"Life is hard, you gave birth to a baby girl, what will you do in the future?"
"Hey, let's go."
The person who spoke sighed heavily, and the eyes of the parturient on the bed were red, tears welled up in her eyes, and she couldn't help crying, "She's just so young."
"Why are you crying during confinement? What can you do if you are unlucky?" Ai Mu looked at her miserable daughter, "Find a relative in the country to take care of her and give me some money. When the time comes, you will bring your son back. The pain will be doubled." , and then spend some money to settle the account.”
"Just give birth to this one? Do you think about the reality? Your mother-in-law agrees? Is it going to be divorced? At that time, the child will have no father or mother, and it will be more pitiful than now." Ai Mu poured out the porridge, "It's not that mother is cruel, the reality is like this , divorce is not to poke someone's spine?"
"Everyone understands the truth, and I also know that it's unfair to that girl. Isn't there a way to do it? Considering the balance, or do you mean that you don't plan to live with Ji Yang anymore?"
Ai Li grabbed the quilt, and tears dripped onto the quilt.
"Try to give birth to a son, and your life will be comfortable." Ai Mu continued, "After giving birth to a son, you will have someone to rely on in the future. Otherwise, what will you and Ji Yang do when they grow old?"
"We have wages, but we don't need anyone to support us." Ai Li originally wanted to refute, but she kept her mouth shut.
Mother Ai also gave birth to a younger brother for her. It sounds good to say that having a son can provide for the elderly, but in fact, she is busy at her son's house, taking care of her grandson, and being scolded by her daughter-in-law.
But when she thought of Ji's family and Li Qiuxiang, she felt powerless in her hands and feet. Moreover, Ji Yang was the eldest son, so he was a bit patriarchal in his bones.
She is lost.
"What can you do with your salary? No one will burn incense for you during the New Year and holidays. After you give birth to a daughter, you will belong to someone else's family when you marry. From now on, everything will be yours. The son-in-law doesn't have to do anything for nothing." Agreeing with her statement, with a straight face, she reprimanded very seriously.
"Mom." Ji Yang came in from the outside and yelled. Ai Mu quickly stopped talking. He smiled and said, "You are here? Thank you for taking care of Xiao Li. My mother can't leave."
"It's all right for hard work or not. Anyway, I'm idle." Ai Mu had a smile on her face, and she seemed to have a hint of guilt.
She is very satisfied with this son-in-law who eats public food, but unfortunately, her daughter didn't live up to it and gave birth to a girl.
How much better if it was a boy
She didn't believe that Li Qiuxiang wasn't free, she didn't even bother to come to see Ai Li gave birth to a daughter.
"It's not what it should be." Ji Yang walked over and looked at the sky outside, "It's getting dark soon, I happen to be on vacation these two days, and I'll take care of Xiao Li at night, so I'll send my mother home first?"
"Alright, I'll come over tomorrow." Ai Mu thought that there was still a lot of work to be done at home, she packed up her things and went out, and said to Ji Yang, "Don't send it off, I'll go back by myself, you go and see Xiaoli .”
"I'll call mom a car, and I don't worry if you're alone." Ji Yang replied to her.
"also."
The two walked to the entrance of the hospital, Ji Yang stretched out his hand to stop the car, Ai Mu sighed, and looked at him, "Xiao Yang, the girl is the girl, you are still young, and you can give birth, the main thing is to let Xiaoli take care of your body Well, send this to the countryside, and give birth to a boy and you will be able to live a good life."
People around are doing this, don't register, no one will know.
She was also worried that the Ji family would embarrass Ai Li.
Ji Yang opened the door for her, "I have given birth, why are you willing to send it to someone else? Don't worry about it, I haven't thought about it for the time being."
"No, you have to think about it." Hearing what he said, Ai Mu breathed a sigh of relief, and raised her heart again.
How can you not want to
Who doesn't have a boy
"Mom, you go back first, I'll go and see Xiaoli, and report back home." Ji Yang closed the car door and paid again.
Ji Yang didn't listen to her, and let the master drive.
Think about it, their husband and wife are college students and have received higher education, but they can't help but be "tortured" by the two families.
Look what happened in the end
But if you think about it carefully, like everyone around this small place, it is much better to follow the crowd and go along the way than against the way. People live in society and are subject to many restraints.
