In my mind filled with small romance complexes, confession, marriage proposal and marriage are the three most memorable moments in a woman's life. They should be so romantic until they are outdated, and I can still be moved to tears in retrospect.
However, art is always higher than life.
June 13, 2003, the date I remember very well, because it was my birthday.
The SARS that lasted for more than two months and the upcoming graduation made the entire campus seem to be immersed in a heavy separation.
I was suppressed to the limit by the heavy atmosphere, and on the spur of the moment, I asked Annoying to go to a bar for a drink.
In the drunkenness, the small romance complex in my heart broke out again.
I said to the annoying: "Now that we are going our separate ways, I just want to hear you tell me plainly: You don't like me, you never liked me... I can give up..."
After a brief silence, Annoying said, "What if I said... I like it?"
"what-"
"I love you for a long time."
"You… why didn't you tell me earlier?"
"Don't you know? I thought I was obvious enough."
I had a headache, I drank too much, and my brain was a little out of whack. I couldn't figure out why he liked someone and didn't say anything.
Years later, when I had a deep understanding of him, I understood: there is a kind of love called - I never say I love you, but no matter what, as long as you can say it, I can do it.
In the summer of 2006, an early morning I can't remember the date at all.
I was holding the quilt and dreaming, when my mother started to nag in my ear again.
"Xinxin, you are already 26 years old, when will you get married? Look at Xiao X who is the same age as you, and the children can play soy sauce. Look at Xiao Y, who is three years younger than you and will get married in two days. Now, take it easy!"
I deeply felt that my mother taught me right, so I reached out and picked up the phone by the bedside and called the annoying one.
Judging from the annoying and thick nasal sound, he should have been awakened by the ringing of the mobile phone, and the question was concise and concise: "What's the matter?"
I was sleepy too, so I went straight to the point: "When are you going to marry me?"
"...I didn't think so."
"Think now!"
"..." There was no movement for a long time. I thought he had fallen asleep again, and was about to hang up the phone to resume his sleep when he suddenly spoke in a clear voice: "Wait for graduate school to graduate."
"Row."
After hanging up the phone, I told my mother, "I will get married after graduation."
Mom immediately called to inform everyone I knew, and I went back to sleep with the quilt covered.
When I woke up and my brain was clear, I suddenly remembered an important thing, my sacred marriage proposal is over!
The legendary flowers, candlelight, western food, diamond rings... and kneeling
It's really all in romance novels.
It was me who made the confession, and it was me who proposed. Just when I thought marriage would also require me to speak first, an accident happened, and it was too late for me to brush my teeth and wash my face.
In 2007, I can't remember the date at all.
When I wake up in the morning, I go to the bathroom yawning.
Annoying me clumsily through the sewer, while disgusting my hair falling out too much, warning me not to write novels until the early morning, to sleep before twelve o'clock every night, to take good care of him, and to wait for him when he grows old and arrives. die.
In order to resolve the tense situation, I pointed at him in a sentimental tone and asked, "You dislike me, don't you? You don't want me anymore, do you?"
Annoying never has the tenderness of the hero of a romance novel, and gave me a cold look: "Go and fetch the trash can."
I continued to work hard: "You just don't want me, you just don't want to marry me! You don't want me to say earlier, there are a bunch of spare tires waiting for me behind me, some of them I'm very optimistic about, Worry about not having the opportunity to visit the site…”
Annoying interrupted me directly: "Go change clothes, let's go to the school police station."
"Go for what?"
"Get the account and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the certificate."
"Uh..." Where did I just say
"I heard that today is a good day, suitable for marriage, not for marriage," he said.
"Really?! No need to change clothes, let's go."
"Wash your face first!"
"Uh… "
I almost forgot!
I walked into the school police station with Ananren, and the uncle of the police officer, who was in a panic, asked enthusiastically, "What are you going to do?"
I happily replied, "Get an account."
"Have you signed a job?"
"No, we're going to get a marriage certificate."
The police uncle took a deep look at me and the annoying person, and sighed to himself: "Oh, now this student is in a hurry to get married, and he has to leave when he comes back, how troublesome!"
"I..." I felt it was necessary for me to say something, and after holding back for a long time, I finally said, "I'm not afraid of trouble!"
Annoying gave me a stern look: "I'm afraid, so don't cause me trouble."
Look, how annoying this person is, he never speaks well!
It's annoying to say that today is a good day. I thought the office hall of the Civil Affairs Bureau must be crowded with people, but when I walked in, I was stunned that there were only a few people going through the formalities.
"Didn't you say today is a good day? Which imperial calendar did you read?" I was puzzled.
"I don't need to queue, isn't it a good day?"
Uh... that makes sense.
Under the guidance of the clerk, I filled out the forms, took photos, and got the marriage certificate with great efficiency. I was so happy that my mouth could not be closed while holding the bright red book.
I walked out of the office of the Civil Affairs Bureau in a silly manner. I was looking around to find the bus stop, and the annoying person standing in front of me suddenly held my hand.
His hands are always warm, warm to my heart.
I looked at him happily: "From now on, we are legal."
He looked at me contentedly: "From now on, no matter how much I despise you, you will never have the opportunity to inspect others on the spot."
"I... why do I feel like I've been tricked?"
"Don't worry, I'll stick with you for the rest of my life."
"… "
This person's biggest shortcoming is: when he speaks sweet words, you can never taste the sweetness!
However, I like it!
Maybe in the eyes of many people, our marriage is very hasty, there is no diamond ring that represents the eternal love of true love, and there is no blessing from relatives and friends, but we have love, we have the best vision for the future, and our hearts are full of happiness!
This is the most memorable moment of my life!
- Lesson 1 of "The Secret Book of Love" -
A woman can be confused about everything, but you can't be confused about choosing a husband, because if you choose the wrong one, you will have no chance to re-elect. Even if they could re-select, they would at most choose the least rotten one among the piles of rotten persimmons.