Recently, Ning Wan has been able to communicate with the newly recruited big par in the office every day. Regarding the case of the other party, Ning Wan has become more and more comfortable in analyzing the case. Basically, she has established a communication frequency of one email per day with the other party. It seems that a tacit understanding has also formed between.
I have to say that the big par is the big par. Sometimes the other party just simply raises points, but Ning Wan often feels clear after reading it, and the other party is not good at being a teacher, so many points are only mentioned, leaving room for Ning Wan to think. In addition to the case, Ning Wan also asked for some doubts about her career planning. The other party also answered carefully and patiently, and even shared a lot of her own personal experiences and insights.
Although I have never seen this big par himself, Ning Wan has been with each other for a long time, and she is full of trust and respect for the other party psychologically, and her idea of joining his team is even stronger.
Ning Wan was originally interested in community work, but now she has new motivation and goals, and she is more energetic every day.
Early in the morning, she resolved several telephone consultations, and when she was free, she remembered that she should take care of Chen Shuo.
"Is it better after talking with Dr. Zhao yesterday? Do you still have the urge and frustration to end your life?"
Chen Shuo didn't look very good. He glanced at Fu Zheng who was sitting on the other side with a ugly face. Only then did he smile at Ning Wan: "It's much better." Chen Shuo continued as if trying to suppress some emotions. "I don't want to die anymore." He glanced at Fu Zheng again, "After all, I thought about it, I haven't found a girlfriend yet, and I can't die yet."
"That's right!" Ning Wan patted Chen Shuo on the shoulder, "Just figure it out! Would you like me to introduce it to you? What style do you like?"
"No." Chen Shuo pursed his lips, "I..."
It's a pity that he was interrupted by a knock on the door before he could finish saying "Someone I like".
Leaning against the door is a slender figure. The temperature in Rongshi is not low now, but the other party is still fully armed, wearing thick long-sleeved trousers, a hat, and an autumn and winter scarf around his neck. There is a pair of sun-shading mirrors on his face, a little cowering, but although the person is wearing a strange outfit, the other party’s behavior is gentle and reasonable-the door of the community office is open all year round. Therefore, few people knock on the door panel so politely before entering.
"Sorry to disturb you, I want to consult about divorce..."
The voice of the other party was soft and tactful, which can be described in a soft voice. It was a female voice that was very comfortable to listen to. She choked slightly, which made Ning Wan feel a little familiar. She hurriedly greeted people in: "Come in, can you Can you tell us roughly about your situation? Why do you want to get a divorce?"
The other person walked in shrankly, turned around and looked at the door: "Can... Can you close the door?"
Before Ning Wan spoke, Fu Zheng and Chen Shuo got up to close the door at the same time. In the end, Fu Zheng had a better height and longer legs. He arrived at the door earlier than Chen Shuo, and Yiyan closed the door.
Divorce cases involve a lot of personal privacy. This consultant has a very young voice, and it is normal for him to pay attention to protecting his privacy and not want anyone to interrupt him.
It's just that after Fu Zheng closed the door, the other party obviously looked like a frightened bird, her voice choked with anxiety: "Can you lock the door?"
"I'll go!" Chen Shuo almost hurriedly said this time, and immediately trot to lock the door in front of Fu Zheng.
On weekdays, Ning Wan would definitely sigh for the positivity of Fu Zheng and Chen Shuo. However, at this moment, she looked at the client sitting at her desk, but frowned. She seemed to remember who it was.
Seeing that the door was locked, the other party seemed to finally let go of the tight string, which was not so flinching and alert, and then took off his hat.
Originally, she didn't take off Ning Wan, but she felt strange that the other party was wearing so many things. When the other party actually took off his hat, then took off his glasses and scarf, Ning Wan's mood became heavier as she proceeded.
The other party’s face was blue and purple, one eye was still swollen and blood stained, and a little bit of iodine was applied hastily around the eyes, and the yellow that smeared around the skin made her hurt even more shocking. A small swollen eye can only open a slit, the corner of the mouth is also broken, and there is bloody scab, the whole face is completely invisible from the gentle facial features of the last consultation, like a face The dirty canvas painted at will, dilapidated, decadent and gloomy.
Ning Wan's heart was stagnant.
She remembers very clearly that this young woman had come to her for consultation a few months ago. She had wounds on her face and tears in her eyes. She wanted to divorce because of her husband's domestic violence.
