The five big men did not refute the idea that Xiaobei’s work in the Ministry of Engineering is equal to a craftsman, because it is meaningless.
What needs to be done right now is how to discuss with Beckham and achieve his goals without angering Beckham.
Several people exchanged glances, and Chen Kaiming spoke.
"Um... Xiaobei, I found you have become cuter, how did you change?"
"Really...? I think so too." Beckham showed a big smile, blinking his eyes, looking content.
"Really true, absolutely true." Chen Kaiming followed with a smile.
Beckham seemed to be embarrassed, he was a little bit embarrassed, and said: "Do you want to know how I became cuter?"
"Yes! I think it's not just me thinking, people all over the world are thinking, how did it change?" Chen Kaiming asked along the way.
"It's very simple. I do all the things I like to do at home. My brothers and sisters didn't force me to read textbooks. Instead, they let me learn the knowledge I need freely. Can be cute, right?"
Beckham is still smiling.
"Uh..." Chen Kaiming was immediately speechless.
"What about you, brother and sister's method, right or wrong?" Beckham asked.
"Ha ha ha, ha ha ha..." Chen Kaiming's son Chen Tao laughed at what Beckham said.
Chen Kaiming turned his head and glared at his son fiercely. Chen Tao was so frightened that he jumped to Xiaobei and the others in two steps. He looked at his father with sly eyes, which made people know that it was the kind of appearance after taking advantage of it.
Chen Kaiming nodded: "Yes, how can Xiaobao and Juanjuan do something wrong."
Then he looked at Xiaobei, then at Xiaoyuan and others, sighed, showing a helpless look, and said to Xiaobei: "Xiaobao and the cuckoo taught you so well. But we are not the little cuckoo. Cuckoo, we don’t have the ability to teach our children to be like you. We can’t even half of them. We can only throw our children to the school.
Whenever we spare time, we also go to the evening school opened by the school. By the day before yesterday, I had learned a total of 230 commonly used words. I knew it, but I couldn't write a few. My favorite thing to do is to go home and watch Xiao Tao read and write. At that time, the fatigue of the day seemed to be gone, and my heart was sweeter than eating honey.
This is the way I have been in my life, and I won't have a big future. But I have Xiaotao. Xiaotao writes better than me and knows more characters than me. I am happy. Recently, when he came back at night, he stopped reading the book all the time. He just read a few books, wrote and painted in the book for a while, and immediately took out the tools to do the work of the craftsman.
When I saw it, my heart hurts like a knife stabbed. I don't have much knowledge, but I know that people who don't have knowledge in the future will be left behind by others. If they don't learn, what should I do in the future? "
As Chen Kaiming spoke, tears flowed down.
Chen Tao, who was still happy just now, saw his father crying. Thinking about what his father said, he cried as well. He ran to his father’s side and lowered his head to persuade him: “Father, don’t be sad. ."
Beckham's eyes rolled around and asked Chen Tao instead of Chen Kaiming: "Then why don't you read the book well? Stop watching your eyes. When you look again, don't they fail to connect?"
Several other big men with red eye circles nodded, and when Chen Tao answered, they found that their children were just like Chen Tao.
Chen Tao raised his sleeve and brushed his eyes, and replied to Xiaobei: "I learned what the school said a long time ago. What I read is not a textbook, but a hand-made book in the school library. Of course, I have to read it while writing. I write and draw because I need to calculate the proportion of the structure of the bird.
I not only finished the third grade, I also learned the fifth grade, especially arithmetic, mainly because the third grade arithmetic cannot calculate the proportion. I heard that if I go to school, it will be faster to calculate, and I can also calculate things that I can't do now. But I want to make one thing first, and learn while doing it. The ability to learn will be more solid.
My parents thought I was only reading third grade books, and they never asked me, how do I know what they think? I'm right anyway. "
When he said what he said, the five adults were all stunned, and then looked at their children, one by one with small breasts, which clearly meant that they were studying at the same cross-level, but the cross-levels were different, and the same was all in Work hard for that little bird.
"Have you heard? My'enlightened' uncle, the birds not only did not delay their studies, but promoted them to study harder. The craftsmen's work also requires a lot of knowledge to assist. To make the birds fly better, they must be in Flies higher in the sky of knowledge."
Beckham looked at the five boys appreciatively, and said to Chen Kaiming with a faint smile.
Xiao Yuan hurriedly said, "Yes, yes, a bird needs a pair of wings to fly, and a dream also needs a pair of wings."
Xiaohai rarely said: "In fact, everything lies in communication and exchanges. We don’t expect you to observe our emotional changes all the time like brothers and sisters treat us. If we find that there is a little difference from usual, we will ask those who are next to us. What happened to us in the inner courtyard, so we used silent means to help us.
We just need you to ask your children more often to see what they want to do and which aspects can help them. For example, to make a bird, you have to use bamboo. The children don't have much effort. If you help them finish simple woodwork, won't they save time for learning
Why make it the same as a war, the outcome is that one side overwhelms the other, or both sides lose. In case they develop a rebellious psychology and fight with the guesswork that they do not study well, then you will have to regret it for a lifetime. "
"Isn't it? We are here today. If you don't come, your adults will control Xiao Ming and the others through the power of your parents, and they will play with you a non-violent and non-cooperative way of non-learning, hurting both sides."
