An unspeakable anger surged in Qiao Lan's heart.
But the quarters continued,
"If you think this question is a bit difficult, we can start with a simpler initial question. Let's not discuss people with mental illnesses, and let's discuss whether people with disabilities can have their own love."
This problem is much simpler than before.
After Ji Su said this, someone immediately answered.
"The disabled also have love because loving someone is regardless of age, skin color, or race, and of course there is no distinction between healthy and disabled!"
"Why not? Disabled people also have feelings and thoughts. Why can't they have love?"
Everyone has a rare consensus in thinking that this issue does not need to be discussed at all.
Ji Su smiled and was not surprised at all, "It's good for everyone to think so, and you can't be prejudiced against anyone, but today we are going to discuss more realistic issues, so I will ask more directly, since you guys That being said, is it okay for you to have a boyfriend or girlfriend with a disability?"
As soon as these words came out, all the people who were just fighting to speak were all dumbfounded.
People always talk eloquently when talking about other people, and when they get to themselves, they get in the way. After a long time, no one speaks. When Qiao Lan saw that it was Roman.
Roman thought for a while and said, "If I really like it, it doesn't matter if I'm a disabled person."
"It doesn't matter to you, what about your parents, your friends, and other people who will go out of society in the future?"
Ji Su pushed Roman back in one sentence, Roman was stunned and stopped talking.
But Ji Su is smart. After pushing Roman back, he followed Roman's idea and rounded up what Roman just said. In everyone's opinion, Ji Su is very fair and rational, which shows that disabled people can be the same as normal people. Have your own love, but the road to love is far more difficult than normal people.
Such rhetoric, even Qiao Lan could not find any inappropriateness.
After this topic was over, I returned to the topic just now, that is, can people with mental illness have normal love, because I just analyzed a case, so when this question came out, everyone would inevitably think of the person who threatened his girlfriend to commit suicide. boys.
A natural conclusion is that it is not possible.
Because of a mental illness, he thinks wildly, so he is paranoid, stubborn, extreme, and possessive.
And the most terrifying thing is that they don't think it's a disease or something wrong at all.
This time everyone's discussion was more intense than before.
Some people say that if you have a mental illness, in order to make yourself and the people around you live better, the most sensible thing is to stay away. Once they are really together, what if the illness gets worse and worse, or even have a child in the future, if the child also has a genetic disease, will the healthy side of the couple complain? Will the child grow up complaining? Some also say that patients have already been isolated from society, and there are very few friends who are willing to be with them, not to mention lovers? Knowing that they are sick, how many are willing to marry him? They desire to have a complete family more than others.
Qiao Lan has not spoken.
I didn't feel it from the beginning, but the further back, the more Qiao Lan felt that this discussion was very strange and inexplicable.
What is the use of discussing these, and can the discussion finally make people with mental illness healed, and can they reduce the number of bad events caused by mental illness.
This discussion is not normal, and Ji Su, who has been leading the topic down, is even more abnormal.
Jisu emphasized over and over again what he wanted to do.
Qiao Lan really didn't want a simple discussion to turn into such a conspiracy theory, but Ji Su's words pierced her heart, and Qiao Lan couldn't help but wonder if he knew something and what he was targeting.
She raised her head and glanced at Ji Su. Ji Su was still as suave as usual.
Qiao Lan thought that maybe she thought too much, she gave herself another possibility, as long as Ji Su did not deliberately ask her to speak.
Just thinking about it, Ji Su, who had not spoken a moment ago, suddenly said, "Since it is a discussion, let's talk, keep talking about what you are talking about, keep talking about what you don't talk about, and keep talking about those who haven't spoken. Qiao Lan, the first one."
Qiao Lan tightened her fingers.
She closed her eyes, and when she opened her eyes again, she looked directly at Ji Su, and asked him, "What does the senior think about normal love?"
Without waiting for Ji Su to speak, Qiao Lan continued,
"I think normal love is your own will, not political correctness. Using "justice" for feelings is not a normal mentality in itself. I think this question from seniors can be extended. Short people are not worthy of normal love. Do you have no money to have a normal love? Do you not deserve a normal love if you are ugly?"
"Since the senior wants to talk about the reality, let's talk about the most realistic problem. When a normal person finds a girlfriend, they want a house, a car, and a ticket. Even if the girlfriend doesn't want it, the mother-in-law's situation will not be easy. People with money endure hardship. Normal people will not experience low self-esteem and ridicule. They will also be deceived and cheated by others. It's also problematic to get a few examples, people who say that other people don't like you because you have a disability, but there are many other factors that affect how others perceive you."
