He Qiuhui took Ji Fangyuan with him for a few days, Ji Yang came to see it a few times, and also called, but there was still no news from Xue Mei.
The child is still more dependent on his parents. Ji Fangyuan is difficult to take care of at first, and he will cry at every turn. When he sees Ji Yang, he will not let him go. He cries so badly, Ji Yang is also reluctant, fearing that his crying will spoil his voice, sometimes he hugs him to work, Or take care of him exclusively at home.
People's energy is limited, such a commotion will bring no peace at home, and He Qiuhui will also feel uncomfortable in his heart. At this time, I have to go to someone to nag, I always feel that I am right, and Xue Mei is the one who is wrong.
She is still working at such an old age, and she still wants to help the other party take care of the child. Isn't everything she does to help their husband and wife
What's wrong
The times are advancing, and people's thinking is also changing. Listening to what she said, some enlightened people will say, "The money you earn is your own, and you are willing to help their husband and wife. , This kind of moral kidnapping is wrong.”
"Little couples always have their own living space. The farther away, the less interference, the better the relationship."
There is no such thing as raising children to guard against old age. When you can move, you can support yourself and not be squeezed. It’s good, but what about when you can’t move? To put it unluckily, it may not be possible to live to that time. At this time, it is meaningless to talk about whether the son or the daughter will take care of the elderly.
He Qiuhui was a little dazed, and she was unwilling to bow her head when her ideas over the years were broken.
However, when Ji Yang came back, she still asked, "Are you really divorced? Divorce is hard."
"It's not easy if you don't get a divorce." He hugged his son, and the little guy was crying again today, with red eyes, lying on his shoulder.
A look of no spirit.
He Qiuhui was worried because without her grandson, she would have no mother. There are many men in the small county and few women. If Xue Mei didn't have children, she might still marry well based on her looks.
"Uh... woo..." Ji Fangyuan was patted on the back of his hand by his father, looked up to look in the room, and then started crying again with a "wow".
Ji Yang hugged and coaxed him again, bowed his head and kissed him, "If Dad can't coax you well, he will send you to Mom."
Of course He Qiuhui didn't want to, so she said again, "She said divorce, does that mean leaving the house clean? Does Yuanyuan belong to you too?"
This condition is too much, which means that Xue Mei can't take anything with her. She has finally waited for a good life, and she also hopes that the other party will be nostalgic.
He refused to bow his head, and hoped to reconcile.
"Let's share the house and savings. She doesn't want this apartment anymore. I'll give her the apartment you and dad live in. Give her most of the family's savings, and Yuanyuan belongs to me." Ji Yang said calmly.
"I don't agree. If you get a divorce, then she will leave the house completely, otherwise she will come back, and this matter will be over. You also have half of the house, why should you give it to her? You earned the money."
He Qiuhui refuted, but also offered to make concessions.
If she really divorced, she didn't want Xue Mei to take anything away, so much money and a house.
That was all earned by her son's hard work.
"Mom." Ji Yang called her, "This is property after marriage. If my sister is not at home to take care of Yuanyuan and this family, I can't make money with peace of mind. Half of the credit is due to her, not you. If she opens her mouth or quarrels, she won't be paid. What if she sues? Besides losing time and getting a reputation, what will she gain?"
"She is Yuan Yuan's mother, and the child was born in October of her pregnancy. It's not that there is a crisis in my relationship. I don't want to have such an argument with her."
"There is still a child between us after all."
He Qiuhui's attitude was not that she was persuaded, but that she never thought that the two would get divorced, and their attitude was not at all joking.
Property is divided.
She was even more afraid. Divorce would be a dwarf. How could she hold her head up? What should the grandson do
After hesitating for a while, he said to Ji Yang, "Why don't you guys get divorced? It's not good for Yuan Yuan. What if children from single-parent families are affected by the bad environment?"
"I didn't want to leave at all. My sister brought it up. What can I do? I will try my best to give Yuanyuan a good environment to grow up." Ji Yang hugged his sobbing son and gently coaxed him.
