I am a Good Man

Chapter 333: Poor woman in a patriarchal family (18)

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"Ning Feng gave birth to another fat boy."

"Boss, don't come to the hospital to have a look. The natural delivery will heal quickly, and you will be discharged from the hospital in two days. Hospitalization is a waste of money."

Ai Li fed Xiao Qiaoyi to eat, and Li Qiuxiang's loud voice came from Ji Yang's cell phone, she admired Ning Feng.

In this day and age, how to support three sons and one daughter

Ji Yang dealt with it casually, and didn't take it seriously when he hung up the phone.

"The full moon wine is going to be held this time?" Ai Li looked at him, "You tell your parents to take it easy, last time Shuo Shuo held the full moon wine, Han Han still held it, came once or twice, who would come?" the third time?"

"It's not the same way to collect money from members."

"I can't stop this, I won't go back anyway." Ji Yang pursed his lips, he was too lazy to get involved.

Ai Li also talked to him, and she didn't care about it.

As she expected, half a month later, Li Qiuxiang actually called Ji Yang to go back to participate in the full moon wine.

The first time was 60 tables, the second time was 50 tables, and the third time was 20 tables. She also said that she didn't want to invite too many tables, and she was happy with the people close to her.

that day.

Ning Feng hugged her son in the room, looking at Ji Mu who was playing games, she was very dissatisfied, "You still hug Hanhan, let's see what he is going to do."

"What can you do?" Ji Mu didn't raise his head.

"I just know how to play with my phone." Ning Feng was very confident now, and kicked him as soon as he raised his foot. He must be fat and strong, so he kicked him off the bed.

"What are you doing?" Ji Mu got angry and looked at the children, "Crying and crying all day long, will they be born or not? What does it matter to me?"

It is women's business to have children.

Ning Feng felt that she was very confident, even Li Qiuxiang dared to speak up, let alone Ji Mu, and immediately quarreled, "I was not born for your Ji family? These three sons are all from your Ji family."

She feels that she is a great hero and contributes to Ji's family.

The child is not hers, it is Ji's.

While arguing, Li Qiuxiang hurried in, "Xiaomu, have you notified them? Is it today?"

"Have you made it clear? Why are the twenty tables full of three tables? It's time to serve food."

Anyone who comes has to pay for it. If you don't come, the food will be wasted, and you will lose money when the time comes.

"Yes, I made it clear, the morning of the thirteenth."

"Hurry up and call again to ask, the food is about to be served now, otherwise it will be too late." Li Qiuxiang was in a hurry, "And your elder brother, hurry up and call him back, ouch, what is this? "

Ji Mu was also in a hurry, so he took the phone and went out to make a call.

After a call, many people turned off their phones, including Ji Yang, and some people didn't know who he was, and when they mentioned his identity, they hung up the phone directly.

Some were helpless, "You said you have a baby, once or twice is fine, and the third time, who will go?"

The final result is that the twenty tables are not filled with five tables, and some people from the village come to help, and these do not require money.

Twenty tables will cost a lot of money, and I can't even get it back now.

During the period, Li Qiuxiang also quarreled with several relatives, because the other party only gave 50 yuan, and she lost so much, she thought it was too little.

"I gave two hundred the first time, one hundred the second time, and the third time. My daughter-in-law told me not to come. What else do you want?"

"Don't come and go in the future."

"gone."

None of the relatives have to do it.

Do you have to deal with the remaining dozen or so tables of meals? The family couldn't finish it, and Liu Qiuxiang was reluctant to give it to the villagers. In the end, only the rot was left to be eaten by chickens, ducks and pigs.

It was supposed to be a happy event, but in the end it became a joke in the whole village. The only person Liu Qiuxiang vented about was Ning Feng, pointing and scolding every day, "Look what kind of mother you are, you don't even come to see your own daughter giving birth to a son."

"Return to my mother."

"Didn't you come here the first time and the second time? It costs money to come here once. Where did my mother get the money?" Ning Feng said confidently.

According to the custom, the mother-in-law has to bring home handmade pastries for her daughter, and it costs several hundred at a time. Last time, Ning Feng stuffed the money.

How many children have been born, how can there be money

If you don't give it to the other party, you won't come.

Ning's mother also expected her to take some money back to subsidize her mother's family.

"Is there any reason not to come?" Liu Qiuxiang wanted to control her daughter-in-law, but she was not allowed to jump on her head.

Got it.

Now the house started to quarrel.

The louder and fiercer it gets.

Relying on her three sons, Ning Feng did not back down and forced Ji Mu to stand on her side. In the end, it was impossible to fight, and it was Ji Chunjun who came forward to save the situation.

