Gu Nianzhi was very upset when he heard this and expressed his objection without hesitation: "You want to change my bad habits to become your goddess? No, Mei Xiawen, I don't want to be such a goddess."
"Read it?" Mei Xiawen smiled slightly and said confidently: "Don't object in a hurry. When we fall in love with someone, we will want to become a better person for him. - You don't want to Do I do this?"
Gu Nianzhi was speechless for a moment. She thought about it carefully and shook her head: "No, you can't ask me to change myself and become what you like. Either you like me now. Or you can find a goddess who suits your heart. , I won’t change myself for you.”
The smile on Mei Xiawen's face faded, and the corners of his drooping lips showed his displeasure.
Even if you don't agree with what he said, can't you say it in a tactful way
At this point, Ginger Black Tea was obviously better than Gu Nianzhi.
If she disagrees with something, she will not openly express her objection, but will quietly change his views and concepts like a spring breeze, so that the two of them can reach an agreement without hurting his self-esteem.
As for Gu Nianzhi, he was still too young and did not understand compromise and submission.
Mei Xiawen sighed, the little girl still needs training...
But although it was tiring to teach, it molded her completely according to his own wishes, which was much better than Jiang Hongcha's gentle stubbornness.
Let's put it this way, Mei Xiawen felt that being with Gu Nianzhi was probably tiring at the beginning, because it took a lot of effort to change her and erase her inappropriate edges and corners and the pampered personality deep in her bones.
But later on, their relationship will be seamless.
Gu Nianzhi will become a docile woman who regards him as her God, obeys his words, and loves him all her life.
As for Jiang Hongcha, although he liked her very much, she had betrayed him. This was a shortcoming that would always be brooding in his heart and difficult to ignore.
This shortcoming is enough to wipe out her many advantages.
Although Gu Nianzhi has many shortcomings now, the advantage is that she is young, smart and beautiful, and has no family background. When she gets married in the future, she will not rely on her parents' family to make trouble with him. This kind of girl is actually the most suitable to be a child of a family like his. Wife.
Because he no longer needs to rely on marriage to achieve a certain combination of interests.
"Nianzhi, don't talk so full of words." Mei Xiawen cheered up, "The reason why you don't want to change for me now is because you don't love me that way yet. When your feelings for me get deeper and deeper, then You will naturally want to change for me, even if I don’t say it, you will want to show a better version of yourself in front of me.”
Gu Nianzhi became even more silent after hearing Mei Xiawen's words.
She was lying on the bed, holding her panda pillow in one hand and holding the phone in the other. She stared at the milky white relief on the ceiling, and a voice whispered in her heart: In this world, she would only be willing to become a person for one person. Even better, that’s Uncle Huo…
She respects him and worships him. He is her entire faith and reliance, so she is willing to do her best to be her best self in front of him.
But what does this have to do with love
Gu Nianzhi calmed down and said tactfully to Mei Xiawen: "Xia Wen, I think you are wrong. We will try to be better people for the expectations and concerns of our elders. But between lovers, what we have to do is ourselves. . If you can't accept who I am and try to change me to meet your requirements, I really can't do it." After a pause, he said calmly: "Don't waste your time with me."
Mei Xiawen's heart skipped a few beats, and his voice suddenly became louder: "Nianzhi?! What do you mean?! Just because I made a request, you want to break up with me?! - I don't agree! I It’s not allowed! Listen, I don’t agree!”
Mei Xiawen waved his arms and circled around the window to vent his anger.
Fortunately, this office is on a high-rise building on the 30th floor, so there is no need to worry about anyone seeing his gaffe through the window.
Gu Nianzhi was frightened by Mei Xiawen's sudden excitement, so she had to comfort him repeatedly: "Xia Wen, Xia Wen, just be quiet, be quiet. Come on, take a few deep breaths, go drink a glass of water, yes, put down the water glass. , sit back on the sofa..."
Her voice was soft and sweet, like magic, which made Mei Xiawen do what she asked step by step.
It wasn't until he sat back on the sofa and saw a glass from which he had just finished drinking water placed on the coffee table in front of him that Mei Xiawen smiled bitterly and said: "Nianzhi, I said I wanted to change you, but you are actually changing me, right? "
Gu Nianzhi chuckled, "I'm not that powerful. Monitor, you already have strong self-control ability. I'm just reminding you."
The words "Monitor" came out, and the distance between the two people who were already close seemed to widen further.
Mei Xiawen was very upset and knew that he had made a mistake.
This little girl is obviously not madly in love with him yet. He is really too anxious to make those demands now and almost scares her away...
"Nianzhi, it was my fault just now. You are such a good girl, why do you need to change? Besides, if you really change, it won't be you. I just like you like this." Mei Xiawen held the phone and wiped it There was sweat on his forehead, "You see, long-distance love is so unreliable. We had a quarrel, and I couldn't even coax you in person."
Gu Nianzhi smiled quietly and corrected Mei Xiawen: "Xiawen, we are not in a relationship yet. Don't forget, we have an appointment for half a year."
Their agreement was that after Gu Nianzhi returned to China half a year later, if Mei Xiawen still wanted her to be his girlfriend, she would formally agree to him.
"Well, look, I love you so much. I already regard you as my girlfriend. Otherwise, I wouldn't have made such an outrageous request." Mei Xiawen spoke softly, and her clear baritone was very moving. "Nianzhi, you have to forgive me for being confused just now. You have taken psychology as an elective, and you should know that people are only in danger of seeking perfection when facing the people closest to them."
Gu Nianzhi took psychology for half a semester in college in order to study his own mental state and find a way to restore his memory.
She didn't pay much attention to other aspects.
When Mei Xiawen said this, she vaguely remembered that there was indeed such a saying in psychology.
"Okay, okay, don't apologize. It's normal for two people to have conflicting views. Otherwise, why would they need to reconcile? You think so? It's indeed a long journey for two completely different people to achieve complete physical and mental consistency. Process." Gu Nianzhi simply analyzed the relationship between the two from a psychological perspective, and was actually able to explain it succinctly.
Talking on paper has always been her specialty.
Mei Xiawen frowned when she heard this, but knowing that she had just been annoyed, she didn't say anything against it.
Jiang Hongcha waited for him in the restaurant downstairs for a long time, but did not wait for him to come for lunch. The call showed that he was still on the phone, so she finally had to find him.
"Xia Wen, do you still have lunch? I brought it for you." Jiang Hongcha opened the door of his office and walked in carrying a bag of lunch.
Mei Xiawen raised his head and made a "silence" gesture to her, and said to Gu Nianzhi: "Okay, my little psychologist, it's very late, you should go to bed."
Gu Nianzhi: "..."
"Go to sleep." Mei Xiawen said softly to the phone, "mua, I'll give you a good night kiss."
Gu Nianzhi found that goosebumps were appearing all over her body. Without saying a word, she picked up the phone and threw it far away on the small sofa opposite the bed.
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"Who are you calling? You spoke so softly." Jiang Hongcha sat next to him and glanced at Mei Xiawen's cell phone screen, seeing that it was Gu Nianzhi's profile picture that had just faded away, "Is she your little girlfriend?"
"The little guy got angry and coaxed her." Mei Xiawen stretched out her arms and hugged Jiang Hongcha who was sitting next to him. She turned her head and saw Jiang Hongcha curling her lips, "What's wrong? Are you jealous?"
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This is the first update.
The second update should be two updates in one, including a monthly pass of 45oo for an additional update, around one o'clock at noon.
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(To be continued.)