Since that time when he returned to Han's house, Han Yue found that the relationship between Chu Ci and his elder brother had improved unusually.
Han Qiang is not a person who likes to show his face, compared to Han Yue, he really doesn't socialize much. Most of his recreational activities are playing cards, drinking, and hanging out with women. Except for his group of second-generation ancestor friends, he rarely contacts outsiders.
Now when Han Qiang goes out to play cards, he basically invites Chu Ci to accompany him, and once even set up the poker table at Chu Ci's house. It is said that Chu Ci is very good at playing cards, and whenever he sits there, Han Qiang always plays cards with the wind. Sometimes after playing cards, a few of them would have a drink and chat together. Chu Ci was gentle and patient, with a tight-lipped tone, and she was a very good chat companion.
Han Yue struggled with this for a long time, feeling like the world between the two of them was destroyed.
Han Yue is a person who likes to live a life together. Originally, Chu Ci had no friends, no family, and no entertainment after get off work. He could see Chu Ci whenever he came home, and spent at least ten hours a day getting tired of being together. of. But now Han Qiang always asks Chu Ci to go out to play cards, and sometimes he doesn't even go home for dinner at night, and takes up a lot of time on weekends, which makes Han Yue very dissatisfied.
If it was Zhao Tingzhi who called Chu Ci out to play cards all day long, Han Yue would have kicked his pistol at the door of his house long ago. But now that is his eldest brother, if he wants to kick someone's door, he will first go to Han's house.
He once took the time to complain to Han Qiang, saying: "Boss, you see, I finally went back to Beijing for a long stay. Why do you always ask my friend to go out to play cards? When you ask him to go out, I will be left alone at home." Alone, keep the vacant room alone, this is..."
Han Qiang retorted him: "I didn't always ask Chu Gong to come out to play cards, but once or twice a week, and I greeted you every time. Besides, do you think you are called good looks, you are called detention! If Zhao Ting says two words, you will get angry! Aren't you afraid that people will hate you in the future?"
Han Yue was speechless for a while.
No matter from which point of view, it is a good thing for Chu Ci to go out to play occasionally. Moderate socializing and outdoor activities can relieve symptoms of depression, associating with the Han family can help strengthen the relationship between Chu Ci and the Han family, not to mention playing cards is not a messy sport, it is better than drinking, gambling and playing with women.
Han Yue felt very distressed, so he went to discuss with Ren Jiayuan, who claimed to have a perfect score in psychology as a minor in college. As soon as Ren Jiayuan heard the situation, he asked, "Do you think Mr. Chu is in a better mood these days, or is it worse than before?"
"... I don't know, he's just like that, very bored..."
"Interpersonal communication and fun are more effective than drug treatment for depression patients. Besides, as long as people are in your hands, you have nothing to be afraid of." Ren Jiayuan pondered for a while, and then said: "Actually, I suggest you go and see Psychiatrist, I happen to have friends in this area... "
Han Yue sneered: "Me? What kind of psychiatrist do I need to see? I don't have depression!"
"You really don't have depression, but don't you think your temper is too bad? It's beyond the scope of normal people's mood swings. Look at the last time Chu Gong said a few words to Zhao Tingduo, you can make people Acute stomach bleeding... Okay, I know you didn't mean it. But Han Yue, ask yourself, can you control your emotions when you got angry with Chu Gong? Are you really clear-headed?"
Han Yue was stunned for a moment, and said for a while, "I... I can't remember."
"You can't remember, because you didn't realize it at the time. You scolded people as soon as you said it, and you beat someone as soon as you hit it. You didn't have extra reason to control your emotions. Han Er, let me tell you, this is There is a problem with the psychological condition. Normally, a normal person with reason and self-control, who would raise his fist and beat someone just because his wife said a few words to a friend?"
"...Tell you I'm not..." Han Yue paused, hissed and took a breath, "In short, I'm not as serious as you said. I have psychological problems and no self-control. You see, I'm in the army After so many years, who said that I am mentally abnormal? If I really went to see a doctor, wouldn’t it be a joke if it spread? It’s like I’m really sick!”
As a practicing doctor who advocated the spirit of science and believed in materialism, Ren Jiayuan was almost irritated by Han Yue's outdated ideas. Avoid diseases and avoid doctors! Old-fashioned concept! From a psychological point of view, everyone has more or less psychological problems. What age is this? Seeing a psychiatrist is regarded as going to a mental hospital!
"I'm telling you Han Er, do you want to hear it or not! Anyway, it's your match, not mine! If you continue like this, next time you will beat someone in this situation, and you will beat him harder! Don't You will change what you say, you will definitely change it, domestic violence is addictive! You see so many men love their wives, but they beat women when they drink, and kneel down to apologize when they wake up. , Does it work? Tell you that it is useless! If the psychological problem is not eradicated, next time you drink too much, you will still be beaten!"
Han Yue was stunned for a moment, and before he could speak, Ren Jiayuan said angrily: "You just wait until one day you beat Chu Gong to death!" Then he hung up the phone with a snap.
Han Yue stayed up half the night that night, tossing and turning in bed thinking about problems.
In the end, he turned over too much, and woke up Chu Ci in a daze, half asleep and half awake, and asked irritably, "What are you doing in the middle of the night!"
Han Yue leaned over to pat his face, and asked in a low voice, "Chu Ci, I hit you on my birthday that day... what were you thinking?"
Chu Ci frowned, covered her face with a pillow, unwilling to answer.