The rural hukou also allows only two children, and the third child is fined, and the fine must also allow the boy to register.

Li Qiuxiang and Ji Chunjun paid out of their own pockets, took out their savings, and paid a fine of 5,000 yuan to allow their children to register.

same year.

Ji Tianshuo is four years old, and it's time to go to kindergarten. The Ji family's eyes are fixed on Ji Yang and his wife.

Raising that little girl is also raising, and raising Ji Tianshuo is also raising.

What happened to raising the two together

A group of women in the village chatted together, and they looked at Ji Tianshuo, "I'm going to sign up for kindergarten in the second half of the year. Your Shuoshuo family will also sign up for the town?"

"How can that be?" Li Qiuxiang fanned his fan, "Our Shuoshuo family is going to study in the city, Ji Yang and his wife are in the city, and that little girl is also studying in the city. The teachers in the city teach well, and What interest class."

Li Qiuxiang has a good face, she has already said things that have not been confirmed, and she also shows a feeling of being superior to others.

People say that people in the upper class praise people and people in the lower class step on them, and the more backward the thinking is, the more serious this phenomenon is.

"Go to the market?" The fat aunt agreed with a smile, and changed her style of painting, "Ji Yang only has one daughter in your family, right?"

Where to poke where.

Li Qiuxiang's face changed immediately, but Ning Feng was quite happy, holding her son and breastfeeding, "Yes, the elder brother and sister-in-law only have one daughter, and the urban household registration does not allow them to have more children. The country allows one more, and it is not allowed."

"They are now open to having a second child. They say that the birth rate is low. After the documents were issued last month, they can have a second child." Another young daughter-in-law said.

"Can you give birth?" Li Qiuxiang suddenly became excited.

Although Ji Mu has three sons, she would be very happy if Ji Yang could give birth to her own.

Just because she was happy didn't mean Ning Feng was happy, she was dumbfounded.

If Ji Yang has a son, what about her son

Ji Mu eats too much and is lazy, and the two elders can't earn money, let alone buy a house, the house in the family is not enough to live in now.

There are only three rooms in total, and she already has three sons.

"Of course, I heard that if the fertility rate keeps going down so low, the country will open up three children. Now that children can't be afforded, who wants to have one?" Everyone said, looking at Ning Feng.

Rural ideology is decadent and backward, but people want at most two sons, and some people only want one. Ning Feng gave birth to three in one go, which looks weird to outsiders.

Everyone knows how difficult it is to raise a child now, who dares to have so many

"Then I have to let Ji Yang and the others have a baby. It must be a boy." Li Qiuxiang couldn't help but want to make a phone call.

"Now it's so developed that the hospital can test it out. There are some blood tests, and the girl will be eliminated. Wouldn't it be good to have another boy?"

"Yes, yes, yes." Li Qiuxiang nodded.

"Wouldn't it be good to kill it? You won't be able to conceive if you kill it." Ning Feng retorted, if Ai Li gave birth to a boy

"Who says you can't get pregnant?" Granny Zhang pointed behind her, "Li San's daughter-in-law was pregnant with two girls and they were beaten, and Chen Si's wife also beat one and gave birth to this baby. , and that…”

She could name quite a few.

Li Qiuxiang had already walked home to make a phone call, but Ning Feng hurriedly followed behind, feeling nervous.

Didn't Ellie say she wouldn't have a second child

She wished she would never give birth, nor conceive!

"Boss, people are now open to the second child, you and Ellie... are busy." Li Qiuxiang said loudly into the phone, "Okay, okay, you are busy, mom will call you soon, mom heard that people are busy now." You can have a second child, and everyone has given birth."

"As soon as the document came out, who gave birth? One month pregnant?" Ji Yang's faint voice came from there.

"Mom just heard people say it." Li Qiuxiang smiled awkwardly.

Ji Yang hung up the phone, and Ning Feng came up, seeming to have no intention of inquiring, "Mom, what did the elder brother say?"

"Of course I want to give birth. What do you mean?" Li Qiuxiang said without hesitation.

"Brother and sister-in-law are also busy with work, just in case another girl is born..."

"Bah, bah, bah." Li Qiuxiang yelled at her several times, the saliva splashed on her face, she pointed at Ning Feng and cursed, "I tell you, don't curse my son, be careful that you will die badly in the future. "

"The children born have no buttholes."

She cursed habitually, but only after she uttered the curse did she realize that she was cursing her grandson, so she quickly turned to the floor again, "Bah, bah, bah."

While poohing, he slapped himself.

at the same time.

After hanging up the phone, Ji Yang came back and looked at Ai Li who was sitting in the corridor, and there was a sign on the front: Obstetrics and Gynecology.

