Kid Ji Fangyuan has been taken by his parents since he was a child. Of course, his grandma would sometimes come to snatch him.
He Qiuhui is so precious to him, she hugs her with all her heart and yells, whoever bullies her grandson can fight him desperately.
Of course, in terms of education, she is also domineering, almost transferring Ji Yang's education to Ji Fangyuan, arbitrarily and controlling.
This is not the worst, Ji Yang is not at home, He Qiuhui happened to be on vacation, so he came to help her look after the child.
In the end, when she woke up from her lunch break, she heard He Qiuhui saying to her child, "Your mother is bad and lazy, we Yuanyuan can't imitate your mother."
"We, Yuan Yuan, are smart kids. We want to learn from our father, go to university, and earn a lot of money."
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When Xue Mei heard it, she was stunned. How old is the child? Less than eight months old, sitting in the living room playing with toys, what can he understand
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"Did we, Yuanyuan, hear what grandma said?" He Qiuhui wiped the child's saliva with a tissue, and kept chanting, "Look at your mother being so lazy, she hasn't woken up since she slept all day. Take care of us Yuanyuan."
"Mom." Xue Mei walked over, picked up the child from the ground, and frowned, "You can't tell the child these things, he still doesn't understand anything, it's not good for him."
Last night, the child made trouble, she didn't sleep until midnight, Ji Yang asked her to catch up on sleep, He Qiuhui didn't say anything at that time, and asked her to sleep a little longer, now that Ji Yang left, why did she become lazy
The last time He Qiuhui said that she would take the child back to raise her, she was afraid that she would become the villain in the child's heart, and she would not even recognize her mother.
Sometimes the other party is really robbing her of the child, robbing the child's attention, and robbing the child's dependence.
"It's weird, I can't preach to my grandson? I can't teach him?" He Qiuhui also had a straight face.
"I'm not saying you can't teach, but it will have a bad influence on the child. I am his mother. If he understands, he will reject me. Is this the result you want to see?" Xue Mei held her temper patiently. explain.
"I can't tell the truth, can I? Aren't you lazy? Look, the aunt does the cooking, and the cleaners do the cleaning part-time. My son supports the house by himself. Of course you don't have to worry about anything. The house was bought by me and his father." House, I will also help you take care of the children, isn’t that okay? Look at the neighbors in the neighborhood, which one is better off than you?”
"Xiao Chen's daughter-in-law is still carrying the child to sell sesame seed cakes, and Ruidong's wife is also going to work. His father and I have worked hard all our lives, dragging Da Jiyang, and wanting to help Yuanyuan more..."
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"Wow wow wow..."
"Don't cry, Yuan Yuan is good, don't cry."
"Look, you can't even take care of your children right now, I'm so mad, I don't know what you do all day long."
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Accompanied by the child's heart-piercing cries, Xue Mei frantically coaxed, He Qiuhui's hidden dissatisfaction also erupted, and the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was directly on the surface.
He Qiuhui was dissatisfied, Xue Mei had endured it for so long, and she was also dissatisfied, as the scolding became more and more excessive, the two began to quarrel.
Who has the upper hand
In a round of quarrels, Xue Mei couldn't compare to He Qiuhui. In addition, Ji Yang's ability has become stronger now, and her life is getting better and better. She always lifts her chin wherever she goes, let alone how straight her waist is.
Who can earn tens of thousands a month in a small county
Except for the self-employed, most of them are not thousands? What's more, she doesn't even have a few thousand. How good is her son
Xue Mei quarreling
Still noisy
She will definitely not let it go, and expect her to be that kind of mother-in-law who compromises? Impossible in this life! Why did she work so hard to raise her son, take care of her grandson, and finally suffer
"Give me the child, can't you bear it? Let your mother take you back, how can you teach a daughter?" He Qiuhui roared, "I thought you were a hero, and our whole family has to support you, right? "
He has long been displeased with her behavior, and Ji Yang has become more and more disobedient to her, unable to intervene at all. In the final analysis, it is not Xue Mei who is acting as a demon behind her.
Xue Mei was about to cry on the spot, how much is this too much? You can scold her, why scold her mother? At that time, I was trembling with anger, and walked out with the child in my arms.
"You can go, the child stays." How could He Qiuhui let her take her heart away.
The two were at a stalemate again.