For the first time, He Qiuhui felt a little embarrassed. She seemed to have ruined her son's family in order to gain breath and suppress Xue Mei.
"Didn't sister think about the child? After all, it's her child." She was still stubborn.
"She said that the child could be sent to her at any time and raised with me." Ji Yang lowered his voice, and Ji Fangyuan fell asleep in his arms.
He Qiuhui knew that before she got married, she said so, if Xue Mei found someone else, Ji Fangyuan would be a child without a mother. At that time, if Ji Yang marries again and gives birth to another child, it will really be a child without father or mother.
Thinking about it this way made her feel depressed.
When she heard that a divorce was really going to happen, Ji Dongping also scolded her several times. At first He Qiuhui kept arguing, and then she cried. She said that her son was not filial, and she made them want to divorce, and she didn't say a word, so she could relax.
So she was even more aggrieved, seeing Ji Fangyuan also felt uncomfortable, the family was in a mess, and then she felt that Xue Mei was hypocritical.
Who didn't survive under her mother-in-law when she was young
Can't take it after a few words
No matter what she thought, the couple might be getting divorced. Of course, Ji Dongping was also very anxious and asked her to apologize.
Is it really worth getting a divorce? !
"Ji Yang was ruined by you as a mother, thinking about how to ruin her every day, what do you think you have done?"
"Nao Nao Nao Nao, are you satisfied now?"
"Go to Xue's house and talk about it. It's fine to apologize. If you really get divorced, it depends on you. Yuan Yuan can't blame you when he grows up!"
…
He Qiuhui had no choice but to bite the bullet and went to Xue's house. Both Xue's father and Xue's mother were there.
In fact, Xue Mei herself didn't know that she was going to get a divorce. Ji Yang just said that he would take the child back to live for a few days, but seeing He Qiuhui apologize to her with a stiff face, she couldn't deny it.
Xue's father and Xue's mother were shocked when they heard that they were going to divorce. How could they get divorced so easily? He quickly helped persuade his daughter.
Xue Mei is not a person who makes things difficult for others, so they both took a step back, she also apologized, and on the surface they reconciled.
Anyway, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law respect each other as guests if they are sensible, and they don't need to be too confiding, she doesn't mind.
After going back, life became more comfortable. He Qiuhui had no face for two consecutive months, and Ji Yang hugged her when she missed her grandson. Ji Dongping was also afraid that she would cause trouble, so he would watch this time, and would reprimand her lightly from time to time, not allowing her to mess around.
When the child is one year old, he still goes to early childhood education until he is three years old. During this period, He Qiuhui will also take the child to class.
Of course, her concept is different from that of the teacher in class. She would refute it at the beginning and protect her grandson, but she is a professional teacher. After several brainwashings, her thinking will be much enlightened.
Immediately after that, I went to kindergarten, and the old couple also retired, receiving pensions. I used to think that I would save for my son to make him feel better. Now that the couple are both working, the salary is more than enough to support their children and themselves.
Besides, Ji Yang not only doesn't want their little money, but also gives them pocket money every month.
Xue Mei switched jobs to a travel agency. If there is any local discounted tour, or affordable tour, let the old couple go. Of course, it can be called affordable if it is not affordable, just pay the money quietly.
The old couple had never been out of the province in their entire lives, and they were reluctant at first, but later heard that because they are locals, there is a discount, only a few hundred yuan, and they can go for a few days.
Of course, I had to go immediately when there was a discount, but the result was out of control. I had been to many places and learned a lot, so I didn't have so much time to pay attention to my son's family.
They have worked hard all their lives just for their son. Now that their son is promising, they are also enjoying the blessings, and their spirits are getting better and better. Before, they urged Xue Mei to have a second child, but now they think it is good not to have another child. When Ji Fangyuan grows up, Ji Yang And Xue Mei can also be like them.
today.
