"How does it feel? Adam."
The two of them met up in the morning to have morning tea, Brother Xu asked with a smile.
"superb!"
Brother Gou gave a thumbs up and complimented him sincerely, then his expression turned pale.
"But I don't like him."
Brother Xu smiled and gave a thumbs up: "That's right, accept the correct parts of his theory, but don't become like him.
I knew before I brought you here that you wouldn't be affected too much.
Like Adam, you are both truly strong and determined. "
Young Master Wang felt that he could no longer agree.
"It's really eye-opening... The useless knowledge about human nature and psychology has increased significantly."
"Hahaha! Useless knowledge... What a great image!"
Brother Xu laughed so hard that he hit the table.
Wang Yan suddenly looked into his eyes with deep eyes.
"But the girls there should all be voluntary, right?"
Brother Xu nodded seriously and explained seriously: "Of course, the club only accepts voluntary enthusiasts, and the review process is very strict.
Like Chen Muyan, she actually came here to ask for help, and everything after that was voluntary.
Otherwise, do you think Adam would date a girl from that kind of family
Gouzi, the world is diverse. Some people with strange hobbies are not recognized by the public, but they still need recognition, so they stay together and entertain themselves.
But there is one thing: we will not do anything criminal, there is no need.
As Professor Adam said, conquest is not evil.
You and I both have the ability to do evil, but have you ever used it actively
Those strange knowledge are no different from our power and wealth, they are just tools.
Also, didn’t you notice
There are no fees in the building, the club is purely a non-profit, and my membership was not purchased.
No one, including Adam, is seeking profit from this, it's just a weird gathering place. "
Wang Yan was relieved.
Li Yixu is really a good big brother, and Wang Yan doesn't want to lose him.
The reason why I stayed silent in the building and even accepted Brother Xu's kindness was because I wanted to experience it.
However, experiencing it does not mean integrating.
If this group of people went too far, Wang Yan would have no choice but to part ways with him.
Fortunately, that's not the case yet.
Brother Xu is just kind-hearted and wants to show him another side of society.
Li Yixu didn't know what he thought of, and suddenly laughed.
"Although you are awesome, Gouzi, you are too young and have seen too little. You can't even imagine how many weird things there are in our group."
"I'm too lazy to think about it."
Gouzi lowered his head to drink the porridge and gave the final conclusion casually: "It's none of my business?"
That's his attitude.
Although everyone is a wealthy and idle person with no lofty goals and can be divided into a group, Wang Yan has no intention of accepting them or being accepted by them.
So be it.
…
After having fun that day, Brother Gou continued to do whatever he was supposed to do, and the pace of his life did not change.
Reading, checking papers, being invited out for dinner by friends, occasionally going to the track, and playing with newbies not far or near.
Everything that day seemed like a dream.
However, after all, some changes are really happening.
In fact, Professor Adam did not teach Wang Yan any substantial skills, he just revealed a possibility to him.
Or it can be called a more comprehensive way of thinking.
Before that, Wang Yan looked at the world with a gentle eye, looked at emotions with a naive eye, and looked at human nature with respect.
Actually this is not right.
It’s not that it’s wrong to treat the world with kindness, but you must first know that there is good and evil in the world, and then choose to treat it with kindness.
The difference is that one is passive and the other is active.
Professor Adam was just the opposite, his eyes were extremely cold.
It's understandable because of different experiences.
But Wang Yan doesn't like that kind of cold perspective. He is absolutely rational at all times, always watching the weaknesses of others, and deeply analyzing the most naked darkness in the depths of human nature.
Life is too tiring.
Indeed, Professor Adam's theory has many insights.
But those things are so extreme.
Therefore, it can only be used to broaden your horizons, and it must not be copied.
After reaching this level, Wang Yan will definitely come into contact with more dark sides in the future.
The secret wars between countries, the filth in the industry, the madness and ugliness in human nature...
Wang Yan is already a big flag, so we must no longer look at problems with the thinking of a child.
