Run fast, have a home at the age of 25, and hear applause all around you.
If you walk slowly, you will have accomplished nothing at the age of thirty-five, and all you will hear is gossip.
In two years, Yang Ruyi will be thirty years old.
When she was dating her ex-boyfriend, she thought it was the last love in her life.
For the rest of my life, I will be that person.
The result is not. A person's life is like taking a shit. Sometimes you have tried very hard, but all that comes out is a fart.
Now that she is single and free, Yang Ruyi feels increasingly insecure.
It was not until last night, on the phone, that she told her parents that she had broken up with her ex-boyfriend.
I don't want to hide it anymore.
Before that, the two lived together and were at the stage of discussing marriage.
At least that's the case with Yang Ruyi.
Some couples live together, but their relationship has not reached the stage of marriage.
It is not uncommon for couples to break up after living together for a while or a few years.
Living together is just to save money and for physiological needs.
After breaking up with her ex-boyfriend, her family didn't know about it. Yang Ruyi contacted her parents, and the topics they talked about mostly were buying a house and getting married.
Where to buy it? How big should I buy? I am not young anymore. Let’s have a New Year’s banquet. If I don’t have a child now, even having one will be dangerous, let alone a second one…
Before breaking up with her ex-boyfriend, Yang Ruyi felt sweet every time she talked about this topic with her parents.
But after the breakup, she was unwilling to talk about this with her parents anymore.
But her parents didn't know and kept urging her and talking to her about getting married, buying a house and having children.
The topic came up again last night. Yang Ruyi couldn't continue the conversation, so she confronted her parents.
After the showdown, there was no sound on the other end of the phone for a long time.
About half a minute later, the parents' voices sounded again.
The two elders seemed to be very open-minded about it and told their daughter that it was okay to split up and that it was okay and they could just find another one.
Yang Ruyi felt relieved and was very grateful for her parents' understanding.
Some people's parents are not very qualified.
For example, like what happened last night, knowing that their children are so old and still break up easily in a relationship, they will be very annoyed and accuse their children of being ignorant.
Yang Ruyi was glad that her parents were not that mean. Although they were eager for their daughter to get married and have children as soon as possible, they were also very considerate of her.
While feeling relieved, Yang Ruyi also felt guilty.
However, the reason she dared to confront her parents mostly came from Yang Fan.
The show "Guess What" became a big hit and received rave reviews.
Yang Fan privately told Yang Ruyi that if they waited a little longer, the satellite TV station would surely come and snatch the program in less than two episodes.
There is no need to worry this time, he will go with the program and officially join the satellite channel, and his work badge, connections, etc. will be transferred over.
From then on, he was an employee of the satellite channel.
When one person succeeds, the whole family will benefit.
Yang Fan cannot be considered to be very successful, but it would not be a problem for him to take a few core members of the program team and a few confidants with him.
This means that from now on, Yang Ruyi will also be a member of the satellite TV channel.
On the national stage, even behind the scenes, the performance-based bonuses and salary benefits are incomparable to those on local TV stations.
Later, due to the good ratings and large number of on-demand programs, the advertising sponsorship dividends of "Guess What" were much higher than those of "Lucky 52" on the local stage.
To take a step back, after joining the satellite TV channel, even if Yang Ruyi is no longer in the "I Guess" program team, she will only go to other program teams of the satellite TV channel.
The programs of satellite channels are broadcast nationwide, and the annual salary of the program staff is more or less higher than that of local channels.
Even though her job doesn't pay much, Yang Ruyi isn't worried about not being able to get married.
It's just that the salary of this job makes her more confident.
Women are realistic, and men are also realistic.
Men who are incompetent will eventually retreat and marry women who are average or even poor in all aspects.
So now many unmarried young men in the village will marry divorced women with children.
Yang Ruyi is still upset about her ex-boyfriend calling her second-hand goods, but reason tells her that she is not that outstanding, but at least she can beat more than 70% of young women in the country.
A woman like this will never have trouble finding a husband.
She just waited with the hope of marrying for love.
Thanks to the smooth sailing at work, Yang Ruyi has almost gotten over the shadow of her broken heart.
Every one or two days, she gets up early to run.
Moderate exercise is beneficial to your physical and mental health.
Excessive exercise is worse than no exercise.
Yang Ruyi used to run every day to exercise, but after a few days, she found that it was not suitable for her and she was very tired.
For her, it was too much exercise.
Later, she exercised every one or two days and found that the effect was very good, so she persisted in doing so.
Today is the first day of the long holiday. Instead of sleeping in, she got up early to run.
After running around the park for about four kilometers, she stopped, strolled for one kilometer, then sat down on a bench and took out her cell phone from her trouser leg bag.
While running, Yang Ruyi did not listen to music. She wanted to listen to her soul, feel her body, and live in reality.
Now, she couldn't help but browse the Internet on her mobile phone again.
She saw a news report online about a young firefighter who fell from a building and died while trying to save a woman who was attempting suicide. When he fell to the ground, the firefighter was still holding the woman tightly.
While feeling sad for the firefighters, netizens also criticized the behavior of the woman who attempted suicide.
Before jumping off the building, the woman lingered on the roof for several hours, waiting until the firefighters arrived to rescue her.
One netizen is the wife of a firefighter. She was very emotional and said that her husband is a firefighter. Don’t think that firefighters just put out fires. That’s wrong. They also have to catch snakes, destroy hornets’ nests, open locks and so on.
However, the most dangerous ones are those who put out fires and rescue people from committing suicide.
She said indignantly that some people who committed suicide did not deserve to die, and asked those who wanted to commit suicide to just jump when they thought about it, and not give people the chance to call the police or the firefighters the chance to come to rescue them.
Firefighters are also human beings. They have parents, wives and children. It is not worth it for them to lose their lives because of the stupidity of these suicidal people.
After reading the news, Yang Ruyi went to check her Moments.
After his own breakup, Li Weimin probably came out of the shadow and posted a circle of friends:
How much does dating cost
1. Two cups of milk tea 30
2. Take a taxi for 60 RMB round trip
3. Street food 50
4. Dinner 200
5. Watch Movies 70
6. Hotel 200
Regular date 30+60+50+200+70+200=610
When Yang Ruyi saw this post on WeChat Moments, she didn't think it had any significance until she saw the comment left by Yang Fan. After reading it for more than ten seconds, she almost laughed to death.
"610 is not scary, what is scary is 410."
Scrolling back to the Moments, Yang Ruyi saw another post from Li Weimin: "I can't understand why I still lack confidence after buying two houses and a car and saving over a million yuan."
After becoming a small leader, I learned to brag.
Yang Ruyi wanted to say something to Li Weimin, but before she could comment, she saw the comment Yang Fan left for Li Weimin last night: "You are not unconfident, you don't even believe in yourself."