When he returned to the ward, he saw Ai Li reaching out to wipe her tears. When the other party saw him coming back, he quickly lowered his head, covering it so that he could not see it.
In the previous life, she also fought, but in the face of more and more troubles, the original owner threatened to divorce if she didn't give birth. In the end, the other party compromised in order to give the child a home and give herself a home.
Pregnancy in October, whoever gives birth to a child will suffer.
How can there be so many chic choices? Everything is the best way to go after weighing, the best choice under the circumstances.
"Do you want some water? Are you thirsty?" Ji Yang got up to pour water for her, and sat down on the chair beside her.
Ai Li looked at him several times but hesitated to speak, and finally said nothing.
"I went to see my child. I can't stay with you until tomorrow. I took some photos." Ji Yang sat down and handed her the phone with a smile.
Ai Li's eyes lit up, and when she turned to the phone, looking at the little girl in the photo on the phone, a smile appeared on her lips, and her eyes were moist.
This is her child, the moment she saw her, all the suffering was worth it, but thinking of what Emma said, the smile subsided.
Sad beyond words.
"Take good care of your body. You are still on maternity leave. Do you want your mother to take care of you? After all, I have to go to work." Ji Yang spoke first.
Both work at the bank and she has regular maternity leave.
"I can do it alone." Ellie said.
Not to mention whether Li Qiuxiang will come or not, even if she does, she will suffer a lot. As for Ai Mu, there is still a lot of farm work at home, and she can't keep her ears quiet when he comes.
Even if she is a little tired, she wants to bring it by herself.
I don't know what the ultimate fate of this child is. She wants to get along with her for a long time, and wants to do her best to take care of her and protect her.
"I'm afraid that no one will take care of you during confinement." Ji Yang said he was worried, "Children are also making trouble."
"Can you help me? We'll bring it ourselves." Ai Li's tone was a little soft. She cried secretly just now, and she looked a little helpless at this moment.
She subconsciously put herself in a relatively low position, even a little pleading.
Ji Yang is a bit machismo, and thinks that washing, cooking and having children are all things for women.
The man dominates the outside, and the woman dominates the inside.
It's really impossible for him to take care of the child, but she has no other opinion, no one helps her, that kind of helplessness, no one can understand.
"That's my child too, why don't you help? If you don't mind the hard work, then we'll take it by ourselves." Ji Yang didn't seem to think much, and agreed.
Hearing this, Ellie breathed a sigh of relief.
He didn't talk about boys and girls, so she wouldn't ask, why make herself uncomfortable
The child was returned to her the next day.
The newborn baby has not grown yet, it is wrinkled, and Ji Yang also said that it looks like her.
She really couldn't see what was good about it, such a small child would eat, sleep and cry, Ai Mu taught her how to hold her and how to breastfeed, while Ji Yang also learned clumsily on the side.
Li Qiuxiang and Ji Chunjun never showed up, and it was only the fourth day that Ji Yang received a call after knowing about them again.
"Ji Yang, your sister-in-law gave birth to a fat boy who weighs seven catties, and the voice is so loud." The couple couldn't stop their laughter, and it came out through the phone, in the ward It reverberated in the air, and it lasted for a long time.
"That's pretty good." Ji Yang said something indifferent, and hung up the phone.
The atmosphere in the ward also changed suddenly, Ai Mu secretly sighed, touched Ai Li's hand, "Now, your life will be even more difficult."
Sisters-in-law are most afraid of comparison, especially when they have children.
In Ai Mu's view, everything is over. If her daughter can't give birth to a daughter, she will not be able to hold her head up in her husband's house for the rest of her life.
Her concept is still very old. She thinks that the most important thing for a woman is to marry someone. If a man treats her well, her life will be fine, but if a man treats her badly, her life will be ruined.
"Xiao Mu's wife gave birth to a baby in the morning." Ji Yang flipped over lightly, and walked over to make milk powder for his daughter.
"I'll go see her tomorrow." Ellie said with a twitch of her lips.
As a sister-in-law, what should be done is still to be done.
"You have just given birth a few days ago, there is no need to go, I will go to see tomorrow, wait until the day you are discharged from the hospital, go again, it is not too late." Ji Yang gave her the bottle, and Ellie tried it temperature, gently picked up her daughter, holding a bottle to feed.
