Although Tian's mother heard that the two moved out because of conflicts with the Ji family, she did not expect that the problem was so serious. Tian Jing was married far away and had such an unpleasant husband's family. She really couldn't calm down and was really worried.
After Ji's mother and Ji's father left, the atmosphere in the room became solemn. Tian Jing lost interest in drinking soup. She put the spoon and leaned it against the bedside without saying anything, with a sullen face.
She was born ten months into her pregnancy and worked hard to survive. It was her baby. How could she be so angry that she was in the mood to eat when she was so looked down upon
Tian's mother looked at her two granddaughters and thought about what happened to her daughter. Isn't this because she didn't give birth to a son and was disliked? When he looked at Tian Jing, he couldn't help but feel sad, "She is your mother-in-law. If the relationship is so bad, it may be bad in the future. It would be great if this baby is a boy."
She didn't mean any harm, she simply felt that it was not easy to have a daughter. Now that she was so unlucky, what would she do in the future when her two children were both daughters
If you don’t give birth, you will be under great pressure. If you do give birth, you will have to suffer and have to raise another child.
Tian Jing's body was recovering and she got tired easily. She didn't refute what Tian's mother said. She pursed her lips tightly and leaned against the wall and simply closed her eyes, not wanting to speak.
"Mom, I don't like to hear what you are saying. Qiqi is still here. Don't pass on this idea to her. Boys and girls are the same. They are my and Xiaojing's children." Ji Huai frowned and looked aside. Ji Tianqi, who was listening to them, looked confused in his eyes, but he listened carefully. His words were serious, "My parents and I will never live together again. It doesn't matter what they think. I didn't ask Xiaojing to honor me with me." Parents, it is me who owes them kindness, not Xiaojing, so she does not need to have any mental burden."
Tian's mother moved her mouth, pulled Ji Tianqi over and quickly said happily, "Yes, Mom was wrong, we just can't live together."
Once her son-in-law could carry it clearly, most of her heavy mood was relieved.
Yes, why should her daughter bear it? The Ji family didn't give birth to her or raise her, and she had to be wronged when she got married. She felt very distressed and resentful.
When Tian Jing heard Ji Huai's words, she opened her eyes again. She was in a much better mood. Her eyes fell on him and she said calmly, "I don't want to go back for the Chinese New Year this year. You can go back by yourself."
"Isn't that okay? It's the Chinese New Year." Tian's mother was anxious and felt that this was quite excessive. She couldn't provide her daughter with any help, and she didn't dare to let her daughter and her husband's family have too much trouble. It would be unreasonable for her to be talked about behind her back. .
Tian Jing was unmoved and sat up and continued to drink the soup, "I struggled a lot to give birth to this baby. My health is not good. I don't know if I can take care of myself better after confinement. Your mother just treated her daughter like that. After we go back, we Can you get any good fruit to eat? You will only make yourself miserable if you go back."
I'm so annoyed. What did Ji's mother do just now? As a mother this is intolerable. She felt that even if the baby was a boy, the other party would not like her, but just wanted a boy with the genitals that would be passed down through the family line.
Tian Jing directly called Ji's mother your mother this time, and Ji's father and Ji's mother didn't expect to see the child. Ji Huai immediately agreed, "Okay, I'll go back by myself. I don't live there anyway, so I'll go back." Just come back, take good care of yourself, don’t get angry.”
Tian's mother observed and found that Ji Huai was not dissatisfied, and she breathed a sigh of relief.
In the afternoon of that day, Tian Jing was discharged from the hospital and went home for confinement.
Babies are really noisy. This child is even more noisy than Ji Tianqi. He cries all day long and has to be held in his arms even when he sleeps. He wakes up as soon as he puts him down, which is very annoying.
But Tian Jing thinks it's okay. In the past, Ji's mother didn't help her at all. When it was time to eat, she would bring food to her, glance at the child, and not want to help at all.
Tian's mother is here now. After all, she is her mother. She will help her if she can, and she can also sleep during the day.
Ji Huai is afraid that Ji Tianqi will be emotional, so between the two children, his focus will be slightly biased towards his eldest daughter. When Tian Jing and Tian's mother were taking care of their little daughter, he would watch cartoons with each other, or he would take care of the little daughter and let Tian Jing play intellectual games with her eldest daughter.
