I Love You, It's Not About You

Chapter 336: Postscript to share the bits and pieces of the story

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[Not just a fairy tale]

I recently caught a cold and didn't want to do anything. I just ended the article. I didn't want to write this postscript, but after thinking about it for a long time, I started writing.

Five hundred and fifty thousand words, walking this way, thank you for your company and affirmation, that makes me not lonely.

Many friends are not satisfied with the ending, but it is the best ending I can think of.

Yu and Ting are together, this is the hope of many friends, but it seems that too many people can't tolerate the peace that suddenly pops out. For Anning, Ting may not accept it five years ago, but today she can accept it calmly. Any happiness and beauty requires effort and effort.

This is a fairy tale love story, but it is not just a simple fairy tale, because it contains too much realistic helplessness.

[Zi Yin's Sanity]

Ziyin is gone, not only Ting, but also me. She may have been selfish, but from the beginning, her contribution was decisive and clear. No one can deny her single-mindedness. When Ting is happily with Yu, who sees her suffering? Many people say that she can barely be happy. I believe she knows this very well. Therefore, she chose to quit from the beginning, but how easy is it to quit

Her pain was because she was too rational, so even the five years that Yu had been with her was still the heaviest pain in her heart. She had imagined that one day Yu could put down Ting and treat herself sincerely, but she would never wait for that day. After all, the protagonist's feelings need her to set off.

[Yingqian's sorrow]

Regarding Yingqian, I don't know how everyone felt, but at the moment she sacrificed herself for Feng, no one gave sympathy and pity. What everyone cares about is the happiness of the protagonist, and Yingqian, she is destined to be the most tragic character in this story.

From the very beginning, Yingqian's identity has made people worry. But all this is just because she was too naive when she was young, and everything that followed was irreparable.

In Qiao Mu's eyes, she is a substitute.

In Feng's eyes, she is still a substitute.

To put it bluntly, what Feng gave her was nothing but material.

From the beginning, Feng liked Ting, and Yingqian was just an excuse for him.

There is no love between us

There is only one game called substitution

I replaced the vacancy in your heart

But I stupidly believe that it is love

These few words, I believe you should remember, this is my description of Yingqian. She was sad. When she first met Feng, she was just Qianya's substitute. Later, Feng used her as an excuse to escape Yiting.

Feng is relatively cowardly when facing feelings. He saw his mother's betrayal of his father, so his feelings could not tolerate a trace of betrayal. If love is destined to be fruitless, he would rather ignore it. Although Ting's feelings for Yu were not clear at first, everyone else saw it, not to mention being a smart person like Feng, so he kept running away. Such evasion led to damage to Yingqian.

From the very beginning, Yingqian thought about leaving Feng. Her life was too rough and could not stand too many people and things. But Feng kept her by her side, making her unable to get rid of it.

When Qiao Xi let her ruin her fame, she had completely given up her nostalgia for Feng. She knew clearly that she and Feng had no results.

However, Feng, who ran away from home for her, made her unable to refuse. She prefers to deceive herself into believing that Feng really loves her.

However, when she gave her heart completely, when her father left her most helpless, what she saw was the most unrelenting betrayal that Feng had given her.

Therefore, she chose revenge, crazy revenge.

[Qiao Jun’s cowardice]

He is really cowardly when it comes to treating Ting. Maybe it was because he was too mature. He almost quit without trying to fight for it.

Some people say that Ting is not a fanatic, so why do so many people like her.

Qiao Jun likes Ting because of her gap with Ye Liyang. Ye Liyang was too tough, so strong that it made him want to escape, but Ting was the opposite. Ting's dependence gave him another sense of existence. However, the promise he had given to Liyang for the night was the biggest obstacle in his heart.

He is not a child, and he knows that many times responsibility outweigh feelings.

Such him makes me feel even more distressed.

Is it true that when we grow up, we all choose to use this method to face things

[Moved by Jiang Wei]

For Yingqian, he stole and sold drugs. All he wanted was that Yingqian could get better. Therefore, even when Yingqian broke up with him, he just shed tears when he turned around. I don't want Yingqian to see his pain, or make his beloved feel guilty. I don't know how many friends remember his existence, how many people were moved by what he did, maybe no one noticed his existence, and his light was robbed by the protagonist.

So at the end, I gave him a successful and peaceful life.

[Hate of Ye Liyang]

As Ye's eldest lady, she was not sure from the beginning. Her father, who loved her, got into a car accident while rushing to celebrate Yu's birthday, so she attributed everything to Yu and his mother.

Hate makes her powerful and independent, for fear that people related to the Ye family will steal her things. She would rather steal her things from someone else than the Ye family she hates.

The appearance of Ting made her suffer from gains and losses. Moreover, Qiao Jun's heart is indeed changing, so her inner anxiety made her pungent, but she chose the dumbest way to retain the person she loves. In the end, when she got rid of all that, it made me feel that she was indeed the best person in the world.

[Maple's helplessness]

In fact, when I first published the article, the ending of this book was finalized. So, from the very beginning, I witnessed Feng's dedication, but in the process, many friends rejected him. Such a denial is just like Ting's denial of him. The situation was unfavorable for him, and he got the upper hand from the beginning.