"People are lucky, they will be sons all their lives." Ai Mu said that unintentionally, and Ai Li's eyes sank, and she didn't speak.
"Why are you so particular about giving birth to a baby girl? Don't keep nagging, the daughter was also born by caesarean section after ten months of hard work by Xiao Li." Ji Yang reminded softly.
Emma shut her mouth, feeling even more uncomfortable in her heart. It was still a caesarean section, and the doctor said how long she would not be able to conceive again. Thinking of it, several strands of her hair turned gray.
Ji Yang's words made Ellie feel more at ease, hugged her daughter, and touched her soft little hands.
What's wrong with my daughter
The daughter is the little padded jacket in the hearts of parents!
In the afternoon, Ji Yang greeted her and went to the inpatient department downstairs alone to see his sister-in-law Ning Fengsheng's son.
Ai Li didn't want to think too much, but she always felt tears rolling in her eyes.
Ji Yang was probably disappointed as well, the two of them had also discussed this issue, although the other party didn't say it clearly, but traditional thinking also bound him.
She felt that he only wanted a son, and he must have one.
It didn't take long for Ji Yang to walk in, still holding the fruit in his hand, he came up and put it on the bedside.
"Haven't you gone yet?" she asked.
"I went to the door, and there are people inside. It should be that the family of my sister-in-law and mother-in-law have come." Ji Yang sat down, "It's fine if you don't go, wait until my parents come up, your mother has gone back, you are here alone I don't worry about this, in case the child makes a fuss."
"Yeah." Ellie nodded.
Li Qiuxiang and Ji Chunjun are still downstairs, just one floor away, they will always come up to see her, right
Ai Li made thousands of calculations, but she didn't count that the two of them didn't come.
On the day she was discharged from the hospital, five days had passed since Ning Feng gave birth, and Ji's family had never visited her once.
The Ning family is complicated, and it is impossible for Ning's mother to take care of Ning Feng. Li Qiuxiang must take care of her.
But the other party didn't even look at her, nor did he even look at his granddaughter.
On the day she was discharged from the hospital, Ai Li couldn't help crying. During the confinement period, she was easily agitated, and her daughter was so noisy that she couldn't stop crying.
Ji Yang was so angry that he threw all the apples he was going to take into the trash can, and said angrily, "If you don't come, you won't come, and we won't go either!"
"You are still in confinement, don't cry, crying is also hurting your body." Ji Yang comforted her.
Mother Ai didn't come today because she had something to do. Ai Li and Ji Yang packed up their things and didn't go to see Ning Feng. They went downstairs with their daughter in their arms and took a taxi back.
And at this time.
"Mom, is sister-in-law still upstairs?" Ning Feng cut her hair short and had a lot of fat during pregnancy.
"Yes." Li Qiuxiang looked at her lying grandson, grinning from ear to ear, "Did you pee again? Grandma will change it."
"Don't torment him like this, the nurse said, be gentle, what if something happens?" Ning Feng cursed suddenly, so angry that she didn't even drink the chicken soup.
"I'll take it easy, take it easy." Li Qiuxiang looked awkward, and slowed down her movements, for fear of hurting the little milk baby.
"Mom, this is your precious grandson, of course you have to be careful." Ji Mu crossed his legs and was playing games with his mobile phone without looking up.
"Mom knows." Li Qiuxiang could still happily reply after being scolded, and looked at Ning Feng, "Xiaofeng, drink more, so that you can feed your child milk if you have nourished it."
"Understood." Ning Feng spoke impatiently, and changed the subject, "Which ward is sister-in-law? I'll go and see her too."
"What's so interesting?" Li Qiuxiang restrained her expression and said in a deep voice, "It depends on her coming to see you. She was born a few days earlier than you. As a sister-in-law, she doesn't understand this etiquette, and I don't know how the Ai family taught it. .”
"I don't care about this. If she doesn't come to see me, I'll go and see her. It's not a big deal anyway." Ning Feng acted very generously.
"Others have no manners, but we, Xiaofeng, do." Ji Mu complimented his wife while playing games.
"Mom, call and ask." Li Qiuxiang would not reject the "big hero" of their old Ji's family.
It's okay not to call.
After a dozen, Ji Yang said indifferently, "Don't worry about it, we were discharged from the hospital today, and we just got home."
