Last night, Qi Wang had a long talk with her, and by the way, he used his profound knowledge to help her answer many doubts—although Qi Feifei was a little curious about why her father, who was in business, suddenly became proficient in psychology, but this is not important.
Qi Wang said that the fact that one person can be manipulated by another has nothing to do with his IQ, but with his EQ and tolerance.
"Some people have a high ability to resist pressure. Others' belittling and suppressing will only make him stronger and stronger. He will not doubt himself because of this, but will unswervingly believe in himself, and use belittling and suppressing as motivation , make yourself better and better.”
"And some people have strong self-confidence and high emotional intelligence. If they are suppressed and belittled for no reason, they can tell whether the other party has good intentions or malicious intentions. Once they find out that the other party has such signs, they can immediately break off with the other party. "
"There is also a kind of people who seem powerful, but are actually fragile and sensitive inside, and are easily influenced by others, especially when other people approach them in the name of love, and then wrap up maliciousness. Will swallow those candy-coated poisons."
Take Xu Xiaowen for example, she is actually a very smart girl, and her academic performance can reach the first place in her grade. Such a girl's IQ will not be low, but why is she still being pinched in the palm of Xu Wenqing's palm? What
In fact, the bottom line is that she was not as strong and strong as she showed, especially when Xu Wenqing was close to her, she did not show any aggressiveness, but after Xu Xiaowen gave Xu Wenqing his trust, he began to suppress and attack her.
There are many people in this world who are not guarded against those close to them. They can easily distinguish the malice of other people, but it is difficult for them to distinguish and detect the malice from those close to them, and they are often the easiest to be close to people hurt.
"Feifei, emotionally rich and fragile people can easily become the targets of scum, and they are good at grasping the weaknesses of these prey, turning them into their own pockets."
Qi Luan also said something, Qi Feifei remembered it very clearly, and at this time she told Xu Xiaowen this sentence.
"It's human nature to bully the good and fear the evil. In fact, your subconscious mind knows that the person who controls you is evil, so you dare not resist the person who controls you, and only dare to deal with those who are really good to you. Just like your parents."
In fact, the same is true of Qi Feifei who was dazzled by love. Why did she get angry with Qi Wang, why did she use such cruel and ruthless words to attack him? In the final analysis, it is because she knows one thing very well, because she knows that Qi Wang loves her, and those who love her, no matter what she does wrong, will not hurt her.
Of course, Qi Feifei, whose emotions had the upper hand, made a mistake. Although Qi Huan loved her and loved her, he really wasn't the kind who let her do whatever she wanted, directly split her into two, and let the rational type She had the upper hand and suppressed that emotional personality with a brain hole.
Qi Feifei secretly sighed for a long time, but when she turned her head to look, she found that Xu Xiaowen was already in tears, and the makeup on her face was stained from crying. Qi Feifei jumped and said hurriedly: "Hey, hey, don't you Crying, can we have a good talk? You make it look like I am bullying you, but I am not bullying you. "
Really, she was still crying as a victim who was calculated by others, but she was crying as a perpetrator. It really made people don't know what to say. Does she want to cry too
Xu Xiaowen took the tissue handed over by Qi Feifei, wiped away the tears on his face indiscriminately, and said sullenly: "I'm really stupid, you're right, I only dare to hurt people who love me..."
Her parents were heartbroken by her. They tried everything they could to give her a good future, but she couldn't support the wall with mud. Instead, she resented them, thinking that they only wanted to let her live a good life...
She is simply unworthy.
Probably guessing what Xu Xiaowen was thinking, Qi Feifei curled her lips and said, "Okay, don't cry there, tell me, has that scumbag Xu Wenqing ever harmed other people? According to your What does he think of me next?"
The two of them got together to think about how to bring that scumbag Xu Wenqing to justice, not to lick each other's wounds here, and it doesn't make any sense to continue talking about these meaningless things, so it's better to make a plan and think about it. Think about what to do next.
