She remembered very clearly that Qin Zhen's father also committed domestic violence, but it was not serious, and occasionally slapped her mother and pulled her hair or something.
People in that era did not dare to divorce, and they usually endured domestic violence.
So later Qin Zhen met a hidden domestic violence man and wanted a divorce. Her parents always disagreed and said that she chose it by herself. She said that she didn't ask her to marry that man at the beginning. It was her own choice of marriage. , Said that the divorce would not help her take care of the children, because the divorce brought the children back to embarrass the two elders.
The reality is like this. Parents desperately urge you to get married, put all kinds of pressure on you, and finally meet a bad person. They say "you choose the person yourself" and knock the daughter down to the 18th floor of hell.
When Qin Zhen got married, she went back to their hometown with the man.
Xu Yizhang herself was not doing well, and she was unable to cross the city to save Qin Zhen from the fire and water, and she didn't dare to say it herself. As a result, when she saw her for the last time, she had no mental strength at all, her whole expression was dull, very Thin and pale.
Xu Yizhang regretted not stopping Qin Zhen at the beginning, so now, she will definitely stop, this is her best friend, if she doesn't save her, she will really be doomed.
"People have to get married all the time." Qin Zhen's education is like this, she is a relatively traditional girl, she still can't see it in this respect, "Otherwise, no one will take care of you when you get old, and if a person dies In the rental house, there may not even be anyone who finds me."
"Don't be stupid." Xu Yizhang snorted, and said calmly, "The person you are looking for is not right. No one will accompany you to the hospital when you give birth, let alone life and death? Do you think that the person you are looking for will be with you until the end of life? What if they hated each other to death? Then even if you died in the room, he might not have noticed that you were dead, so why bother to get married to embarrass yourself. "
These words seemed to shock Qin Zhen, she opened her mouth wide, "Isn't it?"
"That's right!" Xu Yizhang was extremely confident, "When you get married, in addition to giving birth to that child, you also have to act as a free nanny. Even if you are a working woman in the new society, once you have a child, you are the one who will regress every time. The child is troubled, sick, and everything is a mother's leave. A large company that is operating normally can tolerate a woman who often asks for various leave for the child's affairs? Besides, do you think that being a working woman is better than a full-time mother? Back The family still takes care of the children. Men lie on the sofa and play with their mobile phones when they are tired after a day of work. What about women when they are tired? No, when a woman is not tired, because she is a "mother", this society requires her to earn money to support her family and to Taking care of the family... Besides taking care of the children, she has to do housework, and her parents-in-law are picky about this and that. At work, it is difficult to get a promotion because of frequent leave. If the husband is almost there, it is basically a widowed marriage... "
She finished speaking in one breath, without panting.
Indeed, as a married woman, she is well aware of the disadvantages of marriage. For new-style women, marriage is no longer a necessity, unless the two love each other very much and have the financial ability to support a family.
Speaking of this, I heard Fu Qiran say: "You are here."
Xu Yizhang and Qin Zhen turned their heads, and saw Fu Qiran, Han Shen and a strange man standing in front of them, Fu Qiran was standing at the gate of the company, Han Shen and the strange man were standing behind them, and they didn't know where they were coming from. How long have you been, how long have you listened to the corner.
All eyes were on Xu Yizhang.
She was too excited to speak just now, and she didn't control the volume all of a sudden. Now that she was looking at Qin Zhen's expression, she was so dazed that she didn't know what to say.
Fu Qiran's expression was quite natural.
The expression of the strange man beside Han Shen was okay.
Han Shen, on the other hand, stared at her motionlessly, as if he was thinking about something, and the color of his eyes was a little pale.
Xu Yizhang didn't say anything.
This moment was very embarrassing, but she had a lot of thoughts in her mind, Fu Qiran and Han Shen? How do you know each other
Not long after, Qin Zhen sent the news to Xu Yizhang.
Qin Zhen: [Cousin recently lost a batch of goods by the logistics company, and now the compensation cannot be negotiated, so I need to hire a lawyer to file a lawsuit. The man we don’t know is my cousin’s friend. I recommended it to my cousin, but it turned out to be Han Shen... Damn it! This thing is so explosive.]
Xu Yizhang: […]
What kind of evil fate is this
Can we all get to know each other like this
Qin Zhen: [You two really broke up?]
Xu Yizhang: [It's true.]
Qin Zhen: [Will it be embarrassing to see you now?]
Xu Yizhang: [It's okay.]
Qin Zhen: [What those people in our wechat classmate group said... Have you seen it before?]
Xu Yizhang: [I didn't see it.]
She blocked the wechat group for ten thousand years, who knows what was said in it.
Qin Zhen: […]
After a while, Qin Zhen sent her some WeChat screenshots, which were all previous conversations in the classmate group.
Wan Wenbo: [I saw a senior's program on TV, it's amazing, he can host a law and politics program at such a young age, by the way, isn't he and Yizhang getting married? Is it this month or next month?]
Song Lingling: [They broke up.]
This conversation came more than a month ago, when Han Shen's program was first broadcast.
Song Lingling's words stirred up waves, and all the students rushed out to ask why.
Ai Zhilan: [Why did you break up? ? ?]
Peng Yu: [Yes, don't they have a good relationship?]
These two are Xu Yizhang's previous roommates.
Although this group is called the classmate group, there are only two people in the dormitory, one is Xu Yizhang's previous dormitory, and the other is Han Shen's dormitory, the WeChat name is: [Dormitory Youqing].
Liu Zian: [Don't ask, anyway, they won't get married.]
Wan Wenbo looked confused: [Why did you break up? Obviously the relationship is so good...]
Song Lingling: [Of course it's because someone was afraid that her senior wouldn't be able to give her happiness, so she went out to find their boss ahead of time...]
Ai Zhilan: [What? Who are you talking about?]
Song Lingling: [I'll say whoever is cheating.]
Peng Yu: [You mean... Is she in love with someone else?]
Song Lingling: [Seeing it with my own eyes, unilateral derailment is very exciting.]
Seeing Song Lingling's words, Xu Yizhang frowned. He glanced at the time, more than a month ago, and the next few screenshots were from yesterday.
It is a group of five.
There were six people in their previous dormitory, Song Lingling excluded Xu Yizhang and formed a private group.
Song Lingling: [I just found out recently that it turns out that Xu Yizhang's cheating was fine, and he proposed to divorce the engagement, ouch, she has enough face.]
Peng Yu: [Really? She divorced? Really not finished? Was it caught by the senior for cheating?]
In this group, what they said seemed much more naked. Maybe there were no boys present, so they could speak freely about what was in their hearts.