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Huo Ran was surprised.
I didn't expect that there are so many netizens who share the same confusion as him.
He scrolled through the pages and found that the titles of every web page were similar, all of which were [After meeting online, the man/woman suddenly ignored me/replied very slowly/said she was very busy, what is the reason/what should I do/should I continue?].
The two or three lines of small print summary below the title are filled with sensational words such as "dislike", "crash", and "cold treatment".
Huo Ran took a quick glance and became more and more nervous. He picked up the cup and took a sip of water. He calmed down and randomly selected a lucky web page and clicked it.
[Netizen 1: emmmm, you know we have always been... ]
[Netizen 2: We need to analyze the specific situation. She may be busy with something. Give her some time.]
[Netizen 3: The above people are all so gentle, so let me be honest: I am not satisfied with your appearance, as the saying goes, "You will die in the spotlight." Please accept my condolences.]
Huo Ran couldn't help it and rushed to the bathroom to look in the mirror.
An hour later, he returned to his seat and felt that it shouldn't be necessary.
So he calmed down again and clicked on another lucky web page.
[Netizen 4: Why else? They saw the face and found that they couldn't get along, so they just slipped away when they saw that the situation was not right.]
[Netizen 5: She has already rejected me politely. Please don’t keep asking for the truth. It will hurt your self-esteem.]
[Netizen 6: How many days has it lasted? If it lasts for one or two days, something might have happened suddenly. If it lasts for more than three days, I suggest you take one.]
Huo Ran did some calculations in his mind. After eating hotpot on Sunday, it was now Thursday, a full five days.
He calmly picked up the cup and drank water, his fingers clicking through a bunch of web pages.
However, the replies in this type of posts are basically a combination of the above three types of messages in different orders.
Huo Ran decided to try a different approach. He flipped through a few pages and clicked on an article with an extremely attractive title.
After meeting online, your significant other suddenly becomes too busy to chat with you? Check out these three reasons to see if it’s because of you! They’re very accurate and venomous! Be careful!
When you see the word "Caution", you have to click on it. This is a surprisingly common weakness of most humans.
[The first reason: ugly! Although I think it’s a bit hurtful to put this reason first, it is indeed the number one reason for online dating failure. If the foundation is okay, maybe it can be saved by working on it. Otherwise, don’t meet in person in the future...]
[The second reason: you did something that made the other person unhappy when you met! For example, you were careless and didn't consider the other person, or you said something wrong in a hurry. I think if this is the case, you should be able to save the relationship if you try to reflect on it.]
So far, Huo Ran has remained calm and does not need to drink water to calm himself for the time being.
[The third reason: Maybe you did nothing wrong, but you just don’t meet the other person’s imagination of their significant other! I won’t go into detail about this because there is no solution. It can only be said that there is no fate! I hope you can find your own happiness soon!]
[Okay, the above are the reasons why your significant other suddenly becomes too busy to chat with you after you meet online. I hope that after reading this carefully compiled article, it can help you solve your confusion.]
The glass was immediately empty.
Huo Ran regretted clicking on this page. This editor was really vicious.
He now felt even more depressed.
Five days ago, Huo Ran was very happy. This happiness gradually reached its peak in his reverie and then plummeted.
This ups and downs in his mental state can be seen from the changes in the content of his chats with Huo Sihan.
first day.
[hr: The hot pot is really delicious.]
[hr: Watching him eat makes me feel so happy.]
[I can’t do this again woooooooo:!! No dog abuse!!]
[I can’t do this again, sob sob: I just want to ask one question, is he handsome?]
[hr: A little more handsome than me.]
[hr: He seems to be your type, but don’t worry, he likes me.]
[hr: cat giggles.jpg]
[I can’t do this again, woooo:? From now on I don’t have a brother.]
the next day.
[hr: Hugs feel so good.]
[hr: I will store this dress in a separate closet.]
[Darunfa Brewing Vinegar Year: Wuwuwu, go away! ! ! ! ! ]
[hr: He reached out and touched my hair!]
[hr: So this is what it feels like to be touched on the head.]
[hr: But people can’t stop washing their hair, is there any way to preserve it? ]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing: No!!! Please be normal, I’m scared.]
Day 3.
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing Years: Dear brother, next time you two meet, can you let me hide around and take a look at you secretly?]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing Man: I am so curious, so anxious, please let me see my ideal type with my own eyes, please! I can’t do anything!!]
[hr:… ]
[hr: I’ll think about it.]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing: Where is your proud peacock tail? Why is it so weak today?]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing Co., Ltd.: What have you been talking about these past two days? What are you going to eat next time? I think Japanese food is better. There just happened to be a new restaurant next door!]
[hr：No…]
[hr: I'm going to bed, good night.]
Day 4.
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing: Wow, you actually skipped work consecutively! Where did you go to hang out?]
[hr: Not going out, staying at home.]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing Co., Ltd.: Uh, I feel like you seem to be in a bad mood these past two days. If you have any troubles, please tell me and I will cheer you up.]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing Years: Could it be that… your ideal type is ignoring you?]
[hr:_(:3∠)_]
[hr: He said he was quite busy these days.]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing Year: … Did you start to get busy after eating hot pot? ]
[hr: Yes, he told me on the way back.]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing Year: Wow, this brother is too direct, awesome! ]
[hr: What directly?]
[Darunfa Vinegar Brewing for 20 Years: It’s better for you not to know, keep a little innocence and hope in life…]
Day 5.