The family gets along quite harmoniously, and the baby is slowly growing up, exactly like Ji Tianqi when she was a child. Tian's mother missed Ji Tianqi's growth, so she is particularly concerned about this little daughter and loves her very much.
The Ji family doesn't care what the child should be named. Tian Jing chose the name, Ji Tianyi.
There were no big events during the full moon, but there were ceremonies. Ji Huai spent thousands of dollars to book a private room in the hotel, ordered a table of food, and invited his best colleagues and friends to celebrate.
Ji Tianyi didn't get blessings from Ji's family, but he also got a lot of blessings. He originally said he shouldn't give red envelopes, but everyone still forced them.
Ji Huai then thought that when Ji Tianqi was born, he did nothing because she was a girl, and promised Ji Tianqi that when she celebrated her third birthday, the decoration would be more beautiful than this.
Ji Tianqi smiled, very happy, and kissed him, "Thank you, dad."
Tian's mother thought that since both of them were daughters, Ji Huai would be a little unhappy to some extent. Tian Jing was not afraid that he would be unhappy, but that he would feel regretful.
Ji Huai has a sense of responsibility for his family, and he will listen to a lot of opinions from his parents. This matter is indeed not a trivial matter, and she is very serious about it. If he shows other emotions, she will be disappointed.
Fortunately, he didn't. Although he didn't express too much about his two daughters, he could feel his love from the bottom of his heart. He didn't feel dissatisfied at all because they were daughters.
Since Ji Huai's salary increased, their life is relatively comfortable, but the things he buys for his children, for her and for his family are not bad. He has to use the best within his ability. Spending money is like running water. Even if Jing wanted to save money, he would not agree with it.
At the end of the year, all that is saved is the year-end bonus.
In a blink of an eye, Tian's mother has been here for half a year. The original idea was that she would take care of Tian Jing for a few months. After the confinement period, and Ji Tianqi had already gone to kindergarten, Tian Jing could feel more relaxed and send Tian's mother back.
But Tian Jing did not return to Ji's house this year, and because she felt sorry for her daughter to take care of two children alone, Tian's mother didn't want to go back to celebrate the New Year, so she stayed to help her daughter.
She sighed, "If I go back, I don't know when the next time will come, and you will have to take the big one and the little one by yourself. How tiring will it be?"
Tian Jing thought for a while and then said, "If you don't go back, your father and brother will be the only ones left at home. What's the feeling of the New Year?"
People in small mountain villages still have very traditional ideas. During the Chinese New Year, family members come back to stay for a while. While other people’s homes are lively and lively, theirs is deserted.
Tian's mother didn't know what to say. Tian's father and brother Tian were rough people, and the daughter-in-law they were talking about hadn't come in yet. There was no woman in the family to take notice of things, so she really didn't know what life would be like.
Ji Huai was playing jigsaw puzzles with Ji Tianqi when he said, "Let's do this. I'll buy air tickets for dad and brother and let them come here to celebrate the New Year. Let's all have fun together and have some fun."
"Forget it, how much will it cost? You still have two children, so save as much as you can, there's no need." Tian's mother refused as soon as she heard it, for fear of spending their money.
"It's my fault, Xiaojing has been married for so long, and I haven't let dad and you come here to play. Let them come this time. Let's all get together. This is settled. , I will buy tickets for dad and brother." Ji Huai insisted, and asked by the way, "My eldest brother also has a fiancée, I will ask her if she can come, and I will also buy her a ticket by the way. Everyone will go back during the Chinese New Year. , the hotel is not expensive and the price-performance ratio is high.”
Tian Jing really wanted her family to come. Tian's father had only met Ji Huai once. When she decided to get married, she took Ji Huai back for a day, and Tian's father had not seen her child.
Tian's mother was mainly afraid that they would spend money and she would not be able to help her daughter, and would be held back. She felt very guilty. But her son-in-law said so, so she could only agree.
Tian's father is reluctant to leave the small mountain village. Like Tian's mother, he knows nothing about the outside world, but his daughter and wife are there. This time he goes with his son again. He talks about trouble, but deep down he still very happy.
The son-in-law also bought the plane ticket and said he would take him to have fun. This feeling is the same as the feeling of a daughter or son suddenly becoming successful. Anyway, he is proud. Before going there, he showed off in a low-key manner in the village. Looking at the envious eyes of others, he Not to mention how good I feel.
