Fu Hua talked about the fact that he knew that Jinda's wife was a consultant to Chief Qian. He wanted to talk to Jinda about this matter twice, but was blocked by Jinda.
After hearing this, Zhao Kai smiled and said, "You guy, do you have a political cleanliness? You see things like Jinda? How many people are more serious than his situation. Can you manage it?"
Fu Hua smiled bitterly and said: "I know that the current social atmosphere is generally like this, but those people are not my friends. Jinda is my friend. I can't watch him make mistakes and ignore it, right?"
Zhao Kai shook his head and said, "Fu Hua, you may also know that if the water is clear, there will be no fish, and when the water is clear, there will be no friends. No one makes no mistakes, and it is difficult for others like you. I'm friends with you. Fortunately, you were blocked by Jinda. Have you ever thought about it? If you want to really say everything, how would you, the Mayor of Jinda, think of you? Do you think he will be grateful to you Is it? Or is it that you say that you are in the privacy and become angry?"
Fu Hua smiled bitterly and said: "I really haven't thought about this, but according to the personality of Jinda I understand, he shouldn't be ashamed and angry?"
Zhao Kai smiled and said: "You know Jinda's personality, do you really know him? If he really wants you to know so well, do you think his wife can still be a consultant for a company"
Fu Hua had nothing to say. This was the point he couldn't explain to his heart. Jinda's personality really wanted to understand it by himself. The consultant would never happen.
Zhao Kai continued: "Think about it, Fu Hua, if you ask my opinion on this matter, I would advise you not to know it. I think the reason why you talked to Xu Zheng and Mu Guang before You don’t get along well, and it has a lot to do with your political cleanliness personality. You have been in Beijing for so long now, and you have seen all kinds of situations. Forget it, there are some places you still don’t want. Then stick to it."
Fu Hua smiled bitterly and said, "So, is the responsibility still on me?"
Zhao Kai smiled and said, "You are really right. Why have you been an official for so many years and still feel pain for such a small thing as Jinda? Have you ever thought about it, what is the fundamental reason? This basically lies in the fact that you are in the big dyeing vat of officialdom, but you still don’t want to be darkened by officialdom. You also want to keep you a little bit clean. Everyone is drunk and you are alone. Is it possible for you?"
Fu Hua's heart was stung, and the muscles on his face twitched. He looked at Zhao Kai and said, "Dad, I don't believe that there is no one who insists on principles in this officialdom."
Zhao Kai smiled and said, "No, aren't you just one? But besides you, who else is there?"
Yes, who else? Even Jinda, who he knows best, has given up his principles. Who else in this world is insisting on it? Fu Hua couldn't help but feel a little sad. It was only then that he realized that he originally thought that he was the director of the Beijing Office like a fish in water, but today he understands that he is in fact alone. There are no like-minded people around him. All around him are people who can sell their principles for their own benefit.
Zhao Kai saw Fu Hua's expression dimmed, and knew that he felt uncomfortable, so he patted Fu Hua on the shoulder, smiled and said, "Don't blame Jinda. Now this society, you don’t understand it, Confucius’s family. There is a passage in the language that I don’t know if you have read it. Confucius said that after my death, the quotient will also increase, and the gift will also be lost. Zeng Zi said, what is it? If you don’t know what you have already done. If you don’t know your son, you think of your father; you don’t know who you are, you think of your friends; you don’t know your monarch, you see what you do; you don’t know where you are, you see your plants and trees. Therefore, it is said: Living with a good human being is like entering Zhilan Room, if you don’t smell its fragrance for a long time, it will melt with it; if you live with bad people, like entering abalone, if you don’t smell its smell for a long time, it will also melt with it. The person is black. So the gentleman must be careful about where he is."
Fu Hua knew that this passage was found in "Confucius's Family Language-Six Books". The Shang, the student of Confucius, Zi Xia, and Zi Gong, were all famous disciples of Confucius. These two sentences mean that Zixia loves to be with people who are more wise than he is, so his moral cultivation will improve day by day; Zigong likes to get along with people who are of the same talents and is not as good as his own, so his moral cultivation will continue to grow. See loss. What's the reason? So Confucius cites a series of metaphors to illustrate the influence of friendship and the environment on human character. In the end, living with the good is like entering the room of Zhilan and not smelling it for a long time, that is, to change the harmony and the bad with it. If you enter the place of abalone, you will not hear the smell of the two comparative examples for a long time, and conclude that people must be affected by their environment. If you get along with good people too much, you will become good people unconsciously; if you get along with bad people too much, you will become bad people unconsciously.