Only by deeply understanding the nature of the world, the laws of society, and the complexity of human nature can we have enough strength to protect ourselves and the people we love.
Kindness that doesn’t understand anything is like a white lotus, fragile and vulnerable.
After seeing the extreme evil of human nature, you still choose to be kind, which is the real strength.
Well done in this lesson.
As for how to face Liu Li, He Miaomiao and the others...
In fact, the core idea is to focus on the weaknesses of the girls and repeatedly pull on them.
Chasing girls normally: Show yourself like a peacock, care for the other person by asking her, eat and play with her to build a relationship.
Strengthened routines: Accurately demonstrate your strengths, accurately protect the opponent's weaknesses, cultivate feelings and strengthen needs at the same time.
What's the difference
In fact, there is no essential difference, except that one is a low EQ gameplay and the other is a high EQ gameplay.
We have to admit that understanding human nature will indeed be helpful in all interactions.
Flirting with girls is essentially communication between two people.
However, what Brother Gou is thinking about repeatedly now is not the so-called communication skills, but the following questions:
What do they want
Can I give it
If not all can be satisfied, who should be satisfied first
Do they have an accurate answer to this
Is there room for compromise
…
In deep thinking, some things gradually became clear.
First of all, Liu Li must never give up. Today, she is more than just an anchor, she has become a part of her spiritual world.
Giving up on her would be tantamount to denying the growth that he had made along the way.
And what she wants is very simple: most of the feelings, sincere love.
Yes, to this day, she no longer wants everything.
Wang Yan was keenly aware of certain changes. The acquiescence was very obscure. She had never admitted it, but it did exist.
So in fact, Xiao Liuli allowed herself to wander outside, and her tolerance was not high, but she was definitely not the kind of mysophobic who wouldn't rub sand in her eyes and wouldn't accept any flaws.
And this means that there is still room for compromise between both sides.
Since both sides had to compromise, Wang Yan would of course give in.
His concession is most likely a new one.
Because there is a high probability that Brother Gou won’t be able to give Chu Xin what he wants.
Miss Chuxin has the strongest admiration and is the easiest to be conquered by Wang Yan, but at the same time, her request is also the firmest - to stay with Wang Yan and share the glory.
I want to stand beside you openly, my glory is you, my reliance is you, and everything about me is you.
If she is the royal palace, then there is no doubt that her tolerance level is the highest.
As long as the person standing by your side is me, nothing else matters.
I can turn a blind eye to any mistress, mistress, mistress, mistress, mistress or mistress.
How can a man not spend money
Sister, I have seen too much.
…
Yet here lies the contradiction.
Wang Yan could not give her the position of the main palace, so her core requirements could not be met, and everything else might cease to exist.
Moreover, her family is engaged in private equity, and Wang Yan has no intention of touching the domestic financial industry in his life, so there is naturally a lack of common interests.
Without a foundation of interests and no formal marriage, how ridiculous would it be to talk about relationships
Therefore, once the situation reaches a critical moment, Wang Yan is likely to give up on Chu Xin.
I feel sad and reluctant to give up, but there is nothing I can do.
This fundamental conflict is basically unsolvable.
The only solution is actually Professor Adam's theory: complete obedience is forcibly adjusted by physiological nature.
But Wang Yan wouldn't do that, it would be too boring.
That kind of thing, if the other party is willing, it's called fun; if the other party is unwilling, it's evil.
So Wang Yan didn't ask Adam to teach any specific skills at all. He didn't learn, didn't want to, and didn't gamble with his own self-control.
…
Next is He Miaomiao.
Little princess, Wang Yan is not going to give up.
In fact, she didn't even fully understand what she wanted.
Wang Yan understood roughly.
Miao Miao has a stubborn personality and is a person who doesn't care much about the opinions of the outside world.
She is too rich in material things and all she wants is spiritual happiness.
The simplest, yet the least simple.
She was very greedy for the freshness and sense of security that Wang Yan gave her, and she had a strong need to be conquered.