Ji Yang looked at Xue Mei who was calling He Qiuhui, and the other party's words were still coming, "Mom, it's a bit cold over there, you should wear more."
"The tour guides are all tour guides here, so don't worry, just have fun with Dad."
"Well, Yuanyuan has gone to school, and Ji Yang and I will pick him up later."
…
He secretly breathed a sigh of relief, but the family hadn't had any major conflicts for several years, and hoped that this situation would continue.
People really have to be busy and have other things to pay attention to, and they can't focus on one person.
He Qiuhui and Ji Dongping came back this time, and he wanted to set up a shop for them. Last time, they were chatting about what special products they wanted to sell.
It doesn't matter whether you make money or not, as long as you have your own focus in life.
"Let's go, go pick up Yuanyuan."
Xue Mei hung up the phone, walked to the sofa and took her coat, then walked towards him, wrapping her arms around his naturally.
"Yeah." Ji Yang nodded.
Kindergarten entrance.
After school, the children all came out carrying small schoolbags, and some parents also carried and hugged them.
Ji Yang and Xue Mei stood aside, and when Ji Fangyuan came out, the loud voice said, "Dad, Mom!"
Talking about the little short legs and running over, Xue Mei chuckled, squatted down, and hugged him in her arms, "Why are you sweating on your forehead? Are your clothes wet? Be careful of catching a cold."
"Teacher Xiao Wang helped me change my clothes, put them in my schoolbag, and played football." The child spoke in a childish voice.
He is three and a half years old this year, fair and tender, very naughty, even Xue Mei feels a bit heavy holding him now, so Ji Yang holds him.
"Father, Susu said that his father and mother took her to play, to see the sea, and to eat delicious food." Ji Fangyuan hugged his neck, with an aggrieved expression on his face, "Yuan Yuan didn't even eat delicious food."
"What is delicious?" Xue Mei felt funny, "Didn't Mom and Dad often take you to eat delicious food?"
"It's delicious." Ji Fangyuan said fiercely, "The delicious food that Yuanyuan has never eaten is in the sea."
These words made the two of them laugh. It is still a bit far from here to the beach, maybe nearly 200 kilometers. It is indeed a very famous tourist attraction in the province.
It happened to be the weekend, and they decided to take him there after discussing it.
A family self-driving tour, go on Saturday morning, live there, play for two days and then come back on Sunday night.
Xue Mei prepared everything, put the little guy on a swimsuit and sunglasses, and carefully applied sunscreen for him.
If you are exposed to the sun by the sea, if you do not take proper measures, you may be exposed to the sun and peel off.
Ji Fangyuan had never seen the sea before, so he was overjoyed, so he rented a small swimming ring for him, and played in the water recklessly.
It's still quite dangerous in the sea, the waves are big today, Xue Mei can't swim, so Ji Yang is playing with him.
Ji Yang belongs to the type who looks thin in clothes and fleshy in undress. He wears a pair of shorts, and he is gentle and conspicuous in the crowd. Of course, with a child, the charm is reduced a lot, which also makes Xue Mei feel more at ease.
She spread a cloth on the beach and put the things of several people on it. They will use it later, and they can also barbecue here at night. They also prepared some fruits and food.
She looked back at the father and son with a smile on her lips.
at this time.
A woman was wearing a bikini and was posing. Looking at the swimming ring on one side, she felt that it was an eyesore, so she just pushed it and muttered, "Annoying."
"Dad, Dad..."
A wave surged up, Ji Fangyuan was pushed down and leaned to the side, Ji Yang hurriedly grabbed him who was about to rush away.
"One more picture, make me look better." The woman's whining voice was still coming, Ji Yang held his son and his face darkened.
"good."
"Ugly aunt."
The man in front responded, and Ji Fangyuan's immature voice came, "Auntie is ugly, and she pushed Yuanyuan's head."
"What are you talking about, child?" The woman turned around, pulled her face, her face twisted, she is a fairy, what is ugly
"You are ugly, your mother is the ugliest!"