The other party looked a little dazed, looking at the inspection report.

The child who came suddenly.

She wasn't prepared at all, she had already decided to raise Qiaoyi alone in her life, and now she messed up her plan a bit.

If it was not possible to give birth before, but the country has opened up the second child, this child can be born and registered as a registered permanent residence.

"Stay here." Ji Yang squatted beside her, holding her hand, "At worst, I will resign again, and I have experience."

Ai Li didn't know whether to laugh or cry, and then restrained her expression a bit, "What about Qiaoyi? I'm afraid she has ideas."

"We've only had her for so many years, what if another child distracts us and leaves her neglected?"

If it is a boy who is more dangerous, Ji's family is a test, and Ji Yang is also a test. She doesn't know if she will be forced to do something that is not good for her daughter.

She is a child from a patriarchal family, and she was treated unfairly because of her gender. That's why she wants to love her daughter more, and doesn't want her to suffer the injustice she has suffered.

If she gave birth to a boy and was surrounded by such a bad environment, she would be a little worried.

"Since the opening of the two-child policy, many things have happened. The second child has indeed taken away the resources of the first child. If we only raise her, we can indeed provide her with better education and better conditions in all aspects. "

"Our energy is also limited, but we can achieve equal distribution of resources. He will have Qiaoyi, and Xiao Qiaoyi will not ignore her. Both are our children, aren't they?"

Ji Yang looked at her and said softly, "I will work harder to create better conditions for them."

Ai Li felt relieved, "If it's a daughter again, your parents..."

"Who will say that? I won't let them say a word. The child is our child. If you give birth to a daughter, you will be Qiaoyi's younger sister, and if you give birth to a son, you will be my younger brother. You can protect her in the future." Ji Yang frowned, of course A strong look.

Ellie smiled, put the inspection report in her bag, looked at him who was squatting down, and reached out to hug him.

Ji's family has a lot of troubles, which will inevitably mess up their lives, but fortunately, Ji Yang will help their mother and daughter to bear it.

Ji Yang hugged her, stood up and walked out.

"Put me down, there are so many people." Ai Li was originally just emotional for a moment, but suddenly wanted to hug him, but was carried out of the hospital like this, it was really embarrassing.

"What are you afraid of? No one knows us. Besides, it's not an affair. The husband and wife are aboveboard." Ji Yang hugged her a little tighter and continued to walk outside.

Ai Li was not as thick-skinned as him, and buried her whole body in his neck, she would not show up even after being killed, and said softly, "Slow down."

"I know, I'm holding you two, be very careful." He carried her down the stairs, unsteadily.

Ellie is still very concerned about Xiao Qiaoyi's opinion, and she is afraid that her daughter will have an opinion. Recently, the news is full of troubles. Many people disagree with their parents having a second child. There are many troubles.

evening.

Ellie was playing with building blocks with her daughter, and then assembled the plane. She still likes the plane tanks that boys like.

Ji Yang is happy to buy this for her again.

"Drink some."

A glass of milk appeared in front of her, Ji Yang raised his chin, and gave another bottle of milk to Xiao Qiaoyi, "You finish your drink too, go to bed."

"Why does mom drink milk like Qiaoyi? Is it to grow taller?" Xiao Qiaoyi took the milk from her father, looked at Ellie and asked.

"Because the mother is pregnant with the baby, the baby needs to supplement nutrition like Qiaoyi, so the mother needs to drink." Ji Yang said softly to her.

Ai Li's child was conceived by accident, and she didn't supplement folic acid or anything, because she was afraid of malnutrition and poor development.

"Is it the younger brother?" Xiao Qiaoyi tilted her head, sucking on the milk, "Grandma said that mother is going to give birth to a younger brother."

Ji Yang raised his forehead, Ji's family seldom sees each other, but Ai's family is getting closer.

Ai Li was also helpless, and Ai's mother had also sighed and scolded her several times in the past few years. From the other party's point of view, if Ji Yang didn't have a son, Ji Yang would divorce her at any time, no matter how much money he had, it would be useless.

Cheaper than others.

There are two older brothers and two older sisters above her, and her older brother is enjoying a better life, opening a small factory to make a little money, so Ai Mu let her go, otherwise she would have to pay her natal family back.

"Grandma said that if there is no brother, no one will take care of mom and dad." She said, and then said, "Qiaoyi will also take care of mom and dad, I love mom and dad."

Don't mention how sad the two of them heard this sentence. Ai Li's tears were low, and her eyes were red when she heard it.

"Why not my younger sister? If it's my younger sister, I can go to school with Qiaoyi, draw and swim together." Ji Yang stroked her head and said with a smile, "If I have a younger brother, I will protect Qiaoyi when I grow up. "

"Mom and Dad love you too."