Han Yue tirelessly patted Chu Ci on the back, and then blew into his ear. After tossing for a long time, Chu Ci finally became impatient, and said coldly, "I wish you could die!"
Han Yue was stunned for a moment, and there was no movement for a long time. After a long while, he said "Oh" in a low voice, and slowly lay down and did not move.
Ren Jiayuan thought that when Han Yue dropped his phone that day, Han Yue must be looking for trouble for him. Who knew that within two days, Han Yue came to him in person and asked him to introduce a psychiatrist.
Ren Jiayuan was horrified and asked, "Have you hit someone again these two days?"
"No ah."
"... have you quarreled with Gong Chu again?"
"No ah."
"Then why did you suddenly..."
Han Yue's complexion changed: "Aren't you the one who insisted on calling me to see a doctor? Why do you keep asking me here and there, as if you don't welcome me?"
Ren Jiayuanxin said that I am afraid that you will cause trouble, and it is too late for me to welcome you to see a doctor on your own initiative. Doctors take it as their duty to serve the world, and I am the heart of the parents of doctors all over the world! —Damn, Lao Tzu is simply a holy father!
According to Han Yue's request, he didn't care if the psychiatrist was authoritative or not, he just asked for it to be kept secret enough not to let outsiders know. Ren Jiayuan reassured him again and again of the professional ethics of doctors to protect patients' privacy, and then introduced him to a doctor friend with qualifications and authority. .
After Han Yue went to see him three times, the psychiatrist friend made an appointment with Ren Jiayuan and said bluntly, "Second Young Master Han has an explosive personality disorder."
Ren Jiayuan was mentally prepared, nodded and said, "I think so too, but it's not serious."
"Yes. You can see that he often gets angry because of some trivial things. He acts impulsively and does not consider the consequences at all. Although he strongly regrets it afterwards, he cannot guarantee that he will not do it again next time. He is a typical hope for self-control, but lacks self-control. Just like when he told me that he hit the engineer at that time, he said that he kicked it smoothly, but "smooth foot" actually means that his emotions cannot be controlled, and he is impulsive and reckless when he is furious. If this continues, next time he meets In this case, he will still beat people, and as the explosive personality disorder deepens, he will beat harder than last time, and he will regret it more than last time afterwards."
Ren Jiayuan was taken aback, "He has had this temper for many years, he has been like that since he was a child, could it be..."
"I can hear this from his narration. When he was a child, he lacked the care of his parents and family. It can be said that he grew up without caring about family affection at all. Family affection, friendship, and love shape a person's emotional world. He does not lack friendship, but he has failed in family and love. This personality disorder may have formed when he was very young, and it has been deepening over the years. As for why it did not explode, It's just because of the lack of opportunity for an outbreak."
"Opportunity?"
The doctor friend shrugged, "You should see very clearly, Er Shao Han has not had any conflicts with his family for so many years, firstly because he seldom goes home and has no time to have conflicts with his family; secondly It is because the education he has received since he was a child has shaped a consciousness that 'a man must bear the burden of the family'. Under the command of this consciousness, he has a natural sense of responsibility for the family. He told me that he has not I have been in a relationship. Although I had companions before, they were not psychologically intimate, and they all broke up in the end. That is to say, those companions did not cause him a psychological crisis, nor could they become the trigger for his psychological problems. Suo. What really made him feel seriously insecure was the engineer he called last time."
Ren Jiayuan unconsciously adjusted his sitting posture and listened more attentively.
"I also learned something from you. It is said that the engineer is not very good... Cough, Zhongyi Han Ershao. This attitude of resistance and rejection caused him a psychological crisis that he had never had before. He was afraid of losing his lover, afraid of Abandoned. The incident of beating someone on his last birthday clearly showed his uncontrollable psychological fear. Maybe he has never experienced this sense of crisis since he was born. , irritable personality disorder was stimulated."
"... Fuck, is he still saved?"
The doctor friend took a sip of tea and said, "Please, old Ren, it's not your surgical operation. Can anyone be saved? If they can't be saved, they will be sent directly to the mental hospital! This kind of thing can only be done slowly. Sensitive technology, at most, do some hypnosis. Don't worry, Han Ershao has not had any major problems after all these years of mixing, and he will not kill people and set fires in a short period of time."
Ren Jiayuan breathed a sigh of relief: "Desensitization treatment is not a problem. Anyway, he has been in Beijing for the past few months, so he can visit him once a week."
"Be sure to call him." The doctor friend resolutely ordered: "Although desensitization treatment is painful, it is also necessary. If one day he can subconsciously accept that the engineer broke up with him, then his irascibility Most of the personality disorder will be cured.”
After Ren Jiayuan went back, he repeated the buddy's words to Han Yue emphatically, and said: "People said that although Chu Gong was the opportunity to trigger your psychological reasons, it is far from the end of this problem. If you don't If you solve this problem, you will have great conflicts with the commander and wife, with your elder brother and sister-in-law, and even with your brothers who have been friends with you. If you don’t want to be alone in the future, you should go to psychological treatment honestly.”
Han Yue was silent for a long time, and said in a low voice, "Tell that doctor that I will go there every Wednesday night from now on."
Ren Jiayuan nodded, and was about to call the doctor buddy, when Han Yue suddenly heard Han Yue whispering to himself: "But it's useless, I can't accept that he might break up with me, even if it's just a hypothetical …”
Ren Jiayuan was startled, and looked up, only to see Han Yue with a cigarette in his mouth, and lit the lighter with a snap. He lowered his head to join the fire, his face could not be seen clearly in the smoke.