Fu Hua nodded and said, "I have read this passage."
Zhao Kai smiled and said: "Since you have read this passage, you should know that people are social animals. In order to adapt to this society, he will consciously or unconsciously make some compromises with this society. Look at these people around you. , Who has never compromised with the society. I have compromised, and Sunan has also compromised. That Liu Kang is the same as the society as a whole. If you see this, do you think Jinda’s behavior is not Then can't accept it?"
Fu Hua smiled bitterly and said: "But it is still very sad to see a good friend give up his principles. Maybe I shouldn't have embarked on the road of official career at the beginning. I now feel more and more like this The officialdom is out of place."
Zhao Kai laughed and said, "You are too naive to say this. Even if you don't pursue official careers, wouldn't it be the same if you take other paths? In today's society, which industry is not the same? Let me tell you. , I met a classmate of mine some time ago, he is a teacher, teacher is a sacred profession? Do you think he will not encounter the messy things of officialdom? But in fact, he is so old In order to get a senior professional title, I went to give gifts to the principal. Now it’s such a society, the world is getting worse, you really can’t say anything.”
Fu Hua laughed and said, "Forget it, Dad, I won't tell you this anymore. The more I talk about it, the more frustrating. I will find a chance to talk to her with Xiaoting. Now that the meal is over, I will go back. Up."
Zhao Kai said: "Okay, you can have a good talk with her, remember one thing, you don't let her think that there is a chance."
Fu Hua nodded. He understood that if Zhao Ting really wants to return to Beijing, he might be the biggest factor, and he really can't let her feel that there is any chance.
In the afternoon, Fu Hua, who returned to the Beijing Office, called Lin Shanshan. He wanted to ask if Zhongtian Group had studied the investment in Haichuan. Lin Shanshan connected and said with a smile: "Brother Fu, you have found a good wife. My sister-in-law looks really good-natured."
Fu Hua laughed and said, "People say that if you see a woman who is ugly, you will praise her for her temperament. Do you mean that my wife is ugly?"
Lin Shanshan laughed and said, "Hey, don't say that, I don't mean it. I just think my sister-in-law is generous, which really matches you."
Fu Hua smiled and said, "That's pretty much the same. Eh, what are you doing?"
Lin Shanshan smiled and said, "I'm not doing anything anymore, I'm at home, are you looking for something to do with me?"
Fu Hua said: "There is something I want to ask you, did your father summon the shareholders of Zhongtian Group to study Haichuan's project?"
Lin Shanshan laughed and said, "No, Brother Fu, are you so anxious to cheat our company's money?"
Fu Hua said: "Don't talk nonsense, your company's investment in Haichuan is a mutually beneficial thing, how can it be a scam? Besides, Lin Dong is smart, if there is no interest to see, he will not come to our Haichuan."
Lin Shanshan smiled and said: "Okay, I am playing with you. But, Brother Fu, are you too anxious? It takes time to convene shareholders to discuss. My father only came back yesterday. First deal with the company’s affairs before making arrangements for the shareholders’ meeting. Why, did your municipal government urge you?"
Fu Hua smiled and said, "That's not it, it's like this, do you remember Ding Zong who ate with you that day?"
Lin Shanshan smiled and said, "Of course I remember, it's only a few days ago?"
Fu Hua said: "Ding's Tianhe Real Estate Company also wants to participate in the Haichuan old city reconstruction project, but their company is not strong enough to develop it alone. Their company wants me to ask your father if there is any It’s possible to cooperate with them to develop. It’s hard to say that your father will never decide to take over this project, so I’d like to ask you what Zhongtian Group’s attitude is now."
Lin Shanshan smiled and said, "It's like this, and the company will look for opportunities this day."
Fu Hua smiled and said: "The company is like this, eh, I was so upset by Meng Sen that day, I forgot to ask you, what's your impression of Mr. Ding?"
Lin Shanshan smiled and said, "What's your impression?"
Fu Hua smiled and said, "Of course you think he is good or bad?"
Lin Shanshan smiled and said, "It's okay, that Ding is finally handsome, but there is still a gap between you and Brother Fu."
Fu Hua smiled and said: "Come on nonsense again. How do I compare to Mr. Ding? He is wealthy and handsome. What do I have? Hey, Shanshan, I think you and him are a good match. It's the right one."
Lin Shanshan smiled and said, "Go to you. You asked me to go to dinner that day. Do you want to be a matchmaker?"
Fu Hua smiled and said, "Then you are optimistic about Ding President?"