Xiaobei also said that she felt very boring and aggrieved because she knew that there were many adults in Datang that were like this. She always believed that she was right. She believed that the child was small and did not need to communicate. She provided food and clothing. , As for schoolwork, throw it in the school, then it's okay.
But how many students and teachers are there in the school? Can the teacher take care of it? Let’s look at the officials in the court of the capital. How many of them do not care at home, and then learn from the school to become officials by their own ability
Those children who came from aristocratic families and wealthy families and received important care would follow their fathers from childhood, learn to write and read from their fathers, listen to his father's principles of life, and then imitate his father in dealing with others.
The officials of the court are killed by thousands of troops, and the demand for survival knowledge far exceeds the knowledge in books. There are also special ones, such as elder brothers and sisters, who have been calculating step by step since they were young, leading the family to stand on the top of power in the Tang Dynasty. But how many brothers and sisters are there in Datang
"Trouble, it's really troublesome." The more she thought about it, the sadder Xiaobei became. She wished she could separate countless individuals by herself, and then replace all the parents of Datang to educate their children, and apply the same methods used in Pan'er brother and sister to all of them. Datang's child.
Xiao Yuan shook his head and said to the five Chen Kaiming: “That’s it for today. I have figured it out. I will help the child more. After we leave, we are not allowed to beat the child. Beating is revenge. It is not just the child who takes revenge. And us.
We will think that you feel that we should not reach out and use the act of beating children to vent our dissatisfaction with us. That would be considered a provocation to us. Don't say I threaten you, you know the consequences. "
"No fight, no fight, no fight in the future. Where can I find such a good son?" Chen Kaiming promised, and he raised his head and touched his son Xiao Tao's head. At this moment, his heart was filled with infinite joy. It turned out that his son was so good that he had finished studying the fifth grade, so that he could do better calculations when he was a little bird. The little bird is really useful.
Happy, Chen Kaiming was embarrassed to ask Xiaobei for advice: "Xiaobei, discuss something with you, can we learn how to teach you Xiaobao and the cuckoo?"
"Hehe!" Beckham was happy, and shook his head: "I can't learn it. A few days ago, we were worried about selling dogs. When my brother heard about it, he immediately sent three different grades of rice cakes to guide us. Brother and sister never Instead of directly telling us what is right and wrong, we always use other methods to let us think for ourselves and choose.
How do you learn? For example, if you go fishing in the river, if the child I lead accidentally punctures his foot and replaces it with your child as the leader, what would you do? Did you tell your children not to take other children to the riverside in the future? "
Chen Kaiming nodded, that is, his children led other people's children to play, and the other people's children were injured. He definitely told the children not to do this in the future.
"Looking at you nodding your head, it means you have admitted. But when we replace them with our older brothers and sisters, they will take out toys to play with us after they know things. While playing, they will teach us how to use the actions and behaviors of the characters in the toys. To lead your own team.
For example, when playing, we can't focus all our energy on the joy of playing, but also take care of other people. For example, observe the places where we play, analyze the possible dangers first, so as to reduce our overall loss.
This is the education method of older brothers and sisters. Brothers and sisters teach us to face all kinds of hardships in life and find ways to solve them. what about you? You are escaping. How do you learn? Looking back, I asked my brothers and sisters to see if there is any good way to save you snacks as much as possible, because the five of you are not involved. "
When Beckham spoke, he did not hide his pride in the slightest.
The five adults of Chen Kaiming were silly. It turns out that Xiaobao and Juanjuan taught their younger brothers and sisters this way, so... How much effort did it take? No wonder the little guys are so good, maybe for the little bougainvillea, it doesn't take too much energy to achieve that kind of education.
But you can't learn by waiting for others, because if you want to teach your children well, you must first make sure that you are better.
Chen Kaiming gave up the education of Xiaobao and Juanjuan, rubbed his hands, looked at his son, and asked: "Just ask, besides helping my son Xiaotao do simple carpentry, what else do I need to do to be considered a good job? A qualified sir?"
Xiaoyuan waved to Chen Kaiming. When Chen Kaiming came closer, Xiaoyuan signaled him to bend over, and then whispered in the ear of the other party: "When you ask this sentence in front of your child, you are unqualified. Up."
Then Xiao Yuan explained to Chen Kaiming: "Every child admires his father. You must remember that no matter what the situation is, you must remain strong, even if this so-called strength is ridiculous to you. But that is a source of confidence for the child.
Even if you fight with someone outside and get beaten with a bruised nose and face, you have to say how you beat the other person when you come home, instead of sighing in front of the child, because the child needs a strong you. "
"Then what if the child finds out one day and wipes the wound for me?" Chen Kaiming didn't treat Xiaoyuan as a child at all, so he humbly asked for advice.
"That means your child has grown up. Congratulations. He will work harder and be willing to take on part of the family's responsibilities. Just like us, we know that although the family is very strong, there are also many difficulties. We will study hard. , And then try to help the brothers and sisters solve small things so that they can relax."
