Since 1985, the country has passed the proposal of Teachers' Day, and September 10th every year is designated as Teachers' Day. :3wしAt this time, Teachers’ Day in our country has been changed several times and has finally been determined. At least this was the same day before Feng Yu was reborn.
The original meaning of Teachers' Day is to respect teachers and value education, because during special periods, teachers were criticized as "stinky old people" and became the targets of class struggles. At that time, many teachers were beaten by students and even squatted on the cow Sheds, spittoons hanging on the chest, etc. were very miserable.
Although after that period, the country advocated respecting teachers and valuing education, teachers were still often beaten, beaten by students, and beaten by parents, which led to many teachers being dissatisfied and protesting.
Only then did the country establish Teachers' Day, and there were several discussions on which day the holiday would be held on, including June 6, August 27, May 1, May 5, and September 20. The 8th, September 10th, etc.
It was finally decided on September 10th. Because school has already started at this time, and it has just started, so it is time to carry out ideological education for students.
The country has also introduced a series of policies, such as improving teachers' remuneration, giving teachers more rewards, increasing the number of outstanding students, and optimizing resources for teachers in housing, medical care, life and other aspects.
Even before Feng Yu was reborn, there were policies such as welfare housing for teachers, and teachers' salaries had been improving.
Originally all this was for the sake of teachers, but as time went by, it slowly changed.
The status of teachers is getting higher and higher. At this time, many parents believe that the only way to get ahead is to study. If you study a lot, you can stop farming and become an official instead of being a hard worker. When you are a leader and sit in an office, you are also a cultural person.
Parents want their children to be taken care of at school. Desperately trying to please the teacher. At this time, there was no talk of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, let alone quality education. It's just merit theory.
What's more, a few years ago, college students were all cadres, and they could become cadres after graduation!
Therefore, parents have more and more respect for teachers, which has evolved into flattering, responding to teachers' requests, and hoping that their children will receive special care in school.
For example, if a child has a problem, he or she can ask the teacher alone. For example, pay more attention to the child during class. To prevent children from slipping away, such as preventing children from being bullied at school.
After all, many parents at this time are working dual jobs and have no time to take care of their children. If a child is bullied, they don't have time to go to the other parent.
What to do? I can only ask the teacher to take more care of me. Teachers have so many children in charge, why should they take care of your children
Give a gift!
As the old saying goes, don't be surprised if there are many people with courtesy. Besides, in ancient times, there were apprenticeship ceremonies and teacher-appreciation banquets, and we also follow the tradition.
As a result, teachers not only received special care from the government, but also received special care from parents. this stage. It was also the stage when children received the most corporal punishment until a few years later, when the State Council held a work conference. Because the Minister of Education criticized the Minister of Education at this time, it became the code of conduct for teachers not to punish students corporally, but in fact, it was not implemented well.
Until after the millennium, people's living standards have gotten better and better, and many people have seen that they can make money and live a good life without reading too many books. They no longer tell teachers: "You should take care of your children, and you can beat them if they are not honest."
Instead, it was changed to: "Please take care of your child. If there is any problem, you call me. I will take care of him. Please take care of my child at school and don't let him be bullied. I will not forget you." Well done, this is a small gift, it’s not a sign of respect, so I hope you’ll accept it.”
There are even a group of parents who dote on their children, mainly grandparents. If the teacher dares to hit their grandson, they will fight the teacher to death, and we ourselves are reluctant to do so!
The first things I gave to teachers were pens, greeting cards and the like, which were not very valuable but were a token of my gratitude. That was nothing, but later I don’t know who started it first and gave the teacher eggs, meat, food stamps, cloth stamps and the like.
Later, some people gave expensive things, such as bicycles, or even large items such as home appliances, in exchange for the teacher's special care for his children.
Then many teachers' appetites are spoiled. If you give them pens, they won't like them at all. They say they don’t want it, but actually they don’t want the pen. If you try giving something valuable, you will rarely push it back.
Although there are many good teachers here, even if they don’t charge money, they will still be very responsible and treat every student fairly, but I have to say that since many people regard teaching as a job, the quality of teachers varies. In addition, teachers compete with each other, so this kind of gift-taking has become a common practice.
Someone has said that the teacher may not remember which parent gave a gift, but he will definitely remember which parent did not give a gift. Giving gifts If you want teachers to remember them, give them big gifts.
At this time, not only the teachers thought it was normal, but the parents also thought it was normal. No one thought it was inappropriate to give gifts to teachers.
But what to give them, this makes them think hard. Why don't you give me a bicycle? I already have a bicycle, so what's the use of having another one? It's probably too expensive to give as a gift. I can't afford it. Give me the cheap one, I'm afraid I won't be able to sell it. Send some wine, what should the female teacher do if she doesn’t drink
Giving money is the most direct way, but there is also a problem. Giving money is not as much as giving items. One thousand yuan, based on the current maximum face value of RMB 100, is only ten pieces. At this age, the envelope cannot even bulge.
But if you buy a gift worth a thousand yuan, it looks very big. Besides, many parents can't afford to give away things worth a thousand yuan. They are willing to spend at most one month's salary to give gifts, which is only a few hundred yuan.
But giving a few pieces of money as a gift is indeed a lot, but it doesn't look good. And many teachers don’t dare to collect money directly. They are also worried that other parents give too much and they give too little, so even if they give gifts, their children will not be taken care of.
Therefore, many parents say that Teacher's Day is simply a disaster for them. This is the same as the Spring Festival that was jokingly called the Spring Tribulation some years ago.
The main reason is that they don't know how to give gifts, how much to give, and what to give, which makes them take great pains.
And now, shopping cards perfectly solve this problem!
Giving the teacher a shopping card is like giving a share of the money when you get married at the same time. We can discuss it. This is different from giving a gift. You can’t give me a silk scarf here, but you should also give me the same scarf, right
The shopping card is given to the teacher, and the teacher can buy whatever he likes. It's not cash yet. There won't be any teachers who clearly want it but are embarrassed to take it. Moreover, a card is easy to slip into the teacher’s pocket and into the other person’s hand when shaking hands.
This is due to national conditions, and at least in the short term, there will be no change.
The new semester has begun, and many students are looking forward to it, as are many teachers... (To be continued.)
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