Li Qiuxiang is good at cursing the streets, and when women quarrel in the village, she is used as a helper. Who can scold her better
Ai Li replied, she scolded you a hundred times, scolded her ancestors for eighteen generations without repeating them, and forced her to roll up her sleeves and grit her teeth at you, and she might be about to start in the next second.
"It's this daughter-in-law who is not filial and encourages my son to separate from me. What's wrong with me? I worked hard to save money to buy them a house. His father and I have suffered all our lives."
"When you have a daughter-in-law, forget your mother, forget your mother."
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Neighbors from the neighborhood came to see her, and when she caught them, she said, wiping her tears and singing a bitter scene, Ai Li was stunned for a moment.
In the past, Li Qiuxiang was polite to her when she went back, and she also treated him as her own mother, but suddenly it changed.
It's not arguing, it's not arguing, the child's face is flushed from crying, and her head is buzzing.
After thinking about it, it would be embarrassing to scold them together, so she walked back to the room with a sullen face, locked the door behind her, and called Ji Yang.
The current situation is not Li Qiuxiang asking Ji Yang to come back, she wants him to come back immediately to solve the mess caused by his family.
Ai Li hung up the phone, put the child down, got up to make milk, and turned on the soft music for her daughter.
She doesn't want her daughter to be affected, and she can also block that annoying voice.
half an hour later.
Li Qiuxiang scolded so dryly that when she saw Ji Yang came back, she immediately shut up and sat at the door pretending to be pitiful and miserable.
"What are you doing?" Ji Yang looked at the indecent gesture of the other party, and then at the neighbors, his tone was not very good, "Isn't that embarrassing enough?"
"What's so embarrassing? You registered your household registration and didn't tell me or your father at all. You still know that I am your mother? What do I want to save face? In the future, people will know that you only have one daughter, and you will only have one daughter in your life. You Even if this vein is broken, I will be laughed out of my teeth for the rest of my life, what should I do with this little face?" Li Qiuxiang cried so much that it was true, she beat her chest and patted her legs.
"How can anyone have only one daughter? The wife of Zheng Wu's family went to do test-tube babies again, but she didn't succeed, and they were all divorced. Now she married someone from outside the province, and she is already pregnant with a boy."
In her opinion, having only one daughter will ruin her life, and her hands and feet will be weak when she works.
"What year is this? Do you still need a man to work at home? You have also changed your mind." Ji Yang closed the door, his tone not very good.
In the past, production depended on manpower, and strength was stronger with more people. If there were no boys in the family, there would be no coolies.
"How can you not have a baby boy? Who will take care of you in the future? After your daughter dies, you won't be able to receive money from the underground, so who will care about you then?" Li Qiuxiang said with reason.
"Stop talking nonsense." Ji Yang said impatiently, "I don't believe in this kind of thing, so why spend money after death?"
"Mom won't harm you." She wiped away her tears, stood up, and approached him with a glimmer of hope, "Can the household registration be canceled? Let's do it."
"Are you joking? How did the household registration disappear?" Ji Yang looked at her speechlessly.
"Then mom doesn't agree with you continuing to be with Ai Li. Although she has a good job, she can't take care of the children. We have such good conditions. Why raise her baby girl? Or just divorce." Li Qiuxiang pointed him.
Most of every strong mother-in-law thinks that the son she gave birth to is extremely good and no one is worthy of him, and when she opposes her daughter-in-law, she will strangle her to death.
Their excellent son, even if divorced, will be a "high-quality man" that women will line up to compete for.
"What's her? It's not mine? It's fine if you don't have a full moon for Qiaoyi. Mom, are you here to make trouble for me?" Ji Yang's face was covered with clouds, his eyes were blazing, and he said in a heavy voice, " If you like boys and grandchildren, you can go home and hold them, and you can put them back after they are born? How dare I bring them for you if you are like this?"
Others don't hate Li Qiuxiang, but Ji Yang does. If she doesn't hate her, she doesn't know how outrageous she is.
"Can I hurt you?" Li Qiuxiang raised her voice, saying "I'm for your own good" in both words and expressions, and she wanted to convince Ji Yang with her life experience.
"What is it if you don't harm me? Born and not raised, in my opinion, the sins committed can go to the eighteenth level of hell." Ji Yang snorted coldly.
They talk about divorce at every turn, and even get involved from time to time when they have a family. To put it bluntly, they still have the idea of wanting to control their son, and want to compete with their daughter-in-law to be the first in his son's heart.