However, unlike Chu Xin, she doesn't care about glory or sharing, as long as she is happy.
But it is still difficult to make her happy.
On the material level, she already had nothing else to ask for.
Her biggest hobbies are nothing more than eating fruits and wearing beautiful clothes, which she can do by herself.
On a spiritual level, what she needs is too complicated.
Playmate, bodyguard, father...
You have to adapt to her whims, you have to be able to drive her crazy, you have to protect her and give her a sense of security, you have to get used to her spending money, you have to feed her delicious fruits...
All the demands were focused on a young boy, and one word stood out: bullshit!
However, once you can satisfy her, her feelings will be simple and pure.
Does she really care that Wang Yan has another woman
it's not true.
In fact, she only cares more about whether Wang Yan can accompany her and whether he takes her into consideration.
Now, little Princess Miaomiao has not yet realized the true nature of her feelings, but Wang Yan feels that her possessiveness is not particularly strong, and it is not reflected in external forms.
So, if done correctly, there is a chance.
The really difficult thing to deal with is the Diwu sisters.
It's so hellish.
Originally, they weren't too difficult to deal with, but they were just noobs.
However, the problem suddenly became extremely complicated when the undead Xiansheng and Sanwan were in the same dormitory together, as if they were sisters.
Fortunately, none of them have bad intentions.
I like him, but no one wants to hurt Liu Li.
This is a good thing, but also difficult.
Taking it apart and analyzing it separately, Fu Yushi wants the simplest one.
She wants to be famous, make money, give herself a sense of security, and blossom independently.
Brother Gou is fully capable of meeting all her needs.
It was impossible for her to leave Wang Yan, regardless of emotions or interests.
So just leave it alone and let it marinate slowly.
Lin Weiwei is the most awkward among them.
This brother Pingzhi is generous, kind and has high emotional intelligence.
When you analyze it for others, you can understand one thing after another, but once the matter falls on your own head, you immediately start to get entangled.
She sincerely hopes that Liu Li and Wang Yan can be happy. She likes Liu Li and Wang Yan.
Then she went numb.
What should I do
How about... should I stay away
My thoughts were very heavy, and I refused to admit it, so I closed my eyes and wandered around, thinking that I could get over it with time.
She doesn't want much. She hopes that Liu Li and Wang Yan won't separate. She hopes that she and Liu Li will always be good sisters. At the same time, she also hopes that she can also have a little bit of Gouzi's love.
So it’s actually easy for her to handle.
When the time comes one day, he can be more forceful and he will admit it.
Pay attention, toughness is not strong alkaline. When she is half pushing, she beeps less and moves her mouth more. That is the correct toughness. If you learn it wrongly, you will become a mess.
Among the Diwu sisters, Nawu is the most troublesome.
Brother Gou really doesn't understand what she is thinking...
All I can think of is MMP!
She is very active in everything, but she can also mess around; she can't hold back when she wants to get ahead, and shrinks like a chicken when she doesn't want to take care of things.
Is she greedy
For sure!
Does she have to be Wang Yan
uncertain.
After all the fuss, her reaction was the most uncontrollable, and she felt like anything was possible.
If you break her, she should be very good.
But then she is very likely to blow herself up and cause a big scene.
Wang Yan had absolutely nothing to do with her and was helpless.
…
In fact, no matter which dog brother is faced alone, he is not afraid. The problem is that they are always mixed together and cannot be separated.
Therefore, the most undesirable method is to defeat Liu Li alone.
That is tantamount to betrayal, and it is a double betrayal.
One can only wait for an opportunity, wait for Liu Li's acquiescence, or wait for an accident that can throw the blame.
Otherwise, just live on.
Following the heart is not cowardice, the sage said: follow what the heart wants without going beyond the rules.
Meaning: Be true to your heart and don’t break the rules.
…
As for Sister He Meng, they are not worth mentioning.
The relationship was not that serious at all, and Wang Yan had no intention of doing anything to her.
