They lived together peacefully for another ten days. At eight o'clock on Friday morning, Tong Yan took a shower and nestled on the beanbag sofa without changing his pajamas. He heard Zhuo Xiangming's movement outside the door, so he didn't plan to go out yet.
While in a daze, the phone rang on the bed.
Xuan Gui quietly went out early in the morning to make preparations for Zhuo Xiangming before going out, and no one ran errands for him, so Tong Yan had no choice but to wander from the window to the bed by himself.
The word "Tong Yang" danced on the screen.
"What are you doing?" Tong Yan was blunt.
"Hey, hello." Tong Yang said, "If you don't fight for a few days, go to the house to expose the tiles."
Tong Yan sat down on the edge of the bed: "Then you have to be able to hit me."
Tong Yang smiled and said, "It turns out that someone is homesick."
Originally, I didn't want to. When I was at home, Tong Liqin and Tong Yang were busy, and it was normal not to see each other for ten days and a half months. Now Tong Yan is busy adapting to the new life, so every night before going to bed, there will be some embarrassing sadness and unreasonable grievances. When the sun shines on him the next day, he will bounce around twice, and nothing will happen.
But sending text messages is still very different from making phone calls. When the two of them were chatting on oukm, they just thought it was fun. Now hearing Tong Yang's voice, Tong Yan felt a little uncomfortable.
"Stinky fart." Tong Yan said.
On the third day after attending the wedding, Tong Yang went on a business trip. He called at this moment, probably just returned home.
Tong Yan thought so, and Tong Yang said: "I just came back today, and you have lived there for more than half a month, and there should be no one to take pictures. Tomorrow Saturday, Dad told you to come back for two days, and prepare to start school next week. "
After getting married, Zhuo Zhengde hasn't called him yet, but several times Zhuo Xiangming came back from get off work and said that he met Zhuo Zhengde during the day and asked about him.
During the two weekends, no one mentioned to let him go home, so from the day he moved here, except for the holidays, Tong Yan never thought that he would be able to go home during the marriage contract: "I can go back home." live at home?"
"Ah." Tong Yang said, "After school starts, I'm over there on school days, and I go home on weekends."
"It's fine on weekdays, it's not appropriate to stay together on weekends."
Tong Yang said again: "As a co-author, do you think we will sell you?"
"In the first place, selling children!" Tong Yan rolled on the bed, "Got it!"
After rolling twice and stopping, Tong Yan turned around and asked, "Why is it inappropriate to stay together on weekends?"
Tong Yang smiled cheaply: "Adults have adult activities."
"Shameless." Tong Yan hung up the phone.
As soon as the phone was hung up, Zhuo Xiangming probably heard the movement in his room, and knocked on his bedroom door for the first time: "Tong Yan, are you awake?"
Tong Yan hurried over to open the door: "Brother."
Zhuo Xiangming stood still, Tong Yan followed his gaze and looked down at himself: the pajamas were crooked, with two buttons undone.
Zhuo Xiangming was about to go out, his hair was neatly combed back, he was carrying a briefcase in his hand, he was dressed meticulously in formal attire, a black suit with a dark blue diagonal tie, soft trousers, shiny leather shoes, and a serious look. Slightly lowering his head to look at Tong Yan, the contrast between the two was stark, Tong Yan was also a little embarrassed, quickly buttoned up, and forced to pull his hair twice, seeing that Zhuo Xiangming still didn't speak, he could only find a way to say: "You are going to Are you at work?"
Zhuo Xiangming hummed.
"Oh, good." Tong Yan said, "Then, be careful on the road and pay attention to safety."
Zhuo Xiangming said: "From now on, I will get up early and come down to eat. It's not good for my stomach either sooner or later."
Tong Yan couldn't say that she woke up so late every day just to avoid him, and promised: "Okay, I will remember."
Zhuo Xiangming nodded, seemed to be satisfied with Tong Yan's obedience, and his tense face relaxed a little: "Tomorrow is the weekend, I will take you out for dinner tonight."
Tong Yan hurriedly said: "I'm going home today."
Zhuo Xiangming seemed surprised, his brows were slightly frowned, and before he could speak, the phone rang.
He apologized to Tong Yan in a low voice, then picked up the phone: "Tong Yang?"
"not yet."
"He's right next to me." Zhuo Xiangming said while looking at Tong Yan.
"Just said, you called."
"Okay." Zhuo Xiangming finally said, "I'll take him back after get off work."
Seeing him hang up the phone, Tong Yan hurriedly said, "Brother, I know all the roads here, pack up my things later, and I can go back by myself."
Zhuo Xiangming frowned even tighter: "I'll see you off."
Tong Yan agreed: "Okay."
Zhuo Xiangming immediately realized that his tone was a little misleading, and said, "I'm busy ahead, so I forgot to accompany you home. It just so happens that Tong Yang is here today, so let's go together tonight."
Hearing what he said, Tong Yan shrank back a little scared, and said with a smile: "Then I'll wait for you at home."
Zhuo Xiangming also showed a smile: "I leave work early."
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Tong Yan sent Zhuo Xiangming out of the house, first packed up two clothes and came out, then remembered that most of the things here were newly bought by Zhuo Xiangming's mother, and he didn't take anything from home, so naturally he didn't need to take them back.
