the Yu Qian I wrote in the book had a normal delivery.
But if it were me, I would definitely choose cesarean section. Without him, I couldn't bear the pain of a fully dilated baby, as well as possible lateral incision during delivery, abnormal fetal position, postpartum relaxation and leakage of urine, and various postpartum sequelae.
Judging from my experience in surgery, I can still accept cesarean section.
As for the so-called natural birth is good for the child, and the woman who gave birth quickly recovers, it depends on each person's choice.
Of course, this is one's own choice. Don't listen to the demands of elders or other people. Even if it hurts to death, insist on giving birth normally, and listen to the doctor's advice more.
So much nonsense, thank you for reading.
Finally, I wish all the cuties can find the right ta in the future, have self and freedom in marriage.
Happy New Year, I wish you all the best, little cuties.