Ning Wan has the habit of recording the consultations she has handled, and the records of domestic violence cases are more detailed than usual. She clearly remembers that she had instructed the other party to report to the police and taught the other party how to retain domestic violence. The evidence also expressed willingness to provide legal aid.
Afterwards, the other party did not find Ning Wan to continue the divorce, and she was not too surprised, because at the time the young client seemed to have a not bad family background, and was also polite and clear in his speech. At first glance, he was highly educated. This kind of material Clients who are not in a bad condition may not be willing to choose a community lawyer in the end. After all, community lawyers feel that most people are aid in nature. There is a general perception that free or cheap ones are not good, so many conditions are acceptable. Clients are more inclined to spend money to find a senior attorney.
It’s just the tragic appearance of the young woman in front of her. She probably didn’t really find a lawyer to sue for divorce after consulting herself...
"Lawyer, I want to sue for divorce. I was beaten by my husband... I am afraid that if this continues, I will be beaten to death by him..."
The young woman's voice was hoarse and choked, but her eyes were so absent that she couldn't cry. But when she opened her mouth, Ning Wan found out that she was missing half of one of her front teeth, which she thought was interrupted by her husband...
Chen Shuo has not seen each other, but Fu Zheng has also seen him. He glanced at Ning Wan with a solemn expression, and obviously recognized the other party: "Can you tell us what's going on?"
About the locked door finally gave the other person a sense of security. The young woman looked around with a wink and then finally cried out: "Please, help me!"
She was emotionally agitated, and her mental state seemed a bit trance, but in the intermittent narrative, Ning Wan and the three finally figured out the facts-
The young woman's name is Shu Ning, as expected, she is a high-achieving student with a PhD in mechanical engineering.
"My husband, Yu Feiyuan, is my master's and doctoral classmate, because with the same mentor, I often work together when doing projects and experiments, and he is a professional, and there are many common topics. We were together in the second year of graduate school. He took good care of me when I was in school together, and the doctoral dissertation was under great pressure. We also helped to come along. It was a good time to see the truth in adversity, and the relationship has always been good. Once I graduated with a Ph.D., it was natural to get married."
"I had already received a job offer from the R&D department of a large multinational company. I really wanted to go to work. I used to have contraception. But I didn't expect an accident. I found out that I was pregnant at the time. Just get pregnant, so I decided to take care of my husband at home and then start my career. My husband also voted for this company's resume. I was ranked first in the interview and written examination results, and he was second. I gave up the offer and just accepted him. In this way, I also feel that it will not be wasted, and that the fertilizer will not flow into the field of outsiders. I was very happy at the time. After all, this job is considered to be a particularly good job for our professional counterparts, and the starting point is high and the income is rich."
Speaking of this, it is about recalling the beauty of the past, which is even more traumatic than the tragedy of the present. Shu Ning’s face showed pain: “I was really happy at the beginning, and Feiyuan was also very good to me. In the Lord, he was very considerate to me during pregnancy, and he was very considerate after the birth of my daughter. Our family of three had a very good life at the time, but..."
Shu Ning suppressed her crying: "I just didn't expect him to change... Since the child went to kindergarten at the age of three, he has changed and became irritable and sensitive. At first he quarreled with me and threw things at random, but then he became mild. Push and push, and then... ”
Ning Wan was bitter and depressed. The escalation pattern of domestic violence cases is always similar, but few victims will realize that this is not a person who has changed, but that the other person is such a person, falling in love and just entering marriage. I sometimes wear the skin of self-beautification, and with the passage of time, my nature will gradually be exposed...
Shu Ning's tone was still puzzled and collapsed: "I also came for consultation last time. It was the first time I was beaten. I couldn't believe that he would treat me like this, thinking about divorce, but Feiyuan apologized later. , I will forgive him if it is not an example... But I never expected that my forgiveness not only failed to restore his heart, but also made him worse..."
Ning Wan looked serious: "Did you call the police this time?"
"Not yet..." Shu Ning yelled, "He is beating me very hard now, and it is too tight to see me, so I am not allowed to go out. This time I sneaked out. I was afraid to call the police and wait for the police to leave. He beat me harder..." She looked at Ning Wan as if for help, "Lawyer, help me, can you help me get a divorce? Can you help me fight for the custody of my child? I don’t care about money, I just want My daughter!"
"Did you call the police last time? Did you install a camera at home? Did you take a video of the other party beating you?"
