After writing romance novels, my biggest gain is to meet a lot of true love fans, and also meet a lot of friends who share the same goals, joys and sorrows with me. My best friend and partner Weiwei is one of them.
I am the kind of person who perceives the reflex arc very long. Only the kind of person who is very affectionate and indomitable can wait patiently for me to react. For example, my family is annoying, and Miss Weiwei.
When I first met Weiwei, she was a part-time editor at K Original Literature. After reading the underworld essay I wrote, take the initiative to add me to QQ and chat with me.
In the first chat, she told me candidly:
Seeing such an opening remark, I firmly thought that she was specially here to poach me to go to the K website. As for the so-called liking the love written by me, of course, it is a greeting to shorten the distance.
A month has passed, and editor Weiwei did not mention the matter of letting me go to the K website, but only expressed the feeling after reading it in detail and in depth.
I think this editor is patient and good at detours.
A year later, editor Weiwei still didn't mention poaching me to K's website, and still focused on the plot of my new article.
I think this editor is very persistent and will not give up until his goal is achieved.
Two years later, editor Wei Wei is still enthusiastically discussing my new article and our respective lives with me, never mentioning the K website.
I was finally overwhelmed by her patience and took the initiative to ask her:
No idea, Weiwei replied to me sincerely:
I think, this is the legend of wanting to welcome and refusing. She is probably waiting for the end of my contract with Jinjiang, and threw herself into her arms.
After five years of acquaintance, editor Weiwei left the K website and still has something to do with me, chatting about novels, life, feelings, and the future.
One day, she said she liked "Over the Thunder Pond" very much and wanted to make it into a radio drama.
I couldn't help but ask:
She replied:
Weiwei was struck for a long time without speaking, and it took a while before she sent the message:
I wipe the sweat:
Weiwei sent a sweaty expression:
I think, I'm not the long reflex arc, I just don't have that strong self-confidence to believe that everyone around me who is full of kindness to me is loving me with all their hearts!
In order to make up for the hurt to Miss Weiwei's fragile heart, I did not hesitate to give her the audio copyright of "Overcoming the Thunder Pond".
I originally thought she was just interested, just for fun, but I didn't expect that she spent nearly a year polishing the script bit by bit, writing lyrics, choosing CVs, and editing.
She sent me the finished radio drama, and I listened to it three times.
She asked me:
I wiped my tears and replied:
She sent me a blackface emoji:
I immediately turned to the original text and read it. Three hours later, I realized the fact that "Over the Thunder Pond" is not a romantic and heart-warming love story, it is an abusive article from the very beginning!
Vivi told me again:
I am baffled:
Weiwei immediately sent a series of black faces:
I'll add one more thing:
Weiwei quickly replied:
…
Three months later, Vivi told me:
I sent her blackface all over the screen!
For a while, Weiwei often complained to me:
I told her:
Vivi said immediately:
Since then, Weiwei has helped me find publishing editors, film and television companies, and I have knocked her out to help me evaluate any copyright matters.
I couldn't write Carvin, so I knocked her out to help me sort out my thoughts.
There were typos in my novel, so I knocked her out for proofreading.
My novel has no cover, and I knocked her out to design the cover for me.
Even if I couldn't sleep in the middle of the night, I knocked her out to talk to me about how to revise the text...
She will never say "no" to me.
I was so moved that I sighed to the annoying: "If I could choose again, I would definitely choose an Aries husband. I'm really better than a Virgo!"
Annoying immediately protested: "Who said that? I'd better throw it down. If you don't believe me, give it a try."
I glanced at him eagerly awaiting on the sofa: "It's annoying... I'm not fooled!"
In the sixth year of knowing Weiwei, she came to S City to play, and we made an appointment to meet.
It's annoying to hear that I'm going to meet someone I've never met, and I firmly object: "No! You can't go! What if she deceives you and has no plans for you?"
"We have known each other for six years, and we are truly 'in love'."
Annoying to hear it, he firmly objected: "Then you can't go. You have been talking to her for six years, and you have been in love with her for six years. If he is a man, you will most likely run away with him."
"You look at me like that?!"
Annoying: "… yes."
"I swear, she's a woman."
"I will go with you."
I firmly opposed: "No, if she is a beautiful woman, you may run away with her."
Annoying: "You just look at me like that?!"
I'm!"
After a fruitless argument, I asked Annoying: "Don't you think we're both a little too… mistrustful of each other?"
Annoyingly nodded: "I feel deeply."
"Is this not good?"