Just tease her when you have some free time, and it won't be a waste of time for her classmates, right
It's fun to play, noisy to noisy, the real benefits don't matter to them.
A pair of dark-hearted sisters, they both have dark hearts when they are cut open, so they can go on a date, but there is no need to talk about their relationship.
…
It took a lot of brainpower to decide on the overall strategy. Brother Gou was tired and happy at the same time.
I didn’t learn the strange knowledge in vain. At the very least, my thinking mode became deeper and more comprehensive.
To be honest, having a harem in modern society is a very tiring thing.
As the calculations continued, my whole person felt dark.
But there is no way.
Or give up completely, be a real decent dog, and just stick to Liu Li, and don't want any of the little princesses or big Nawu, and marry whoever you want.
Simple and worry-free, but too cowardly.
If you can't bear it, you have to think about it.
They are not paper people, they have their own personalities, thoughts and desires.
It takes a lot of effort to catch up with one of them, let alone to gather them into a kennel
Therefore, between morality and selfishness, Wang Yan chose selfishness.
When it comes to morality, what really matters is the bottom line.
The bottom line cannot be too low, do whatever you want online.
Wang Yan's bottom line is that he will not treat them as toys and get rid of them when he gets tired of showing off.
No extreme measures will be used.
He will also give his feelings, even if they are divided into several parts, it is still true.
Is it an excuse? no.
The strong naturally desire more, this is human nature.
-No, in fact, everyone is greedy, but the strong will not hide it hypocritically.
Dare to face your own desires, restrain what should be restrained, and indulge what should be indulged. Only then can you live a free and easy life without losing control.
If you are secretive and want to be a bitch and build a memorial arch at the same time, you are purely lying to yourself.
Strangely boring.
Recently, due to the great impact of the conversation with Professor Adam, Wang Yan has always asked himself: Have you gone astray to this day
After thinking over and over again, the answer is: basically not.
reason
The reason is that the system is too powerful.
What can I do if I am given money that I can’t spend all my money? !
Are you going to work hard on your career again? Mental illness? !
The money you earn through hard work is not as much as you can earn without breathing, so what’s the point of working hard
It doesn’t provide a sense of accomplishment.
Think about it more: The country is so strong and stable, and it doesn’t need anyone to save it. Why do you just roar and rise up? !
If the time goes forward another 100 years, and the country and the nation need me, then I will be obligated to do so, and I will not hesitate to fight for it all my life.
But these days... let's all take a break.
As a son or daughter of the Chinese nation, the most I can do is spend money on scientific research, donate some money for disaster relief, or help poverty alleviation.
Brother Gou really can't find his ideal.
The country and system are so cruel, completely blocking Brother Gou's path to becoming a great man.
What else can you do
Let’s have fun!
Then I accidentally increased my attributes too high. At the age of 20, I was already full of energy, but now I am even more suffocated...
It's ruined, it's ruined, my life is completely ruined!
…
Objectively speaking, in fact, Wang Yan's path has not only not gone astray, but has actually reached the best under the same circumstances.
I didn’t hurt anyone, I didn’t dig into the country, I didn’t sink to the level of a young model who climbs the ladder every day.
Choose your goals carefully, treat your emotions with restraint, and don't act recklessly.
Stick to the bottom line, don't do any real bad things, just have fun, and give you ten times the compensation you deserve.
Is it off
Not really.
Any loser who gets the same system will not be able to live a more upright life.
Therefore, after Wang Yan thought about it clearly, he no longer had any psychological burden.
For the first time, I made my will clear—
I like Liu Li, I like Miaomiao, I like Pingzhi, I like Nawu...
As long as there is a slight chance, I will try my best to pull you.
If there is really no chance, I will not choose to hurt.
So that's it, no more hypocrisy, I'm going to start working hard for Crystal Palace.
The dog charges the duck!
Duty calls, and victory lies ahead.
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I didn’t have time to write out my complete thoughts yesterday. My style has always been to face reality and desires, and stick to myself in the dark. Don't think too much.
(End of chapter)