When Ji Yang came back, the two women were about to fight, so scared that he hurried forward to stop him.
After pulling it away, Xue Mei walked out again.
"Stop her!" He Qiuhui was anxious, and was about to pounce on her, but Ji Yang quickly grabbed her again, but the other party struggled, "Your wife is going to take the child away, take the child back quickly, don't let her take it away. "
"You go!"
Ji Yang looked at Xue Mei's closed door and He Qiuhui who was furious, and decided to appease her first, "Mom, what are you doing?"
He Qiuhui snorted coldly, her face livid with anger, "You daughter-in-law can't say it, or you'll just carry the child away, I've never seen such a daughter-in-law!"
"What's the matter? You are here now, I'll go and have a look." Ji Yang was the first and the second big.
"Bring Yuanyuan back, you bring him back." He Qiuhui's chest heaved violently. With Ji Yang's success, she can make more money, and she has enough confidence. She is his mother, and Xue Mei is overwhelmed. no
If you don't cure Xue Mei, do you really think she is a soft persimmon
Ji Yang hurried downstairs and ran to the door, only to find Xue Mei across the road, and the child was still crying.
"Don't cry, mom will take you to grandma's house." Xue Mei wiped away her tears, kissed her son's face sideways, and lost control of her emotions.
"Wow..." Ji Fangyuan was also frightened, his big eyes were red, and he hugged his mother in his small hands.
"Sister." Ji Yang was crossing the road, and called her, but Xue Mei didn't turn her head, but her footsteps became faster and faster.
Ji Yang finally caught up and grabbed her, "Wait a minute, don't be impulsive, what's the matter? Aren't you doing well today?"
"What's the matter? I'm really fed up." Xue Mei threw him away.
"Yuanyuan is still crying, I'll coax her." Ji Yang comforted her, stretched out his hand towards the child, and the other's chubby little hand also stretched out, "@#￥#…"
He looked aggrieved and asked his father to hug him.
Hearing He Qiuhui's words, how could Xue Mei hand the child to him at this time? Hug directly, "I won't give it to you."
The child is her life.
"What's wrong?" Ji Yang reached out and was opened by her again, Xue Mei suppressed her anger, "I want to go back, you stay at your house by yourself, don't bother my mother to take me away."
As she spoke, she was very sad again, and tried her best to suppress her choking, "Your mother is too much."
"What is your home and my home? Isn't that our home? Mom sometimes speaks too much, but she probably doesn't mean that." Ji Yang tried to comfort her.
During this period of time, he also tried his best to deal with both sides, but it was also very tiring. Since the child was born, the contradictions have become more and more serious.
"Didn't we discuss it? When the child is older, you will go to work, and then we will take turns to take him to the early education center during the day." Ji Yang wiped her tears.
It is true that children cannot live without people now, if He Qiuhui is to take care of them, there may be more problems, the educational thinking of the older generation is different from theirs.
Knowing that now is not the time to make trouble for no reason, Xue Mei told him what happened today, "What did Mom say? Also, this is not good for Yuanyuan. I know what she means. All along, the secret fight It hasn't stopped, but adults are adults, kids are kids, and he's still so young."
To put it bluntly, He Qiuhui wanted to be the master of the house, she was used to it, and she didn't like to see her relax.
"I'm just glad I bought another apartment at the beginning, but recently my mother rented it out again, saying that she would go back to the rental house. Do you have the heart to watch her go back then? Don't you want to live here and want to take care of her?" Yuanyuan?"
"It's not that I don't want her to watch it, it's also close, and my parents can help us take it. There are also classes with parents in the parent-child garden, but is this kind of education right? She wants to completely exclude me. Is it outside your house?"
"In your family, I am an outsider, but the child is my child, our child together."
Xue Mei held back some words for a long time, and didn't want to say them too bluntly. He Qiuhui challenged her bottom line again and again, and children were the bottom line she couldn't touch the most.
"We are a family." Ji Yang held her and the child in his arms, "You said, getting married is to form a small family. Our small family consists of the three of us. There is no one else, and you are not an outsider."
Xue Mei's strong words softened again, "Mom is wrong."
"I know, Yuan Yuan, I'll come and hug her." Ji Yang took the child in her arms, and the other party was also crying out of breath, holding him with tears in his eyes.
