But no matter what, the beauty trick does work. Yao H really lost the look in his eyes, and finally nodded: "Senior Yu Feiyuan has always had a good learning attitude. Teacher Gu also said that he is very serious, but even though he is the same as Senior Sister Shu Ning. Of the doctoral students, Mr. Gu obviously prefers Sister Shu Ning, who has published several articles in several core journals during her time at school."
"Then Professor Gu's evaluation of Yu Feiyuan is pretty good?"
"It was okay at first, but then..." Yao H bit his lip. "We gave Teacher Gu to celebrate his birthday. He drank too much. After drinking, he scolded Yu Feiyuan, and I knew that Teacher Gu hated him. ."
"Why do you hate it? Because of Shu Ning? So I hate the house and Wu?"
Yao H glanced at Fu Zheng and shook his head: "Teacher Gu said that Yu Feiyuan looked honest, but he didn't expect to be so scheming. After being drunk, he pulled us and talked a lot."
"Before, we had always envied Sister Shu Ning and Senior Yu Feiyuan, because when they graduated, they had already published about the same number of articles in core journals. Most of the articles by Sister Shu Ning were the first one, and Yu Feiyuan was the second one; But afterwards, there were also a few articles by Yu Feiyuan who was the first one, and the second one was the second one. In our view at the time, they were a strong alliance between the tyrants, but Mr. Gu told us that this was not the case... ”
"Ms. Gu said that in fact, the senior's academic ability is not good at all. Those second works are all because he was in love with Sister Shu Ning at the time. Sister Shu Ning likes what he likes, but she thinks she should help her boyfriend to hang on to him. ; In addition, the actual writer of those works by the senior is also Senior Sister Shu Ning. She is completely ghostwriting but gave him the opportunity to be the first author... "
This is really like Shu Ning's style. Sacrificing for love is willing to pave the way for the other party. He doesn't have such a big desire for power and reputation, so even the authorship of a work is willing to give it to Yu Feiyuan.
"How much Teacher Gu praised Senior Sister Shu Ning before, and now he treats her as a negative case. Every time he drinks alcohol, he can't help nagging and caring about us female students, telling us not to fail because of love. Mind, I always have to be number one, love myself first and then others, career first, and I didn’t want to go home and teach my children when I read a PhD..."
Even if it was reported by Yao H at this moment, Ning Wan could imagine Professor Gu's heartfelt regret when he said this. For the old professor who loves talents, it is also fate to meet a talented student like Shu Ning, but this student not only has no I chose to do academic work instead of business. Instead, I got married and had children and kept myself in captivity in my family life. I lost everyone else. I even cut off my teacher and my past contacts, as if I was going to make a clean break from the past. Like a sparrow...
Fu Zheng asked Yao H about a few details again, and then ended the investigation and expressed his gratitude to her.
Yao H blushed a little: "Lawyer Fu, can I add a WeChat?" She said nervously, "If I think of any clues in the future, I can tell you."
Fu Zheng naturally smiled and took out his mobile phone and added contact information to Yao H.
This was normal for handling the case, but Ning Wan wanted to roll her eyes for no reason. After leaving school with Fu Zheng, Ning Wan finally couldn't hold it anymore--
"Women can't fall in love with brains, so can men." Ning Wan glanced at Fu Zheng, and then turned her gaze away pretendingly, "handling a case is the first, and love is the second."
When he continued, Fu Zheng was stunned at first, then he looked at himself and laughed: "I see."
Ning Wan coughed uncomfortably: "Just... I can barely count you as a teacher. In order to prevent you from repeating Shu Ning's mistakes, if you want to fall in love, you can show me whether the other party is suitable or inappropriate. Look, how I say it is much more venomous than yours..."
"I'm not in love." Fu Zheng looked at Ning Wan, then narrowed his gaze, "I'm in my thirties, and I'm just an intern lawyer. I have no success in my career and I don't deserve to fall in love."
As a result, Ning Wan didn’t know what was going on. Let’s see Fu Zheng and others showing signs of love. She was not happy. When she heard Fu Zheng said that she was in love with her career, she was not in love with her, and she was not happy...
She tossed the thoughts in her mind and decided to focus on Shu Ning's case first -
"Now that we understand in many ways, what do you think of this case?"