This is the operation that Ning Wan taught her in detail when Shu Ning came to consult last time, but judging from the look of Shu Ning's dodge at this moment, it shouldn't be...
"Will there be witnesses from neighbors that can prove his domestic violence?"
Shu Ning shook her head and cried again: "I didn't dare to make a noise when I was beaten, otherwise I would be beaten more fiercely..."
Although Shu Ning hasn't finished speaking, Ning Wan can probably understand that a high intellectual like her usually wants face, believes in family ugliness, and does not want to let outsiders know about it.
But there is no police record, no video evidence, and no personal evidence... Although Shu Ning’s injuries are still unhealed, if he does not report to the police immediately after suffering the injuries, it will be difficult to prove that these injuries came from her own family. Violent, from her husband.
"Why didn't you take any measures last time?" Ning Wan only felt a bad breath in her chest. "If measures were taken then, she would not be so passive now."
Shu Ning lowered her head and wiped her tears: "The last time I went home, he knelt down and confessed his mistake, and slapped himself a dozen or so slaps. With that strength, his entire face was swollen. When I said that I was going to get divorced, I knelt down and kowtowed. My head broke and bleeds. I kept apologizing, saying that I was under pressure at work and I was in a bad mood. I was beaten in confusion for a while, and I will never again."
"I have had a relationship with him for so many years, thinking of the details of the previous relationship, those he treated me well, I just... And the child is still so young, if the child is divorced, the child will be a single-parent family without a father since childhood. I think about it. Considering that it was indeed the first time, I forgave him, and he also wrote me a letter of guarantee, saying that I won't commit the crime again next time."
What a similar story, the more Ning Wan listened to it, the more heavy and sighing in her heart: "But later on, he'uncontrollable temper', so he beat you again, and then all kinds of crying, confessing the mistake and writing the guarantee, and kneel down again. You forgive me again. He, then he'lost his temper' again, and couldn't hold back it, until later he got heavier and heavier and beat you like this?"
Shu Ning was stunned, and then nodded. Her expression was bitter: "Yes... I didn't expect that my forbearance would end up in exchange for this, I... I... I just quit my job so that he can be less stressed... "
When Fu Zheng heard this, he frowned, "You mean, your current state is unemployed?"
Without words, this may be just a casual question for Shu Ning. However, Ning Wan knows what Fu Zheng meant. Now that Shu Ning wants to divorce and fight for the custody of her children, can she prove whether she has a legitimate career? Having a stable income is very important.
Shu Ning’s children are no longer toddlers. Except for toddlers who tend to be sentenced to their mothers, older children follow the principle of how to live a better life for their children in custody judgments. Many full-time wives lose their custody rights when they go to court. That's it, because there is no income, and no ability to find a job, all year round full-time lives have destroyed the careers of these mothers.
"En." Shu Ning didn't know these twists and turns, she lowered her head and explained, "After giving birth to my daughter, I will take care of the child at home, but the child is now at school and I have free time, thinking After studying mechanical engineering, I have obtained a Ph.D. Don’t waste it. I also applied for my resume before, and I invested in the company of Feiyuan. I regretted losing the opportunity because of an unexpected pregnancy and wanted to work with him. "
"So it's your resume that no one wants to admit?"
Ning Wan feels a bit regretful, but returning to the workplace after marriage and childbearing is full of ups and downs. Shu Ning has a high degree of education, but she conceives and gives birth to children after graduation, so she lacks work experience, but she does not have the age advantage of a freshly graduated college student. May be devoted to work, it is indeed a huge disadvantage in job hunting...
It’s just that Shu Ning’s answer is quite surprising: “No, that company gave me an offer, and I’m very welcome to go.” At this point, Shu Ning finally gave the first faint smile since entering the office, “I’m here. I did my homework before applying for a job, wrote an industry research report on the situation of this company, analyzed the pros and cons of different mechanical devices, and made my own analysis and analysis on a mechanical failure that is often complained by customers in their star product. Suggestion, this report seems to be written in their eyes, and one of their R&D directors interviewed me personally, almost on the spot."
"That's great!" Ning Wan was really happy for Shu Ning, but when she was happy, she was a little confused, and almost at the same time, Fu Zheng asked Ning Wan what she thought--
"But why did you resign again? Is it because you dislike the working environment and the coworker's atmosphere is not good? Or the work intensity is too high? Or something happens at home and requires you to take care of the family?"
