In addition to thinking about what to eat tonight, Yang Fan also thought about where to sleep and who to sleep with.
But after just thinking about it for a moment, he stopped wanting to think about it.
He must be sleeping alone.
On the plane in the morning, while Liu Qianqian was playing with Guoguo, he and Shisan experienced the feeling of flying in the room.
The time was a bit tight, but the quality was very good, comparable to what we had in the back mountain of my hometown.
In this case, Thirteen probably won’t be too concerned about Yang Fan tonight.
Yang Fan himself also felt that it was okay. Now he could not be as greedy as he was in the beginning and he could not make any progress every night.
Men should still focus on their careers.
Then just spend more time with your children.
Looking back at Guoguo who was excitedly peeking out from the guardrail, Yang Fan felt relieved.
Someone did an experiment on rhesus monkeys, in which a newborn baby monkey was placed in an isolated cage and raised with two fake monkeys instead of the real mother monkey.
The two surrogate monkeys were made of wire and velvet respectively.
The wire mother monkey has an eraser head placed on her chest to provide milk, while the velvet mother monkey is soft and warm.
At first, the baby monkeys mostly surrounded the "wire mother monkey", but after a few days, something surprising happened: the baby monkeys only went to the "wire mother monkey" to drink a few sips of milk when they were hungry, and most of the time they stayed with the "velvet mother monkey".
When the baby monkey is frightened by an unfamiliar object, such as a large wooden spider, it will run to the "velvet mother monkey" and hug it tightly, as if the "velvet mother monkey" can give the baby monkey more sense of security.
People observed some problems from this "surrogate mother raising experiment": the monkeys raised by the "cloth mother monkey" could not play with other monkeys and had extremely withdrawn personalities.
Next, the experimenters improved the experiment by making a rocking "velvet mother monkey" for the baby monkey and ensuring that it would have an hour and a half every day to play with the baby monkey.
Improved experiments showed that this method of feeding large monkeys was basically normal.
Experimental research results have shown that there are three variables in love: touch, exercise, and play.
If these three variables could be provided, that would be all that a primate needs.
Parents' upbringing of their children should not just stop at the level of feeding them. In order for children to grow up healthily, they must provide them with positive stimulation of multiple sensory channels such as touch, vision, hearing, etc., so that children can feel the presence of their parents and get a sense of security from them.
"Clingy" babies may be annoying at times, but this just shows that they have a positive emotion: attachment to their loved ones.
Establishing a secure attachment for children is the basis for ensuring their mental health development.
The warm and intimate connection between children and their attachment figures not only provides children with physical satisfaction, but also allows them to experience pleasant emotions.
Try to avoid long-term separation between parents and children. The "separation anxiety" caused by long-term separation has an obvious negative impact on the normal psychological development of children.
Spend more time with your children and make them feel safe, so that they can gradually develop good personality traits such as strength and self-confidence, and become people who are friendly to others, willing to explore, and capable of handling things.
Thinking about going out for a trip, Yang Fan had to have dinner and play with his leader first. He took out a pen and a notebook from his bag.
Finish the work early and take the children on a free trip early.
So, a few minutes later, Yang Fan handed the notebook to Boss Yao.
After completing today's tasks, Yang Fan told his leader that he would take the children for a walk and then left.
Going downstairs, Guoguo saw a bird cage hanging on a tree in the yard and ran over.
There were not many visitors, and no one went to admire the starlings in the cage.
Guoguo stood under the bird cage, looked up and said, "I can sing."
The next moment, the starling in the cage followed suit and said, "I can sing."
Guoguo was very happy and said, "I can dance."
The starling said in a serious manner: "I can dance."
Guoguo tilted his head and said, "I can fly."
Myna: "I... you farted!"
Guoguo looked at the starling and said, "I can stew the starling."
The starling quickly said, "You can fly, you can fly."
Yanjing.
A group of big bosses, including Mrs. Wen, would have a group dinner after a busy day's work.
At this age and in this position, they have always understood one thing.
The final destination of every human being is death, so what is the meaning of human existence
A hundred years later, there will be no you and no me.
You may struggle all your life, but you cannot take away even a blade of grass or a tree.
Be persistent throughout your life, but you will not take away any vanity or admiration.
Life is so short and everything is fleeting. There is no time to quarrel, be sad, or quibble.
There is only time to love, to enjoy, to accept.
Life is but a hundred years long. It comes and goes in a hurry. After a hundred years, it will disappear into thin air. No one will remember who you are. In fact, people are so small and insignificant.
Ordinary people will be completely forgotten 50 years after their death, as if they had never been to this world.
If we zoom out a little bit more, after a hundred years, everything will return to dust and earth. Except for celebrities, it will be as if they had never been here, and even relatives will not remember it.
"Sister, is your grandson-in-law in Hanyang now?" a boss asked Mrs. Wen at the dinner table.
The others also turned their attention back and looked at Old Lady Wen.
"It's morning." Mrs. Wen smiled, but she felt a little bitter in her heart.
It was Xiao Yao who reported the news to her, and her granddaughter did not give her any information.
"During lunch, Xiao Yao also reported to me that he had arrived." The other old man also smiled. Xiao Yao was his man, and they were of the same lineage.
"They have been browsing for half a day, have they found any words?" asked an old man who had dyed his white hair black.
The old man was about to answer, but before he could say anything, his cell phone rang.
After answering the phone, the old man looked strange after a few words.
After a few words, the phone call ended and the old man smiled and said, "I have the words. Xiao Yao will send them to me later."
"quick!"
"Waiter, projector."
Several old men and women hurriedly urged.
Someone noticed the old man's expression just now and asked curiously: "Old Song, your expression just now was not right."
Old Man Song did not hide anything and explained, "Xiao Yao was in a bad mood just now. Did she seem to have just cried?"
Why are you crying
Everyone was puzzled, but no one asked any more questions.
Soon, Lao Song received a message from Boss Yao.
It's a picture.
"The words are here!" Old Song said to everyone as he looked at them.
"projection!"
"Let's take a look together!"
Everyone was a little impatient.
There was no way Old Song would be the first to project it, so naturally he wanted to take a quick look first.
But the more he looked, the more silent he became, and he didn't say anything for a long time.
"Yellow Crane Tower
The ancients have gone away on the yellow crane, leaving only the Yellow Crane Tower here.
The yellow crane has gone away and will never return, and the white clouds float in the sky for thousands of years.
The clear river reveals the trees of Hanyang, and the fragrant grass covers the Parrot Island.
Where is my hometown at dusk? The misty river makes me sad. "