Xiao Yuan said with a smile to Chen Kaiming.
Chen Kaiming touched Xiaoyuan's head: "I'm so sensible, my son will be like you one day, I'm relieved. What else should I do now?"
"First help the five of them fix the little bird. If they have free time, go to the school without their knowledge, tell the teacher about this matter, make an agreement with the teacher, not tell the child, and then specifically target Give your children some counseling so that they can make the bird faster.
The second step is to come up with a new idea to make the children feel that a little bird is not very powerful, guide them, or tempt them, so that they have a higher pursuit, so that they can continue to learn more knowledge. "
Xiao Yuan helped out his ideas. This method was very simple for him.
However, Chen Kaiming was so stubborn that he always felt weird to see Xiao Yuan, a child who should have been educated, now educate others.
After thinking about it, he nodded to Xiao Yuan: "Sure, listen to you. I will try it. It doesn't matter if I am tired. As long as I can teach Xiaotao well. I finally know why Xiaobao and Juanjuan teach you that way. You are really good. Too smart, teach you directly, you will think that your brothers and sisters underestimate you.
And even if they set up a circle to teach you, when you are studying, you must first consider whether your brothers and sisters use this method to educate you, right? "
Xiao Yuan nodded as if he had met a confidant, "Yes, that's right, you have also studied psychology? We have always been on guard. We know that our brothers and sisters are very good, but we are not bad, so we have to dismantle ourselves. Brother and sister, but the result is not satisfactory.
You also know their calculation skills. For us, it is impossible to guard against. Every time we can react to it afterwards, we really can’t maintain a high degree of vigilance at every moment in our lives, but our brothers and sisters taught us all. In life, it is like a wild horse, and like an antelope hanging its horns. "
"Hahahaha..." Chen Kaiming looked at Xiaoyuan's wrinkled face, and laughed at what Xiaoyuan said.
"Okay, okay, what's ridiculous, is there something unhappy about us to tell you, you can be happy? Go and take care of your son."
Xiao Yuan was very helpless when he was laughed, and pushed Chen Kaiming's head hard.
The matter here is resolved, there is no need to continue to worry about the five boys being punished by the family.
A few of Xiaobei are not very happy. It is easy to solve one family, but not difficult to solve five. However, Datang still has many other families like them. The relationship between parents and children is not handled well, so how to change is a difficult problem.
"Wait back and ask your brother and sister to see if they can do anything." Beckham said.
"You can't ask directly. It seems that we are too unleveled. We have to go around and put our brothers and sisters in. If you don't believe it, you can't count them every time, right?" Xiao Yuan suggested.
The other children nodded.
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Zhang Xiaobao and Wang Juan, who are about to be calculated by their younger brothers and sisters, have just heard the report from the people who followed Xiaobei and came back early.
But the two of them didn't bother specifically for this kind of thing for the time being. One was too simple, and the other was intelligence sent back from Zhenla, which involved the issue of whether to launch a war.
"The information is too simple, I need detailed content, wait." Zhang Xiaobao saw the telegram that came back first, with the words "operation successful" written on it.
The specific process was not written, the consequences were not written, and even the position of the sender was not stated.
The four words on the note in front of him can only show that the Meteor team caught the person.
"Calculated based on time, if no bigger things happened, the Meteor team should have caught the person in the opposing city, or somewhere outside the city. What you need to know is how the opposing team reacted. ."
Wang Juan was also looking at the four words, thinking about it, and then said: "It is estimated that there will be no war. We will make arrangements for the team to enter a state of combat readiness. If the detailed news comes back again that there is a movement of soldiers in Zhenla, Let's go straight over and hit them first.
If there is no action, we will lead the team to continue westward, as a surprise soldier to help other three-line operations, by the way, collect weather and environmental information in this era, and prepare for future colonization. "
Zhang Xiaobao listened carefully, and when Wang Juan finished speaking, he said, "I guess there is no problem. Meteor team must be stable before they can send us a message, otherwise they will be in the middle of the battle. The battle has been won. News from them. It should be'After the war, the action is successful', but it won't be the current four words."
"Huh! Zhenla people do not fight, that is the luck of Zhenla people. Luzhou has built four more large ships that can be used to transport troops. They dare to do something, or to protest, I will send troops, let us see. The guards of my house and Luzhou wolf soldiers are great."
Wang Juan said with a cold face, his eyes firm.
Zhang Xiaobao bit his lower lip and said, "Even if they don't send troops, I will clean them up. This is endless. The woman who ran my Datang to bully our woman has lost my face. Don't think they didn't stop us. Meteor Team can get our forgiveness, and if you do something wrong, you should be punished. Whenever I think of those two women, I get so angry that I get stomachache, stomachache, and cook."
After Zhang Xiaobao finished speaking, he got up and walked out.
Wang Juan followed and asked, "Is it early?"
"It's getting late. What the little guys encountered today also made them angry, and they plan to circle with us. I will let them know that the gap is a drop and it will not be easily reversed. It is not just a family education issue. Well, I'll cook and make twice-cooked pork."
Zhang Xiaobao winked at Wang Juan and said.