Liu Yanbo may have mental problems
After coming out of the doctor's office, this question has been lingering in Yin Hanruo's mind.
She still remembered that this was not the first time Liu Yanbo had such a situation. When he reunited with Bai Bin last time, he also had a similar situation, but it was not as serious as this time.
From all indications, he may indeed have been traumatized by some serious stimulation in the past.
What kind of stimulus would that be
Thinking of this, Yin Hanruo realized that he never took the initiative to get to know Liu Yanbo after he got married. He didn't know what kind of person he was, and he knew very little about his past.
She doesn't know where his hometown is, and doesn't know if he has any family members...
As a wife, that doesn't qualify.
Yin Hanruo thought for a while, took out his mobile phone and dialed Bai Bin's number—
"Hi, the user you dialed is temporarily unavailable, please try again later..."
Yin Hanruo hung up the phone and took a deep breath. She felt that it was necessary for her to meet another person who might know about Liu Yanbo's past.
In the ward, Liu Yanbo was still unconscious, and Huang Ma stayed by the bed. Seeing Yin Hanruo walking in, she quickly asked, "Miss, what did the doctor say?"
"The doctor said that there is nothing wrong with his body, it's just that he has been a little overworked recently, so don't worry too much, Mama Huang." Yin Hanruo comforted.
"That's good, that's good." Huang Ma breathed a sigh of relief. She really liked her uncle and treated him like a son in her heart.
Yin Hanruo went to the bed and picked up Liu Yanbo's mobile phone, found a number in it and wrote it down in her own mobile phone, and then said: "Huang Ma, I'm going out for a while, you watch here, when he wakes up , if I haven't come back, you can call me."
"Okay." Huang Ma nodded, but couldn't help asking: "Miss, it's early in the morning, where are you going?"
where to go
Yin Hanruo looked at Liu Yanbo, and leaned over to help him tie the quilt tighter. Her voice was very soft, but her tone was extremely firm: "I want to help him!"
The so-called husband and wife, don't they want to rely on each other and help each other
Mental illness is different from physical pain. It belongs to the kind of invisible and intangible things, but the pain it causes to people is far incomparable to physical pain.
What's more serious is that compared with physical pain, the frightening thing about mental illness lies in its instability and uncontrollability—
I don't know when it will happen, maybe it can happen anytime, anywhere, maybe it will be triggered by a casual sentence from someone else...
I don't know how serious the consequences will be after the attack, and where the upper limit will be...
Because of this, Yin Hanruo felt that it was necessary for him to find out as soon as possible whether Liu Yanbo had experienced any major incidents that might cause him psychological problems in the past. If there was—
Among the people she knew, Bai Bin was the most likely to know, followed by Han Shuilan who had been to Liu Yanbo's house.
Now, Bai Bin can't get through on the phone, Yin Hanruo can only go to Han Shuilan.
Of course, the most convenient way is to ask Liu Yanbo himself, but she knows that that smelly man will definitely not say—
He is such a bastard, he doesn't want to say anything to others, and keeps everything in his heart.
…
Today's weather is the same as yesterday's, gloomy, and at eight o'clock in the morning, it seems that the sky has not yet fully brightened.
Yin Hanruo and Han Shuilan made an appointment to meet in a tea restaurant. After greeting each other for the first time, the two fell into a brief period of silent embarrassment—
Yin Hanruo couldn't speak because she was a little bit embarrassed. After all, as a wife, she now wanted to inquire about her husband's past from other women, which made her feel somewhat uncomfortable;
Han Shuilan because of yesterday's news, she thought that Liu Yanbo still failed to explain clearly to Yin Hanruo after returning home, so the other party came to Xingshi today to question the teacher.
Both of them looked like they hadn't slept well all night, and Yin Hanruo was exhausted physically and mentally. She ordered a lot of various breakfasts on the table, but she didn't eat a single bite, but kept drinking strong Coffee refreshes the mind.
After drinking another cup of coffee, Yin Hanruo said, "Mr. Han, speaking of which, I'm also your student. I graduated from Haida University."
Does it count
Barely calculate it!
Since the other party was polite, Han Shuilan nodded to express her approval. She knew that it was not the time to discuss the order of the elders and the younger ones, and to respect teachers, so she took the initiative to explain by the way: "Mr. Yin, what the news said is not true, Liu Yan Bo is also my student, and the relationship between me and him is just a normal teacher-student relationship."
"I know this. He has already explained to me that I came to see you, Mr. Han, not for this matter." Yin Hanruo also explained.
"What's that for?" Han Shuilan asked puzzled.
Yin Hanruo refilled another cup of coffee, and after the waiter walked away, she expressed her intention of coming: "Listen to Liu Yanbo, Mr. Han, you have been to his hometown before as a teaching supporter, and you have also visited his home, so I I want to ask you something about his family."
See, isn't it unbelievable that a wife doesn't know her husband's family situation and past
Han Shuilan was very surprised, and said in amazement: "Didn't you get to know each other before you got married?"
"He and I were married in a flash." Yin Hanruo said helplessly: "After we got married, he never took the initiative to tell me about his past, and I never asked about it. In fact, there are all about his situation before he settled in Haishi , I don’t know anything except that his mother has passed away, and I don’t even know where his hometown is.”
Her marriage to him, at the beginning, was just a transaction that had nothing to do with family responsibilities;
At that time, they didn't want to spend more time understanding each other's past, and they didn't need to understand each other—
Such a marriage is irresponsible and sad.
But Han Shuilan's focus was not on this. After listening to Yin Hanruo's words, she shook her hands and said in surprise and anger: "What are you talking about, his mother has passed away?"
"Did he not tell you?" This time, it was Yin Hanruo's turn to be surprised.
"No, this brat lied to me!" Han Shuilan was so angry that she asked him about his mother on purpose yesterday.
However, apart from being angry, Han Shuilan was also blaming herself for being careless. When Liu Yanbo talked about his parents yesterday, his mood obviously became a little bit wrong, but she just remembered it now, so she inevitably started to feel a little worried again, and then asked Said: "Where is he now? Can you let me meet him?"
"He is in the hospital now, and the doctor said that he is likely to suffer from some kind of mental illness, which is why I came to you today." Yin Hanruo asked: "Mr. Han, when you visited his home, Has anyone close to him ever told you that he was ever seriously stimulated as a child?"
Han Shuilan thought for a while, then shook her head and said: "No, I have visited their village many times. His family conditions were not good when he was young, but his family of three lived happily, at least in my opinion, he My relatives and neighbors told me the same way at the time.”
"As for whether he has received any stimulation after I left, I don't know." Han Shuilan said truthfully: "I only worked as a volunteer teacher in their hometown for one semester. When I left, he was only thirteen years old. We haven't been in touch for more than ten years, and we didn't meet again until a week ago in the school cafeteria."
Hearing this, Yin Hanruo fell into deep thought—
In her opinion, Han Shuilan occupies a certain place in Liu Yanbo's heart, not to mention Bai Bin, these two people can be said to be the people he cares about most.
But from various indications, he and them have not been in contact for more than ten years. Why is this
There should only be one possibility—
That is, a very big change happened to him, so he had to be hard-hearted and cut off contact with these two people whom he clearly cared about.
Liu Yanbo, what exactly did you experience during those ten years that we didn't know about? (to be continued)