Xu Xiaowen nodded, she looked at Qi Feifei with some envy, and whispered: "If only I had a father as powerful as you, I wouldn't have been cheated by him for so long..."
Qi Feifei directly cut off her words: "Okay, you don't have to be such a powerful father like me again. If I were you, I would have sent him to prison when he raped me. How could there be any more?" Is this the case now?"
Xu Xiaowen: "..."
She couldn't continue to think about it, the more she thought about it, the more she felt that she was extremely stupid, and it was all her own fault to get to this point.
Xu Xiaowen sniffed, and told Qi Feifei everything he knew.
In fact, a person like Xu Wenqing will never settle down. After he has tasted the sweetness, he will continue to do this kind of thing. Qi Feifei is not the first woman he has set his sights on after he has Xu Xiaowen.
"I remember when he was in college, contact with me faded for a while. I went to his school and found out that he had a girlfriend in school."
Qi Feifei raised her eyebrows: "How can women still like him?"
Xu Xiaowen gave Qi Feifei a strange look: "Didn't you also fall in love with him before?"
Qi Feifei: "..."
There is no way to erase black history in this life.
In fact, Xu Wenqing is not handsome, but a gentle and considerate man is still very marketable. He is too good at disguising, and the women he is eyeing are basically the same type, and these women are easily attracted by him. Bewildered by his tenderness, and then fell into his trap.
"There are many pictures of girls in his computer, which ones are not wearing clothes."
Qi Feifei: "..."
Just looking at the photos, Xu Wenqing's battle results are remarkable. Xu Xiaowen once masochistically counted the women in the photos, and there were more than 50 women in total.
At that time, Xu Xiaowen also proposed to break up, and Xu Wenqing also agreed, but not long after that, Xu Wenqing found Xu Xiaowen again, and he told Xu Xiaowen that he was only playing with those women, and the person he loved the most was still her.
Xu Xiaowen didn't want to agree, but Xu Wenqing used the previous words to brainwash Xu Xiaowen, forcing her to submit to him.
Qi Feifei clicked her tongue: "You are jumping repeatedly in the fire pit."
Obviously there were countless opportunities to escape from the fire pit, but in the end he fell into the fire pit.
"He dated so many girlfriends when he was in college? Didn't S University give him a warning because of his bad manners? There are more than fifty women, on average, one a month."
But Xu Xiaowen shook his head and said: "He said that it's not a girlfriend, it's just some stuff, just play with it."
In fact, apart from a girl in college, the only one Xu Wenqing officially cheated on was Qi Feifei.
Not boyfriend and girlfriend
Qi Feifei felt something was wrong, she pinched the center of her brow, and asked suddenly: "Can you send me those photos?"
Xu Xiaowen shook his head and said, "No, he treasures his computer very much and won't let me touch it. It was because he went to take a shower and forgot to turn off the computer that time, so I saw those photos."
After that, Xu Wenqing put many locks on his computer, and strictly prohibited Xu Xiaowen from touching his computer. Xu Xiaowen didn't dare to disobey Xu Wenqing's words, so he could only obediently agree.
Don't show it to Xu Xiaowen
Qi Feifei always felt that there was something she had overlooked, but when she thought about it carefully, she couldn't grasp the fleeting inspiration. She scratched her hair, glanced at Xu Xiaowen, and looked at Xu Xiaowen again. She glanced.
Xu Xiaowen felt numb from Qi Feifei's eyes, and couldn't help but said: "Fefei, what are you always watching me do? Do you have anything to say directly?"
"That's what you said, so I'll ask directly."
Qi Feifei took a deep breath, and directly asked the question she wanted to ask: "What about you? Have you been photographed?"
"No… "
Xu Xiaowen just wanted to say no, but after she said a word, her expression slowly changed... Really no
The rational Qi Feifei was not disturbed by too many emotions, and her IQ immediately took over the high ground. She was much smarter than before. She recalled what Xu Xiaowen told her about her love experience with Xu Xiaowen, and Qi Feifei asked again: " Did you really have sex with him because you were drunk? I remember you said that you didn't drink much."