"As for the mental illness that is discussed at the end, it will cause emotional tragedy. I think mental illness will affect people's emotional judgment, but it is not the disease but the correct concept that causes tragedy in the end, which is the bottom line of a person's life. Constantly. Overcome physical or psychological obstacles to reach happiness and cultivate correct self-awareness. If you are in a state of self-denial every day, you only feel that I don’t want to, don’t dare, and it’s naturally unworthy…”
Qiao Lan played cards completely out of common sense, even Ji Su did not expect that Qiao Lan would not go in the direction he expected at all.
He originally wanted to take the opportunity to make Qiao Lan sober, so that Qiao Lan would understand that his relationship with Tan Mo would never end, and that no one would support him. As a result, Qiao Lan couldn't get in at all.
He suddenly couldn't understand, what kind of ecstasy soup Tan Mo gave Qiao Lan, which could make Qiao Lan paranoid to such a degree that she could call black things white.
As a result, he was slightly surprised that after Qiao Lan finished speaking, several people nodded in agreement, saying that what Qiao Lan said made sense, and the question itself was not quite right, especially when Roman was madly applauding Qiao Lan.
Ji Su frowned.
It shouldn't be like this.
It is not normal to have mental illness itself, and such abnormal people cannot have normal love. What is wrong with this view
Who in the audience has seen a real mentally ill person, who knows better than him the tragedies that such a person will cause, and who will not, all of them are just talk on paper.
Some people feel sensitively that today's discussion is full of indescribable gunpowder smell. Qiao Lan's speech is obviously aimed at Ji Su, but Ji Su didn't say anything at the end, just let everyone go back and no one wrote. An experience, hand in it when the time comes.
When Qiao Lan returned home, she stared at the group files sent down on the computer, not wanting to write a single word of her irritability.
She wanted to ask Ji Su to understand, and to find out if it was what she thought, but she had no evidence and no evidence. What would she do if she was caught by Ji Su and found out about Tan Mo's secret.
Tan Mo came in from outside and asked what she was doing. Qiao Lan quickly forked the group file, "I was thinking about how to tell the president about quitting the club."
What's so confusing, there is actually an easier way.
Just quit. After quitting, there will be no chance to meet Ji Su again, and will not be involved in the right and wrong in the club. Whether Ji Su is intentional or not, as long as he quits, it doesn't matter.
Tan Mo stretched out his hand from Qiao Lan and hugged the person across the chair. After being silent for a while, he asked, "Did something happen to you?"
"No," Qiao Lan said, "I just think I prefer to be with you than to go to a club."
Tan Mo just wanted to rub someone into his arms for a moment, and called her in a low voice in Qiao Lan's ear.
"Yeah," Qiao Lan replied.
"We will get married after graduation, okay?"
Qiao Lan smiled, "It doesn't have to be graduation. I think about it, the legal age for marriage for girls is 20, so I can get married in my third year. Oh no, the legal age for boys is 22, my boyfriend is my boyfriend. He's younger than me, so it looks like he should wait until he graduates."
Tan Mo: "… "
Suddenly I hate that I am younger than Qiao Lan.
Why is he only eighteen now
Why is the legal age of marriage so unfair for men and women
Tan Mo hugged someone who was deliberately causing harm from the chair, and led him into the bedroom in Qiao Lan's exclamation.
close the door.
settle accounts.
Two days later, the members of the psychological society began to hand in their homework. Ji Su casually looked at the emails, and finally moved them to the emails sent by Qiao Lan.
But as soon as the mail was opened, Ji Su froze in the chair.
Instead of waiting for Qiao Lan's homework, he waited for an application to quit the club.
Qiao Lan's email is quite well-written, and it may be copied and pasted from the Internet. The email said that he is under too much pressure to study and cannot take care of the affairs of the community. Although I am sorry, there is no way to do it. I also ask the president to agree.
Things went in a direction Ji Su didn't expect again, and Ji Su finally felt that he seemed too calm before.
He did so much, trying to make Qiao Lan understand, but Qiao Lan didn't understand anything at all, and he didn't even know that he liked her.
Ji Su stared at this email for a long time, then turned off the computer and took out his mobile phone, and called Qiao Lan.
Qiao Lan just finished class, glanced at her phone, and picked up the phone without being too surprised.
"Why did you suddenly quit the club?" Ji Su asked over there.
"Senior, I have written it very clearly in the email."
Ji Su frowned irritably, "I don't need to talk about the scene, I'm talking about the real reason. If I guessed correctly, it's because of your boyfriend."
"It's my fault to quit midway," Qiao Lan sincerely apologized, "but there is no rule that the school is not allowed to quit the club. As for why I quit, it has nothing to do with the senior, I can choose not to answer."
After a long silence over there, he finally said,
"Qiao Lan, I think we need to talk."