A person's life is usually accumulated by countless choices, because it is pervasive and exists all the time.
Whether it is big right and wrong, love or hatred, or trivial matters such as eating and dressing, it is actually a different choice in life.
And as long as a person can make choices, no matter good or bad, right or wrong, he is a warrior who overcomes himself, because living is the greatest success.
So the choice is hard, but it's also easy.
Shangguan Qingmeng threw out two choices, and Yin Hanruo was indeed making a serious choice, but she didn't spend too much time, only about a minute, and she said with certainty: "Qingmeng, the two reasons you mentioned I'm sure. Seems like it's all taken."
Playing tricks
From Shangguan Qingmeng's point of view, Yin Hanruo's answer is actually the most standard and true.
Just like the papers in the examination room, not all multiple-choice questions are multiple-choice questions. In some questions, all the multiple-choice questions are actually wrong.
The same is true in life, because the seven emotions and six desires are never a single existence.
But what if the answer is true and correct
Shangguan Qingmeng can agree, but she can't make Yin Hanruo accept this answer herself, because life is also a single existence only once, and sometimes, the authorities must be confused and make mistakes to the end.
She pondered for a moment, then asked again: "Then tell me honestly, do you still love Lu Tianhao?"
This problem can no longer be described as ruthless, but domineering and sharp. She simply and neatly cut through all the defenses Yin Hanruo had set up, and went straight to his heart.
This time, Yin Hanruo's choice was very difficult, all her struggles and pains were written on her face, until a certain moment, as if numb from the pain, she said confusedly: "I don't know."
Shangguan Qingmeng seemed to know the answer already, and immediately asked: "Then do you love Liu Yanbo?"
"I don't love." Yin Hanruo blurted out without even thinking, but she immediately added: "But I don't hate him, but I always want to be angry with him."
Neither love nor hate, that's the stranger.
So how should Yin Hanruo define this mentality towards Liu Yanbo
Shangguan Qingmeng has already seen Yin Hanruo's mind clearly, what she has to do now is to let Yin Hanruo see her own mind clearly.
"Little girl, let me help you solve your worries." Shangguan Qingmeng said in a relaxed tone as much as possible: "You said that you don't know whether you still love Lu Tianhao or not, but it already shows that you no longer love Lu Tianhao." If you love him again, the reason why you are confused is not that you are unwilling to admit it, but because he has satisfied your fantasy of beauty. Fantasy is not nostalgia, but expectation. You look forward to all the grievances and unwillingness you have suffered in the past. Be the sweetness in the tastes of life, and you also hope that the gaps and cracks left by time will be a landscape that embellishes life, rather than swallowing the abyss of the past. But you have to know that bitterness is bitterness, sweetness is sweetness, and a mixture of sweetness, bitterness and spicyness It's not wonderful to be together, because they have lost themselves."
"Nizi, you can have expectations and fantasies as a human being, because life is indeed more than mere carelessness, but don't let them become the whole of your life, let alone the meaning of your life, okay?"
Shangguan Qingmeng is not a wise man, her rambling remarks are not because she understands, she is just conveying what she has seen.
All love has always been like this. You think it just seems to be messy and without warning, but in fact it is so messy and without warning.
Yin Hanruo turned over and buried his head deep in the quilt, unwilling to speak.
Sometimes, letting people admit that they understand is actually more difficult than letting her choose.
At this moment, Shangguan Qingmeng is like a gentle and caring big sister. She caressed Yin Hanruo's hair and said softly: "Actually, you know very well in your heart that whether you love it or not, you and Lu Tianhao can't go back to the past. It's also impossible to start over again, not to mention whether the Lu family will stop you, but Lu Tianhao himself, no matter whether he came back this time with true love or false feelings for you, he has actually given you the answer as early as four years ago. So Even if you love again, it will only extend the time limit for that answer, and it will be very short, just like the flashback before complete death."
