"What is emotion? According to Buddhism, there are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, sickness and death, parting from love, resentment and hatred, not being able to get what you want, and the five Yins are flaming. Greed, hatred, ignorance, love, hatred, and desire are derived from the eight sufferings.
According to Confucianism, there are eight virtues in life: filial piety, fraternity, loyalty, faith, propriety, righteousness, integrity, and shame. Frame emotions with morality.
Taoism said: Heaven and earth are not benevolent and treat all things as straw dogs, and saints are not benevolent and treat the people as straw dogs. Therefore, the way of heaven is selfless, and the way is free from disputes.
These statements all revolve around emotion, so it can be seen that emotion can derive philosophy, psychology, morality and so on. "
"So how do we analyze emotions in modern times? I divide them into four types: love, family affection, friendship, and boudoir affection."
"There is a reason for this order. Love is the most complicated, so I put it first. There is a saying that is very good: love is a kind of purity, friendship is a kind of breadth, and family affection is a kind of depth. But these Emotions are not clear-cut, they blend with each other and change each other. First of all, let’s talk about girlfriends. Among the students here, do girls have male girlfriends? Do boys have confidante?"
"have!"
The students responded one after another.
"Girlfriend love is a state of more than friendship and less than love. They can be promoted to the top at any time, but they may not be able to get the "status" for a lifetime. It is mixed between love and friendship."
"A spare tire?" a girl said.
"It's not a spare tire, it will only insult the girlfriend's relationship." Professor Liu shook his head: "The spare tire is more like a person saving a way out for himself, and the girlfriend's relationship is a real and indispensable emotion for everyone. I believe everyone has this experience. When you encounter troubles in life, you don’t tell your family or best friends, but tell it to a special opposite sex in your life. Usually, this person you can talk to is not Love is better than love, not relatives are better than relatives."
Qin Baobao said enviously, "I also want a male girlfriend."
Wang Zijin murmured in a low voice: "Go find it, don't just be the king of mouth."
Qin Baobao sighed: "Sister thinks about it too, but all the men I come into contact with covet my sister's beauty."
Wang Zijin turned to look at Qin Ze.
Qin Ze excitedly said, "Fart, you have to ask me if I agree."
"Let's talk about friendship again. Friendship is the most indispensable emotion. A person can have no love, or even family affection, but he can't live without friendship. That will make you feel very lonely. According to medical statistics, 90% Autistic patients are all caused by the lack of friendship. So friendship is a kind of breadth. At the same time, friendship can also be transformed into love. The saying of boyfriend and girlfriend comes from this.”
Some students raised their hands: "But not all friendships will be transformed into love, it only applies to the opposite sex."
Professor Liu chuckled: "You're still too young, where do you think the word gay friend came from?"
There was a roar of laughter.
Qin Ze also laughed. Professor Liu's lectures are indeed humorous and in-depth. There are a lot of dry goods. It's not like the online novels he reads, which are full of parallel imports.
"As for family love, it is probably the warmest kind of feeling. Love can go bad, friendship can be betrayed, and family love is the most difficult feeling in a person's life. The love of parents who gave birth to you and raised you, the love of brothers and sisters who are close relatives. It There is a strong blood relationship, which is the fetters of a lifetime. Family affection is sometimes complicated, and to a certain extent it is the transformation of love. Love is like fireworks, gorgeous and beautiful, but it may not last long. We often say that the seven-year itch between husband and wife. In fact, it is a This kind of love is a manifestation of the long years of love. At this time, because of the fetters of children, most couples will transform love into family affection. Between old couples and old wives, they get along and live like relatives. Young couples There will be a passionate love like glue. The ancients have long seen through this essence. In their concept, a husband and wife who respect each other as guests are the most perfect and reasonable model."
"But..." Professor Liu changed the subject and threw a bombshell: "Family affection can sometimes turn into love. We call it forbidden love."
There was a muffled uproar among the students.
The subject was so embarrassing that some girls even blushed.
I go!
