Long son-in-law

Chapter 265: The emotional intelligence of the white paper fan

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At this time, the doubts shed by his father were getting closer and closer to Li Hugo. He could feel that the truth he wanted was close at hand, which was very exciting for Li Hugo.

But this requirement is also very demanding. Li Yuguo needs to take the lead. He looked at his team. It can be said that Hu Meier and White Paper Fan are here to mix points. Although he doesn't mind the White Paper Fan, for this Hu Meier, Li Yuguo's impression of him was average. Who knows whether the story Hu Mei'er said about her relationship with Senior Brother Gou was true or false, maybe she just came to use the white paper fan.

Yes, Bai Zhifan is indeed very smart. In some aspects, he can be said to be a genius and a natural strategist. However, in terms of emotional intelligence, he is very average, which gives Li Hugo a headache.

Of course, low EQ has its benefits. Too high EQ is not necessarily good news. Whether it is this world or the original world, too high EQ is not necessarily all good news. In Li Hugo’s view, Hu Meier’s EQ is very high. , knows how to deal with the world, but she is a little too high-minded, and now she is a little tactful. Just like in Tianwu Academy, the importance of emotional intelligence is self-evident. Everyone knows the disadvantages of low emotional intelligence, and wants to be a person with high emotional intelligence. But I don’t know that anything is too much or too little.

Li Huguo once worked in several companies after graduation before writing novels. Although he didn't work for a long time, he also saw a lot of human feelings and sophistication.

At the beginning, every time Li Huguo saw that a high-income family with high emotional intelligence was a perfect person and was impeccable in everything he did, and he often saved the scene caused by the topic killer like a divine save at the end of the match, Li Huguo admired him very much. After all, every time Every company has a few decent people.

But I can't bear to eat good food every day, and the gods can't bear to watch it all the time.

The reason why people with high emotional intelligence can empathize, compare their feelings with others, speak with dignity before speaking, and do not do to others what they do not want others to do to them is because they are sensitive. Li Huguo claims that he has average emotional intelligence, but he is also very emotional. Sensitive.

Of course, sensitivity is also a benefit. It is the ability to predict and understand other people's feelings, and it is an unverified inner guide to words and deeds.

However, sensitivity is a double-edged sword. It is not only the lubricant of interpersonal communication, but also a small sharp knife that kills oneself.

A comment from a colleague or a glance from a superior is worth deconstructing and digging for a long time. I feel that they are too good at weighing whether what they say is pleasing to others, and their overly keen insight into the "subtext" makes them suffer.

Thinking back now, it is actually true that sensitive people suffer more. From the perspective of Li Huguo, a layman, everyone has seven emotions and six desires. The so-called high emotional intelligence is more or less suppressing or disguising their emotions.

For example, at that time, Li Huguo had a senior who he had a good relationship with, who was in the same company with him. The senior was in his thirties at the time, and his wife worked in a public institution. Once, several old friends and their families gathered for dinner. During the dinner, someone rolled his eyes. The man joked about his senior who had just changed jobs and said that his wife's current income was much higher than that of the senior.

At that time, Li Hugo had clearly sensed that the scene was cooling down quickly, and some people had such low emotional intelligence that he really wanted to go to Ali Mama to buy blood drops to deal with him.

While everyone was desperately looking for a hole in the ground, the senior's daughter-in-law who came to the rescue spoke up. She said that her husband was the breadwinner of their family because he was a taxpayer. Since then, she had reached the top of the emotional intelligence highland in Li Yuguo's heart, showing affection, fighting for face, and saving everyone. The venue is all-inclusive and ends beautifully.

Now Li Huguo discovered that Nalan Meng is also a person with high emotional intelligence, but Nalan Meng does not like to be in the limelight, but likes to do things quietly, which makes Li Huguo feel very contented.

Similarly, for the sisters Yun Xianchen and Yun Yuechen, it is obvious that Xianchen has a high emotional intelligence and Yuechen has a lower emotional intelligence, but Yuechen is happier, while Xianchen often brings trouble to himself.

Li Yuguo sighed and looked away. At this time, the sensitive Hu Meier also noticed Li Yuguo's eyes. She pulled the white paper fan and said: "Junior brother Bai, does your boss dislike me?"

"How could it be? My boss is very loyal." Bai Zhifan said.

Hu Meier said aggrievedly: "I feel that he dislikes me and thinks that my strength is too low."

Having said this, Bai Zhifan felt a little unhappy, but the person he was facing was Li Huguo, and he didn't say anything. He just said to Hu Meier: "I will protect you."

As soon as she finished speaking, Hu Meier covered her mouth and chuckled. She held her arms around the white paper fan and glanced at Li Yuguo provocatively. However, she was looking at Li Yuguo's back, and Li Yuguo didn't notice.

The dean's speech had ended. At this time, a huge black shadow appeared in the sky. The black shadow covered the entire central hall like night. The disciples followed the dean out, and at this time the Spirit Emperor also Among them, what is shocking is that the Spirit Emperor is actually the leader of Li Huguo's team.

Just like in college, during outdoor activities, there will always be a counselor beside you to provide support. On the one hand, it protects the students, and on the other hand, it also provides guidance.

Obviously the Spiritual Emperor was such a person. The Spiritual Emperor walked beside Li Yuguo. He was wearing a black and purple coat, with his hands behind his back. There was some white hair hidden in the big back. He was already old, and the Spiritual Emperor was already old. Huang came closer and said, "Hugo, there is something that I have thought about over and over again, and I feel that I should tell you."

"Brother, tell me, I believe you." Li Huguo said happily.

The Spirit Emperor felt moved in his heart, and said that now Li Yuguo had rectified his name. He was not only the sworn brother of the eldest prince, but also the fifth-grade Flying Tiger General of the current dynasty. He actually had no airs in front of him. This also made the Spirit Emperor Having a good impression of him, the Spiritual Emperor said: "During the meeting before, the dean once said that you should be removed."

"What?!" This shocked Li Yuguo, and Shifangxing next to him was about to take off the knife as he spoke, and he was about to walk towards the dean angrily.

Li Yuguo pulled him back and said, "What are you going to do?"

"Kill that old fat pig, you dare to talk about my benefactor like that!" Kill the Emperor said menacingly.

Li Yuguo didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "You should listen first and then speak. Don't be quick to use knives or guns."

However, this sentence had another meaning in Kill Huang's ears. When he turned his hand, a big bow appeared in his hand. Li Hugo held him back again: "What are you going to do again?"

"You said you can't use a knife or a gun, so I'll use a bow! Whoever hit him, the first arrow hit his waist, and the second arrow took away his Dantian!" Kill the Emperor said angrily.

Li Yuguo covered his head, thinking that the white paper fan was too low in emotional intelligence. He didn't expect that the Emperor Killer...