When I was a doctoral student at T University, I was busy, busy with research projects, busy with writing novels, and neglected classmate Xiao Cheng. When I think of him, I suddenly find that Xiao Cheng's attitude towards me has changed. Every time I call him, he says he is very busy, either playing football or having dinner. Sometimes he says he is studying and can't wait. hang up the phone.
I vaguely smell a change of taste.
One day, I called my classmate Xiao Cheng and asked him what he was doing. He claimed that he was doing laundry in the dormitory, and he hurriedly ended the call without saying a word.
It is absolutely unreasonable for someone who "never bothers himself" to ask his girlfriend for help without earnestly doing laundry.
I went to his dormitory without hesitation, brewing full of "catch the rape" emotion, and rushed in the door.
As a result, I did not catch the "rapist", but caught the "gambling".
Ignoring the three surprised boys at the mahjong table, I walked up to classmate Xiao Cheng, pinched his face, and asked with a smile, "Didn't you say you're doing laundry? Where's the clothes?"
He immediately admitted his mistake. He has always had a good attitude of admitting his mistakes, but he has not changed his mind.
The three boys watching the fun laughed: "Aren't you usually a man, so you're afraid of your daughter-in-law!"
"Yeah! I think you have a tough style of playing football. Why are you so soft in front of your daughter-in-law?"
"No wonder his face is getting bigger and bigger recently. It turned out to be pinched by his wife."
"… "
Classmate Xiao Cheng coughed softly and whispered to me, "Daughter-in-law, give me some face, can I turn around and kneel on the CPU?"
Considering that I should maintain my ladylike image in front of several handsome guys, I nodded: "Okay, I'll take care of you when no one else is there!"
After the civil war was quelled, classmate Xiao Cheng introduced me to his new friend. The handsome guy who looked very individual was classmate Xiao Guan, who mainly studied abnormal fluid mechanics. Because Xiao Guan's life goal is to be a professor, everyone calls him Professor Guan.
The student who is slightly over-nourished is Su. He is a Ph.D. from the School of Management and plans to take the civil service exam after graduation, so everyone calls him Director Su.
Another shy and shy classmate is Wei. He studies robotics and plans to go to a robotics company to do technology in the future, so everyone calls him Director Wei.
As for Xiao Cheng, everyone agreed that he was suitable for business, so they called him President Cheng.
They are both members of the doctoral football team. Recently, several people have established a profound revolutionary friendship on the court. They play mahjong and drink alcohol off the court. They get along very happily, so they hang out together every day. As for project research, for them, it is all something they do to pass the time when people can't sleep in the middle of the night.
It can be seen that my rival in love is not a beautiful woman, but a few handsome guys.
Love Rival Professor Guan
Professor Guan is the most handsome man I have ever met, not in his face, but in his bones.
It is said that he was very thin since he was a child, and was often bullied by other children in kindergarten. His father was angry and pointed to his nose and said, "If anyone dares to beat you again in the future, you will beat him, and if you beat him, your father will give him money. Qian Zhi."
His father definitely said this out of anger, but this sentence instantly aroused Professor Guan's manhood. From kindergarten to doctorate, he fought hand-to-hand battles and cultivated his invincible martial arts.
According to reliable rumors: as long as Professor Guan makes a move, the opponent will fall to the ground. I didn't believe it at first, but I was fortunate enough to see him once, and my admiration for him was like a surging river.
It was a football league organized by the school, and each department would send a team to participate in the game. I went to watch Xiao Cheng play the game, and accidentally found that Professor Guan was also playing in the adjacent stadium.
When the game was in the heat of the game, classmate Xiao Cheng excelled beautifully and was about to shoot, but was kicked away by the opponent's defender with the ball, and the prize was lost at that time...
It hurts me so much that I want to rush to scratch people!
Before the referee had time to draw out the cards, a windy figure swept across the court. I just blinked when I saw Professor Guan throw a punch, and the player who knocked down Xiao Cheng fell to the ground immediately...
It really lives up to its reputation!
Although Professor Guan was finally sent off with a red card for leaving the field without authorization during the game, his image in my heart instantly became taller. I said to Xiao Cheng, "If I didn't have you, I would definitely pursue Professor Guan, so handsome!"
Xiao Cheng said, "Don't dream, he doesn't look down on you. He has someone he likes."
"Can you stop despising your own aesthetics all the time! Eh? You said he has someone he likes, is it from our school?"
"No, his former high school classmate."
Xiao Cheng told me that when Professor Guan was in college, he was also a handsome guy who was popular in T University. His wind-like figure on the football field attracted the attention of many girls. However, it is such a man who is uninhibited to the core, but his heart is only tender for a woman.
Later, according to official sources, it was confirmed that Professor Guan really liked the girls in his high school class at the age of seventeen.
He waited silently until the girl finished the university entrance exam and confessed her heart, and the girl accepted it readily. It's a pity that the girl was admitted to the foreign language college in X city, and he was admitted to T city. The two cities are separated by half China, and the distance is thousands of mountains and rivers. But this can't stop Professor Guan's fiery heart. He often stays on the train overnight to see his beloved woman in X City.
Once on the way back, he saw a girl sending him off, and he felt sentimental for a while. He cried all the way from X city to T city, so that everyone on the train thought he was brokenhearted and comforted him in every possible way. Later, when the girl graduated, she came to T City to work for him, and they were happily together...
After listening to their stories, I said to Professor Guan with admiration: "You are really a man who understands love!"
Professor Guan said: "I don't understand love. I just decided to marry her when I was seventeen."
It turns out that not all "eachother" in this world is to make women happy!
"Then when are you going to propose to her?" I asked.
Professor Guan scratched his head in embarrassment: "I don't know how to speak."