Fu Zheng pursed his lips: "It's not very easy to fight. It may be a protracted battle. Yu Feiyuan is likely to be unwilling to negotiate a divorce, but he is very smart. There is almost no evidence to prove the breakdown of the relationship, including Shu Ning's injury, because there is no Promptly report to the police for evidence, I am afraid that it will be difficult to use as evidence. In addition, I have reviewed the precedents. In legal practice, even if there is real domestic violence, as long as the man admits wrong, many courts do not rule for divorce for the first time."
When the case progresses to this point, another breakthrough is still to be sought.
"But the marriage of Shu Ning and Yu Feiyuan, no matter how difficult it is, you have to divorce." Ning Wan thought of Shu Ning, and her heart was very heavy. I didn’t let it go. I fell in love with her. After falling in love, I asked her to use her resources to help and take advantage of her. On the one hand, she sucked her blood, on the other hand, she also suppressed her jealousy and guarded her, and brainwashed her all day long. The thinking of the male protagonist and the female protagonist, including breaking off contact with her former relatives and friends after marriage, made her passively shrink her social circle. I suspect that Yu Feiyuan brainwashed her to let her do it, and even Shu Ning was originally going to work. I didn’t plan to have a baby either, and I got pregnant inexplicably and unexpectedly. Thinking about it now, don’t you think it’s all suspicious?”
Fu Zheng nodded: "Including that before she wanted to return to the workplace to submit her resume, Yu Feiyuan was another blow. After going to Deep Blue Machinery, Yu Feiyuan also took the opportunity to magnify Shu Ning's mistakes and downplay her ability."
Ning Wan didn't have much hope for coming to the school to collect evidence. She indeed suspected that this was a waste of time and did not promote the case. However, after talking with Yao H, she was fortunate that she had come here.
Originally thought that Yu Feiyuan and Shu Ning were just ordinary family and marriage disputes, but the more you dig into Yu Feiyuan, the more terrifying she feels. He is not as simple as a domestic violence scumbag. This is a good PUA master!
He almost cut off Shu Ning’s path for the camp step by step, cut off past relatives and friends, did not want her to participate in the workplace, and suppressed her self-awareness, so that Shu Ning had been domestic violence for many years and there was no one to talk to. In his beatings and the sweet words of kneeling after his mistake, he chose to continue living in this situation, and over time he even accepted his set of brainwashing. He completely lost his independence and felt that women should serve and serve men. Is.
Almost as soon as she rushed back to the community office from school, Ning Wan called Shu Ning again. She still had some details to confirm--
"After you got married, you deleted all the contact information of your former classmates and teachers? Why?" Ning Wan didn't mean anything, she asked straightforwardly, "Did Yu Feiyuan let you do this?"
Shu Ning was obviously stunned: "Does this have anything to do with divorce?"
"Isn't it convenient for you to say?"
Shu Ning smiled bitterly: "It's okay. You still went to school in the end? Did Gu teacher mention me and didn't want to see you at all."
Ning Wan and Fu Zheng glanced at each other and did not speak.
Shu Ning sighed: "It is true that they were deleted to fly far." She recalled, "Although I graduated, I was in the same group with a few friends of the same level, and we still chatted from time to time. We are in mechanical engineering. There are many boys in the group, so there are most of the opposite sex in the group, but to be honest, I and them are really just friends, but Feiyuan doesn't believe me, I'm jealous when I talk to anyone."
"Hey, he liked me so much at the time. I was so jealous. It wouldn't work to see me talking to anyone. Even chatting with Teacher Gu would make him unhappy for a few days, saying he was insecure and afraid of me. Leave him at any time. I have quarreled with me several times over this matter. In fact, I would like to ask him to check my phone at any time. What is there to worry about? Later, the quarrel was so terrible. If I want to commit suicide, I thought about it. Anyway, it’s him who will live with me in the future. I just need to have a partner by my side in life. The rest of my friends are really just passing by. I’m afraid he will do stupid things again. Classmate, even Teacher Gu deleted it."
With such a horrible and pathological possessiveness, Shu Ning now talks about this past experience, with a little regret and reluctance on his face: "At the beginning, you saw how good our relationship was. He loves me and can be jealous at any time. Life can die, and I am willing to give my life to me, but now, it doesn’t hurt to fist me..."