Ting's affection for Yu is his biggest difficulty.

The most painful thing in the world is to watch yourself fall, knowing that there is no result.

In fact, neither Yingqian nor his father had anything to do with him, and he didn't need to atone for it.

However, because he loved too much, too much for the girl he didn't want to fall in love with from the beginning, so he attributed all the injuries she suffered to himself.

Take care of her, feel sorry for her, even if she knows that there is someone else in her heart. He did everything, which moved people, but also distressed. All Ting had in her heart was Yu. She stubbornly refused to forget Yu, just as she stubbornly refused to get rid of the shadow of the death of her parents. Once she identified something, she would hold on to it. Her stubbornness left a series of unhealable works in Feng's heart, so until the end, Feng's character became unacceptable. Let the sunny and warm maple go further and further away from our sight.

[Yu: My most beloved prince]

For Yu, I think I don’t have much to say. From the very beginning, everyone liked him better. He is my true definition of the prince, and he will silently put me into his sight no matter what.

I think everyone's only regret is that he let Ziyin have his child.

I don't know if you have seriously thought about how he felt when Ting rejected him out of guilt for Feng.

After leaving five years ago, if Ting was willing to keep him, none of this would happen. I don’t know if everyone saw Yu say to Ting: “Today, I am looking for you, just wanting an answer from you. For Xiaoyu, who loves you so much, do you really want and bear to push him to another person? If you are no longer willing to sacrifice your love for friendship, please, take me from the “atonement” constructed for you Pull me out of the abyss, okay? Your own self-blame determines all of this, today, my destiny is still waiting for you to decide, where you want me to continue the current path, I am willing, I will follow Zi Yin got engaged, but in the future, we will have no room for regret." During this period, what was the feeling in my heart, but when I was writing, I seemed to feel Yu's personal pain.

As for Yu taking care of Ziyin, this requires more in-depth thinking.

Yu's departure is a big bet. If he wins, he can get Yi Ting desperate for him, but if he loses, he will completely lose Yi Ting.

Yiting lost her parents when she was very young, so she took a fancy to everything in her life, whether it was love, family, or friendship.

So in the previous part, Ting always did a lot of things that disappointed Yu.

Yu is desperate for Ting because she knows Ting cares about Ziyin. If he ignores Ziyin's feelings, Ting will be guilty for a lifetime, and he will be sad if he can't see Ting's happiness.

Therefore, he chose to break up. Although he proposed it, everyone should be aware that although Ting is sad, she did not raise any objections. If she regards Yu as heavier than Ziyin, they will not Separated, isn't it

As long as she stayed, Yu would stay at all costs, but Ting didn't. At this moment, she cared that Ziyin was not less than Yu. Therefore, Yu chose to leave.

If you don't even have the courage to put me first, how can you have the courage to accompany me to the end of the world. This is Yu's mentality, so he chose to leave.

This is also Yu's character, the same as Yiyi, borrowing a word from a friend: If you love, please love deeply, and if you don't love, then leave.

The reason why this is a big bet is because he gave Ting to Feng before leaving. No one can guarantee that Ting will not be moved by Feng or accept Feng's feelings in the process.

After he left, there are two results. The first is that Ting can do everything for him. Second, Ting accepted Feng, and he will lose Ting forever.

And when Ting completely rejected him for Feng who was going to be blind, he thought that he had lost. Therefore, he was engaged to Ziyin.

After they got engaged, Ziyin had his child, which was nothing.

It is impossible for him to hurt the innocent Zi Yin after knowing that Ting is impossible, right

After all, as Yu grew up five years later, he experienced more and understood more, and he valued more responsibility. Willfulness, only once or twice, we don't have the courage to dramatize our lives desperately. When the dear ones really grow up one day, they will understand that feeling. Sometimes, what we do is not what we want. It's not that we can do everything we want to do.

Such an ending, even if it is incomplete, is the price we voluntarily pay for love.

[Ting’s Growth]

From not loving, to loving, to not being able to love, to desperately loving. Along the way, she was very tired and distressed.

However, this will also be the shadow of friends in reality, big or small, maybe you have not met a man who loves you deeply like Ting, maybe your life is not so beautiful and romantic.

However, in the process of growing slowly, changing oneself and learning to cherish is a process that everyone must experience.

When I was very young, I often dreamed big and small dreams. When a prince riding a white horse came to pick me up, I would be the most beautiful and happiest princess in the world, and there would be many people who would love me.

But today, when you are moved by the characters I imagined, I can tell you that I don't hold any hope for love. I am not the happiest princess in this world either. I will be angry and angry because of things in reality. I often make people around me have headaches because of myself. Even if I have grown up, I still make my parents worry about myself. I was weaving my dreams, walking in this cold and cruel world, pouring my hopes and dreams with my heart, and I lived just to be less troublesome. No longer thinking about how much I can contribute to this world, I am selfish, so selfish that I live only for myself.

But Ting, unknowingly, shadowed me.

When I first wrote the essay, I really didn't think about writing myself into it, but after I finished writing this story, I saw that it was clearly the shadow of that wayward self. In terms of personality, I really resemble her.

However, she will grow up and understand what she should and should not do. For Yu and Feng to get engaged. Although Feng finally withdrew, her growth was immediate.

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