She said viciously, and saw Ji Yang just after she finished speaking, her face froze for a moment, and then she said, "Sir, please take care of your son."
"Sir, please take care of your girlfriend." Ji Yang turned around, looked at the man in front of him, and spoke lightly.
The man was a little embarrassed, and came over with a camera to apologize, but the woman was still relentless, "What do you mean? I haven't bothered about it yet. After all this time, I came here for a trip, and you are trying to make things difficult for me, right?"
Seeing that there was a dispute, Xue Mei hurried over.
As soon as she came over, when she saw the man, she was taken aback, suspecting that she was wrong.
And Yu Haichen also froze, his voice surprised, "Xiaomei?"
"Why are you here?" Xue Mei took her son from Ji Yang's arms, her words had returned to normal.
She is lucky to have a bloody encounter with her ex-boyfriend in any city.
Yu Haichen looked at the child in her arms, then at Ji Yang, his expression darkened, and he said awkwardly, "Come on a trip."
"We are on a honeymoon." Seeing that the situation was not right, Li Chun walked up to Yu Haichen and said intimately, "You are Xue Mei? His ex-girlfriend."
As he spoke, he glanced at Xue Mei up and down, with contempt in his eyes, and looked at Ji Yang from the corner of his eye, pretending to be flirtatious, "I heard that you were all going to get married before, but you didn't get married in the end, and then went back to your hometown to marry your husband gone?"
"Don't talk nonsense." Yu Haichen hurriedly stopped, still a little flustered, more like the truth.
Xue Mei understood that in the description of a scumbag like Yu Haichen, her ex-girlfriend was probably very unbearable. He couldn't possibly be at fault. I can’t help it, I’m living a good life now, I can only say thank you for your mother’s stop, and thank you for not marrying.”
Isn't it great? Yu Haichen got a little fatter, and she was still very slender, and Ji Yang who was beside her was much more handsome than the other party.
It is said that Yu Haichen vomits blood, she is doing well, but he is not good, he is in his thirties, and his family has a small broken house in the suburbs of a big city, with a square meter of more than 40 square meters for three people People, my mother said at the beginning that she must marry a local single woman who has a house, but who wants it? People are not without brains.
He has no skills, his family is actually very poor, his father passed away, his mother has no medical insurance and no pension, and he has to take medicine for a long time when he is sick. Said to have a house, local impoverished rural area, education is far inferior to him, but only in junior high school, this woman next to him is still the daughter-in-law he got with great difficulty, so Xue Mei became that Bai Yueguang, he also regretted it, and the honeymoon location was also deliberately chosen. Here, I still hope to meet by chance, but actually I have thoughts and unwillingness.
"It's good for you to stay here. After all, big cities are under great pressure. If you are not a local, your competitiveness will be even greater." Li Chun said with a smirk.
Xue Mei listened to the superiority of honey in the other party's words, and did not refute, nodded, "I think so too."
The other party pretended to be a little ridiculous, so ridiculous that she thought she was an idiot, and she was unwilling to fight her, thinking that it would lower her identity and IQ.
"You also come here for tourism, right? It's good to be close, unlike us, who have to fly here, which is very laborious." Li Chun continued to sigh with emotion.
Some people really climb up because of face, even Yu Haichen feels that he is a bit superior. Xue Mei married a man from a small county, and she will be like that all her life. Although he didn't make much money and lived a miserable life, but He has a registered permanent residence in a big city, and that house can be worth one million.
Ji Yang looked like an idiot, walked over to pick up his son's swimming ring, and then walked aside.
His appearance was interpreted by the other party as low self-esteem, Yu Haichen looked at Xue Mei, and said as if reminiscing about the past, "How have you been doing these years?"
At the beginning, he wanted to marry Xue Mei. He came from a small place and had no knowledge, so he would serve him with a low profile. He didn't know why the computer was infected with a virus, and his contact information was lost. Later, he couldn't be reached.
it is a pity.