His daughter is the first key university student in the village, and now she wants him to go to a big city. Can she be unhappy
Brother Tian's girlfriend is also from the village and has no education, but they have a good relationship. They are already engaged and planning to get married in the middle of the year. They also want to visit, so Ji Huai booked a flight together.
The house rented to Tian's mother was definitely not enough, so Ji Huai booked two hotel rooms and waited for them to arrive.
When the Tian family came, everyone had a meal together and went shopping at nearby tourist attractions. The Tian family accompanied Tian Jing, and she looked better than before.
When she came back to bed that day, she whispered, "Thank you."
Although she has been relatively independent since she was a child and has lived alone since she was admitted to the town's junior high school, she also has a family who loves her, but because she married far away and cannot be reunited with her family, she still feels sad and regrets when she thinks about it.
"This is what it should be. If my parents want to come in the future, we will buy them air tickets and stay for as long as they want. I hope they can visit you often and stay with you." After Ji Huai finished speaking, he apologized and said truthfully , "Before getting married, I said you can go back whenever you want, but later I found out that it was impossible. It was very inconvenient to go back once and there were all kinds of things. This time, I hope my parents can stay longer. After all the money is spent, I can make more money, but I don’t know when the next time will be because my parents may not be free to come.”
Hearing this, Tian Jing lowered his eyes.
It's true, it's troublesome to come back, and it's troublesome to go back. She also hopes that if her parents live longer, she will be happier. With her parents by her side, she is really relaxed and happy.
On New Year's Eve, Tian's family accompanied Tian Jing, and Ji Huai took the gifts he bought and went to the bank to withdraw two thousand yuan. He returned to Ji's family alone, and the tenant returned to his hometown. Now Ji's family is the only one left at home.
Brother Ji and Sister-in-law Ji were both here. They had a violent quarrel at the end of the year, but now things are getting better. When Ji Huai came back, she was half-lying in the living room, munching on melon seeds, with her high belly on her head.
When Ji's mother saw him coming back, she didn't give him a good look. She even looked behind him and said, "Where's that outsider?"
What a foreigner, foreigners are not good things!
Ji Huai's face was unhappy, but he still said, "Xiaojing's parents are here. I will accompany her parents today."
"Her parents are here? Are they here to suck blood? Are they coming to you to ask for money?" When Ji's mother heard this, her eyes widened and she said sternly, "I tell you, don't give me a penny. I asked you not to marry me in the first place." You refused to listen to this outsider, are you okay now? People think you are stupid and will catch you to suck your blood! Everything has been given to the people in the mountains, do you think you are stupid?!"
In her opinion, outsiders who are poor, stupid, and greedy are all beggars in the ravines. How can they compare with "city dwellers" like her
Ji Huai couldn't help asking, and raised his voice, "What do I have to give to others? Do I have money or power? Did you ask when my wife gave birth to a child? Or my mother-in-law came from the mountains to take care of me. What do we have to give to others? Jian Huai The money for the house has not been paid off yet. Do you have a pension? Do you have money? Did you give a bride price? What are you greedy for?"
Ji's mother was speechless, but she quickly found a point and jumped back to fight back, "Why don't I take care of it? I didn't agree to give birth to a boy in the first place. Can I not take care of it if a boy is born? I'm sure Serve her..."
Before he finished speaking, he interrupted in a deep voice, "You have been giving birth to a boy all day long. You are also a girl. Can you decide whether to have a boy or a girl? Didn't your grandma also give birth to you? You don't have a lot of money and you need to give birth to a boy. Inherited, the house is not even enough to live in!”
Ji's mother couldn't resist him and scolded him hysterically, "Anyway, a boy is going to be born. A daughter belongs to someone else's family. A married woman throws water away. If there is no boy, people will laugh at you. No matter how much money you make, it's useless. Nothing works!”
Sister-in-law Ji and Brother Ji were also there. When they heard this, their faces did not show disapproval, but they felt it made sense. Sister-in-law Ji looked at her bulging belly with even more annoyance in her eyes.
It’s a girl again, bad luck!
Ji Huai was unmoved at all, and his tone was even more sarcastic, "It's up to me whether you shout here or not. Who would laugh at me? Why are you laughing at me? When they give birth to a boy, will they bring a mountain of gold or silver? Can I not work for the rest of my life or get a national reward? I think they are a joke!"