Ning Wan almost wanted to shook her head to wake her up. What else can you live or die, give you all your life? This is not a romance novel. In reality, when you encounter such a terrible paranoid personality, in your mind There should only be two words--
Run!
It is a pity that Shu Ning did not run. She was indulged in the love dreams that Yu Feiyuan wove for her. She really obediently severed the connection with her past friends and teachers. She willingly followed Yu Feiyuan's mediocrity so that she is now divorced by domestic violence and even unable to do so. Provide evidence for the specific property details of the family.
Fortunately, she at least decided to divorce, staying away from Yu Feiyuan, she can always start a new life.
Ning Wan wanted to tell the truth about Yu Feiyuan, but Shu Ning interrupted her. She looked at the time a little haggardly: "I have to pick up my daughter right away. School is almost over, two lawyers, and there are What we call."
Ning Wan looked at the time and didn't force Shu Ning to stay, anyway, she was about to divorce, and there was plenty of time in the subsequent communication to help her expose Yu Feiyuan's face.
It’s just that Ning Wan didn’t expect that she and Fu Zheng were still thinking about obtaining evidence, but in just two days, Shu Ning changed their minds---
"Attorney Ning and Fu, I thought about it and decided not to divorce." The wound on her face was not completely healed, but she completely overturned her previous decision, "Just... the child is still young and I am divorced. , The child becomes a single-parent family. Even if I win the custody of the child, I have to go to work and bring the child. The child’s living environment is not as good as a two-parent family..."
Shu Ning's tone was a little embarrassing, but she spoke fast, as if the people who wanted to persuade were not Ning Wan and Fu Zheng, but herself: "This time Feiyuan came back from a business trip, she brought me many gifts and specially prepared candlelight. Dinner apologized and took me to the place where we had been when we were in love. He said this time it was really a painful experience, and he recognized his fault."
"But he said the same last time! Didn't the domestic violence continue in the end?!"
Shu Ning couldn't understand Ning Wan's anxiety, she lowered her head: "I believe Feiyuan is serious this time. I took advantage of him on a business trip and proposed a divorce with him to prepare to separate. As a result, he immediately went crazy, and said that he really couldn't. Without me, I cut my wrist that night... I also sent me a video of the wrist cut. He didn't go to the hospital until I finally agreed not to divorce. I... I heard him crying so sad on the phone and listened to him again. Speaking of our past and the children, I just... I still feel relieved... I decided to give him another chance..."
Shu Ning was still talking about something, but the negative emotions in Ning Wan's heart were almost about to explode. It was obvious that she was already an independent adult who could decide her life, but at this moment, time was like a reincarnation, Ning Wan I feel as if I have returned to that young summer-that squeeze, humid and gloomy summer when I can't see the way forward.
Throughout the summer, her father kept repeating the route of borrowing money, gambling money, losing money, getting debts, drinking, and beating his mother to give up. Every minute and every second, he seemed to be lingering in his ears. Swearing in the ears, accompanied by the sound of things being smashed constantly.
The shards of glass, the white gas from pouring hot soup on the ground, the punches and kicks that fell on his mother, and the smell of blood hidden in the air.
These memory fragments have almost accompanied Ning Wan throughout her adolescence, making her feel like a plant that does not like shade but lives in a dense forest where there is no sunshine all day long. There is no lightness in her youth, no ignorant first love, nothing worthy of. Some things to remember are only the mother’s silent crying, the father’s violent roar, and the stretched lack of money-in order to make up for her father’s gambling debt, almost all of the family’s savings were taken away by him, except for the mother’s beatings. Ning Wan had to work to save the remaining living expenses, tuition and the like.
In the long depression, Ning Wan tried hard to suppress the anger and unwillingness in her heart. She kept asking the same question in her heart-why didn't her mother get a divorce? Why can't she leave her father decisively? Why do you forgive again in the false confession of men after being injured again and again
"The child is still young, and I still have to have parents. I decided to give her a complete family..."