"I didn't say a word when I was discharged from the hospital." Li Qiuxiang was dissatisfied, "Xiaofeng has been in the hospital for a few days, and Ai Li didn't come to see her. Is there such a thing?"
Ning Feng was drinking chicken soup, when she heard Li Qiuxiang scolding, she took another sip, feeling really relieved.
Their sisters-in-law have been fighting for so long, and she has never won against Ellie. The other party is good-looking, has a higher education than her, a better job than her, and lives outside, so she doesn't have to be angry with Li Qiuxiang every day.
But now she turned over.
She can have a son, but the other party works in a bank and can only have one child and a daughter.
In this life, she will be crushed under her feet, and she will never be able to lift her head up.
Ji Yang's cell phone was a bit out of the way. When Li Qiuxiang said this, Ai Li happened to be carrying the child upstairs, and heard everything. She entered the room silently, without saying a word.
Soon, Ji Yang's words reached her ears, "Mom, both of them are your daughter-in-laws. You have been serving Ning Feng down there for a few days, and you haven't seen you come up to see Xiaoli and your granddaughter."
"If you have a granddaughter, you're not human anymore? You don't want to see her so much, why should we bother you?"
After Ji Yang finished speaking, he hung up without hesitation.
Li Qiuxiang was stunned. She didn't expect her son to say such a thing. The eldest son is a college student and has a decent job in the bank. Although she loves her younger son, the eldest son is her pride.
A girl was born, and now the couple have to think about how to deal with the girl and give birth to a boy.
Why did he suddenly get angry at her
"What's wrong?" Ning Feng saw that her expression was not right.
"Your sister-in-law, I don't know what's going on, but I'm ashamed to make trouble. Am I not good to her at all? I only have one person, can I have two parts?" Li Qiuxiang will never say that her son is wrong, anything is wrong, It's all the daughter-in-law's fault.
From her point of view, she was angry because she didn't take care of her.
It was said that after she was discharged from the hospital, she would take it to the countryside to raise it. Girls can be raised cheaply, or they can be given to others to raise them. What else is there to take care of
"Isn't it mom that you are too kind to her, but now you are pushing your nose and face." Ji Mu didn't look up, and said something.
"I think so too." Li Qiuxiang snorted softly, "It's too much to treat me as a bully!"
How can there be a mother-in-law who is controlled by her daughter-in-law
Isn't the reason for a daughter-in-law to marry her to honor her parents with her husband
The door was left open.
Ji Yang also followed Ai Li into the room. This is a two-bedroom apartment they bought with a loan, and she became pregnant not long after buying it.
The house is not big, with a usable area of less than 70 square meters. It is troublesome to work in the city and go back to the countryside, so I bought it.
Ai Li carefully put the baby on the bed, but the baby was very sensitive, and woke up as soon as he put it down, and started crying when he woke up.
"Don't cry, don't cry, mom won't let go." Ai Li stretched out her hand and gently shook her, coaxing her softly.
Instead of being coaxed to sleep, she cried even louder.
In the past two days, Ai's mother is not free, and Ai Li has no helper. She is constantly being disturbed by the baby, her mind is buzzing, and hearing what Li Qiuxiang just said, she is physically and mentally exhausted.
She was afraid that she would get postpartum depression by accident.
"Let me do it." Ji Yang took it from her hand and looked at her, "You didn't sleep much last night, go to sleep."
In the past, she never thought that Ji Yang would help her, but the current conditions of the two of them, to be honest, all the money they could borrow was borrowed to buy a house. Although they work in a bank, their positions are not high, so they can only say that they are grassroots.
How much can the salary be? After repaying the loan, life is very tight, and after having a child, life is even tighter.
There was no one to help, and they couldn't even hire a nanny, so they could only support each other like this.
Since he said everything, Ai Li didn't refuse, even if she wasn't sleepy, she would go to bed and sleep with her eyes closed.
The child is the child of two people. If Ji Yang can participate in the process of taking care of the child, the father and daughter will have a deeper relationship.
She loved the child, and she wanted him to love their child.
Ji Yang walked out with the child in his arms, and closed the door for her by the way. The occasional persuasive voices from outside the hall gradually calmed her restless heart.
The pregnant woman couldn't stand the cold, so she put on thick socks and a hat, got into bed, closed her eyes, and fell asleep in a daze.
Ji Yang can only take a few days off. She has to cultivate her spirits to take care of her children.