On the issue of children, Yong Ruo's ideas are ahead of the times.
She believes that a child is an independent living entity and should not be used as a gift to reward others; let alone as a tool to carry on the family line or achieve other purposes.
Therefore, "Feng Liao is very good to me, I should give him a child to repay him", or "Feng Liao needs a child to stabilize the court and inherit the country, and I should give him an heir" in her mind. class ideas.
When considering whether to have a baby, she doesn't think about "how happy we will be when we have a baby" or "we need a baby."
She only thinks: Are Feng Liao and I ready to be parents? Can we take good care of our children and educate them well? Can we let our children grow into a person with independent thinking and sound personality
Because of this concept that transcends the times, she is so entangled in the issue of whether to have children.
As a very rational psychologist, Yong Ruo understands how difficult it is to be a good parent.
Children will have their own natural attributes, but their thoughts and personalities are shaped by the environment and experiences.
In the process of a child's growth, some small things may lead to deviations in the child's psychology and cognition.
If parents can't find out in time and guide them properly, they can only watch their children go on some wrong roads without looking back, and they still can't figure out why their children have become like that.
People who don't love children are certainly not suitable for having or raising children.
But loving children is not enough to raise them well. Raising children is actually a technical job.
She's not one of those people who decides to have a baby on a whim, and then loses her temper and messes around when there's a problem with raising the baby.
She will do everything possible to prepare before giving birth.
For her, the most important kind of preparation is to adjust her thoughts and mental state to be in line with the social environment and mainstream concepts of this era.
Lest she, a person who specializes in psychology, teach children who are out of touch with society and rejected by mainstream society. In that case, the child will be very painful.
Yesterday she would feel guilty and feel selfish, not because she didn't have children.
She felt guilty because she concealed some truth from Feng Liao in order to keep her trump card. What she did was actually imposing her own ideas on Feng Liao.
On the issue of raising children, she and Feng Liao have many things to communicate.
This part is not in a hurry.
Her immediate task is to think clearly: one child or several
This involves the change of imperial power, which must be carefully considered, because she does not want to see her children kill each other for the throne.
If the throne is counted as a kind of inheritance, then it is an indivisible and unshareable inheritance.
The throne can only be passed on to one person, is it better to have only one boy
After thinking about it for a long time, she still gave up the idea.
First of all, if there is only one child, the child's life experience is easy to be used by interested people to make a fuss. In particular, Feng Liao had been declared by the imperial physician before that she would have no heirs for life.
Second, getting along with siblings is an important lesson for children to learn interpersonal skills. If this lesson is missing, it will not be easy to make up for it.
And the more important point is: if she and Feng Liao have only one child, this child will become a thorn in the side of many ambitious people, and the danger he faces will greatly increase.
This is obvious. When the emperor's only son dies, the emperor has to adopt him—the room for manipulation in this will make many people fantasize about it.
Although she has a system, if the child is seriously injured or dies, the system may not be able to do anything.
To take a step back, even if you can use the system to save the child, the danger or assassination you personally experience may also have an immeasurable negative impact on the child's psychology.
He will feel insecure and become suspicious.
If she had a few more children, to whom would she pass the throne to in the future
How do children who have not won the throne deal with themselves
After thinking for several days, she finally had a general direction.
She asked Lulu: "If I am pregnant with a child, can the child's attribute value be optimized?"
Zhuo Zhuo said: "Of course! Before the baby is born, the fetus is inside your body, and optimizing its attribute value consumes the same points as yours, so you don't have to triple it."
Yong Ruo breathed a sigh of relief: that's good! You can save a lot of points!
Yong Ruo spent 400 points to cancel her contraceptive status.
Follow Lulu's tips: After three days, she will ovulate. If all goes well, the next big aunt can be postponed until about a year later.
On the day of ovulation, she was very enthusiastic about Fengliao.
Feng Liao enjoyed a lot of sex.
Ten days later, Luoluo told Yongruo that the embryo had successfully implanted.
She is pregnant!
A few days later, Yong Ruo's aunt disappeared, and Hua Rou began to mutter in her heart.
When Imperial Physician Xu came to examine the Ping'an pulse, she told Imperial Physician Xu about the situation.
Doctor Xu frowned for a while, then said conservatively: "The pulse condition of the empress is normal. I will come back to see you in a few days! During this period, it is best for the empress and the emperor to separate the bed, and there should be no too intense activities... "
The taboos he said made Huarou's eyes brighten: "What does the imperial doctor mean... the empress is pregnant?!"
is it possible? Wasn't the emperor given sterilization pills by Feng Baoquan, who had no conscience, and wanted to have no heirs for life
Imperial Physician Xu shook his head: "Not necessarily. There are several possibilities for the pulse condition to be the same but not to be expected. It's hard to say which one it is now. The minister said that just to be on the safe side, just in case."