Both of them were heartbroken to death, thanks to He Qiuhui not rushing over, otherwise they would have cursed when they saw it.
The whole family revolves around this child, and if they do something like this again, they will be adopted directly.
"I'll solve this matter. Don't take Mom's words too seriously. If you're really in a bad mood, you can go back and live for a few days."
"I'll take you back."
Xue Mei got angry at that time, and came out without taking anything. At this time, she didn't have any money on her, and she couldn't go back.
But Ji Yang hadn't sent it yet, and He Qiuhui kept calling, it was a bombing.
If you don't answer, the other party will come down and search for it. After answering, there was a burst of questioning, and Ji Yang was really afraid that she would faint from anger.
There was no way, he sent Xue Mei and the child to the car, and he hurried back.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been unsolvable since ancient times, and both sides have reasons. If it is not solved properly, the conflict can escalate again.
As soon as you enter the door.
"Where's Yuan Yuan? Ah?" Seeing that there was no child in his arms, He Qiuhui felt so blocked in his heart that he was out of breath, and was furious, "Xue Mei, why did she take my grandson away? If she wants to leave, she will go by herself." ah."
"I didn't find it when I went downstairs. Mom, what are you arguing about?" Ji Yang sat on the sofa panting, propped his head, "Can you stop arguing?"
"Am I going to quarrel? I'm not good enough for her? How do I treat her on weekdays? I also think about her when I eat delicious food. I also want to help her take care of the child and make her relax. Am I easy? Me? When I was a child It took a lot of hard work, pulling you up with shit and piss, your father drove three wheels to fetch goods, no money, how did our family get here? I have worked hard all the way, and now I am thinking about your child."
"I'm just working hard. My daughter-in-law doesn't like it, and my son doesn't like it either. I'm worthless when I'm old. It's better to jump off a building, so as not to add to your burden."
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He Qiuhui also started to cry, touching her tears, and said the things that had been said countless times.
Rebuttal
ungrateful.
Do not refute
My brain hurts, anyway, I am not human inside and out.
"All of you are reasonable, so calm down." Ji Yang looked at his phone, "The child is with my mother-in-law, so let's calm down for a few days."
"Calm down? What kind of Ji family's child is that? How could Yuanyuan be at his grandmother's house? Xue Mei can live alone, and I'm going to bring my grandson back." He Qiuhui was not happy, and was about to walk out as she said that Small.
"Mom, don't you think the matter is not big enough? Are you making troubles all by yourself? Don't you think it's not embarrassing enough?"
"Why am I ashamed? Xue Mei is not afraid of losing face. What am I afraid of? Do you really think you can threaten me with a child? I have long disliked her. Look at what kind of wives you marry? Looking at the whole community, whose is it?" Is life more comfortable than hers?"
Ji Yang: "..."
There are too many.
He Qiuhui was burning with anger, "If it's a big deal, we'll get a divorce, isn't it because you can't get used to me? Then what are you doing together?"
"Mom!" Ji Yang frowned, "Don't talk nonsense."
"Hmph." He Qiuhui turned her head away.
Divorce in a small county is a pain in the back, especially the older generation, who like to talk about it the most. In her mind, once you get married, you will never leave, and Xue Mei will definitely not leave either.
In the end, she still didn't go to Xue's house, but she held her breath and insisted that Xue's eyebrows be subdued, and there was a reason for the daughter-in-law to contradict her mother-in-law
After being frozen for two days, she thought that her grandson was thinking too much, Ji Yang was also impatient, and communication with Xue Mei was obviously not going well.
"Mom, what the hell did you say? My sister refused to come back, and she still didn't answer my phone calls. If I continue to call, I will be blacklisted."
"How did I say anything? I'd better ask what your good wife said." He Qiuhui didn't admit it was her fault, and muttered, "If you don't come back, you won't come back, and let me invite her? You go and get Yuan Yuan Bring it back, if you don't go, I will!"
"Sister said you asked her to go back, what's going on?" Ji Yang asked again.
"If I tell her to go back, she will go back? If I tell her to come back, will she come back?" He Qiuhui's face was dark.
It's really hypocritical, I lose my temper as soon as I say it, but I can't go along with it, this time I have to treat it.
"Mom, you are really..." Ji Yang shook his head, reasoning, if he didn't listen, he wouldn't listen, and if he said too much, he was not filial, and he was just digging into a dead end.