It was really not easy for Jin Xiaoye when she gave birth to her child.
Li Laogen is a grown man, it is impossible for him to take care of her. All the relatives of the Li family have been cut off, and the family has no money...
Fortunately, Mr. and Mrs. Jin brought Jin Xiaoshu to help, so she was not left alone.
But at that time, Jin's father had to work, and Jin's mother also had to do housework... The only person around her who could help was Jin Xiaoshu, who was about ten years old.
But because of this, Jin Xiaoye takes special care of Jin Xiaoshu.
"Xiaoye, you've suffered." Li Qingzhi held Jin Xiaoye's hand. Fang Jinniang had everything she wanted to eat, and her husband was always by her side. What about Jin Xiaoye? Jin Xiaoye was about the same age as Fang Jinniang. Seven years ago, she was really very young.
"It's okay. There are many people who are more pitiful than me. You don't know that some women in the village can only give birth in the woodshed. Xiaoshu and I were born in the woodshed." Jin Xiaoye said.
Grandma Jin thought that giving birth was unlucky, as it would be bloody and would easily dirty the bed, so she asked her daughter-in-law to give birth in the woodshed.
Her parents did not have any extra bedding for replacement, and were worried that there would be nowhere to sleep after the baby was born and the bed was soiled, so they made a "bed" in the woodshed with straw and diapers prepared in advance and gave birth to the baby there.
But after giving birth, his father took his mother back to the room.
As for her eldest aunt, she never went to the woodshed, and her grandmother could do nothing about it.
Her grandmother couldn't hold her chubby aunt.
The Jin family is like this. Some families are even worse. Not only do they let their daughter-in-law give birth in the woodshed, they also let her recuperate in the woodshed after giving birth, and they don't even give her good food during the confinement period.
However, there are not many families like this. After all, if you do such a thing, you will be gossiped about in the village.
Also... unless the daughter-in-law is extremely soft-hearted and is completely controlled by her husband's family, she will run away.
Nowadays, rich men can have three wives and four concubines, but naturally many poor men cannot find a wife.
When seeing other families’ young wives being wronged, shouldn’t these bachelors try to comfort them
When Jin Xiaoye thought of her mother, she felt a little disappointed: "My mother is really too soft-hearted. She had the hardest time giving birth to her child. At that time, I was not so bad when I think about it carefully."
According to what her mother said... After her mother gave birth to her, her grandmother said that girls were worthless and was unwilling to help take care of the baby, not to mention washing her diapers. The first thing her father did when he came home from work was to wash diapers.
Later, her mother gave birth to Xiaoshu... Xiaoshu was a boy, but her grandmother was still unwilling to help, and she had to wash all of Xiaoshu's diapers.
But Jin Xiaoshu also washed diapers for Li Damao and Li Ermao, so she didn't lose out.
Her mother was treated like this because her grandmother was partial to her and because she was too soft-hearted.
It is said that when her great aunt gave birth to Jin Moli, her grandmother didn't want to take care of it. Her great aunt cried in the house, saying that the Jin family treated their daughter-in-law harshly... Her grandmother wanted to save face, so she washed the diaper immediately.
Her words... Her mother suffered during her confinement period and couldn't bear to see her suffer, so she started saving eggs for her very early on. Her confinement period was no worse than that of other women in the village.
She gave birth to two children at once, which was really painful for her.