Annoying shook his head: "This is good, it proves that we both care about each other and are afraid of losing."
"It makes sense, let's continue this distrust!"
…
In the end, I still met the girl Weiwei, and according to the annoying request, I took a photo of me and Weiwei and sent it to him as soon as possible, to prove that the girl Weiwei is a fake girl girl!
In the usual chats and perceptions, I thought that Weiwei was a very shrewd and very capable royal sister. Only after meeting did I know that this little Aries girl is a soft girl, a small one, with waist-length hair, Soft-spoken and sweet.
Weiwei and I talked about each other's lives, and inevitably we had to talk about our views on love.
She asked me: "Do you believe in love?"
As a staunch and veteran lover of romance novels, I answered without hesitation: "I believe! But I don't believe in Cinderella's love."
"But what you write is all about Cinderella's love!"
"Yes, but not exactly." I told her, "I read a lot of romance novels before I was eighteen, and then I realized a truth - no one in this world will love you for no reason, if you want to marry into a wealthy family , you must at least become a female star; if you want to marry a university professor, you must at least study his graduate degree; if you want to find a chief of staff to stay in Japan, you must at least study in Japan with excellent grades, and it is best to live in Japan Next door to him... If you are Cinderella, you will only squat in the kitchen every day to cook and make yourself ashamed, you really can only meet the prince in fairy tales... "
Weiwei nodded in agreement: "I will study hard when I go back, and go to Japan to meet a chief of staff who stayed in Japan!"
Hearing her words reminded me of myself in high school.
At that time, in order to find a good man in the future, I worked my life to study... Thinking of such a naive self, I couldn't help laughing.
"What are you laughing at? Are you too naive to laugh at me?"
I hurriedly shook my head: "No, no. I remember when I was eighteen, I had a dream like yours, wanting to study hard and find a good man."
"And then? Did you find it?"
"Of course I found it, I found it annoying! I think the best decision I made in my life was to decide to take the T major..."
At T, I spent a full ten years, from nineteen to twenty-nine.
The most beautiful memory, engraved our best years...
I still remember that when I was eighteen years old, I was determined to take the T major.
I have such a lofty dream, not because I have infinite admiration for the rigorous educational philosophy of T University, but because my cousin told me: "The ratio of males and females in T University is seriously imbalanced, and there is nowhere to find beautiful women with lanterns, but it is worth entrusting for life. A good man can hit him with his eyes closed."
At that time, I was an ignorant girl who was obsessed with romance novels at the beginning of my love life. As soon as I heard about "good men", I immediately thought of the affectionate and infinite heroes of romance novels and their unswerving love.
I blinked and asked my cousin, "Can a girl who is fat like me have a good man to like?"
My cousin glanced at my severely overnourished body, hesitated for a while, and encouraged me: "You dress up well, you will definitely find it."
Since then, I have tried my best to study hard, and I even asked my parents to send me to a "prison" high school that is more than 1,500 kilometers away from my home. Although my parents were distressed, they saw that I made up my mind , or sent me away with tears in her eyes.
During the one year I was in high school, I had no relatives to take care of, no friends to accompany, no favorite romance novels, and even no meat to live on...
My mother called me several times and said, "If you can't hold on, just go home."
I wiped my tears and said, "I can hold on!"
For a whole year, in order to go to T University to find a good man, I gritted my teeth, got up at 4:30 in the morning, went to bed at 12:00 at night, and ate all three meals a day in the classroom.
In the end, Emperor Tian paid the price. I paid more than 20 pounds to lose weight from a bun face to a melon face, and finally got back a simple and unpretentious T University admission letter.
Some people say that the ideal is very full | full, the reality is very skinny.
But I always believe that when you do your best for the ideal, in order to chase it, you are as skinny as the reality, even if you don't embrace the ideal of plump | fullness, you are no longer far away from it...
So, rather than "reality is skinny", I prefer what annoying people often say to me: "I tried my best for what I wanted, and even if you fail, you can say to yourself calmly - I tried my best, I No regrets, no regrets!"
- Lesson 2 of "The Secret Book of Love" -
Love is not everything for a woman, but without love, it is completely impossible for a woman. No matter how old you are now, from now on, you have to work hard to be better, so that you can have a chance to meet a better man.
If you are currently in high school, then put down romance novels, put down idol dramas, and study hard, go to a science and engineering college, and choose a science and engineering major, because—the most important thing in it is a good man!
If you're in college now, turn off your computer, put down your phone, dress up nicely, go to the study room, and watch carefully if there are any single boys around.