Shu Ning shook her head: "None. I like this job very much, and my colleagues take care of me very much. The kids at home are also very upbeat. They don't get sick at school and do all the homework by themselves." She choked again, "I just do it for Feiyuan resigned."
Hearing this, Chen Shuo also frowned: "He is the kind of old thought of being a male lead and a female lead? I think it's better if you are at home?"
Shu Ning wiped away her tears: "Yes, he feels that he has no face when I go out to work, and he seems to be alone in making money to support his family, so he doesn't support me in going out, and I am particularly unhappy after work."
"When I first started to submit my resume, he was very unoptimistic and kept attacking me. He said that although I am a PhD, my knowledge in the mechanical field is updated quickly. What I learned before is old-fashioned and it is useless at all. Work experience, no one will take a look at my resume... ”
"In short, it was very depressing during that period. I think about it, my husband said that, not to mention company personnel. He was very inferior. I did not give feedback after investing in a few companies. I felt that I was really doing something wrong. I just settled down and wrote The industry analysis report."
Hearing this, Ning Wan frowned: "You are going to work, your husband has been hitting you hard?"
"It's not a blow. He said that he was also for my own good. He gave me vaccinations first. Now it is not so easy to find a job. What's more, the workplace is now intriguing me a lot. Seeing these filth, let him guard me." Shu Ning said here, some things are very emotional, "He is actually very good to me, except that he can't control his temper and will hit me. It's pretty good..." Her eyes were red again, "Although he is a bit machismo, he really wants to protect me, saying that he can raise me for the rest of my life, he is a responsible man..."
At this moment, Ning Wan almost wanted to shake Shu Ning's shoulder to wake her up. What does it mean "all is fine except for hitting me"? It's totally impossible for a man to hit a woman!
Besides...
Just before Ning Wan spoke, Fu Zheng's voice sounded: "A man said to support you for a lifetime, advocating you not to go to work and discouraging your enthusiasm to reintegrate into society. This is not responsible at all."
"How come?" Shu Ning retorted almost subconsciously, "In the few years when I took my children at home and didn't go out to work, he was really nice to me, and he never beat me... To be honest, there was a problem between us. It started when I went to work. He felt that I didn’t devote myself to the family so much and became dissatisfied... I also thought of resigning, thinking that after resigning, the conflict between us will not intensify, not to mention his salary. It’s enough to support the family. But I didn’t expect... Even if I quit my job, his temper seems to have completely deteriorated, and it seems that we will never be able to go back..."
Speaking of this, Shu Ning started crying again, her tone full of pain and depression: "If you know this, I won't go to work with a resume at all..."
It is very sad that even Shu Ning did not realize that all her ideas have been brainwashed by her husband, and she framed the future for herself-she is a woman with the same education and excellent work as her husband. After graduating with a Ph.D., why should he return to the family in the main, while her husband can enjoy the stability in the rear and develop his career at the same time
"Is it a legal requirement for a female lead to be a male lead and a male lead? You are also excellent, why can't you also have your own piece of sky? You have never done anything wrong, it is your husband that is wrong." Ning Wan had a stomachache in her chest. However, he did not expect Fu Zheng to be one step faster than her. His tone was serious and cold, but his words were sharp and reasonable, "You have the right to choose your own life. The man who needs you to sacrifice your career and preferences to fulfill him is not at all. What is a good match? Marriage is a run-in, but it is never a unilateral sacrifice of one party. Your situation is clearly able to take care of both career and family. You have already undertaken more work in the family. Why is it because you did not follow his wishes? Can you lose your temper and beat others?"
Shu Ning yelled twice: "I can understand that he sometimes loses his temper. After all, men are under a lot of pressure outside, his performance appraisal is rigorous, the personnel fighting in the workplace and the banquet culture, although he doesn't like it, he still I have to cater to all kinds of dinners. He often drank and vomited before going home. He didn't want to. The man was really tired outside. Although I was raising children at home, I actually had no worries about life, so I don’t have to worry about my livelihood..."
Fu Zheng sneered and interrupted Shu Ning's words: "He said this to you, right?"
Shu Ning nodded: "Well, every time he loses control of his temper, he will explain in addition to apologizing. It is really difficult for men in modern society..."
