"Oh? I haven't thought about these problems. Tell me about it?" Yan Jinkuan felt a little cold.
Although I can't say love, but he still likes this woman.
After such a period of friendship, he actually felt that the feeling of being with her was not bad. So I think it must be good to keep it going.
It doesn't matter if she gets married or not, he can get married if she wants to.
However, from Lilian's point of view, there really is not much nostalgia for him, at best he is a friend!
Lilian didn't know what he was thinking, and began to say: "First, let's talk about what you have to face."
She began to count them one by one: "When you marry a wife, you must first treat the woman well, share half of her wealth and half of her living environment. If you can't do it, you will be an unqualified husband. No matter what you decide in the future, you need to treat the woman well. Discuss with this woman, or you will disrespect your wife."
"Secondly, your future wife’s family may have three relatives and four relatives, who often have contacts. You need to accompany her to face these relatives and friends, and there are even some... she may be disgusted by herself but has to deal with people, you must also Endure these weird things."
"Furthermore, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, you are lucky. But most of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be good. You have to be a sandwich biscuits..."
Lilian continued: "Think about it, you work hard, marrying a wife has to support her, and even a little too much, you have to support her whole family. If your wife is a helper, there is a bottomless maiden, you don’t Know where to cry!"
Yan Jinkuan listened to her rational analysis one after another, and couldn't help being dumbfounded: "Listening to you, how do I feel that getting married makes a man so bad?"
However, she has basically talked about the situation of ordinary men after marriage.
It's terrible. It's enough for a man to analyze this kind of thing, but a woman to analyze it
Lilian nodded: "Well, it is indeed a disadvantage."
"But I have a question! Do you think that Uncle Mo has no such trouble? He only hates Bai Qingyu, who is less than twenty years old and less than the legal marriage age, and wants to step into the grave of love every minute. What kind of psychology?" Yan Jinkuan asked again.
Lilian chuckled and said, "That's love that has dazzled the head! However, Shao Mo is not an ordinary man, and Qing Yu is not comparable to an ordinary woman. At least in the situations I just mentioned, most of them are Don't worry about it."
"That's right. Uncle Mo doesn't mind the division of property. I wish he could give Bai Qingyu his whole person." Yan Jinkuan felt that this kind of love...
In fact, I am still a little envious!
After all, even if he wants to give everything he has to the other party, he has no object!
"Marrying because of love is for the satisfaction of the soul." Lilian continued to analyze: "The soul is satisfied, and the patience of other details of life is naturally high. But-people who do not have love as the foundation, Just to get married, what do you think?"
"You are right!" Yan Jinkuan nodded in agreement, and the second dish was also cooked.
He asked again: "You just said that men suffer from marriage, what about women?"
Seeing that he was quite interested, Lilian didn't seem impatient at all, so she went on to say, "Women suffer too!"
"First, she can support herself—oh, except for women who just want to survive on men."
"A woman who can be financially independent is not a necessity for a man. In terms of sex... you can make appointments, you can... play with sex toys by yourself, whether you have a man or not!"
"Secondly, marrying a man is equivalent to marrying a family! She has to bear the judgment and even pickyness of her in-laws, and she may face a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or aunt-in-law relationship. My natal family is a guest!"
Hearing this, Yan Jinkuan sneered.
Seeing Lilian's look sad, he quickly said: "Sorry, you continue."
"Is it so funny?" Lilian asked lightly.
What she said was the most sensible analysis!
Yan Jinkuan laughed and said, "It's not that you said it funny, but from your standpoint, it feels a bit... Well, a sense of violation!"
Seriously talking about the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
She is an unmarried man!
Lilian shrugged, and then continued: "Third, once a woman gets married, she loses half of her freedom, and she has to share her life with her husband. After she has a child, she will lose all her freedom. The heart is spinning on the child. This will cause two situations—"
"The first one is that her career will be frustrated because of having children; the second one is that the relationship between husband and wife may also cause various conflicts because of the child; and the third is that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may become worse because of the existence of children!
"So you don't want to get married, you think so much!" Yan Jinkuan said with emotion.
The vegetables were already fried, he opened the casserole and held the soup bowl to serve the soup.
Lilian shrugged, walked in to wash her hands and serve dishes, and replied: "I didn't want to get married because I thought of paying so much cost, but felt that getting married would break the rhythm of my current life. I don't want to treat myself to any man. My life is messed up!"
Yan Jinkuan: "..."
In fact, to put it bluntly, the main reason for this is her experience.
After experiencing such a man, she lost everything with her heart and soul!
Love, career, assets, people and wealth are empty!
If he wants to get married, he must open the knot in her heart!
For the Ye family, the beginning of the new year was very uneventful.
With such a miserable beginning at the beginning of the new year, Ye Chengsheng can be said to be sad.
He had to send Ye Bingqing abroad to avoid the limelight. As for Lin Wanrong—
At this moment, there is no choice to make, besides, even if you wear a green hat, you can't get a divorce!
His Ye family can't afford to lose that face!
After the confrontation with the Mo School suffered such a big loss, Ye Chengsheng would naturally not let it go.
First of all, Ye Chengsheng asked people to find fault with the government projects undertaken by the Mohist school.
Forget those that are so small that they can be ignored, he is focusing on the giants.
Several major projects in the Imperial Capital were temporarily stopped by temporary inspections!
For such a large group, a day's suspension of a project is a huge loss, let alone seven or eight giant projects
That's not even counted. An accident happened on a private project of the Imperial Capital. The frame under construction collapsed, killing three construction workers!
Upon receiving this news, Mo Beiyan immediately flew to the imperial capital to resolve the matter.
At this time, I don’t care about being too sticky with Song Qingyu. At this time, Song Qingyu needs to go to the show in Haicheng!
This show went with Jin Yuwei and Xu Fangnan.
"Qing Yu, I heard that many of its projects have had serious problems. Is the Ye Family dealing with the Mo Family?" Jin Yuwei also listened to Lan Jinglong's words, otherwise she would never know these things.
"It's okay, the Mo Family has been standing for so long, this matter can be solved." Song Qingyu's face was indifferent, and she didn't want to bring her worries to Jin Yuwei, after all, the little girl's disposition was not as strong as hers.
In particular, the confrontation between the Mo Family and the Ye Family is like two giant beasts. Once the fight is overwhelming, ordinary people cannot imagine it!