Shu Ning was still talking about something softly, and at this moment, in Ning Wan's eyes, her over-submissive to resigned appearance finally overlapped with the mother in her memory, and even their excuses for enduring this kind of life. It's all exactly the same--
"If I hadn't had my daughter, I might still consider divorce, but think about it carefully, I can't be so selfish. If I want to divorce, my daughter will become a child of a single parent family. It will be difficult to find someone in the future. Mind single parents, don’t think the child’s growth atmosphere is healthy... ”
Ning Wan knew that she should restrain her emotions, but at this moment, the anger in her heart for many years finally resolved.
"Children, children, it sounds good, it is for children, is it interesting to pretend to be a shield for children? To put it plainly is because you are timid and cowardly, you don't even have the courage to leave a wrong man and start your own life again!"
She looked at Shu Ning, with a faint trembling sound in her tone because of the huge emotions. Fu Zheng was stunned, and she really wanted to stop her, but at this moment, Ning Wan could not care about anything anymore---
"Do you think you are very selfless? In the end, just attribute the cause of your domestic violence to your child? Then when the child is older, tell her that your mother lived like this for you? Let the child live on you for the rest of your life Of guilt?"
Shu Ning obviously didn't expect Ning Wan's sudden attack, and she was stunned.
"What do you think is the happiness of children living in domestic violence? What kind of healthy family environment is there? A safe and loving environment is what children need most. Even if they are divorced, it is better than keeping trash. !"
Obviously he was Yu Feiyuan's victim, but Shu Ning defended the perpetrator at this moment, and even vaguely became angry: "Feiyuan is not as bad as you said, please don't attack him personally, he..."
It is always difficult for people to admit their mistakes frankly. It is difficult for people to recognize how bad their vision and taste are when they choose their spouse. Therefore, even if they are faintly aware of the problem in their heart, they will even self-brainwashed and paralyzed to cover up the problem. What's more, Shu Ning was brainwashed by Yu Feiyuan's long-term PUA suppression.
In such a long time in the community, Ning Wan hadn't seen someone with a worse character than Yu Feiyuan, but there was nothing that could make her empathize and feel as angry as this domestic violence case.
"Shu Ning, see for yourself what life you are living? You are much better than Yu Feiyuan, and you are reduced to his tool and squeezed. Apart from your wife and mother, your identity is first of all yourself! But now you What kind of self? Yu Fei is far from hitting you for the first time. Every time the violence escalates, but you can still bear it? Do you really have to wait for him to do irreversible damage to you, really want to beat you to life threatening? , Will you wake up?"
"If people don’t save themselves, no one can help her. If you don’t get divorced, just continue to live in this hell! Don’t think that you are so great to endure for your children. It’s not your child who is sorry for you, but you who are sorry for her! Cowardice and stupidity choose not to divorce so much so that the child’s childhood is full of the shadow of violence!"
Ning Wan’s words were sharp and sharp, and Shu Ning’s face was black with naked eyes: "Who are you? You are not your own extreme feminist anti-marriage and anti-birth? Shouldn't I be a lawyer respect the client? I don’t want to divorce. Feiyuan is my husband, I believe he can change it, do you still want to divorce me? I would rather demolish ten temples instead of one marriage. You are mentally distorted and you are not in good spirits, are you divorced? You don’t know how difficult it is for your woman. I’m divorced and the child’s life is not good. Can you be responsible?"
Shu Ning was originally an indecisive person. Ning Wan did not expect that her remarks not only did not wake her up, but instead scolded her for her rebellious psychology. If she had wasted the time of Ning Wan and Fu Zheng to help herself Investigating evidence still feels guilty, and now even this guilt is wiped out.
"Just say that you who can be community lawyers are not good lawyers!" Shu Ning said bitterly, "Who is it! It's up to you if I don't get divorced! Sure enough, Feiyuan was right. A low-level lawyer like you, wishing I got divorced, just to earn my lawyer's fees! When I saw that I refused to divorce, I showed such a face! What a shame!"
After Shu Ning finished speaking, she no longer cared about Ning Wan's reaction, and left like this.
Looking at her back, Ning Wan only felt disappointment, depression and anger in her heart. The same story, the same ending, unconsciously, Ning Wan still projected her expectations of her mother onto Shu Ning, but it was a pity. Shu Ning was no different, she almost actively chose to return to the kind of life controlled by the mind.
This was the gloomiest day since Ning Wan became a community lawyer. However, when she thought it was the downturn in her career, life once again gave her a heavy blow-she was complained by Shu Ning.