"Then it's not difficult for women?" Ning Wan finally couldn't hold back, "Why can he only see his own difficulties? The male lead and the female lead the way he chooses, so the tiredness and pressure outside the lead Kneeling and crawling on my own, I have to go on, all the suffering can only be resolved by myself, instead of venting to the family, each of us ordinary people living in this world, who is not tired? He can share the damage of female childbirth Do you have labor pains? Did you vent the pain when you had a baby? Did you beat him?"
Shu Ning's gentle appearance is not a casual tantrum, and it is precisely because of such a gentle and easy-to-talk that people like Yu Feiyuan will be pinched by people like Yu Feiyuan.
"It's just to make excuses for yourself when you say that you are under pressure."
Obviously he was a victim and a helper, but at this time, Shu Ning helped Yu Feiyuan to speak: "He sometimes doesn't control his emotions, but before I go to work, he is really a good man..."
"A man who doesn't even control his emotions, to be honest, can't be said to be a good man at all. In this world, who doesn't live with fire? He has a bad temper and got angry at the company, why not just feel angry with him His boss made the decision, but instead vented to the innocent and weaker wife? This kind of man is bullying and fearing hard work. What kind of good man is he?"
Shu Ning pursed her lips, obviously wanting to say something, but in the end she didn't say anything, and started crying without a master.
She looks like this, Ning Wan has no choice but to pull out the materials: "You fill in this legal consultation service process sheet. If you can, try to find a job recently, so that it will be convenient to fight for the custody of the child. If the other party is unwilling to negotiate a divorce, then you must file a lawsuit. Once you go through the litigation process, you should be prepared for long-term combat. It is best to be separated at this stage. A long-term separation can help prove the breakdown of the relationship. On the other hand, because of his family Violence. Separation is a guarantee for your safety. If you don’t have a house to live in, go to the hotel first."
Shu Ning nodded like a straw.
"And the injury on your face. I think I just did a simple disinfection treatment. Can you report to the police and do an injury appraisal? Although the other party will probably not admit that the attack was caused by ourselves, we have to keep the evidence. , May be useful. Do you need us to accompany you?"
Shu Ning shook her head: "It's okay, I can do it myself."
"In addition, I will prepare an agency agreement for you later. If there is no problem, I will sign it. Then I will make a list for you. The original and photocopy of the materials on the list need to be sorted out to me, including the marriage certificate and your marriage. The details of some common property, real estate, and all the evidence that can prove your relationship broke down. It would be better if there is evidence of previous domestic violence."
Shu Ning finished filling out the flow sheet, leaving her contact information, and her red eyes thanked the three of Ning Wan again and again. Only then did she put on her hat, sunglasses, and scarf again, wrapped herself tightly again, and opened it. The door leaves.
Compared to the opening of his heart just now, it seemed as if the locked door opened, Shu Ning recovered to be the person who shrank, felt insecure about his surroundings, and even feared harm at any time.
Ning Wan looked at her back and sighed. Shu Ning can actually have a better life, just like her mother, but the difference is that Shu Ning at least decided to make a change, and her mother...
How much did Chen Shuo know about Ning Wan's family situation? He knew what the domestic violence case meant to Ning Wan, and he almost made a decisive statement: "Ning Wan, I will work on this case with you."
It's a pity that Ning Wan shook her head: "First, this case is not very challenging for you; second, Fu Zheng was there when Shu Ning first came to consult, and he had a clearer understanding of the cause and effect. In addition, he communicated with Shu Ning just now. He also has more of them. Obviously he has his own thinking about this type of case. Fu Zheng had no experience in handling marriage and family cases before, so he just took him to get started, so he and me are more suitable."
"But..." Chen Shuo didn't want to hand over this opportunity to handle the case with Ning Wan alone or even into her heart. He hurriedly said, "I have never done a housework case before, and I just want to do more when I come to the community. Fu Zheng is a newcomer to this kind of down-to-earth case. If you lead him to do this case, he will definitely have a little more effort, but I..."
"Lawyer Chen, this case has too much negative energy when you hear it. You just got better after Dr. Zhao's enlightenment. You shouldn't take over such a repressive case anymore. It is not good for your condition and easy to relapse." Fu Zheng smiled. Interrupting Chen Shuo, "I will do it."
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Ning Wan was originally thinking about her mother, and her heart was a little depressed, but looking at the proactive work enthusiasm of Chen Shuo and Fu Zheng and the deep and considerate friendship between each other, she only felt that there is true love in the world, and the relationship between people. , It's better than fighting! ,,,URL m.. ... Chat with book friends