Later, everyone secretly designed a lot of marriage proposals for Professor Guan, but Professor Guan was always dissatisfied. Until one day, before I woke up from the afternoon nap, Professor Guan called Xiao Cheng and said that he wanted to invite him to dinner because he had obtained a marriage certificate.
I lost sleep all of a sudden, and called the professor's wife to gossip about the marriage proposal.
The professor's wife told me calmly: "We passed by the Civil Affairs Bureau today and saw a lot of people queuing up. When Professor Guan asked, it turned out that today is May 20th, which is a good day. He asked me if I wanted to get the certificate as well. I said yes, we'll get the marriage certificate."
I wiped my sweat and couldn't help but say, "Dear, marriage is a big deal, can you stop being as casual as me!"
The professor's wife smiled: "Come to my house for dinner at night, I'll make you stew pork ribs."
I went to Professor Guan's house to eat ribs in the evening, and saw the newlyweds busy in the kitchen together, I suddenly understood that when you really love someone, just being with him is enough, the so-called romance is optional.
Now Professor Guan has been an associate professor for many years and is ready to criticize the professor. In addition to deriving various metamorphic mechanical formulas, he spends all his spare time on the Internet for his precious daughter. The professor's wife jumped up and said yes Sooner or later, he will chop off his hand.
I really don't know if his hands are chopped off, how can he be invincible
Rival Wei Director
Director Wei really went to a good company after graduation. Now he is the technical director, dressed in a neat suit and full of elite style. It doesn't look like when I first saw him, wearing a sweat-soaked jersey; it's not like the guy who went to my refrigerator to rummage when he was hungry, found two pounds of quick-frozen spare ribs, and immediately rushed to the kitchen to braise it, Then, gourmet foodies who eat up contentedly.
Of course, I can't even see his sad eyes for love, because his sad love has finally achieved a positive result.
When I was studying for a doctorate, Director Wei was recognized as a good man among our friends. He was very homely and gentle. We agreed that whoever married him would be happy in the future.
However, his taste in choosing his girlfriend is particularly unique, and the girls around him don't like it, so he has kept himself clean for many years.
On a sunny afternoon, when a fierce football game ended, Director Wei came off the field with the soccer ball in his arms, and accidentally saw a girl watching the fun. She was not pretty, but she was very individual. She had neat short hair and was wearing a loose T-shirt. And jeans, still biting a cigarette.
Just one more look in the crowd, and Director Wei has fallen since then.
Under his almost obsessive pursuit, the girl accepted him, but she was always lukewarm to him. After getting along for a year, the girl broke up with him on the grounds that she had no feelings for him.
He didn't feel the pain, he didn't even say anything sentimental, he just kept silent, silently dealing with our friends who were trying to persuade him to let go.
Since then, I have never heard of him getting a girlfriend. After he graduated, he didn't have half a woman by his side. He devoted all his energy to his work, from project manager, to manager, to technical director, His career was smooth sailing, and his feelings were desolate.
Suddenly one day, he told us that he was getting married, and the bride-to-be was the only woman he had ever loved in his life.
To put it objectively, at that time, our friends collectively mourned for him for three minutes, but he happily told us that he only liked her. He doesn't want to marry anyone except her!
We packed up immediately and took the train together to attend his wedding.
At a romantic wedding, he sang one of the most emotional songs for his beloved bride, and I was moved to tears.
At that moment, I understood.
Love can never be judged by bystanders, he loves deeply, he is satisfied, that's enough!
Love Rival Director Su
Director Su married a wife after graduating with a master's degree. She lived a very nourishing life, and she could not avoid getting fat when she studied for a doctorate.
I've seen pictures of him when he was young, he's really handsome. It is said that he was the president of the student union when he was studying at J University. He was good at various ball games and was popular in J University. In the end, he chose a very cute girl with big eyes among his many admirers, called Ahan.
Only after the two met, did Director Su know that Ahan was a son of a high-ranking cadre, or the kind of son of a family of high-ranking cadres.
Before I met Ah Han, I imagined that she should be the noble, proud, branded and jeweled girl that is often seen on TV. However, Ah Han completely subverted my stereotype of high-ranking officials.
She looks like the most ordinary sister next door, and the brands of clothes are very low-key, at least I don't know her.
She never gave me knowledge of famous brands, but always talked about the progress of her doctoral project, introduced the delicious soy sauce, her favorite TV series, and even her new research on how to use garbage bags... I really benefited a lot.
Ahan has a special love for Director Su. She comes to T City every weekend to do laundry and cook for him, and organize things for him. She said that she does not pursue success or wealth in her life, she just wants to have a lovely life with her beloved. children, and wholeheartedly be a good wife and mother.
Not long ago, I saw a picture of her son Moon Moon in the circle of friends, and I was really happy for her.
It turns out that love can make a woman so ordinary and so great.
Many people think that doctors are like Einstein and Newton, and their minds are always filled with content that others cannot understand. In fact, this is not the case, at least not entirely.
They will also be addicted to online games and mahjong tables. They will also be drunk and full of brotherhood. They will also keep a touch of tenderness for the woman they love deeply. Do experiments, but those are not all of them.
If I have to say, what is the difference between these academic tyrants and ordinary people, I think it is that they all have an original intention that will not be easily changed. If they identify one thing, they will persevere in spite of all difficulties. This is true for their studies and friendship. , the same goes for love...
- Lesson 12 of "The Secret Book of Love" -
People often ask me: Does love have a shelf life
I think there is. Just like food has a shelf life, love after the shelf life will also deteriorate, tasteless to eat, and a pity to discard.
Love, like food, can extend its shelf life in some ways.
For example, choose a suitable time to refrigerate, add a little salt to make the taste stronger, or put a little preservative...
In short, there are many ways to see if you are willing to spend the effort to "manage"!