Tong and I lived together for three years and broke up several times. I had imagined a hundred different scenarios of breaking up, but I never thought that we could break up peacefully, so when she smiled and said in a slow tone, "Okay, we are all adults now, let's go and come and go." I didn't understand at all. It's not easy. I clenched my fists tightly and was ready for a challenge at any time. That's how she was. Every time she agreed to break up, she said it boldly, but never could she do it simply. They fought to the death, cried and argued, and never really wanted to break up. After saying that, Tong stood up and left. No crying or fussing. I waited for half an hour before I walked out of the restaurant door, looking around to watch for her to rush out from any corner, but she didn't wait at the door to suddenly attack me. Throughout the afternoon, I turned my cell phone on silent in the office, waiting for her to bombard her and have a hysterical attack. However, it never rang even once, which made me wonder if the office was blocking it. A week has passed, and she is still so calm. There is no change at all on QQ, MS, phone, and email. A month has passed, which is the limit of time that she could bear the pain of breakup and that I could enjoy being single and still be calm. Only then did I pinch myself, as if in a dream, was it really over with her? I can finally play at whatever time I want at night, I can finally pick up girls without restraint, I can finally focus on my work, and I don’t have to call to report on the hour. I was finally able to stay in the office for a long time, talk nonsense with many girls online, and save pornographic pictures on my hard drive. I was finally able to go clubbing with the guy she had forbidden me from dating and who loved one-night stands. But I was still prepared for her to come back at any time. I didn’t know when it would end, and I wanted immediate pleasure. I played crazily for a week, until 4 o'clock every day, and then slept for two full days. I go to work on Monday and have to go on a business trip to Hainan. The fruits in Hainan are huge and fresh. I picked up a papaya, which is her favorite fruit. I brought two for her to eat. Then I remembered that we had broken up. No more worrying about bringing her good things. I was finally liberated. The wind was blowing gently on the ship, and I remembered the last time I sent her a message on the ship, "I miss my baby at sea." It seemed that it had been a long time, more than a month. I turned around and saw a girl with a fluttering skirt. I sharpened my knife and took out the unfamiliar techniques of picking up girls that I hadn't used for a long time. When I found a new girlfriend, she couldn't even look back. Sure enough, the sword is eternal, and this one is called Jing. The girl then became my new girlfriend. New girlfriend Jing is a teacher like her ex-girlfriend Tong, but she is more virtuous and sensible than her. Jing's job is as leisurely as Tong's, but Jing will never go shopping like Tong, max out my card, and keep saying " Money is spent wisely." Jing will never call me like Tong when nothing happens. He can call me 0 times a day, "I've taken a fancy to a piece of clothing, what color do you like?" "I just saw that they were all in pairs, so I "I miss you so much" "When are we going to Guilin?" "Oh, you are in a meeting, okay, I don't know, I won't call you if I know it, just drive it seriously, I miss you..." and so on, without any reality. Meaning, you can definitely talk about it when you go home. Jing rarely calls me during the day when she has no classes. She only calls me at 9pm every day, as punctual as an alarm clock. Jing is a person who lives his life. Although Jing and I seem to have lost some passion for love, I know that it is because Tong's love is too strong, just like smelling D's green poison perfume and then smelling the elegant EZO feels tasteless. Five minutes later, I hung up Jing's phone and looked, it was only 9:05. Tong Ping Ping will never let me go at 9pm, "Then you can call me back at 0pm." Sometimes I forget on purpose, and the consequences are even worse - she will definitely call me at 9am and say, "I've been waiting for you." Fight, why didn't you fight?" That's how annoying she is. But at this time, the phone call with Jing ended in 5 minutes, and I felt empty inside. Diving on the forum. After a breakup, Tong always liked to leave some love confessions that only I could understand on the websites I often visit. It’s been 3 months and nothing. In fact, she did nothing wrong the last time, it was just a difference in personality. The many separations and quarrels in the past made us as tired as an old couple. As soon as she opened her mouth, I felt inexplicably irritable. I couldn't stand it anymore, not even for a second. I had to break up with her. That's what I thought at the time, so I did it. In the past, every time I calmed down a few days after a fight, and she cried again, I would soften my heart and regain the feeling of loving her again, and I couldn't tell her apart. This time Tong didn't. Before I was a child, I had a serious love for a college classmate. It was my first love. I had a wild nightlife experience for a few years before I was a kid. After I met Tong, I loved her very much, and also hated her very much. I love the way she shakes her hands; I love the way she wrinkles her nose; I love the way she walks with a shy belly; I love the way she clings to my hand out of fear when walking at night or in unfamiliar surroundings; I love the way she buries her head in me In her belly, she asked "Do you love me?"; I loved her and wouldn't allow me to turn over when she was sleeping, saying that I had only been facing her for five minutes; I loved her and couldn't bear to drink a soda worth 2 yuan, but spent 30 yuan just to see me. Yuan takes a taxi... I hate that she calls me more often; I hate that she doesn't allow me to interact with this or that; I hate that she never admits defeat when we quarrel with me; I hate that she has to chat with her on QQ as long as I go online; I hate that she is so cruel to me My opinions were always contradictory, even when we broke up, I could never get rid of her... I really got rid of Tong, who was clingy and annoying, and met the right Jing. I don't know if this is a bit inhumane. Because Tong's first miscarriage was for me; Tong's first miscarriage was when we broke up. Without notifying me, she secretly bought medicine at a private clinic and had an abortion. Her reckless behavior made her later have an abortion. During the 2 years we were together, we never got pregnant again. Tong likes to drink a little wine. When she is drunk, she likes to argue with me and ask me to pay for the child. When she is drunk, she buries her face in my arms and says, I want your child so much that I want to go crazy... ""Can you blame me? You didn't even tell me. "But we broke up at that time, and you ignored me!" "Can you tell me if I don't want it?" ""real? "Tong Yang raised his face and looked at me in confusion. "It doesn't matter. From now on, I will work hard to give you food on those days every month. "I said with a smile. At that time, I didn't know that the matter was so serious. I never took insurance measures, but from now on, no matter how hard I tried every month, I never got pregnant. Even every time Before and after her period, she felt dizzy and had a low fever. I said that I would find a time when both of us were free to accompany her to the hospital to see the gynecologist, but I kept delaying until we broke up. Tong Zeng said that she would never break up with me again. She won’t find anyone else. Because she can’t get pregnant, she can only find someone who is divorced or widowed and has children, otherwise it will cause others to have no children, but she doesn’t want to be a stepmother. Thinking of this, I couldn’t help but feel my heart twitch. But I was really annoyed with her so much that I forgot all about it. The next day I called a buddy Wei and asked about Tong's current situation. Wei often contacted Tong. He was originally my buddy, but later he became even closer with her. Some. Tong herself has almost no girlfriends. She only plays with my buddies. This is also what I hate about her. Wei has not contacted me for several months, and he hesitated when he received my call. "Tong, she is married. . The wedding was held last week. Didn't she tell you? "I almost lost my breath. "What did you say? ! "Tong got married last week." "