Yong Ruo smiled lightly: "I have to thank the imperial physician. I also ask the imperial physician not to make it public, so as not to make a joke in vain."
Imperial Physician Xu took a look at Yong Ruo, and asked tentatively, "Your Majesty doesn't seem surprised?"
Yong Ruo played Tai Chi skillfully: "Didn't the imperial doctor say that there are several possibilities? It's too early to be surprised."
When Feng Liao came back in the evening, Yong Ruo told the doctor Xu about letting them share the bed.
Feng Liao was very surprised: "Physician Xu said: Are you pregnant?"
"He's not sure."
"But didn't you say... that wandering doctor said... that you will... have a hard time as an heir?" Feng Liao stuttered a little.
Yong Ruo apologized to Feng Liao in her heart: "I don't know why this happened."
Out of cautious and rational nature, she still didn't want to expose the system's hole card to Feng Liao.
Because she didn't dare to bet the entire future of herself and her child on Feng Liao's character and love. That's too risky.
Wei Zifu once dominated the harem.
She has been a queen herself for many years, and her son Liu Shi was named the prince, but what happened
Because of the emperor's suspicion and the framing of several villains, Wei Zifu, her two children, and many of her relatives were either killed or forced to a desperate situation and had to die.
There was only a huge irony left in the once like-minded, two-hearted agreement.
Yong Ruo didn't want to fall into the situation like Wei Zifu, and he couldn't bear the fate of his own children like Liu Ju and Princess Zhuyi.
Therefore, she must keep a hole card so that no matter what happens to herself and her children, they will not be helpless to protect themselves.
"We... really have a child?" Feng Liao looked at Yong Ruo's stomach in a daze.
He never expected that things would turn around like this one day.
Imperial Physician Xu had already quietly told him before: the potency of the sterilization drug in his body had completely dissipated, just like many victims in Beijing who were given sterilization drugs.
He was pleasantly surprised for a moment, but then he remembered that if Ruoruo was once interrupted by that You Fanglang, it would be difficult for his heirs. Therefore, he strictly ordered Dr. Xu to keep quiet so as not to cause trouble for him and Ruoruo.
Yong Ruo sighed slightly: "Who knows? It's not too late to be happy after Imperial Doctor Xu has an accurate statement."
Feng Liao touched her stomach, and also sighed slightly: "That's right." So as not to rejoice in vain, and feel even more disappointed.
Two months later, Imperial Physician Xu finally had the right words: "I congratulate the emperor! Congratulations to the empress! It is indeed a happy pulse, and the empress is happy!"
Feng Liao actually wept with joy.
"Ruo Ruo, we have a child! We finally have a child of our own!"
He carefully took Yong Ruo's hand, looked at her stomach, and burst into tears.
"Yeah! We have a baby!"
At this moment, Yong Ruo also wanted to cry. She had never imagined that she would give birth to a child in such an era.
"Will it be a son or a daughter?" Feng Liao said full of longing, "If it is a son, I will have someone to succeed me; if it is a daughter, we will choose the best consort in the world for her in the future."
Yong Ruo thought to himself: You have a successor. Lulu had already told her: it was a boy. On the issue of identifying the gender of the fetus, Lulu is much better than B-ultrasound.
The two were overjoyed for a while.
Feng Liao went to Cishou Palace to announce the good news to Queen Mother Wei.
Empress Dowager Wei was really not prepared for it at all, she was extremely surprised.
"Didn't the imperial physician say before: Didn't you have been sterilized? Why...why can the empress get pregnant?"
Feng Liao said with a smile: "Mother, when Imperial Doctor Xu checked my Ping'an pulse before, he found that the sterilization medicine in my body had dissipated. It was just to investigate the case of Kurong Pavilion, and nothing was said."
Empress Dowager Wei is also well aware of the large-scale dissipation of the sterilization drug.
Hearing what Feng Liao said, she no longer had doubts in her heart, but felt incredible.
She was stunned for a long time, and smiled wryly in her heart: Why didn't she and the first emperor catch up with the great news that the sterilization medicine failed? It seems that she and the first emperor still lacked some blessings!
Yong Ruo started raising a baby, and while communicating with Feng Liao about the child's education, she also began to plan to deal with Kurong Pavilion.
She is already pregnant. Kurong Pavilion, which has reached the edge of the cliff, will never let it go.