"Very good." Xue Mei responded.
How does Yu Haichen think it will be better? If she stays in a small place, she won't be able to get out for the rest of her life. Even Li Chun feels superior. Even if her family has no money, she is still from a big city, unlike Xue Mei.
These seemed to her country folk.
This kind of thinking is tantamount to eating pickled mustard and shredded potatoes in a small broken house in a big city, but you are deluded and confident, thinking that you are superior to people who live in a villa in a small county town.
Xue Mei looked at Yu Haichen, didn't want to take another look, and even felt a little disgusted, so she found an excuse and left.
Li Chun said to him in a strange manner, "I really don't know what you think, find someone here."
She is still living in the beauty camera, and she doesn't feel that she is inferior to Xue Mei at all, while Yu Haichen stares at Xue Mei's back, showing fascination.
The other party's figure is really good, with protruding front and back, fair and tender skin, chestnut curly hair shawl, wearing sunglasses on his head, and his dress is much better than before, with a very temperament.
But he still had to compliment Li Chun, otherwise this woman would make a fuss, even his mother wouldn't pay attention to her, and she would get a divorce every now and then.
Li Chun's self-confidence soared. From time to time, he still looked at the family of three on the beach, as if they were having a good time. What's so fun about it? This child was born here, and it is very likely that he will never get out of it for the rest of his life!
Soon she couldn't laugh.
When Xue Mei and the others were about to leave, they also left. As a result, the family of three was sitting in a car worth hundreds of thousands, while they were walking.
Although a few hundred thousand yuan is not enough for a luxury car, the family must be in a good position, and they happened to live in the same hotel. Li Chun asked him where he lived, and he lived in a sea view room for 2400 a night.
And they, two hundred and seventy special offer windowless room.
I heard that Li Chun and Yu Haichen had a quarrel the next day, and they were on the verge of a fight. Xue Mei slept soundly that night.
She was holding her son, Ji Yang was holding her, and she had a dream. In those moments in the dream, the hero was Ji Yang, and he was very sweet. Those loves that she thought were pure and beautiful on campus were already very sweet in retrospect. Fuzzy, I can't even think of a clear moment and I don't feel palpitations, just like every calm moment in the past.
She doesn't regret the experience, but she is also glad to be separated. From the moment she met Ji Yang, she thought it was another abyss, but it was actually salvation.
She said this to Ji Yang later.
The other party was changing his son's clothes at the time. Xue Mei thought he would be very moved. After all, it was a love story, but he didn't show any expression, "Really? I didn't feel it."
The two of them have never talked about sweet love, and they have been doing trivial things for the family, for the children, and for the future.
Do you live with a partner
Xue Mei didn't think so, for example, when she was making trouble with Ji Yang, did the other party still look conniving, and just told her to keep her voice down, and her son fell asleep.
If she didn't want to, he just frowned and let her go.
Xue Mei attributes this to ordinary love, which is not vigorous, but supports each other in a stable life, and spends a lifetime, ordinary and happy.
Is it not good in a small county
There are no colorful neon lights in big cities, no more opportunities, no thousands of possibilities, even backwardness and mediocrity, but there is also its silence, slow pace, and its quiet and good years.
Every place has its benefits. When she thought so, it was because Li Xiaojia sent her a message.
The other party changed jobs again, and went to a foreign company with a salary of 30,000+, but she worked overtime 20 days a month. She is 30 today, so she has to stabilize first.
The pace of the city is very fast, everyone is working hard, to live, not to live, for high housing prices, high cost of living, like a spinning top, full and busy.
When Xue Mei returned to her, the son turned over and hid in her arms, whispering in his sleep, "Mom..."
Her heart softened into a ball.
The gains in life must be exchanged for sacrifices in other aspects. Since you choose, just accept it.
She has no right to judge which kind of life is good or bad. Everyone has their own choices. Just like before, others thought she was stupid, but now she feels that she is living a good life.