"A girl, what retribution can I have? I threw ten or eight on the road before, and I was told to starve to death for a few days. What retribution is there? It's her fate to raise her!" Ellie listens.
Just to let Ellie know that it's fine for her to do so.
The final result is that her violent son directly kicked her out, closed the door directly, and raised this one without saying anything, regardless of whether he agrees or not.
Li Qiuxiang making trouble? Who cares
She was tired and had to go back in despair, and her grandson was still at home waiting for her to take care of her.
Ji Yang took half a day off and didn't go to work in the afternoon.
After Li Qiuxiang left, he walked into the bedroom, and Ai Li was teasing her daughter on the bed. When he saw him coming in, he didn't look up, look at him, or speak.
"What's for lunch, I'll go buy it." He stood for a while and asked.
Ellie mentioned the names of a few dishes.
"Yeah." Ji Yang wrote it down, thought it over, and said, "Don't worry about what Mom said, you must take good care of it after giving birth, and don't go back for now."
Ellie didn't answer.
Ji Yang stood for a while, then went out to buy vegetables.
When they came back half an hour later, the two of them chatted about it and had a simple meal.
Xiao Qiaoyi slept soundly in the morning, but was woken up again, and she was also irritable, crying very frequently today, Ellie coaxed her to be upset, and handed the child to her.
Ji Yang followed her daughter and started coaxing her.
If in the past, Ai Li must have persuaded Ji Yang to go back after a quarrel, how could there be an overnight feud between parents? Moreover, family and everything are prosperous, and no one is happy to compete against each other.
But she will not compromise on this matter, even if he wants to go back, she will not go back.
"Mom is angry." Ji Yang sat on the sofa with his daughter in his arms, touched her little hand, and was breastfeeding with a bottle in one hand. When he said this, he glanced at Ai Li on the bed from the corner of his eye.
She has a soft temper, and she is quite tolerant of his temper on weekdays, but today she might be angered.
"My mother is like this, and it will probably take a while to make a fuss, and it won't make sense in a short time, just keep out of contact, don't get angry with yourself." Ji Yang said to her.
People like Li Qiuxiang are difficult to change, and if you encounter them head-on, you will suffer losses.
Of course Ellie knew this, and looked sideways at him, "The child will grow up slowly, how sad would she be if she knew this? What should she think?"
"She has been unwelcome since she was born, how should she live a good life?"
That's what worries her.
"Are you full?" Ji Yang looked down at his daughter, took out a piece of paper, and carefully wiped the corners of her mouth, then looked at Ai Li, pointed at her, and pointed at himself, "The child of the two of us, she We only need to know our thoughts, parents’ thoughts are difficult to change, if we fight hard, how many times will we have to be angry? We don’t need to eat when we are full.”
"If we give her a good life, she will be able to live a good life. It is we who show her the world, not anyone else."
Ellie's eyes changed.
"Society will change slowly, and people's thoughts will also change slowly. It is impossible for us to change other people's thoughts." Ji Yang looked at his daughter with half-closed eyes, hugged her and walked to the bed, "The question is what do you think, You think it’s okay to have one, and it’s good to have a daughter, and you can be satisfied without a boy, and both men and women are the same, that’s enough.”
"I figured it out. I can't do such a thing as sending her to the countryside, and I feel at ease keeping her by my side."
Hearing this, Ai Li looked at him, suddenly feeling ashamed of her inner thoughts.
Ji Yang can say that, why should she worry about what other people think of her daughter, the more she cares, the more she cares.
After all, isn’t it the imprint of the original family and the long-standing cognitive bias? She should also take a good look at herself and change the backward thinking in her bones.
The author has something to say: How should I put it, someone in the comment area said that Ellie is too weak-tempered or something, Mier thinks, every family has difficult scriptures, and they can't bear to be a family at all, and Li Qiuxiang Such a stubborn person is not a good way to quarrel, and is often at a disadvantage.
Ai Li's temperament determined that it was impossible for her to fight against each other. Moreover, it would be unworkable to confront each other head-on at every turn, and it might lead to new conflicts.
A mother-in-law doesn't hold grudges against her son, but for a daughter-in-law, she does.
Always change slowly ^_^
Mi Er went to her house with her deskmate from the university before. I still remember that she pointed to a road and told me that five or six baby girls were often thrown away on this road, and they starved to death for a few days. I don’t know. Is there any exaggeration, but it shows that this phenomenon exists o(╥﹏╥)o