Qin Zexin said, Big brother, do you want God to unfold next? Can we change the subject? This kind of eighteen forbidden things should be harmonized when spoken out. I'm still young, can you withdraw it
Qin Baobao frowned.
"Chaos (harmonious) ethics in the narrow sense refers to improper relationships between men and women between people who are related by blood. Chaos (harmonious) ethics in the broad sense refers to improper relationships between men and women between people with differences in seniority, including the narrow sense. In the traditional sense, the Five Ethics are disturbed by sexual relations, what are the Five Ethics: Heaven, Earth, Monarch, Parent, and Teacher.” Professor Liu talked eloquently, without any embarrassment, with an expression of “this is a serious academic exchange” on his face. As expected of returnees who have studied abroad, they are open-minded enough.
Qin Zexin said, chaos? This is amazing, is there a hero every day
"Forbidden love has a long history, and the definition of it changes in each era. For example, everyone knows that cousin marriage was normal and legal in ancient times, but it is not allowed in modern times. And modern teacher-student love, Messy behavior in the relationship between superiors and subordinates was not recognized and tolerated in ancient times. The same thing is that people with blood relations have improper relationships between men and women, which are not recognized in any era."
"Today we will focus on the behavior of family affection transforming love." Professor Liu said: "Don't feel embarrassed or embarrassed, this is an academic exchange."
A boy suddenly raised his hand: "I think the behavior of family affection changing into love is very absurd and funny, but no one with ethics would do it."
Professor Liu said with a smile: "This is in line with the public view, but this kind of thing does exist now. It cannot be said that it is very common, but it is not rare. Especially in foreign countries. In ancient times, there were many similar phenomena. Take the famous open-minded For the Tang Dynasty. Tang Taizong once wanted to make the concubine of his sister-in-law Li Yuanji the queen. And the later empress Wu Zetian and Concubine Yang all served the Tian family father and son. But these are irrelevant to what I want to say, so I won’t mention them for now. "
"How does family affection transform into love? From a psychological point of view, there are two reasons: environmental and emotional needs. Note that it is not a biological need. From an objective factor perspective, such phenomena often exist in abnormal or unhappy families In the relationship. Single-parent families will especially lead to the Electra Oedipus complex. It is a manifestation of children's lack of security. Some psychologists believe that children must get rid of the Electra Oedipus complex in order for their personality to grow healthily. Certain spirits of adults Abnormality and sexual abnormality, just can't get rid of the Electra complex."
"These are mental illnesses and mental illnesses, which are deformed and unhealthy. Oedipus complex is very common, but illicit relationships are rare. This probability will be greatly increased between brothers and sisters." Liu The professor said: "Are there any fans of the second dimension?"
Immediately, there was a clamor of raising hands, most of them were boys.
"In the two-dimensional works of Daoguo, there is a phenomenon called "sister control", which accounts for almost half of the country. People who have watched similar anime can find that the younger sister in the work has a great dependence on the older brother. Every brother controls the younger sister. , are all out of gregarious and withdrawn. In their world, there are very few other opposite sexes except their elder brother. The elder brother is the whole of their world, thus forming a strong dependence. If other girls get close to their elder brother, they will be very Angry. The younger sisters also have a common attribute: arrogant. They like brother, but dare not say it out. They obviously care about it, but they have to pretend that "brother is just a salted fish in my eyes". The reason is that this It is a feeling that is not recognized and accepted.”
"I named it dependent (harmonious) love. This principle also applies to siblings. If you find someone around you who is very dependent on your brother or sister, then it is likely that the brother controls the sister."
"A writer once said that novels come from life and are higher than life. The same is true for comics. The works of the two-dimensional island country are exaggerated. In reality, sisters control sisters. They are obscure. They probably don't realize that they are Having such a deformed relationship, I even feel that the intimate behavior with my brother and sister is normal."
"Students here, are there any sister-controlling sister-controlling? Raise your hand and see." Professor Liu joked.
It was quiet.
Qin Baobao suddenly said: "Nonsense."
She looks very angry.