"This is the opposite of expectation and fantasy, reality."
What is reality
Reality is life, it is yesterday, today and tomorrow. In front of it, even time will change. What can a lost love resist
Only by recognizing the reality clearly can there be poems and distant places in life.
Yin Hanruo suddenly raised her head and supported her chin with her hands. Her expression no longer showed the previous struggle, let alone numbness, and she pouted, "Qingmeng, then what do you think Liu Yanbo is to me?"
Shangguan Qingmeng scratched Yin Hanruo's nose, and joked: "Can you be more reserved, your cheap husband is not here now, why are you pretending to be cute?"
"You hate it." Yin Hanruo seemed to be blushing. "I told you, I don't love him."
"It's worth it, I know you don't love him, so you don't have to keep emphasizing it." Shangguan Qingmeng smiled, she knew that Yin Hanruo wasn't insincere, but it was indeed something to be happy about. "Because you don't love him, he is your reality."
"What do you mean?" Yin Hanruo asked stupidly.
Shangguan Qingmeng looked disgusted and said in disbelief: "Do you really not understand, or are you pretending to be confused?"
"I really don't understand." Yin Hanruo shook his head with certainty.
"Your EQ is really in arrears!" Shangguan Qingmeng showed an expression of being defeated by you, and then lightly poked Yin Hanruo's forehead with a finger. "You feel wronged and unwilling to the past today, but you know that people can't go back to the past, so you can't slap Lu Tianhao who came from the past, so you have to take all your anger on Liu Yanbo, because you know, except for him Liu Yanbo, no one has the responsibility to bear your slap and pay for your past, this is your reality."
"Also, in the past there was a sense of distance, but now there is no sense of distance. Without a sense of distance, there is no space. Without space, there is no room for expectations and fantasies. You will find that no one is perfect. And he just happened to be very comfortable today. If you are disappointed, you will feel that what he gives you will never be comparable to what you have lost and never had now, so you think that Liu Yanbo should be beaten, and you really beat him without hesitation , this is also your reality."
Yin Hanruo still didn't understand, and asked: "Then what does this have to do with whether I love him or not?"
"If you love him, are you willing to beat him?" Shangguan Qingmeng asked back: "Isn't this realistic enough?"
"Oh~"
Yin Hanruo nodded with a half understanding.
"You silly girl, telling you these profound knowledge is really a waste of saliva." Shangguan Qingmeng reached out and took out the phone from Yin Hanruo, and threw it on the bed. "Just be direct. If you want a divorce, go find a marriage certificate. If you don't want a divorce, call and get your man back."
Shangguan Qingmeng's words were very strong and confident, because she knew that this time, Yin Hanruo's choice would definitely be in line with what she thought in her heart.
really-
I saw Yin Hanruo slowly picking up the phone, but he didn't make a call for a long time.
"I really can't take it anymore." Shangguan Qingmeng stood up resolutely, and decided to add more fire. "Whether you like to fight or not, I'm going back."
"Qingmeng~" Yin Hanruo dragged his voice, looking extremely aggrieved.
"My eldest lady, my boss Yin, what exactly do you want?" Shangguan Qingmeng was about to go crazy.
"I..." Yin Hanruo hesitated, unable to say what he wanted to say for a long time.
Shangguan Qingmeng understood in seconds, and couldn't help laughing: "Are you afraid that he will still refuse to come back after calling?"
"Hmm~" Yin Hanruo's voice was as low as that of a mosquito.
"Then you go and get him back in person!" Shangguan Qingmeng said loudly: "It's only natural for a wife to find her husband. Besides, your man is so cowardly, you still can't deal with him?"
puff~
Yin Hanruo smiled brightly.
Sometimes, it only takes a few words to open a person's heart knot, and it doesn't need a long wait to get him out of the past. You just need to meet the right person at the right time, and everything will be over with a smile.
Because I just met you, this is the beauty of reality. (to be continued)