"Did that foreigner teach you?" Mother Ji's face turned blue, and she yelled, "Divorce! Divorce her immediately! Divorce the foreigner immediately, do you hear me?!"
She feels regretful now. She shouldn't have let this outsider in. She doesn't even want to call Tian Jing's name now. They are all the troublesome outsiders, the outsiders in the mountains and valleys!
"You are not qualified to interfere in my marriage. I don't think you welcome me home for the New Year very much. This money is my tribute to you. I won't eat any food. I will leave first." Ji Huai did not argue with her. Put the gifts aside, put two thousand yuan on the table, and prepare to leave.
Sister-in-law Ji's eyes flashed when she saw the money. The money would eventually be subsidized to her small family.
Brother Ji came out to try to persuade them to reconcile. They each said a few words, but they were all insignificant. After saying that, he pulled Ji Huai aside and said, "Don't argue with Mom. We are all a family, and Mom can still hurt you? Your family is the closest to you, so don't make your mother angry."
Ji Huai didn't believe that he was here to persuade him to make peace. It had been several months since he moved out, and Ji's father and mother couldn't bear to send him a message. Brother Ji couldn't be unaware of this, right? They didn't care either.
The other person has been selfish since he was a child. He has probably heard that if he doesn't come back, he won't have a share in the house, and he wishes he didn't come back.
"Didn't she just want to harm my daughter? Isn't that considered harm? Doesn't aborting it mean a human life? It's not my child? Isn't it a life I owe? Is she angry with me or am I angry with her?" Ji Huai asked a series of questions.
Brother Ji's expression changed and he couldn't answer the conversation.
According to this, he owed a lot of life to other people, but it wasn't their birth, so he didn't pay anything. Everything was a woman's business. Sister Ji's abortion was just like laying an egg. Is it serious
Seeing his stubbornness, Ji's father put down his harsh words and said, "Let me tell you, if it's that foreigner who doesn't want to have a baby, then you should divorce and find someone who is willing to have a baby. If you don't give birth to a boy, your mother and I will die in peace! We will also die." I don’t recognize your son!”
No matter what Ji Huai says, he just wants to have a boy and will do whatever it takes to have a boy!
Without the boy, nothing means anything.
He still didn't believe it. He couldn't force them to have a boy if they were so forced. Could it be that Ji Huai really didn't want his parents anymore? Just had sex with that foreigner
Ji Huai did not show the anxiety they wanted to see, and would only leave a faint sentence, "If this is the case, there is nothing I can do."
Before he finished speaking, he turned around and left without eating.
Ji's mother stood up after a moment, pointed with trembling fingers in the direction Ji Huai left, and said, "What does he mean? To agree or not to agree?! What do you mean there is no way? There are so many people who can give birth, what woman can't give birth to a child?" !”
"Tian Jing graduated from a key university. She must not want to have a baby." Sister-in-law Ji said slowly.
In her opinion, Tian Jing is stupid. She gave birth to a boy and was valued by her parents-in-law and husband. She also has a straight back and is a great hero. Who dares to say anything about her
Isn’t it good for others to make money and spend it on themselves? How tiring is it to have to earn it yourself
"What's wrong with graduating from a key university? Didn't he come from a ravine? I think he was too stupid to study!" Ji's mother now has a very bad impression of Tian Jing and is extremely disgusted. She wants Ji Huai to divorce her immediately and divorce her immediately.
Sister-in-law Ji pretended to comfort her a few more times, but in fact it was almost like fanning the flames.
Ji's mother and Ji's father were so angry, and they were definitely angry at Ji Huai, but in the end they were born by themselves, so the anger was directed at Tian Jing, and she gnashed her teeth with hatred.
There must be a divorce. The outsider brought a family of vampires here, divorced, and asked Ji Huai to find another "obedient" local.
However, this was just their wishful thinking. Ji Huai left immediately and did not come back for the Chinese New Year that year. They were so angry that they vomited blood. However, they had no idea where Ji Huai lived, let alone forced a divorce. They called him. , people say I am busy, at work.
Ji Huai replied perfunctorily, and if there was nothing wrong, Ji Huai hung up the phone before they could get angry.
During the Chinese New Year this year, the company took a week off, and the Tian family also stayed for a week. Ji Huai took them around to play, and the family got along quite happily.
