hehe.
Shen Ning really almost laughed.
She thought about Fu Shaobei's eyelashes, and they were indeed so long and dense that they could kill flies.
"Third sister, your mouth is so eloquent."
It is no exaggeration to describe him as having a lotus tongue, which made her fall into admiration.
Shen Ning felt that she could no longer resist, because every word of Fu Xiaowei's words penetrated her heart.
Fu Xiaowei smiled proudly: "But what I said makes sense, doesn't it?"
Shen Ning had no choice but to nod, she admitted.
"That's it, I'm just saying, you are so smart, you can tell if you are sure. Let me give you another example, for example, if he wants to invite you to dinner, don't refuse, just agree. Isn't it just a meal? Anyway, you are the same Who do you want to eat with? You won’t miss a piece of meat if you eat with him. As long as you follow his wishes, he won’t do anything to you, but if you refuse, the consequences will be unpredictable. , even I, as a sister, can’t guess what kind of behavior he will do.”
Fu Xiaowei saw Shen Ning's face change slightly and hurriedly smiled and said: "Let me use another analogy, if he wants to hold your hand and you want to take it away from him, then don't use brute force. , if you let him pull it openly and then smile at him, then he will naturally let go. But if you forcefully try to pull your hand back, he will let go temporarily, but I guarantee that he will. Next time I hold your hand, I will hold it harder and longer!”
It makes so much sense!
Fu Xiaowei's words seemed to open another window in front of Shen Ning.
She has studied psychology, but she has never studied the psychology of men and women getting along.
From this point of comparison, she is like a kindergartener, while Fu Xiaowei is a postdoctoral fellow.
Shen Ning was amazed in her heart, Fu Xiaowei really understood Fu Shaobei best in the world.
And Fu Xiaowei also understands people's hearts very well, because every word she says touches her.
Shen Ning exhaled and nodded again.
Fu Xiaowei patted her hand and said with a smile: "Xiao Ning, believe me, as long as you do what I said and stop showing resistance to him, then I guarantee that his interest in you will not last long. Because you are not the type he should like at all, and you are not suitable for him. Girls in families like ours who want to marry should be all-rounded... I am not belittling you, but telling a fact ”
She was afraid that Shen Ning would misunderstand, so she quickly explained a few words: "Shaobei is the only boy in our Fu family. Everyone in the family treats him like an eyeball, and my mother... If she wants to marry a girl she doesn't like, It's hard to be her daughter-in-law in our family. And my old man is even more difficult. It's even more difficult to get his approval. Although you are smart, your experience is too simple. Even if you marry Shaobei, you won't be happy, so the best way is to stop him from thinking about you and make him lose interest in you. This is good for everyone as long as you don't force yourself with him and let him go slowly. His attention will be diverted from you, and I will introduce him to other girls. Believe me, his interest in you will not last long. "
Very reasonable.
Shen Ning listened to every word.
"Okay, I believe you." She nodded slowly.
But for some reason, she suddenly felt a sour feeling in her heart.