Guan Zheng cleared his throat and said seriously: "First of all, you, yourself, from an adult's point of view, you must remain calm, and don't let your children show panic or hysteria. Find a quiet and private place for you and your children. Talk candidly. Repeatedly affirm the child and say things are correct. Make the child believe that you unconditionally believe anything you say. Use the words mentioned in the child's narrative to show your understanding and make the child feel more comfortable.
Repeatedly emphasize to the child that it is not his/her fault and that he/she is not a bad child. Even if the child did do something wrong, for example, despite your many warnings beforehand, he/she forgot the prohibition and entered someone else's house alone. Despite this, let the child understand that being sexually assaulted is not his/her fault, nor is it because he/she entered other people’s homes, but is entirely the fault of the offender. Observe and estimate how urgent the child’s need for security is. Tell your child what protective measures you will take to support and protect him/her, but don't impulsively promise that this kind of thing will not happen again.
"As expected of a psychologist, you know all about this." Xu Jiuyan instantly looked like a little girl.
Sekisei said triumphantly: "These things and criminal psychology are in the category of psychology, what can't I do?"
Xu Jiuyan looked at Guan Zheng and said, "Tell me the truth, why are you here?"
"I miss you!" After Guan Zheng said this, even himself was guilty. Guan Zheng had to change his words and said, "Okay, okay, I'm visiting a friend."
"I knew it!" Xu Jiuyan said somewhat upset.
Guan Zheng patted Xu Jiuyan and said: "We all have our own jobs, so you, don't have small emotions."
Xu Jiuyan pouted, and said, "Who has a little mood! It's so terrible for you, it's on your nose."
Guan Zheng smiled helplessly and said: "You are so beautiful, you are right."
Xu Jiuyan gave the collar of Guan Zhenglili’s shirt and said, “Go, the case of the task force must be very important. Just take care of the meal by yourself, no need to take my share."
Guan Zheng held Xu Jiuyan's hand and said, "You are so kind."
Xu Jiuyan is still like a child in the period of love, saying: "I'm an old man and an old wife. Isn't it embarrassing to say this kind of thing?"
Guan Zheng has always been ignorant of how to write the low-key two words: "Who do you lose? People who are in love are God's darling."
Xu Jiuyan "pushed" and laughed, and said, "Don't talk to me, hurry up and go with you."
"Then I'm leaving?" Guan Zheng said reluctantly.
I thought Xu Jiuyan would stay, but Xu Jiuyan said: "Hurry up and don't force me to kick you out."
Guan Zheng said with contempt: "You women are really fickle."
"What about fickleness? Isn't it all right to remain unchanged?" Xu Jiuyan said confidently: "Hurry up and go!"
Guan Zheng left Xu Jiuyan's place and went directly to the surgical inpatient department. Guan Zheng came here to find an important person. He was the driver of the police car in one of the escort vehicles ten years ago. Unexpectedly, when everyone was looking for him, they learned that this person had been in a car accident and was almost paralyzed. .
It was paralysis of the lower body, not cerebral paralysis, Guan Zheng still chose to visit this person at this time. Guan Zheng politely knocked on the door of the ward. The ward of the four people was crowded with people. There were nurses and family members. These four patients were all paralyzed or unfavorable, or unable to take care of themselves. They naturally need people. take care of.
Guan Zheng bypassed the crowd and went to the driver Wang. Driver Wang’s wife is wiping him. Driver Wang’s wife is a very thin northern woman, and Driver Wang’s beer belly looks very plump, not even a hundred or eighty kilograms. Guan Zheng said enthusiastically: "Mrs. Wang, let me help you!"
"Uh, oh, thank you." Mrs. Wang put a smile on her pale and haggard face. This smile made Guan Zheng feel uncomfortable, sympathetic and helpless.
Driver Wang’s temper was very grumpy. It was just that when Driver Wang’s wife helped him turn over and hit his arm on the side of the bed, Driver Wang began to lose his temper and smashed the pillow at Driver Wang’s wife. Then he smashed all the things he could reach, in short it was tantrums, that kind of unreasonable tantrums. Guan Zheng wanted to help Driver Wang’s wife, but he didn’t know what to do. He wanted to speak for Driver Wang’s wife, but he was afraid that Driver Wang would be more excited because of this. He just listened and felt unbearable if he didn’t speak as a bystander.
Guan Zheng helped Driver Wang’s wife change the water once, and then helped Driver Wang’s wife take off Driver Wang’s clothes and wiped it carefully with a towel. Driver Wang kept picking up faults. The towel was too cold, the water was too hot, and it was uncomfortable to wipe. In short, all the reasons Driver Wang had said.
After Guan Zheng and the wife of Driver Wang were busy, Guan Zheng sat down. Driver Wang looked at Guan Zheng and said, "Who are you? Do I know you?"
Guan Zheng nodded and said: "Think about it, I, ten years ago, when you were transporting a batch of cultural relics, another vehicle exploded on the way, remember?"
Driver Wang's face turned black in an instant, and he secretly asked, "What are you doing?"
"I'm a policeman," Guan Zheng said. Guan Zheng continued, "What's the matter with your injury?"
"Crash, car accident." Driver Wang answered concisely.
Guanzheng nodded and said, "I want to know all the details about that day."
Driver Wang snorted and said, "It was ten years ago, how can I remember it?"
Guan Zheng still didn't give up, saying: "You can know the general situation."
"Why should I tell you, why should I tell you?" Driver Wang said in a weird manner: "You had better not know what happened that day, because you will never find out what you want to know."
Knowing what happened to Driver Wang, Guan Zheng said, "There is nothing you dare not say. We are here to protect you. With us, you can protect the safety of all your family members."
"Do you think someone gave me the hush money?" Driver Wang asked back: "You think it's too simple, it's not a person. It's not people who give me the hush money, it's them."
"Who are they you talking about?" Guan Zheng asked carefully.
"Yes, it is them. The earth is moving a little bit, and they are also moving a little bit, and then they are about to stop." Driver Wang said some strange words that made Guan Zheng feel incredible. What the hell is he going to tell us about us. (End of this chapter)