When they were discussing going back, Tian's mother hesitated and didn't want to leave. Tian Jing's little daughter was only a few months old and was very noisy. Although Ji Huai could send Ji Tianqi to kindergarten in the morning, Tian Jing had to pick him up in the afternoon, take the younger one to pick up the older one, and come back to cook and wash clothes. How could he be so busy
"Forget it, I won't leave. I will stay here to take care of the two children." Tian's mother made up her mind.
The Ji family is definitely not reliable. After staying for a few months, she has gotten used to the life here. After all, it is more interesting here. She is not in good health and can't do farm work when she goes back. She might as well stay and help her daughter. .
Ji Huai made a suggestion, "How about dad staying here for a while? We don't need a pair of chopsticks at home, and mom isn't alone."
Tian's father definitely disagrees. Brother Tian is also a little hesitant. If he has more than ten acres of land at home, he can't work it alone. His parents are here, so what should he do back alone
Moreover, we are getting married in the middle of the year, and there are many things to do.
Ji Huai added, "The harvest at home is there. I suggest that my eldest brother and sister-in-law go out to work. There are many opportunities here. Xiaojing and I will find jobs for you. Even if we go to the factory, each person can earn five or six thousand a month." , two people are worth tens of thousands, which is better than farming at home."
They didn't think about it and immediately fell into deep thought. Tian's father struggled, "You can't do without the things at home, right? What will happen to the things at home when they are all taken out?"
Tian Jing was unable to take them out before, and her parents did not dare to come out. They would rather stay in their comfort zone. If her brother comes out, it will not be good if only her parents are left at home. No one will take care of them. Now that they have come out, she will not be able to take them out. I didn't want them to go back again, so I tried to persuade them, "How much are the things at home worth? How much savings can you and your mother have after working hard all your life? My eldest brother and sister-in-law are still so young, can we really continue farming??"
"Although the rent here is high, the wages are also high. Two people can still save thousands by renting a house for several thousand yuan a month, or tens of thousands or even tens of thousands a year. Farming at home requires a lot of hard work in a year to save a few thousand yuan." Ten thousand? The price is not good, and you will work in vain for a year. Give it a try first, and if it doesn’t work, you can go back."
Brother Tian’s fiancée is also a little girl from the mountains. When she came here and saw the prosperity of the city, she didn’t want to go back to farming, so she reached out and held Brother Tian’s hand and whispered, “How about we stay here and find a job? It’s a good idea to save some money and go back to open a store.”
Who among young people wants to farm? Face the loess and turn your back to the sky.
Besides, my sister-in-law is here and she has help. Earning tens of thousands a year working in the fields is different from making tens of thousands a year working in a store.
Brother Tian thought for a while and agreed, "Okay! Let's stay and try."
The farthest he has ever been to work is in the provincial capital, and the salary is not high. Because he has no diploma and no skills, and the place is backward, the factory in the provincial capital only provides food and accommodation, and only pays him 2,500 yuan a month. Tian Jing had persuaded him to come out before, but he didn't dare. This time he came out, and he also wanted to stay.
His sister is here and his parents are here, so he has nothing to worry about. Ji Huai originally rented a house for Tian's mother, and having Tian's father would not have any impact. It was just a handful of rice. But for Tian Jing, she was too happy, not because of the ease of having her parents help her take care of her children, but because I am really happy to have my parents by my side.
With her family here, she doesn't have to miss home.
The Tian family decided to stay, but Brother Tian and his fiancée had to go back first to deal with matters and obtain certificates. They also had to rent out the land at home at a cheap price, and then come back to find jobs.
Ji Huai originally wanted to find it for him, but he was diligent and found a job delivering express delivery. Seeing his simplicity, he hired him immediately.
The salary is a basic salary, but you can pay extra according to the delivery. If you are more diligent, you can still get five or six thousand yuan a month. Sister Tian found a relatively easy job, working as a waiter in a hotel, and you can get nearly four thousand yuan, and food is included. Cover.
After spending a lot of money, the two of them also have an income of 10,000 yuan. Leaving aside the rent, if they save a little bit, they can still save 4,000 to 5,000 yuan a month. The two of them had goals. They wanted to work hard for a few years. If they couldn't stay any longer and saved money, they would go back to the town and buy a house instead of staying in the mountain village.
Every time they think this way, the two of them are very motivated.