"I don't want my brother to protect me, I will protect my brother." Xiao Qiaoyi looked at him with a serious face, "I will protect my brother, and when I grow up, I will protect my parents and love my parents."

Ji Yang picked her up, "Okay, mom and dad will protect Qiaoyi when she grows up. Now it's time for little princess Qiaoyi to brush her teeth and go to bed."

"Hee hee hee." Xiao Qiaoyi hooked his bun with one hand, took a big gulp, and finished drinking her own milk.

Ai Li walked in with the father and daughter, Ji Yang took Xiao Qiaoyi into the bathroom, and the sound of conversation still came out from time to time.

"Qiaoyi has to help dad look after mom, younger siblings are easily frightened and afraid, so be careful."

"Qiaoyi will take care of mom."

"Then our Qiaoyi is the best. When the younger brothers and sisters come out, they will definitely like our Qiaoyi very much."

"Qiaoyi also likes younger siblings very much, hehehe."

"Spit bubbles."

"Daddy hug."

There was a soft smile on the corner of Ai Li's mouth, and her slender hands were attached to her lower abdomen. She was worried that Ji Yang's thinking would change and she would easily neglect her daughter.

But now the other party is obviously doing better than her.

Decided to keep the child, she went to work while raising the baby.

There was a lot of urging from Ji's house, and Ai's mother didn't know where to get the news, so she also came to urge Ai Li to give birth to a boy.

There is no boy who can't gain a firm foothold in his in-laws' house. This is the thinking of many people in this small city.

Ai Li couldn't help but say a few words to Ai Mu, and she would never allow the other party to say such things in front of Xiao Qiaoyi.

They didn't have a second child just to have a boy. Even if this one is a daughter, she will still give birth to her and give her the same love as Xiao Qiaoyi.

After the pregnancy was stable, Ai Li told the Ai family. As for the Ji family, Ji Yang waited until she was on maternity leave.

Why did you say it now

Because Li Qiuxiang was really overwhelming, she even contacted some distant relatives, saying that she could see the gender, if not, she would induce labor.

After a while, she said that she would come to take care of her. The words were filled with joy, but Ai Li didn't dare to let her take care of her.

Ji Yang stopped him, but did not agree.

"For this checkup, just put in two hundred yuan. You heard from my mother that I can finally have a second child, and of course I have to have a son."

"Boss, don't think Mom is long-winded."

"Raise like a daughter, more caring." Ji Yang resented him.

"That won't work." Li Qiuxiang was in a hurry, and she was going to block Ai Li, and she had to drag her to check.

This made Ji Yang completely angry. She still felt that she was very reasonable, and the other party was furious and refused to let Ai Li see her again.

"Why did Mom hurt you? It would be nice to have a son." Li Qiuxiang felt that Ji Yang didn't understand her conscience at all.

"If this happens again, I'll sell the house and move out of here." Ji Yang said with a cold expression, "I will do what I say."

"What if I have a daughter..." Li Qiuxiang didn't give up, but Ji Yang had a big fight with her in return.

Since then, there has been no news of his son.

Seeing that Ai Li's due date has arrived, and there is no news at all, Ning Feng is sure that Ai Li gave birth to a girl.

Li Qiuxiang thinks so too.

She moaned and sighed all day long at home, and it was useless to burn incense to her ancestors.

"I didn't report the letter, I must have my daughter, Ai Li is a bad guy."

"A daughter again."

Ning Feng thought it was good, Ai Li really did not have a son, and she was in fear for several months, and her fate was not as good as hers at first glance, but she was not happy for a few days, Ji Yang made a phone call to shatter her dream.

Ellie gave birth to a son.

The last time Xiaoqiaoyi's full moon wine was not prepared, and this one is also not available. I just let them know, and if I remember, I will burn incense to the ancestors. If I don't remember, forget it, and they will not come back.

Li Qiuxiang was ecstatic, and said that she would take the eggs and old hen at home, but Ji Yang refused, saying that he would take care of it, Ji Mu was confused, and Ning Feng had cold hands and feet.

The author has something to say: This story has caused quite a lot of controversy. In a small county town, there are quite a lot of such thoughts. People who grew up in that environment, even if they have received higher education, still have the same thoughts in their bones since childhood. Not easy to change.

The end is coming soon, Mier is afraid that the writing will not satisfy you, if the writing collapses, Mier will definitely be the most angry. As an author, I definitely hope to write every story well, but I hate that I don’t have that ability. o(╯□╰)o

I heard that it is not easy for girls to get pregnant nowadays, so some places have "hidden rules" of getting pregnant first and then marrying, which is very... unbelievable but real.

Good night.