"In contemporary times, although it is still a test for understanding the workplace culture based on the number characteristics of the nine personalities under the business culture, it is still a test for understanding the workplace culture in terms of the company’s early planning, strategy determination, coaching, and corporate training. Type personality has a great advantage." Guan Zheng said in detail: "Dr. Alexander Thomas and Dr. Stella Zhais from the United States mentioned in their book Temperament and Development published in 1977, We can recognize nine different temperaments in babies from the second to third months after birth, and David Daniels found that these nine different temperaments fit exactly with the Enneagram.
Enneagram is not only an exquisite character analysis tool, but more importantly, it provides deeper insights for personal cultivation, self-improvement and experience. Different from other personality classifications today, Enneagram reveals the deepest inner value and focus of people, and it is not affected by changes in external behavior on the surface. It can make people truly know oneself and the enemy; it can help people understand their own personalities, so as to fully accept their own shortcomings and live out their own strengths; it can make people understand the personality types of other people, so as to know how to communicate with different people. Get along well and establish a more sincere and harmonious partnership with others. "
"So what kind of personality do you think I am?" Doctor Tian asked curiously.
Guan Zheng laughed and said, "How boring is just to say it? So, let me talk to you about these nine personality traits first. We sit in the seats with each other. There are paper and pen here. I write what I think of you and my own personality, and you too. Write what you think you are and my personality, and then we will reveal the answer together."
"Wow, it sounds very exciting!" Dr. Tian said, "I'm off work anyway, and I'm happy to accompany you."
"The first one is the perfect type. He pursues continuous improvement, is principled, is not easy to compromise, often says "should" and "should not", is black and white, has high demands on himself and others, pursues perfection, continuous improvement, and emotional world Weakness. Loves to persuade and teach, avoid expressing anger, and believe that I have something to do every day.
You are a typical perfectionist, easy to understand. Just because you are pursuing perfection in everything, you rarely speak compliments and often only criticize, whether it is to yourself or to the people around you! And because of your super-high standards for yourself, you put a lot of pressure on yourself, it will be difficult to relax yourself to play and laugh happily!
When an accident occurs, in addition to venting anger to the outside, in fact, it is constantly experiencing frustration and disappointment in the heart. These emotions are not healthy for you and must be dealt with actively. The root cause is not to make yourself better, but to adjust your views on everything and every situation and face it easily! "
Doctor Tian thought about it for a while and said, "Isn't this me?"
Guanzheng nodded and said: "Then the next one, all-love type. Pursue obedience, long for the love or good relationship of others, willing to accommodate others, put people first, ask others to feel that they need themselves, often ignore their love to report facts, and avoid being caught. Helping, busy helping others, denying the existence of problems. I like to help others, and be proactive and generous! Although you are sensitive to the needs of others, you often overlook your own needs. For you, satisfying the needs of others is better than satisfying Your own needs are more important, so you rarely make requests to others. In this way, your ego is not strong, and often you have to help others to affirm yourself."
"Well, it's a bit like me." Tian Yuming took the game very seriously. Guan Zheng reminded him: "Don't forget to look at my characteristics."
Guan Zheng said: "The third type of achievement is to pursue results, be strong and competitive, like to recognize prestige, often compare with others, measure one's value by achievement, focus on image, workaholic, fear to express inner feelings, love to tell oneself Achievement, avoid failure, and live according to long-term goals. Always have a great motivation, because you have a strong desire to win! You like to accept challenges, and will connect your own value with your achievements.
The third type of you is very afraid of intimacy. It does not mean that you will have no friends. It is just that when the relationship deepens, you may avoid and run away because you are afraid of being seen. Therefore, it is not easy to establish close and good friend relationships for the third type, because they are afraid of being seen by others, and therefore it is difficult for them to open up and candid communication with others. "
There is also an artistic style, pursuit of uniqueness, emotionality, pursuit of romance, fear of being rejected, feeling that others do not understand themselves, possessive, and selfish life style: love to talk about unhappy things, easy to be melancholy, jealous, and pursue feelings in life good. Love to talk about unhappy things, easy to be melancholy, jealous, and feel good about pursuing life.
Wisdom thinking type means the pursuit of knowledge: looking at the world coldly, detaching emotions, like thinking and analyzing, knowing a lot, but lack of action, low requirements for material life, like spiritual life, not good at expressing inner feelings, love observation, criticism, Pulling away by yourself, there are unfinished books every day.
The wise you are a very calm person, always want to keep a distance from the people and things around you, and will not let your emotions. In many cases, you will be a bystander before you can participate. In addition, you also need sufficient personal space and a high degree of privacy, otherwise you will feel very anxious and unstable! You also have a good chance to become an expert, such as computers, comics, fashion, because you love knowledge very much!
The next one is the loyalty type: pursuing loyalty and being cautious, not easily trusting others, being suspicious, like group life, working hard for others, dislike being watched by others, being content with the status quo, dislike changing the new environment. Love peaceful discussion, fear of authority, tradition can give a sense of security, fear of achievement, and avoid problems.
Loyal you are a good employee, because you are very loyal and responsible. Security is very important to you, because when you encounter new people and things, you will feel fear and anxiety. Based on this kind of fear and uneasiness, you will plan for the worst in everything. In other words, you are more pessimistic and easier to avoid things. I'm finished, have you finished it? "
Tian Yuming nodded and said, "It's finished, do you want to read it?"
Guan Zheng said: "Let's change."
Guan Zheng opened Dr. Tian's card, which read: All-Love, Wisdom.
Dr. Tian removed the note of the switch policy, and it still read: All-love, intelligent.
Both of them laughed, and Guan Zheng said, "I'll just say we are destined, right?"
Doctor Tian nodded and said, "Yes, what a coincidence." (End of this chapter)