The memory of that year has become chaotic, but Xu Xiaowen clearly remembers that in order not to damage his brain, he basically would not be contaminated with alcoholic things, and he didn't drink much at Xu Wenqing's house that year, so it was not bad. But he only drank half a glass of beer, how could he be so drunk that he passed out, and didn't even know that he was given...
There are some things that cannot stand deep thinking, the truth of which is extremely cruel, Xu Xiaowen's face turned blue and pale, and it took a long time before he found his voice.
"He drugged me."
If he hadn't been drugged, he wouldn't have lost consciousness at all, it was a carefully calculated conspiracy.
"And you said you only had one, but the time of your pregnancy seems to be wrong, are you sure you really only had one?"
In Xu Xiaowen's memory, they only met once, but if she was drugged every time after that, it would make sense.
Xu Xiaowen remembered that she had met Xu Wenqing many times after that, and every time she would be very sleepy, she had to sleep for a while to feel comfortable, and then she would feel a lot of discomfort on her body, but because she was dressed neatly Neatly, she didn't think much about it.
In the past, Xu Xiaowen didn't know anything, so naturally she didn't understand the cause of her discomfort, but in retrospect, every time she felt uncomfortable, it was clearly the influence brought about afterwards.
She originally thought that there would be at least one or two places in the past between herself and Xu Wenqing that were clean, but now that she thinks about it, everything is filthy, and the relationship that started with calculations was false from the beginning. Can there be truth in the false
Xu Xiaowen was so disgusted that he lay on the side and retched.
Qi Feifei's heart was also heavy. Although these things were not what she experienced, but thinking of Xu Xiaowen's ruined life, she felt very uncomfortable in her heart. She gently patted Xu Xiaowen's back, silently comforted her.
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"That's how things are, Dad, I always feel that something is wrong with Xu Wenqing, especially after knowing that there are so many photos, I feel that something is wrong, anyway, everything is so strange, can you help me figure out what's wrong Did I overlook it?"
Going back that night, Qi Feifei told Qi Wang everything she had investigated today. She felt that Qi Wang's IQ was much higher than her own. If she couldn't figure it out, Qi Wang would definitely help her find out the answer. here.
After listening to Qi Feifei's story, Qi Huan's complexion sank, and he suddenly asked: "You said, during the half month of your relationship, he bought you a lot of things, and even gave you How many big-name bags?"
Qi Feifei didn't know why Qi Wang asked her this, but she nodded obediently and said, "Yes, they gave me a lot of things."
"Show me all the things he gave you."
Qi Feifei returned to the room obediently, and took out all the things Xu Wenqing gave her.
She didn't feel it when she received presents before, but now when she put these things together, Qi Feifei realized that she really received a lot of things from Xu Wenqing.
"The combined price of these things should not be cheap, at least 200,000. Xu Xiaowen probably didn't know that he gave you such an expensive thing, right?"
Qi Feifei nodded, that love-minded woman still knows how to avoid taboos in certain aspects, sometimes she won't tell Xu Xiaowen when she receives a gift, usually Xu Xiaowen can see it when sending flowers, cakes and boxed lunches, these big Xu Wenqing never gave her anything in the office, and basically gave her in private.
"Xu Wenqing probably avoided Xu Xiaowen deliberately, he didn't want Xu Xiaowen to know his financial situation."
Qi Feifei said blankly: "I remember Xu Xiaowen told me that after Xu Wenqing graduated, he said he was going to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and he had no job for a long time. She has always raised him."
There was a bit of pity on Qi Huan's face, he pointed to Xu Wenqing's gift to Qi Feifei, and said firmly: "He concealed his financial situation from Xu Xiaowen, maybe he didn't want Xu Xiaowen to take advantage of him , there is another possibility, that is, he didn't want Xu Xiaowen to know that the money came from wrong sources."
Qi Feifei's brain began to run at high speed, and after connecting the conditions she knew now, Qi Feifei guessed a terrible truth.
"Could it be that Xu Wenqing is..."