Only this explanation can explain why it is so difficult for my daughter to talk about it. After all, falling in love is not something that is outrageous. Everyone becomes a teenager when they reach this age. Boys and girls are together every day, and they are attracted to each other. This is also very important. normal.
If you can't control it for a moment, have an uncontrollable relationship, and eat the forbidden fruit secretly, it is not so difficult to understand. It is afraid that the two people did not take protective measures and the girl became pregnant.
If this is the case, it will be very harmful to girls. Some girls may not love themselves and don't care, but their baby Annie knows it well. As a believer in Allah, a girl's chastity is equal to her life. .
And if she sacrifices her virginity in exchange for abandonment, the girl may lose confidence in life, be embarrassed to face her relatives and parents, and may eventually choose an extreme path.
Annie, who was still full of depression just now, heard her mother's words, and the expression on her face instantly froze. Pregnant
My mother's brain circuit is too big. She hasn't even taken off her clothes, and she hasn't fully seen the man's appearance. How could she be pregnant
Seeing her mother's worried and curious eyes, Annie's face instantly turned red, and she said coquettishly
"Mom, what are you talking about? You're pregnant."
"Ah? You're not pregnant? Then why are you so sad? You didn't tell me about that boy when I asked you about it. It almost scared your mother to death."
When she heard that her daughter was not pregnant, a big stone on Rose's chest suddenly dropped. Just now she didn't know how to persuade her daughter to abort the child. It would be fine if she was not pregnant. It would be fine if she was not pregnant.
"Oh, I can't even explain it to you."
Annie broke away from her mother's restraints and walked to the side of the swimming pool. This swimming pool is 40 meters long and 20 meters wide. The water temperature is 20 degrees all year round.
The bottom of the swimming pool was paved with a layer of colorful pebbles, and the crystal clear water was sparkling. Anne felt mixed emotions when she saw it.
She felt that her mood was like this full pool of water, and any slightest movement could stir up her mood.
Rose saw her daughter looking at the pool in a daze and walked over. She was thinking about how to use more appropriate words to communicate with her daughter.
"Annie, your dad is busy with work, so I take care of everything at home. You have grown up now and need to have your own life. I don't object to this, but mom is also a person who has been there and knows When you are young, you can be impulsive easily. If you have anything, you can discuss it with your mother. Don’t keep everything in your heart. "
Rose held her daughter's soft little hand, and her voice was like spring breeze and rain, penetrating into Anne's heart bit by bit, opening a crack in her heart that she didn't want to open.
In fact, Annie didn't want to share her troubles with her mother. In the past, she always laughed at her friends for not thinking about food and tea for her boyfriend every day, as if she was possessed. Looking back at her performance this month, she was even more unbearable. .
But that’s fine if the person you’re dating is a classmate, what a big deal is Tony
It's really a bit scary, and it will definitely scare your mother if you say it.
She pursed her lips and wrung her fingers vigorously, her joints turning slightly white from the exertion.
"Actually, I-what I like is-"
Seeing how hard it was for her daughter to talk, Rose smiled slightly and said
"A classmate?"
Anne shook her head after hearing this.
Rose's smile disappeared and her brows furrowed
"is teacher?"
If you are a teacher, it will be a bit troublesome. The United States has different views on teacher-student love. Especially if the student is a minor, the teacher may be sentenced.
Annie still shook her head. Among the teachers in their school, none of them could compare to Tony's level of shit. It was almost as good as me being a teacher for them.
Seeing that Annie was still shaking her head, Rose's brows frowned even more tightly, almost enough to kill a mosquito.
Excluding classmates and teachers, the only ones left are those outside the school. Although Annie attended the best high school in New York, the outside world and the inside school are completely two worlds, and the complexity is not the same.
It is not easy for a person who has been struggling in society to deceive students who have not left the ivory tower.
This feeling is like a primary school student envying a free junior high school student or high school student who rides a bicycle, imagining that one day he can be like them and gain more independence and other rights.
The gap caused by age and experience can easily attract some inexperienced little girls, who will mistake those things for maturity.
Rose asked tentatively
"How old is he? Is he thirty years old?"
In the eyes of many people, thirty years old is a watershed in life. If you are not more than thirty years old, it means that a person is still in your youth. But once you are over thirty years old, that person seems to have begun to move forward in life. Downhill, that's why Rose asked this question.
Annie thought about it and realized that Tony was born in 1969, so he would be 43 years old this year.
So she nodded and said
"Mom, he might be a little older than you."
What! Bigger than me
This news almost choked Rose to death. She is already 37 years old, older than me, my god!
Wouldn't that be a bad old man
One is a blooming 18-year-old, and the other is over 40 years old, a beast!
How could he do it!
No, absolutely not, I am against this marriage!
Seeing her mother's expression, Annie felt that she had said the wrong thing. In her eyes, Ye Qingyang was naturally good at everything, rich, handsome, and a superhero that everyone envied. Let alone herself, even if Aren’t those celebrities and socialites swarming in like crazy bees and butterflies
And turning 40 is not an unforgivable thing. Isn’t it said that a man has a fortune
But the thinking of adults is different from that of young people. No matter how enlightened a person is, he does not want his children to marry someone his own age or older.
No matter what the other party's identity is or how much money they have, this is almost an unwritten rule.
Of course, if this matter were placed in Asgard or other races with long lifespans, tens or even hundreds of years would not be a problem, but this is the earth, and this is the concept of earthlings.
The gap within ten years old is basically acceptable, but over ten years old, it is difficult for ordinary people to understand, and the worldly voices are there, and people's words are terrifying. Even if they really love each other, if it falls into other people's mouth, then It's definitely not for money or power, but it can't be for love.