After waiting for half a day and still not receiving any boastful response from Huo Ran, Huo Sihan understood everything and wisely stopped asking questions. She rarely sent a cute and warm expression to her poor brother.
[A more obedient one: little penguin hug.jpg]
This nickname is so eye-catching.
Huo Ran felt unhappy for no reason. With a heavy heart and not wanting to believe his sister, he turned on the Baidu search.
Then I got a lot of critical hits.
Faced with the carefully compiled article by the venomous editor, Huo Ran began to reflect on every little thing that had happened during this period of time.
Although Tao Zhiyue said that he liked me when he was drunk, what if that was just drunken talk...
Even if it is not drunken talk, after actually meeting and having in-depth contact, you may regret it because you feel something is not right.
Even though he tried very hard to arrange everything that day, he still felt that he did not do well. He was flustered and awkward, and there were many things he wanted to say but he didn't finish saying them.
Thinking of this, Huo Ran suddenly had an idea and felt that he had found the blind spot.
[hr: I know what the problem is.]
[One is more obedient: ? ]
[A more obedient person: Although I have a feeling that I am going astray, I will speak quickly.]
[hr: We haven’t confirmed our relationship yet, how can it be called online dating.]
[hr: It hasn’t even started yet, how can there be any failure or failure?]
[hr: Please change your nickname, I don’t like it.]
[The pretty girl is speechless: ... For the sake of your ideal type, I forgive your rudeness.]
[Pretty girl is speechless: So what?]
[hr: So I have to prepare a formal confession! ]
[hr: Although I said I liked him before we met, I didn’t say it after we met. This is wrong and can easily lead to misunderstandings.]
[hr: After all, when we first met, I kept saying that I was straight. Wouldn’t it look fake if I changed so quickly?]
[hr: I must let him know that I like him very much now.]
[hr: It doesn’t matter whether I’m busy or not. No matter what, I want to express my feelings completely.]
[hr: If he agrees, then we can start dating. If he doesn’t agree, I will try harder.]
[The pretty girl is speechless: Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.]
[The pretty girl was speechless: I felt the goose bumps and tears came out.]
[The pretty girl was speechless: Brother, where did you buy your brain? Get me one too.]
[The pretty girl was speechless: I want to change it for my future partner.]
[hr: You are dreaming, this is the only limited edition in the world.]
[hr:dog rolling around.gif]
Huo Ran is well again.
People can never accurately guess other people's thoughts and intentions. There is no point in worrying about gains and losses and having wild imaginations.
It is better to do everything you can to the best of your ability.
Put your truest feelings in front of that person. No matter the result is good or bad, he can accept it because he has pursued it sincerely and expressed it passionately.
Love is a human instinct and has nothing to do with the person being loved. The pressure should not be borne by another person.
This is what Huo Ran said to Tao Zhiyue a few days ago.
Huo Ran was very happy to experience this instinct for the first time, because it would bring endless beauty to another person and would also leave unforgettable memories for himself.
[hr: Will you still be busy on weekends?]
[hr: If you are not busy, why not come to Yanping? There are many delicious foods here! ]
[hr: It’s okay if you’re busy. I’ll come back next week to ask.]
[hr: Week is also OK! ]
[hr: cute and mixed.jpg]
It was already evening when Tao Zhiyue saw the message.
He was busy for four whole days without stopping. Even before going to bed, he was thinking about how to implement the function he had to write tomorrow. He felt like he was about to collapse and relived the long-lost state of working overtime.
Fortunately, everything has been handled, the handover documents are fully written, and the update requirements for this version have been written in advance, leaving some buffer time for recruiting new people.
He had just obtained his resignation certificate from the HR department and had an appointment to have an interview at Guan Yudong's company tomorrow, thus ending this successful and busy week.
When talking to the HR, Tao Zhiyue unconsciously thought of another "HR", and a smile naturally flowed in his eyes.
The dignified and generous HR sister touched her face embarrassedly and gave him a very beautiful smile.
He walked towards his workstation with his resignation certificate. The red light of the setting sun dyed everything with a hazy color. The computer on the desk had a black screen, and the shopping bag he usually used for buying groceries was filled with a water cup and a tissue box. Otherwise, everything was clean.
In the corner of my eye, the magnolia tree downstairs has finally blossomed, its intertwined branches almost reaching into the window, dotted with bunches of pure white flowers as big as clouds.
He suddenly realized that he hadn't had a good chat with Huo Ran for a long time, and he hadn't paid attention to the changes in the scenery outside the window for a long time.
[Tao: OK, come this weekend.]
[Tao: After the work is done, things will return to normal starting next week. This week was an accident.]
Tao Zhiyue really wanted to tell the other party in person that he had resigned and was going to switch to a more promising company that could make games that he truly liked.
This is a new starting point in his life. The unknown person who always hides behind the computer is determined to become a completely different person from the past and try not to be afraid of the gazes of others.
Although he couldn't tell Huo Ran the reason, Tao Zhiyue wanted to share this excitement that was about to overflow.
[Tao: I won’t work overtime anymore, I promise.]
Life is long, but days are short. This time Tao Zhiyue doesn't want to repeat the same mistake. He wants to spend all his time outside of work seriously wasting it on trivial things.
So he took a picture of the red clouds and white flowers outside the window and sent it to Huo Ran who was in another city at the moment.
[Tao: The magnolia flowers downstairs are blooming. They are very beautiful. I want to see them with you.]