He wandered from the second floor to the first floor. After eating, he wanted to go home. He didn't even bother to read books, so he could only hold his mobile phone and click.
Zou Jingyu sent a daily question: How are you getting along with your newlywed alpha? Is your married life adequate and happy
Small muscular man sitting at home: happy, full, happy
Beautiful teacher: Wow, look at this perfunctory answer
Muscular man Xiaozuojia: I am sincere
Beautiful teacher: Hehe
Muscular man Xiaozuojia: I can see that you are bored
Beautiful teacher: I'm not bored at all, okay, I've made a big discovery
Muscular man Xiaozuojia: Hurry up and submit it to me.jpg
Zou Jingyu sent a question and answer post, the topic is: How to make older adopted children adapt to the new environment
Muscular man sitting at home: Do you want to adopt a child? Remember to recognize me as a godfather
Zou Jingyu sent a speechless expression, and sent another screenshot.
Beautiful teacher: We need to collect some information for our summer social practice, and I discovered this, you will see later
The screenshot is the first half of the post after it was opened: As adoptive parents, it is not easy to cultivate a relationship with an adopted child who already has memories without a blood relationship, and the relationship should first be based on a sense of security , With a relatively solid foundation, the relationship will be healthy and strong. So, how to build a sense of security for children who have just arrived in a new environment
1. Family members should have a more planned schedule.
Let the children understand that you will definitely come home after you leave! It is wrong to give up work and accompany your child all day when he first arrives home. You just need to let him get used to your routine and know what time you will come home after work. Compared with being with him all day at the beginning, and then suddenly starting to go to work one day, he will feel safer. The cultivation is a hundred times more effective.
2. Cultivate parent-child activities exclusive to you.
Try doing something with your new toddler! It can be a small thing, such as eating dinner together, watching a fixed TV program, reading a book together before going to bed, doing handicrafts together at a specific time... These activities of mutual investment will make your family relationship warm up , It will also make the child trust you more quickly.
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After a cursory browse, Tongyan pulled down and saw a visitor whose id is a string of numbers in the latest comment: They commute to and from get off work on time, but what if the child still refuses to do something with the parents
The system prompts below, if you need professional consultation, you can ask questions after registering and recharging.
After an interval of three minutes, the user with the id "zxm" asked a question: Why do children refuse to watch TV with their parents
The following consultations belong to the category of privacy, and Tong Yan can't see them. He closes the webpage and goes into sluggish mode.
Beautiful teacher: Your "adoptive father" is very interesting
Muscular man sitting at home: indeed
Beautiful teacher: No, I'm still laughing, are all the uncles so cute nowadays? !
The muscular man sits at home: he is not that old
Beautiful teacher: Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh, what do you call him
Beautiful teacher: I found that things are not simple.jpg
Muscular man Xiaozuojia: You change your nickname first
Zou Jingyu was admitted to a normal university in this city as planned. Her busy high school was over, and she was about to live her ideal university life. She spent the whole vacation very happily.
Beautiful teacher: What's wrong? Your nickname ignores the facts, sitting home is real, where are the muscles
Muscular man Xiaozuojia: I am great if I have a dream
Zou Jingyu is no longer poor, she cared: Classes start on Monday, how are you preparing
Tong Yan replied: She is recovering very well, and the homework has been finished.
Although he was at home on a break from school, there was no such requirement, but he was going back to school this semester, so Tong Yan still asked the sophomore teacher he knew about the summer assignments, and did the homework while reviewing, so as not to be unable to keep up with the start of school.
Beautiful teacher: What about the test result
The muscular man sits at home: I went to the hospital the day before yesterday, and I guess I can get it tomorrow
Beautiful teacher: Let me know as soon as you get it
Muscular man sitting at home: good
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After chatting with Zou Jingyu, Tong Yan took Xuan Gui up to the second floor, went to the big bed in the bedroom to play with the tablet, and waited for Zhuo Xiangming to get off work. When it was past twelve o'clock, he called Tong Yan and said that he would be home around three o'clock.
Xuan Gui found some very old cartoons and the two watched them. Tong Yan watched casually while thinking about Zhuo Xiangming.
They have been getting along very peacefully for more than half a month. Tong Yan always felt that it was because of his polite avoidance. He thought very simply, with less contact, naturally there would be no conflicts.
It wasn't until this time that he realized that he wasn't the only one, and it turned out that Zhuo Xiangming was also bothered about getting along with the two of them.
Even though Tong Yan knew that all these were just to make his stress disorder heal better, it didn't prevent him from sincerely thinking that Zhuo Xiangming was a very good person.
After all, Zhuo Xiangming is an adult who insists on "celibacy", and there are really no other activities besides work - attending receptions and dinners are included in work, and there are very few purely private activities, but now he is willing to be here because of him. Search for entries related to building a child's sense of security on social software.
This alone is enough for Zhuo Xiangming to complete a rather gentle outline in Tong Yan's heart.
Tong Yan thought regretfully for Zhuo Xiangming, if he wanted to, he could get along well with others, and he also had enough capital to be liked by others.
Too bad he's celibate.